Posted in Second Life, Uber SL

Bullying the Bully?

Silly kids, drama is for television! Quickest way to get unfollowed on Facebook by me is to post about how you find someone else to be a bully and then proceed to bully said bully with your post. Pot meet Kettle. Seriously, just grow up. You can agree to disagree. You can remove people from your lists. You can block people. These are all great and highly recommended ways to diffuse drama on your timeline. However, if the person you remove or block is indeed an actual bully and/or drama queen…well, its about to get ugly. Time and time again, I see people posting gyazos of conversations they have with other people…conversations they instigated and poked at with what appears to be clear cut bullshit. If you’re anti-bullying don’t bully the person that upset you. Feel free to confront them…privately. If they disagree, odds are that nothing you say is going to change their minds. In fact, if they are a bully, you just made yourself a target. If they’re not a bully and you drag all your silly grievances to your timeline to share with the world? Well, I’m sorry, but in my opinion, you are the real bully. How about we all just grow up and stop being hypocrites about this silly shit?

agave uber doux
And people wonder why I’m not more social.

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: ItGirls – Luccia @ Uber
tattoo: WR – Call Of The Wild Tattoo

#1 DOUX – Summer Day Hairstyle [RARE] @ Epiphany
AGAVE – Sunrise Crop Top @ Uber

pose by Ana Poses

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life

Love is a fever

Love is a fever
And is burning me alive
It can’t be tamed or satisfied
There is no mercy
For the fallen or for the weak
Love is a nasty word to speak
I don’t wanna love him anymore
He’s nothing like the man I loved before
But the pain gets real comfortable
When it’s all ya got
Ashes and smoke they can’t compete
Not even hell can take the heat
And I be sliding off of my seat
For his flame
His love is like fire on the floor
It’s got me running for the door
But I’ll be crawling back for more
Of his fire on the floor
It don’t matter what ya say
You can’t survive it, there ain’t no way
So tonight I’m gonna stay
And play with his fire
On the floor
Wanna play with his fire
On the floor child, child
Bueno Kustom9

 

Basics:
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Carla @ Collabor88
WR – Call Of The Wild Tattoo

BUENO-Belted Bikini @Kustom9

pose: Diversion – Beachin’ Poses

Posted in Catwa, Events, Foxcity, Maitreya, Pale Girl Productions, Second Life, shopping, Skin Fair

It Really Ain’t Magic

Actually dating in sl, is like playing tag in six random playgrounds all connected by one tunnel. Its just a clusterfuck of madness, selfishness, and stupidity. Oh I’m sure there are a few good ones in there somewhere, but unless you in the mood to dig through a haystack looking for a gold needle…well, good fucking luck.
Ooooh, Mr Privacy…..You put all your business out there on Facebook and then you seem surprised when you get called on your shit. You tell one girl she can’t take pictures of you, because it will cause drama. Meanwhile, you’re on Facebook with a girl in your lap one day (not the one you told not to take pictures) and you’ve got another girl taking pictures of you a week later…all the while still telling the ONE girl she can’t take pictures of you. Now, I’m not sure what you’re trying to hide and I don’t care, but seriously….if you’re trying to run around and be some mega player on the down low, you might wanna lose your Facebook account OR I dunno, be aware of who can see what…oh but wait, do you know everyone’s friends? Not at the rate you’re going!
Oh, and you? You don’t want a relationship, but you want demands on a girl’s time. She didn’t answer you fast enough? She didn’t beg and plead for your attention? She actually does something in sl, beside standing around a club 24/7? Get over yourself. This girl has a life and its full of friends and hobbies. Ya know what? You’re right! I don’t have time for you and your needy ass!
*laughs* And you, you crawl out of the woodwork with your sweet words once every other week and think its getting somewhere? No. When you spoke to me several times a week, yeah, it felt like we might be headed somewhere. The only place we’re heading with all your little disappearing acts is….wait, who am I talking about? Oh yeah, that’s right, I forgot about you cuz you dipped out for two weeks without so much as a word.
*rolls her eyes & chuckles* Ooooh, my poor sweet, booty call….you were fun for a while, but when I asked for an actual conversation you suddenly turn mute. Guess your momma parked you in front of porn as a kid and those are the only words you learned. *yawns* Well, hell, they still say em in porn, what do I need you for?
And then there’s this wittle guy, who thinks that cuz we hung out one time, that I owe him an explanation for ANYTHING I do. ROFL. Honey, you just need to go crawl back between your momma’s legs, cuz you ain’t done yet.
Ooooh lookit, its the big bad wolf! You seem to think that coming to a me about a guy I know, who happened to ask someone about you is the least dramatic way to do things? Uhm, no. How about you go directly to the man himself and ask him why he was asking your “EX” questions on my behalf, since you’re so sure it was indeed on my behalf. And ffs, I would hope you’d do the same for your female friends….but wait, do you have any that you haven’t tried to fuck already? Cuz the only one I know sure seems set on getting rid of you. I know I’m done. So, take your little happy feet on down the road.

These are just a sample of the types of guys I’ve been dealing with since my break up 3 months ago. While he has already moved on to someone else. So much for that break up excuse he handed me. *rolls her eyes* I’m so done with these assholes in SL. Yeah, I’m gonna get lonely, its true. But ya know what? I’ll take my own company over their’s any day. I actually enjoy my own company. I make myself laugh all the time and well, I’ve even argued out loud with myself. So, clearly there’s more than enough madness going on in this lil head of mine that I don’t need anymore, right?

Ink
Cause It really ain’t sad
It really ain’t tragic
It really ain’t inspiring
It really ain’t magic
There really ain’t a lot left for me to say
Filling in the blank slates like we’re born this way

wearing:
hair:  Magika – Marble Machine
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
tatooo: WR – Call Of The Wild Tattoo (*new* @ Skin Fair)

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Ground Sits VOL1
NOMAD // Skull Daybed