Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Collabor88, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Love IS Blind

How many red flags do we ignore, because we THINK we’re in love? For whatever reason, we’ve set out sights on that person. Suddenly, all the signs that will be so crystal clear to us in the future are excusable.
There were so many signs when I first met my ex husband. He lied. Repeatedly. He lied about his job and I decided that he was just embarrassed by his actual position. He thought it would be more impressive if he had the same job as his friend that brought him into Second Life. I thought it was cute that he was worried about what I’d think. *rolls her eyes at herself* He lied about his living situation. He lived at home with his mother, but he told me he lived with a roommate. Again, I excused it as cute that he was worried about what I thought. That’s two lies before we even met in person. *sighs* He lied about sending me a package in the mail. Turns out, there never was a package. *hangs her head* I racked that up as a stupid lie, but no biggie. Just one of those lies should have been enough to turn my ass around and go the other direction.
He lied about several other things and yet…my dumbass still married him. Look where that got me! Now I’m not even sure he ever loved me. I think I was just an escape from a life he hated. *shrugs* It is what it is, but you can be damn sure I won’t be falling for that trap again!

love IS blind

wearing:
hair: [RA] Ary Hair – Fatpack (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – Winter Flower
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia (*new* @ Cupid Inc)

Wicca’s Wardrobe – Elowen Necklace [Silver]
(Yummy) Art Deco Rings (*new* @ C88)

_CandyDoll_ Misty Dress (*new* @ C88)
Eudora3D Aerendyll (Enchantment)

pose by Bauhaus Movement combined with the pose in the hair hud
Helix – This is Sick Backdrops – The Bearded Guy (*new* @ Unik)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Second Life, shopping, We <3 Role-Play

Second Chance

“Please don’t cry one tear for me
I’m not afraid of what I have to say
This is my one and only voice
So listen close it’s only for today”
~ Shinedown – Second Chance

robogodess

wearing:
hair:  TRUTH VIP Joy
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Wicca’s Wardrobe  – Nemesis Arms ( @ We<3RP)
*Vanilla Bae* Eve Dress

pose by Del May

for details about the scene, please refer to my previous post: I Surrender

Posted in Catwa, E.A.Studio, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Do Women Have Spank Banks?

Okay, so I will admit that I was enjoying some mighty fine herbal mood enhancements and listening to Devil Blues – Come Fly With Me, when the thought occurred to me. I might have also been leaning across my bed, stretching my back and petting my cat. I found my hips rolling to the music like they did when I was younger, drunk at the jukebox. My mind traveled to a fantasy like vision in my head. It’s a place I’ve been many times, in many different settings…its not so uncommon a thing really. Girl leans on furniture…someone else has prime view of said ass…things proceed….one direction or another. Basic recipe, really. The details are what make the story and set the tone…I’ll even give you a few examples. Consider the details as the spices for this midnight snack. *grins* That was the sweet warm up, now get ready for the salt…*laughs*

Here, you try it….
__(Person)__ leans on _(furniture)__…__(someone else)__ has prime view of __(name/description)__ ass…___(action sentence)___….___(good or bad direction)__.
Mila Kunez leans on a tableAshton has prime view of her perfect little heart shaped assher hips rolling to the music….Ashton shakes his head as he stands up….yadda, yadda, yadda…
Seth Rogan leans on the mini fridge door...Kate Upton has prime view of his sweaty hairy  ass crackshe scrunches up her face….he turns around and laughs, “Caught ya staring at my ass, huh?”
__(Sady)__ leans on _(the counter, smoking a freshly packed pipe)__…__(He)__ has prime view of __(her plump little)__ ass…___(His dick twitched)___….___(He crossed the room, driven by the desire to take his)__.

It can go anyway you want it to go, I’m just saying. *smirks* I really wish I could see your face right now. You’re welcome for those lovely visions. Now which version will you think up? I’d love to see your ideas feel free to share in the comments.  We’re all friends here.

space goddess redoux

 

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Leslie (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: .random.Matter. – Kyoya Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

.:E.A.Studio:. BOX Collar Oculus Cross
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Paxton Gloves
*Vanilla Bae* Eve Dress (*new* for Naughty & Nice!)
Eudora3D Zhora Pumps (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)

pose by Del May

special thanks to Barmie for being such a patient model

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Codex, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, We <3 Role-Play, [BREATHE]

Love Cats

“We’re so wonderfully wonderfully wonderfully
Wonderfully pretty!
Oh you know that I’d do anything for you
We should have each other to tea huh?
We should have each other with cream
Then curl up by the fire
And sleep for awhile
It’s the grooviest thing
It’s the perfect dream
Into the sea
You and me
All these years and no one heard
I’ll show you in spring
It’s a treacherous thing
We missed you hissed the lovecats
We missed you hissed the lovecats
We missed you hissed the lovecats
We missed you hissed the lovecats”

Wild Cats

wearing:
hair:  .Shi Hair : Medusozoa (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

::Axix:: Aristocracy Collar
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Nemesis Arms (*new* @ We ❤ Role-Play)
_CandyDoll_ Kassie Jumpsuit (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[BREATHE]-Hiromi Heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose by BauHaus Movement

scene:
[BH9] – The Venue (*new* @ Equal10)
[Kres] Sinful Signs – Sex Kitten RARE
[Dollmart]Empress Chair
Fapple– Cute Slave Bed
CODEX_THE KINKY CATS (*new* @ Kinky)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Giving Thanks

Once upon a time, many years ago, I used to keep a gratitude journal. It was simple, really. Every morning, I would wake up and right down something I was grateful for and it started my day on a positive note. Every night before bed, I would write something else that I was grateful for and this made for sweeter sleep (if I actually got some).  Once a year we all give more thought to gratitude, as it is Thanksgiving in the United States.

My dear friend, Ruby, made a beautiful gratitude schpeal on Facebook this morning that brought me to tears. One of the first things she said was, “I’m thankful that I, unlike so many, have the luxury of sitting down at a computer, posting a status update on the internet, with a place to live, food to eat, and clean water to drink.” This is something I actually think about a great deal. There have been enough times in my life that I didn’t have those simple things that I genuinely appreciate them daily.

I think the simplest of things are often the things we take for granted the most. So, if not everyday, at least today, be grateful that you have so many simple luxuries in life, because let’s face it…as much as we all depend on it? The internet is a luxury and its one you and I both have, otherwise you wouldn’t be able to read the words I’ve written. So, thank YOU for reading and supporting my creative endeavors. May your holiday season, be filled with love and laughter. ♥

showgirl

wearing:
hair:  Magika – November
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

LUXE. Bailey Necklace Onyx (*new* @ Kustom9)
*T.Whore* – Sexy Fur Stole Black MESH
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Serena Body (ROMP until Nov 24)

Foxcity Show Time Bento Pose Set
Foxcity Photo Booth – Show Time Limited

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, We <3 Role-Play

You Can Never Hurt Me Again

This is a story that I have never told
I gotta get this off my chest to let it go
I need to take back the light inside you stole
You’re a criminal
And you steal like you’re a pro
All the pain and the truth
I wear like a battle wound
So ashamed, so confused
I was broken and bruised
Now I’m a warrior
Now I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me again
Out of the ashes, I’m burning like a fire
You can save your apologies, you’re nothing but a liar
I’ve got shame, I’ve got scars
That I will never show
I’m a survivor
In more ways than you know
‘Cause all the pain and the truth
I wear like a battle wound
So ashamed, so confused
I’m not broken or bruised
‘Cause now I’m a warrior
Now I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me
There’s a part of me I can’t get back
A little girl grew up too fast
All it took was once, I’ll never be the same
Now I’m taking back my life today
Nothing left that you can say
‘Cause you were never gonna take the blame anyway
Now I’m a warrior
I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me again
No oh yeah yeah
You can never hurt me again

goldilox

wearing:
hair:  /Wasabi Pills/ Olivia Mesh Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Wicca’s Wardrobe – Aki Mask (*new* @ We<3RP)
.::Nanika::.Star Collar
Zaara : Raksha arm-chains
**RE** Zaria Bracelets
Zaara : Raksha thigh-chain
Legal Insanity – Alice sheer dress

pose by Del May Poses

E.V.E Chained Red Orchid {Gold}

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Maitreya, Phoenix, Quasi, Second Life, shoes, shopping, United Colors

Talk is Cheap

“You’re a mouthful
That amounts for another week on my own
Now I’m a novel made resourceful
I start a chain with my thought
Talk is cheap, my darling
When you’re feeling right at home
I wanna make you move with confidence
I wanna be with you alone
Said help me help you start it
You’re too comfortable to know
Throwing out those words
Oh, you gotta feel it on your own”

wicca bb &amp; uc

wearing:
hair:  :::Phoenix::: Shania Hair (*new* for Go by Fameshed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Wicca’s Wardrobe – Voshie (*new* in Bound Box)
UC_Lulu_high_boots (8new* @ Equal10)

pose by Foxcity
***sorry, forgot which set

scene:
Fapple– Closet of D
striped mocha – hanging lotuses – black
Quasi – Dripping with Sin – 3D Painting
Rounded Bed (Adult) CHEZ MOI

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Dahlia, E.V.E, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Home Decor, Landscaping, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life, shopping

A Life On Display

These days, its really easy to compare our lives to the lives of others, especially when so many people are constantly making their private lives public. With all these social media friends posting the best bits of their lives, its really easy to slip into a  state of depression. What’s important to remember is that we’re only seeing the highlight reel of those lives. We’re not being shown the 99% of life that isn’t beautiful and wonderful. Often times, what we’re being shown isn’t even real. Those happy family photos? Behind the scenes the kids hate their parents or the happy couple fights. Perhaps one of them is even cheating.
I remember several years ago catching up with a girl from high school on my RL Facebook. Her life looked so amazing. Her photos and descriptions on Facebook made her family look amazing. Two great kids and an adoring husband. The more we hung out the more truths that came out. She was a closet alcoholic having an affair with her ex-boyfriend online at night after her husband and children went to bed. One of her kids was special needs and really difficult to deal with. Her house was a complete mess. To be honest, her whole life was a mess. This was not at all what she portrayed with the photos and stories she presented on social media.
It turned out that she was nothing like the person she had presented herself to be and I couldn’t be around her, knowing that she was lying to the whole world. Honestly, it was the alcoholism and cheating on her husband that I couldn’t condone. I quickly distanced myself from her and started taking a closer look at what people presented on social media. What I learned from all of this is that we simply cannot compare our actual lives with the highlight reels of people we hardly know. It’s dangerous to our psyches and its not realistic.
With our lives on display, we all have a responsibility to be more honest with one another. With that I wish you all much love & laughter. ♥

on display

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Kim (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Kaenis Lingerie (*new* @ RLD)

scene:
Dahlia – Solitary Confinement Cloche – Gold (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)
***pose used is in the Cloche

E.V.E Dystopia Flowers-Eye Ghost
E.V.E Dystopia Flowers-Eye
E.V.E KOI (MOD) Square Confetti Ring

Posted in breathe, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

What’s So Special About Mermaids?

I never have understood the allure of mermaids. I’m much more fascinated by the Octopus! Ok, so its half human, half fish….is it supposed to be sexy? Cuz I fail to see how they would have sex, don’t most fish lay eggs and the male fish comes along behind it and fertilizes them or something? *shrugs* The octopus, though, that’s a fascinating creature. Those big ole things can get through the tiniest of spaces. I don’t find them particularly sexy, but tentacles beats fish any day in my book unless its on the dinner plate.

What's so special about mermaids

wearing:
hair:   DOUX – Vega hairstyle (*new* @ Mermaid Cove)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”
tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Mia (*new* @ RLD)
[BREATHE]-Seika Heels (*new* @ Epiphany)
pose by Del May
Ariskea [SailAway] Dream Bed on Log
Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Pale Girl Productions, RAMA, Second Life

Taste Like Candy

I struggled with what to write for this photo until I resorted to music, because I just can’t write erotica. Maybe I could, but I’m not comfortable doing that for my blog, sooo….yeah, here’s a song. *giggles & blushes* Oh, and a special thank you to my dear friend, Aaron, for letting me boss him around…erhm, I mean, for posing for me, yeah, that’s it. *grins* So, while I’m showing off the first of at least four post showcasing items in the Bound Box…enjoy the music.

Doja Cat – Candy

I can name a couple ways, baby, this shit might go
You just might forget that this was what you’re gettin’ high for
And it might do the things to him, I mean the guy who
He’s the one who’s sweet enough, who’ll shoot to make that high note

And it’s such a typical thing, runnin’ over a million, oh
Runnin’ through a difficult place, you don’t need no blood on your hands, no

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

I can be your sugar when you’re fiendin’ for that sweet spot
Put me in your mouth, baby, and eat it ’till your teeth rot
I can be your cherry, apple, pecan, or your key lime
Baby I got everything and so much more than she’s got

And it’s such a typical thing, runnin’ over a million, oh
Runnin’ through a difficult place, you don’t need no blood on your hands, no

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

Sugar coated, lies unfolded, you still lick the wrapper
It’s addictive, you know this, but you still lick the wrapper
Sugar coated, lies unfolded, you still lick the wrapper
It’s addictive, you know this, but you still lick the wrapper

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

take me

Aaron is wearing:
Hair: Stealthic – Haunting
Head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Ears: Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
Body: [Signature] Gianni Body – Body

Sady is wearing:
hair: RAMA.SALON – Maria Hair (*new* @ C88)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Joy (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: PURPLE POSES – Couple 778