Posted in Catwa, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life

Feel Better

“I prefer to focus on who I am as a person and what I stand for. We all want to look good, but I find it more rewarding to work on feeling good and going a bit deeper beneath the surface.” ~ Alesha Dixon

In Second Life, it really is as simple as spending some lindens and the click of a few buttons to look beautiful. However, it takes more than that to be beautiful on the inside. I’m not sure why people would waste so much time and energy on being a nasty human being, but it certainly seems to be as prevalent in SL as it has ever been in RL. Some people go so far as to advertise their bitchiness in their profiles, though to be fair, I suspect that’s more of a defense mechanism. So, it’s like this, surrounding yourself with people that are beautiful on the inside is going to bring out your inner beauty. It works the other way, too, so careful not to surround yourself with too much hate and negativity, cuz no matter how cute you think your avatar is…that personality won’t stay hidden for long. *winks*

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wearing:
hair:  MINA – Emilia @ Final Winter
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Eclat – Velvet Choker
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust
Addams // Fiona Crop Top

[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES

pose by DelMay
Lick It – Seduce me – The Bearded Guy @ Kinky

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Balance

We all need balance in our lives, an exchange that allows time for our jobs, leisure, socializing, and other activities. Making room for each area can improve our daily lives, as well provide outlets to pursue new interests.
Remember playing teeter totter or seesaw as a kid, trying to balance with a friend, suspended in the air, without moving up or down? But let one of you hop off, someone was falling on their ass HARD. The same can be true about a life that’s too imbalanced. Too much focus in one area leaves other areas neglected and eventually we fall on our ass.
Of course, its going to be damn near impossible to achieve that perfect balance in all areas of our lives, but if we can space some time from those activities that demand the most from us and redistribute some of that energy…well, we’ll be a lot closer to obtaining that balance that is so badly needed to enrich the quality of our lives.

balance

wearing:
hair: ICONIC.LETOYA (*new* @ Salon52)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
eyes: –SU!– Osanna Eyes
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Dead Dollz – Get Fit Set
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Bra
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Hoodie
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Leggings
[VALE KOER] HERMES KICKS

pose: FOXCITY. Balance Bento Pose Set
***includes weights

MINIMAL – Illuminate Backdrop #8
Kalopsia – Kali’s Yoga Ball

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Maitreya, Second Life, Uber SL

Kill & Chill

So, almost everyone knows that Netflix & Chill has lost it’s original meaning and turned into code for something comparable to a booty call. I personally still think of it is as me binge watching TV from the comfort of my bed with some good snacks! However, sometimes I’m irritated or anxious and sitting still watching television isn’t going to do the trick. Sure, I could take a xanax and calm down, but then I’d pass the fuck out. That’s too chill, especially when I’ve got so much on my plate. This past year I was introduced to Guild Wars 2 and I’ve got to say it has become the perfect escape for me. There are times that I am simply not feeling social, but going into another virtual world to kill monsters? Oh yes, please!!! Plus, its no big secret that I’m a lover of violence!
The minute I saw this fantastic form fitting bodysuit from Bueno, my mind immediately went to Kill Bill, as it is one of my favorite films of all time. I even did a term paper in college on Beatrice, but that’s a story for another time. It probably would have been more appropriate for this picture, but anyone that reads my blog regularly knows that I do what I want! *laughs*

kill and chill

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Bise hair  (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #20 [PUMEC] – MIA – JUNE (*new* @ Epiphany)
BUENO-BodySuit (*new* @ Uber)
[VALE KOER] HERMES KICKS

pose by Bauhaus Movement

Posted in Catwa, crate, Death Row Designs, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Jian, Kustom9, Lamb, Lybra, Maitreya, Prism Events, Quasi, Salem, Second Life, shopping, ULTRA

Guarantees in Life

There are few guarantees in life, but one thing is for sure. You will get hurt. You will find yourself in some of the darkest places imaginable right in your own head. You will eventually die. And no matter who you are if you have tits bigger than a B cup and you sleep in a tank top, you will wake up with one tit out. It never fails.

waking the dead

wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Meow
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
eyes & shadow: [ Conviction ] Living Dead Doll
face & partial body applier: S.E CATWA + OMEGA RIDE OF THE DEAD MASK APPLY 01 (*new* @ Kustom9) ***includes Diamonds and black crown attachment-not shown

LYBRA . XL STILETTO NAILS
: CULT : Dark Side Rings

*Vanilla Bae* Holly Shirt & Cardi: (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES
**UTOPIA@Design** – “XILA” (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty Bento Pose Set

scene:
JIAN Spoiled Rotties 12. Skeleton Pup Companion (*new* @ Epiphany)

Quasi – Dripping with Sin – 3D Painting

crate Travelor’s Trolley (*new* @ Blueprint)

Rounded Bed (Adult) CHEZ MOI (*new* @ ULTRA)

[La Baguette] Voodoo doll (deco) (*new* @ Salem)
:::ChicaChica::: Holy blood Cocktail tray REZZ (*new* @ Salem)

drd phantom broken mirror

Fapple– Always Prepared- Side Table
Fapple– BDSM Tool Box

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – black

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Hold It

Have you ever wondered why so many men hold their hands in front of their genitals? Some even go so far as to cup them….right in public, like it’s nothing. You don’t see women going about with their hands on their tits or snatch. So, what is it with men? Why do they feel the need to hold it? Are they afraid its going to fall off? Are they protecting it from some invisible force that’s going to injure them? Did Michael Jackson make it look so cool that they all want to squeeze their bits so they can sing those high notes? Surely not, that sounds terribly painful.
It’s rarely professional looking types in suits either. It’s usually those in baggy pants. Perhaps they’re wearing boxers or not wearing underwear at all and miss the support that briefs provide. Perhaps they never graduated from the phallic stage of their lives. Maybe they just like the way it feels in their hands. I don’t know, but I sure find it peculiar. I’d love to hear other theories and if any men are reading this, perhaps you can enlighten me…why do you hold it?

legal insanity

wearing:
hair:  #Foxy – Milena Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

[Cynful] Chilli Bra
Legal Insanity – Kia joggers (*new* @ Kustom9)
[VALE KOER] RADIANT TRAINERS

pose: FOXCITY. Sass Bento Pose Set
location: Dirty Secret

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Prism Events, Scandalize, Second Life, shoes, shopping, unKindness

Your Greedy Eyes Upon Me

I’m just going to let this song do the talking for me today. My favorite line is captioned under the photo and the video awaits you beneath the credits. In the meantime, I get off on you…getting off on me…*grins*….yeah, I’m in a mood.

Wildflower
So much left unspoken
Between the two of us
It’s so much more exciting
To look when you can touch
You could say I am different
And maybe I’m a freak
But I know how to twist ya
To bring you to your knees

wearing:
hair:  tram G1204 hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Death Angel
.random.Matter. – Taeil Choker – Black
[VALE KOER] DEADLY GRASP
Scandalize.Lesly
Scandalize.JOLENE-HEELS (*new* PocketGacha)

pose: FOXCITY. Show Time Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)

scene:
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – #DressingRoom Pink (*new* @ Kustom9)
Stockholm-Clothing rack (female) by BAZAR
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
uK – Spring Frame Lg Wildflower (*new* @ Bloom)
uK – Spring Frame Lg & (*new* @ Bloom)

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping

Howlin For You

The Black Keys – Howlin For You

I must admit
I can’t explain
Any of these thoughts racing
Through my brain
It’s true
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

There’s something wrong
With this plot
The actors here
Have not got
A clue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Mockingbird
Can’t you see
Little girl’s
Got a hold on me
Like glue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Throw the ball
To the stick
Swing and miss and a
Catcher’s mitt
Strike two
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

howling

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Caralisa
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
[Cynful] Wish Necklace Set
[Cynful] Delrica’s Cozy Sweater (*new* @ C88)
[VALE KOER] THERMAL SOCKS GROUP GIFT

pose w/window included:  [ Focus Poses ]  Frosty Morning

on the window sill:
Apple Fall  Crumpled Newspaper
Apple Fall Liberty Sketchbook
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin

outside:
Soy.. Snow Covered Woods Set
Soy.. Snow covered cliff and rock Set
LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}
JIAN Grey Wolf :: Static Howl

Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

WTF?

The world is a strange place and Second Life is even stranger. I have yet to have one single day in SL that I didn’t at the very least ask myself, “WTF?!” It could be something crazy in my inventory and I’m questioning my sanity on the day I made that purchase. A lot of times I run into some pretty strange looking avatars and think it, as well. However, nothing makes me go, “WTF?!” more than how some people treat each other. I’m not talking about trolls and griefers. I’m talking about people that play with each other’s emotions. Or those people who genuinely think they are superior in a virtual world because of the clothes they wear or how their avatars look. I don’t personally understand a lot of the looks and lifestyles in SL, but one thing I will defend to the death is their right to enjoy the freedoms of consenting adults. With the mass diversity we have on the grid, I find it utterly disgusting at this time of year when someone says, “Happy Holidays” and is shot down for not saying, “Merry Christmas.” Or vice versa. Someone just wished me well…who cares why? I’m not a Christian, but if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I will wish them one back. Why? Because its their holiday and I’d love for them to enjoy it. So, everyone needs to chill out and wish each other well…not start world war 3 over politics and religion during what should be happy times. Afterall, WTF is wrong with wishing someone a little happiness?

wtf

wearing:
hair: #Foxy – Milena Hair (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype (*new* @ Uber)
[VALE KOER] MILENA WINDBREAKER (*new* @ Kustom9)
[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES

pose: Foxcity Formal Vol1 Set
Quasi – Joe’s Coffee Backdrop (*new* @ Hipster MEN’s)

Posted in CandyDoll, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, Kustom9, Scandalize, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

I Need to See You

Natalia M. King – I Need to See You

A battered heart
is just another start
to a waiting
lay me down and die story.
long are the days
with my impulsive ways
I start to trouble
I start to worry
 God help me if I’m right
God help me if I’m wrong
don’t wanna put up a fight
but you’ve been gone away too long
 I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again
 an hour’s like a day
a day is like a year
when we’re apart
and when you’re not here to please me
 I see your way
to foreplay
is to make me wait and hunger
while you tease me
 God help me if i’m right
God help me if i’m wrong
don’t wanna put up a fight
but you’ve been gone away too long
I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again
I’m not saying
that I regret the past
and I’m not saying
that we are gonna last
I’m not saying
that this is a one time fling
and I’m definitely not saying
that this is gonna be forever thing
I’m just saying
I’m just saying
I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again

what do you want from me

she is wearing:
hair: tram G1113 hair (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Astralia – Compatible mesh nails system
GingerFish -Nail Applier-Astralia-Sugar Baby
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Bento Rings (*new* @ Kustom9)
Scandalize. Zoom (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
_CandyDoll_Miko Collection Harness Top Maitreya SECRET RARE
_CandyDoll_ Sofia Lingerie White
[VALE KOER] UNDERCHEEK BOOTS

he is wearing:
hair: Barber Shop / David
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: [SIGNATURE] Gianni – Mesh Body
[Deadwool] Genoa jacket – pearl blue (*new* @ District20)

her pose: Foxcity Night Owl Set
his pose:  XXY – Spike Pack (*new* @ Hipster MEN’s)

MINIMAL – Omnia Backdrop (*new* @ Kustom9)

Posted in Cosmopolitan, Events, Fashion, N21, pr!tty, Scandalize, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Eavesdropping

“There’s nothing like eavesdropping to show you that the world outside your head is different from the world inside your head.” – Thornton Wilder

the weight of secrets
While listening at the door, she couldn’t believe what she heard!

wearing:
hair:  pr!tty – Mary  (*new* @ TCF)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Akima (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
erratic / eva – knee socks plain
[VALE KOER] GUMBALL BOOTS (*new* @ N21)

pose: Foxcity Steamy Set
[ isuka ] back alley blue backdrop