Posted in Collabor88, FaMESHed, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, skin, {le fil casse}

What dirty dishes?

This is how you get out of trouble for not doing the dishes. *grins* You just stand real pretty in something distracting and offer some treats. Now, what significant other could possibly be upset about a few dishes in the sink when they can have hot cocoa, churros, and this? None with a pulse, I can tell you that! *giggles*

What dirty dishes?

hair: TRUTH Brazen
head: LeLUTKA Lily Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

AvaWay LETTER Necklaces Set @ FaMESHed
(Yummy) Eliza Ring Collection @ C88
^^Swallow^^ Princess Belly Piercing @ Kustom9

{le fil casse} Laverne Bralette
{le fil casse} Laverne Shorts

pose: Ana Poses – Her September

scene:
hive // modern farmhouse kitchen
DaD “Rustic Frames
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Morning Start
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Dirty Dishes
dust bunny . kitchen clutter . spice rack . black
dust bunny . kitchen clutter . paper towels
dust bunny . kitchen clutter . dish drying rack . white
Hangry – White Glazed Churros @ Kustom9
Hangry – Jolly Hot Cocoa – White @ Kustom9

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Collabor88, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Kustom9, Lelutka, Second Life

Life is Messy

Life is messy. There’s no doubt about that. Anyone with pets or children will attest to stepping in something questionable in the middle of the night. Nothing will throw off your day faster than cleaning up a mess like that first thing in the morning. Clearly, life isn’t perfect, but rather than compare our lives to those we see on our lovely screens…I think its better to embrace it.
I know my life isn’t what I had hoped it would be and I changed my ideas about my life several times over the course of my life. Not once did I envision my life to be what it is now. I jokingly said I’d be a fat old woman who hates kids and has a bunch of cats. I don’t even have that! I mean, I don’t LOVE kids, but I surely don’t hate them. Ok, I am fat, so I got that goal down easy enough. Wait, was that a goal….oh god, I manifested that shit! Fuck me. Well, ok, so what. I’m fat, I got a grocery list of health problems and no insurance. I’m still here. I have rather decent roof over my head. *looks down at my fat body* Uhm, clearly, I have plenty to eat. *laughs* I have two running cars. I have one tiny feline terrorist and the most perfect smartest dog in all da world. And I still have my wonderful, albeit crazy, Mom. I am freaking blessed! Sure, I struggle financially, but it sure could be worse. My condo and my cars are paid in full. That’s a true blessing.
As Thanksgiving (yes, its a U.S. holiday) comes sliding around the corner, I have a lot to be thankful for and I’m thankful that I do. Whether you celebrate this holiday or not, I think its a nice reminder to take some honest inventory of the blessings in our lives. It’s easy to forget those blessings as we go about our mundane daily routines. If you’re blessed enough to be reading this, it means you’ve been blessed with a little bit of time and the luxury of internet. While, I’m not so sure you need to be grateful for reading my ramblings, I’m pretty sure you’ve got your own plethora of blessings to behold. Oh…and don’t think I forgot you. I am very very grateful that you have taken that little bit of time from your life to read my words. More grateful than I can properly express, but Thank You.♥

Life is Messy

hair: Stealthic – Vigil
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
skin: [theSkinnery] Teo (LelutkaEVO) @ Kustom9
tattoo: Apocalyptic + Becoming a dragon

Mug – Fiona Tank @ Kustom9
Mug – Fiona Thong @ Kustom9

[Rezz Room] Box Pug Adult Animesh (Holdable) @ Kustom9

scene:
hive // modern farmhouse kitchen

-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Refreshments
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Breakfast Clutter

Apple Fall Times Newspaper
Apple Fall ‘Elvira’ Plate w/ Egg, Avocado & Toast

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Spilled Black Coffee

{vespertine} – woodland owly utensil jar.
{vespertine} – woodland cup hanger.

Second Spaces – Well-stocked Pantry – spices

Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Machine
Fancy Decor: Satie Cream & Sugar
Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Pods

Fancy Decor: Pour Over Coffee Maker @ C88
Fancy Decor: Kettle @ C88

dust bunny . kitchen clutter . dish drying rack . white
dust bunny . kitchen clutter . paper towels

Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, Uber SL

How will we be remembered?

The 1920s are often referred to as the roaring 20s, but I have to wonder how 2020s will be recognized. The coughing 20s? Lord knows this year has been anything but boring, but roaring sure isn’t how I’d describe it. Perhaps this will be the year of DOOM or maybe despair. Each decade of the 20th century holds its own special place in the fashion annuls, but what will we remember about the 21st century. How will we collectively be remembered long after we’re gone?

mudhoney arcade june 2020

Mithral * Green Oxalis Triangularis (Pack B) @ Shiny Shabby
Mithral * Living Wall Display (Light) @ Shiny Shabby
Mithral * Alocasia Duo (White)

Ariskea[Jardim] Hanging Wood Plant Decor[1] @ Uber
Ariskea[Belisa] Vintage Record Vinyl -Sand @ Kustom9

crate Mindseye Rainbow – Cool Mix for Pride at Home
crate Green Gardener Hanging Plant

D-LAB Stand Swing fan W @ Uber

dust bunny . quirky planters . hedgehog
dust bunny . blossom books

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large
Foxwood – Little Tiger – Lay @ Uber

+Half-Deer+ Lingerie Clutter – Teal – Flat (Bra)
+Half-Deer+ Pet Succulents – White Cat x
+Half-Deer+ Catface Rug (Texture Change)
+Half-Deer+ Blanket Clutter – All Colors – Flat Medium
+Half-Deer+ Goat Bro – FIgurine (Yuki)
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Hanging Bra
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A
+Half-Deer+ Hanging Birch Branch – Dream (Gold)
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Hanging Thong
+Half-Deer+ Socks Clutter – Tex. Change – Flat Messy Pair
+Half-Deer+ Stringlights – Ceiling – Criss Cross

hive // leather tote . yellow
hive // sweet plushies . plain heart unicorn
hive // macrame hanging plant . white
hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . pink variegated

KraftWork Serene Collection . Right Pillow . Pastel Tones
KraftWork Love Bunny . Linen Yellow
KraftWork Serene Collection . Book and Flower . Pastel Tones
KraftWork Serene Collection . Neckroll Pillow . Pastel Tones

MudHoney Classic Photo Room 2 @ Arcade

tarte. allison room divider (white) w lights
tarte. photo grid RARE

Tentacio Secret world. Draw
Tentacio Secret world. Camera

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)

LEMME…Shit happens // Neon
LEMME… Dear diary // Make today amazing
LEMME…Carpe Diem // Suitcase // Mint
LEMME… F*ck in every room // Shelf

Stockholm&Lima: Daydream Curtain

(Luc.) Invitation, Sculpted Planter V3 Female (PG), R-Mirror

MVT – Beauty time basket
MVT – Beauty time products

WRONG – AIR MATTRESS – POWDER

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Bueno, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life

That Blue

Sun-bleached bones were most wonderful against the blue – that blue that will always be there as it is now after all man’s destruction is finished. ~Georgia O’Keeffe

ayla merak fancy decor more

[Rezz Room] French Bulldog Laying
[Rezz Room] French Bulldog Up

Apple Fall Handbag & Scarf

Ariskea[SlBGift] Owl Plant
Ariskea[Fog] Succulent Plant

Ayla. French Entryway @ C88
Ayla. French Entryway – Stool
Ayla. French Entryway – Portrait Frame
Ayla. French Entryway – Candle
Ayla. French Entryway – Candelabra w/Pearl Necklace
Ayla. French Entryway – White Console

BUENO– Kitty Bag-White

ChiMia:: SW White Curtains

Dahlia – Cassiopeia – Shelf – Gold
Dahlia – Cassiopeia – Decoratve Jars
Dahlia – Cassiopeia – Jewel Box

dust bunny . pilea peper plant
dust bunny . pink medinilla plant

10 Fancy Decor: Floral Pillow – Floral Lines
Fancy Decor: Denes Floor Lamp
Fancy Decor: Ruben Potted Plant
Fancy Decor: Denes Armchair – blue (adult)
Fancy Decor: Denes Rug

hive // mass canes plant

KraftWork Almeria Coffee Table White Wood

[Merak] – Marie’s Tea Party @ C88
[Merak] – Marie’s Milk Bowl
[Merak] – Marie’s Sugar Bowl
[Merak] – Marie’s Tea
[Merak] – Marie’s Chocolate Cheries
[Merak] – Marie’s Heart Vase Blue
[Merak] – Marie’s Treasure
[Merak] – Marie’s Tea Cups Stack A
[Merak] – Marie’s Lemon Bowl
[Merak] – Marie’s Tea Cups Stack B
[Merak] – Marie’s Tea Kettle

MudHoney Photo Room 1

tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging marble pothos plant

tres blah– Golden Cage – Tablet
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Charmed Books
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Globe (Classic)
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection -Large Nesting Box

{vespertine} hanging succulents. – string of pearls.,
{vespertine} hanging succulents. – sedum burrito.

 

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Kustom9, Second Life

Just a Girl

“Beneath the makeup and behind the smile I am just a girl who wishes for the world.”
― Marilyn Monroe

elm bueno dahlia tresblah

K&S – // Harmony. skybox

BUENO-Luggage Set-Black @ Kustom9

Dahlia – Tori – Donuts – Maple

dust bunny & con . lauren bathroom . wall light . gold
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . hanging robe . a
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . hamper
dust bunny . potted dragon tree
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . potted rubber tree

Elm. Capalini Closet [Charcoal] #2
Elm. Capalini Closet [Charcoal] #5

Elm. Ava Vanity Set @ C88
Elm. Ava Vanity Plant
Elm. Ava Vanity Side Drawers [Charcoal]
Elm. Ava Vanity Light Box
Elm. Ava Vanity Candle & Book
Elm. Ava Vanity Make-Up Organizer
Elm. Ava Vanity Jewellery Stand
Elm. Ava Vanity Ring Organizer
Elm. Ava Vanity Lipgloss Stand
Elm. Ava Vanity Lamp
Elm. Ava Vanity Displayed Handbag
Elm. Ava Vanity Shelf [Charcoal]

+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Pink Floral
+Half-Deer+ Blanket Clutter – All Colors – Flat Folded

Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Hanging Ivy
Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Folded Cloth

06. Lagom – Babygirl [ Shirt hanger ]

tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

Tentacio Good feeling bag

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow
-tres blah- Golden Cage – Tablet
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)
-tres blah- Coffee To Go
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Pampered – Mag and Berries
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand
-tres blah- Jolie – Train Case
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
-tres blah- Jolie – Chic Perfume

TA Infinity Shoes Set

Posted in Animals, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Reign, Second Life

Middy’s Room

So, when I was putting this scene together, I immediately knew I needed a unicorn. *sighs* I really don’t like unicorns. Its a long story, but they’re kind of a sort point with me…*giggles*…point…get it? Of course, you do. The instant I put that unicorn in there, I knew this was Middy’s room. I won’t get too much into who Middy is, but I’ll give you a brief description that will help you understand some of the elements of this room. Middy is an amazing woman that loves pink and unicorns, but ironically hangs out with vampires. (Hence, the casket mirror.) I jokingly told her that I built her a bedroom and she’s ready to move in. Sadly, this is created on a platform and is the only room in the house that has furniture in it. I kinda feel like a predator waiting to capture her and keep her hidden away. Though, to be fair, she is a bit of a introvert and might just enjoy that.

lagom moss&mink and more

[Rezz Room] European Cat Baby Animesh @ Equal10

.peaches. Bae’s Journal – Lover
.peaches. Singles Awareness Clutter – Vibe

Mithral * Mounted Staghorn Fern (Rectangle)

Ariskea[FreshAir] Spider Plant [Sick]
Ariskea[Bambi] Hanging Basket Plant [2]
Ariskea [Eli] Cat Planter Smiley [1] @ Kustom9
Ariskea[Fic] Daisy Vase [2] @ N21

BAMSE – Shabby Camera

Con & Dust Bunny . Gracie Living Room – Bag Clutter

Dahlia – Posh – Table – Solid Gold
Dahlia – Tranquility – Crystal Agate Box – Blue
Dahlia – Tranquility – Marble Candles – Gold
Dahlia – Tranquility – Agate Geode Books – Amethyst

dust bunny . pink medinilla plant

Elm. Aurelia Console Table Set
Elm. Aurelia Mirror [Copper/Gold]
Elm. Aurelia Large Candle [Gold]
Elm. Aurelia Books [Light]
Elm. Aurelia Frame 6×4 [Fuschia]
Elm. Aurelia Books [Dark]
Elm. Aurelia Frame 1×1 [Fuschia]

Elm. Darling Flower Giftbox [White]

hive // sweet plushies . unicorn

KraftWork Grasmere Collection . Cushion Flowers Pattern
KraftWork Farmhouse Romance . String of Flowers Rose
KraftWork Grasmere Collection . Old Flowers Rug

Lagom – Floral dreams bed [ Roses ] @ Belle

05. Lagom – Babygirl [ Messy Condoms ]
07. Lagom – Babygirl [ Naughty box A ]
11. Lagom – Babygirl [ Babygirl Sign ]
06. Lagom – Babygirl [ Shirt hanger ]
08. Lagom – Babygirl [ Naughty box B ]

09. Lagom – Dimension Mirrors [ Casket ]

{moss&mink} Always Photo Shelf
{moss&mink} Vivienne Chaise
{moss&mink} Book & Mags
{moss&mink} Forever Photo Shelf

REIGN.– PETER PLUSHIE – DISPLAY VERSION

tarte. photo grid RARE
tarte. ruffle bottom curtain (pink) @ N21

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)
-tres blah- Jolie – Lotions
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet

(Fundati) Ivy Leaves

Posted in Apple Fall, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Reign, Second Life, shopping

Meditation and Serenity

It’s no secret that I’ve been in therapy for a while now and I can honestly say that it is making a huge difference. However, one of the suggestions my therapist has made was to find a perfect spot for meditation. If I had the space available in real life, I’d like to imagine that it would be a beautiful serene spot very much like this one. Unfortunately, this is one of those things that simply isn’t quite feasible for me to do in real life. I have a very lovely living room that is hardly used, but I can’t lock the cat and dog out, nor can I leave nice things lying around as Mr Mayhem will surely make it his mission to destroy them. No, he’s not the dog. He’s the asshole I call a cat. The only thing that Zoey destroys are plushies and food. *laughs*

peaches and more

scene assembled in: DaD DESIGN “Woodpecker Cottage”

.peaches. Virajas Day Bed V2

.peaches. Tap That App – Books
.peaches. Tap That App – Laptop and Books

Apple Fall Plaster Candles
Apple Fall Books Occasional Table w/ Blanket
West Village Lily Leaves Spray
Apple Fall Books & Map

Dahlia – Vintage Memories – Bird & Books – RARE 3
Dahlia – Sika Affection – Books – VIP
Dahlia – Newport – Vintage Monochromatic – Books – Robin Egg

Di’Cor Indoor Planter [Group Gift]
Di’Cor Renee Candelabra [Floor]
Di’Cor Buddha Decor

dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter
dust bunny . sweet dreams . books

Elm. Nia Books [Blue]

hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . light
hive // sleek hanging light . white

KraftWork  Farmhouse Romance . Bag of Hearts Rose @ Epiphany
KraftWork Farmhouse Romance . Lovers Rug Jeans @ Epiphany
KraftWork Farmhouse Romance . Wheel of Flowers Love Rose @ Epiphany

Loft & Aria – Brewer basket w/Books

REIGN.- BOOKS AND HEELS- # 22

Serenity Style– Jacob’s Books

tarte. draped curtain (ivory)

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Stacked Magazines
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – white/green

Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, N21, Second Life, shopping

My Next Life

I was just watching this movie, Jexi, and it had me laughing so hard. The jist of the movie is that instead of Siri, Alexa, Cortana, or Bixby, this phone’s AI was named Jexi. Turns out that Jexi is a real smartass. Now, in my next life, I want to be a smartass, psycho phone AI. I recommend this movie for the comic value alone. Jexi is super honest and call him on his shit. Actually, I think more men…well, people in general could use a Jexi…or a SADY in their lives! *bursts into giggles* I mean, my friends can tell you that I would have way too much fun doing that. Okay, so its a great feel good movie and its silly. It’s a bit of a romantic comedy, but its not all that romantic. It actually has a pretty decent message. If you get a chance to watch it, do it!

tarte peaches

scene assembled in: DaD DESIGN “Woodpecker Cottage”

crate Dylan Daze Love In Poster

dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . potted cheese plant

+Half-Deer+ Pixel Heart Light – Rainbow @ Equal10

[ARIA] Signe bleached canvas rug

tarte. creative outlet (gacha) @ mainstore
tarte. catch all & washi tape
tarte. journal stack
tarte. pens & ruler
tarte. photo grid RARE
tarte. flower vase
tarte. craft desk
tarte. bullet journal
tarte. vortex chair

-tres blah- Golden Cage – PMS Survival Kit RARE

Mithral * Vase Cutting @ Kustom9
Mithral * Vase Cutting (A – Gloriosum)
Mithral * Vase Cutting (A – Plowmanii)
Mithral * Vase Cutting (A – Tetrasperma)
Mithral * Vase Cutting (A – Treubii)
Mithral * Vase Cutting (A – Clarinervium)

.peaches. New Year New Me Computer Clutter @ N21
.peaches. New Year New Me Computer Clutter – Computer
.peaches. New Year New Me Computer Clutter – Keyboard
.peaches. New Year New Me Computer Clutter – Mouse
.peaches. New Year New Me Computer Clutter – Journal

(Luc.) Dandelion’s Wish, Wall Art (Silver, Left) @ Equal10

[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sleep

cheeki– vibes set : basketball : tangerine @ Kustom9

 

Posted in Collabor88, Dahlia, Death Row Designs, Second Life

You’ve Changed

My friend, Sassy Nitely, posted this as a status on Facebook:

I think it’s funny when people say “you’ve changed”. Isn’t that the point, though? To grow and evolve? We’re not meant to stay the same. Sure, we can stay the same at the core – but our opinions, the stuff we will/won’t put up with, relationships, etc. They all change as we age. When someone says “you’ve changed” just thank them for noticing. There’s nothing wrong with evolving. 

This really made me think and I was grateful that it did. She’s absolutely right. I’ve always hated when people say that people don’t change, because we do. We all do. You can often mark those changes with the various milestones in your life. Everything that happens to us changes us just a little bit. How could you not? I definitely think this is a topic I will be revisiting in the future.

my mudhoney bedroom

Ariskea[Blush] Chair Pillow [Sweety Bloom]

Dahlia – Ariana – Jewelry Display – Pink
Dahlia – Ariana – Mirror – Silver
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Vintage Clock – Silver 04.

DRD – Rustic Bathroom – Sink

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large

MudHoney Elara Bed @ Collabor88
-MH Elara Mirror
-MH Elara Dresser
-MH Elara Nightstand
-MH Elara Bed Adult
-MH Elara Bed Drapes

MudHoney Liza Heels – Nude
MudHoney Liza Heels – Black
MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box
MudHoney Liza Bra
MudHoney Liza Panties
MudHoney Liza Painting   **retextured by me**
MudHoney Paxton Succulents
MudHoney Briley Chair – White
MudHoney Heidi Journals
MudHoney Heidi Laptop
MudHoney Jackie Rug

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine

Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Serenity Style– Glasbury Wall Lamp

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Jolie – Lotions
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand

{what next} Isabelle Cosmetics Decor
{what next} House Plant – Rubber Tree (stand)

Butter Woman Bust White Wood

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

The Same Destination

Once upon a time, a very long time ago, I would go anywhere I could anytime I could. I’d pack my bag and hit the road with my friends. We’d go to the beach, the mountains, another city and we’d get lost every time, because we had no sense of direction, no cell phones, and no GPS. We kept scrapbooks that were so plain and boring, not all fancy like the professional looking ones out there today. We took pictures with disposable cameras and got excited over one hour developing. We always got double prints, so we could share. We didn’t take selfies, we took pictures of each other….and occasionally we found a kind stranger to take a group shot. I’m grateful to have lived the life I’ve lived. I’m closer to the end than the beginning now, but I can honestly say that life is definitely about the journey. We’ll all meet the same destination eventually…so make your journey yours and don’t let anyone restrict you. Travel with love and don’t look back. ♥

love to travel
Ariskea[April] Succulent Plant Copper Group Gift

*[Black Bantam] Fluffy Kitty V1 Blue Eyes RARE @ Kustom9

dust bunny . dreamy outing . croissant sandwiches
dust bunny . camellia stool
dust bunny . sweet dreams . fiddle leaf tree @ Uber
dust bunny . sweet dreams . alarm clock . gold @ Uber
dust bunny . postcards
dust bunny . storybook living . old backpack
dust bunny . sweet dreams . nightstand @ Uber
dust bunny . dreamy outing . essentials bag
dust bunny . book pile
dust bunny . quirky planters . snail
dust bunny . storybook living . researcher’s journal
dust bunny . camellia chair . adult

Elm. Aries Crystal Bookends [Pink]
Elm. Aries Shelf [Short]
Elm. Aries Moon Decor (Gold)
Elm. Aries Ram Skull [Natural]
Elm. Aries Wall Decor [Gold]
Elm. Aries Plant [White]
Elm. Aries Shelf [Long]

{moss&mink} Sweet Treasure – Ash
{moss&mink} Paper Flowers Pk1 – Flower1
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print Group Gift
{moss&mink} Floor Cushion Group Gift
{moss&mink} Paper Flowers Pk1 – Gold Dots

Serenity Style– The World is Yours–Wall Art  @ TLC
Serenity Style- The World is Yours- Lamp @ TLC
Serenity Style- The World is Yours– Shepherd Pouf @ TLC

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)

.Florix. Vintage Cupboard – White