Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Easier Said

How do you talk to yourself? I was watching this amazing podcast conversation between Joe Rogan and Russell Brand on YouTube. Russell Brand was asking Joe how he addresses himself in his head. Asking him if he addresses his inner child or old child self? He mentioned how Tony Robbins yells at himself to self motivate, but that Russell coddles himself quite a bit, speaking quite softly and encouragingly. It got me to thinking about how I speak to myself. Sadly, I talk to me the way my father talked to me. Now, I’m sitting here asking why? I would never talk to anyone else the way I talk to myself. Why the hell would I berate myself in such a way? It really is ridiculous. Now that I’m in therapy, I think this is something I’m going to need to work on. It’s easy for me to recognize what I’m doing at this point, but changing what I do? Hmmm, that’s definitely going to be one of those easier said kinda things.

personal buffet
dust bunny . kawaii lunch . sushi
dust bunny . kawaii lunch . wrapped bento . blue
dust bunny . kawaii lunch . wrapped bento . pink

.random.Matter. – Snack Haul – Lunch Box [Black]
.random.Matter. – Snack Haul – Kimbap [Black]

Toro. Sushi Lounge set @ 6 Republic Event
-Toro. Nigiri Sushi Sampler
-Toro. Sushi Roller Carpet

[MB] KAISEKI -Satsuki Set @ 6 Republic Event
-[MB] DAIKOKU BEER SERVER (touch)
-[MB] JAPANESE SAKE SERVER -Banko-
-[MB] PARTY SUSHI Display
-[MB] KAISEKI -Meimeizara(Deish)
-[MB] ZENSAI(appetizer) -Satsuki(May)
-[MB] DAIKOKU BEER glass dispaly
-[MB] KAISEKI -Waribashi- Display
-[MB] ZATAKU -Tsuru(crane)
-[MB] ZAISU -Tsuru(crane) 2019
-[MB] ZENSAI -Satsuki(May)- Display

*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha @ 6 Republic Event
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (06) Soup Claypot
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (07) Luncheon Meat B
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (08) Luncheon Meat A
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (09) Sauce A
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (10) Sauce B
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (11) Vinegar Soy sauce
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (16) MeiCai & Pork Claypot rice
-*bbqq*-Hawker Gacha (18) Seasoning pot

booN-kura Tokyo SORORIN @ 6 Republic Event
booN-kura Funagata Jizou 01 @ 6 Republic Event

Cubura Oriental Set @ 6 Republic Event
-Cubura Console
-Cubura Sakura Plant
-Cubura Paper Lantern

[[RH]] Japanese Summer House Bamboo Wall

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

37 Minutes

Her: ♥

Him: ♥

Her: having a good night?

Crickets

She starts to panic. Did that sound passive aggressive? Of course she wanted him to have a good night. She wanted him to say something. Anything. She wanted to be with him, but her mood…well, he wasn’t ready for that. She didn’t know if he knew that, or just that he wasn’t in the mood for her mood. Either way, it wasn’t looking good. One minute between heartbeats. One minute later…crickets. What did that mean?

8 minutes later…crickets

She sat there as she felt the air being slowly knocked from her chest. She stared at the screen until it have been 11 minutes. She took a deep breath and closed the window. This wasn’t the answer to anything good.

12 minutes, she notices as she opens another page

poke ex on FB

She gulps as she catches herself looking at the time. She sighs and pulls up a Netflix window.

37 minutes

She pops a Xanax and goes to sleep.

37 Minutes

wearing:
hair:  –FABIA– Mesh Hair <Corina> (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

_CandyDoll_ Bridgie Dress (*new* @ Uber)

pose: FOXCITY. Selfie VOL2 Bento Pose Set
Toro. 2:35am Backdrop

 

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

 

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, crate, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Vanity Event

Retail Therapy

After doing some minimal research on the Googlenets, I discovered that the average cost of one therapy session can range between $75-$200. That’s one hour to tell my problems to a stranger that’s going to turn around and ask me how does that make me feel? Nah, I’ll take my $200 for some shopping, because nothing makes me feel better than some retail therapy. I’ll tell my problems to the beautician, the nail girl, or the bartender like a normal person. *giggles*

Time to Shop

wearing:
hair:  [RA] Audrey Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly
tattoo: Mystic TaTToo Applier – Henna [CAROL G] (*new* @ Vanity Event)

**RE** Aurora Bracelets BG
#187# Summer Bag ~ Marine
_CandyDoll_ Bamzii Jump
Eudora3D Sierra Boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Aesthetic Perfection set (*new* @ TLC)

scene:
.Florix. The color wall – Blue (*new* @ Blush)

crate Salvador Set (*new* @ TLC)
-crate Salvador Set ~ Rug
-crate Salvador Set ~ Chair PG
-crate Salvador Set ~ Plant
-crate Salvador Set ~ Side Table

22769 – Hermes Clock Painted Steel

Toro. Zombie Emergency Box

Frogstar – Salvaged Wood Welcome Sign

Posted in Apple Fall, Death Row Designs, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Something old, Something new

Ha! Its not what you think! This is just a decor post, so calm your tits!
I suppose its a bit taboo to mix modern furnishings with retro or shabby chic types of decor, but something about it appeals to me. Perhaps its the idea that its frowned upon by some and well, I like to do what I want. So, that’s exactly what I did. I took the gorgeous Hetton Barn Conversion from Apple Fall and filled it with modern and aged furniture from Fancy Decor and a few other places. Nothing says home like a few animals, so naturally I provided a loving space to two beagle ups to run free.
I didn’t write a story for this post, because again…I do what I want and there’s no rules on my blog except the ones I enter with the stores I blog for and mostly that’s whether or not I show nudity with their products and/or how many items. So, what I write, how I write…pretty sure that remains up to me. *grins* I do prefer writing the stories, to be honest, but this time, I just wanted to talk about my picture. *nods*

old &amp; new

set in: Apple Fall Hetton Barn Conversion
Fancy Decor: Durer Rug (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Durer Chair (gold) (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Lacquer Table
18 Fancy Decor: Pyramid Obelisk (white
15 Fancy Decor: Decorative Box
DRD – Boho Backyard – Curtains
[DDD] Twinkling Ivy
Fancy Decor: Durer Sideboard (black) (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Black Vase (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Gray Vase (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: White Vase (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Brush Art (*new* @ Uber)
07 Fancy Decor: Brass & Statuette
Fancy Decor: Durer Lamp (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Bonham Chandelier (gold)
13 Fancy Decor: Ramses Cocktail
DIGS – Hand-Rolled Smoking Decor
not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . coffee set . edition 3
Fancy Decor: Modern Books (gold)
16 Fancy Decor: Decorative Orb
Fancy Decor: Black and White Pillow
Fancy Decor: White and Black Pillow
02 Fancy Decor: Ramses Sofa RARE
JIAN Beagle Pup (Wanderer – Rez me!)
Apt B // Hello Billy – Hatboxes
Fancy Decor: Cubby Desk RARE
dust bunny . postcards
NOMAD // Amore Loveletters
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection -Large Nesting Box
Toro. Tropical plant + Worn out Wooden Stepladder

Posted in Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life

Pants Are Overrated

For a good portion of the world, it is summertime. For me that means unbearable heat and humidity. I hate sweating, but I do appreciate the warm weather. I appreciate that, more than any other time of the year,  I can enjoy fewer layers and I find comfort in some of life’s simplest pleasures.  Ice cream, smoothies, iced coffee, capris, sandals…oh the list is endless. Yet, one of the simplest things that I find myself loving so much during the summer months is sitting comfortably at home wearing no pants and no bra!

Pants

You hear it across the web on multiple platforms, particularly by gamers, “Pants are overrated!” Well, I couldn’t agree more. While the idea of some people sitting around in the underwear communicating with people around the world might inspire disturbing images for some, I find it comforting and humorous. I’m notoriously guilty of wearing little more than you see here while curled up with my laptop, the remote, and/or a good book.
Its funny how my mind has changed about such things as I’ve gotten older, because once upon a time…ok, in my twenties…I swore by the mantra, “It doesn’t matter if its comfortable or not. What matters is that it looks good!” Now, I don’t know if its my age or if fashion has gradually embraced the necessity for comfortable clothes, thus creating more attractive styles. Perhaps, its simply my perspective and I’ve become a little more selective when shopping for clothes in the real world. Either way, my mantra has changed and now I’m more concerned with whether or not my apparel needs to be ironed. I hate ironing.
Thank goodness neither are a concern in Second Life, but lets embrace the “NO PANTS are the best pants” manta anyway!

 

 

wearing:
TRUTH HAIR
 Thea (*new* @ Uber)
CATWA HEAD Dyana
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Roses Skull – Leg Tattoo [CAROL G]
SPIRIT – Eli top (*new* @ Uber)
Apple May Designs – Aiko Panties – Sky (came with dress in VIP Group gift)

scene:
=EliBaily= Ivy
*AF* Tulips in Log Planter – Mixed Lg
Bazar-Forest – Flower pot  (part of the Forest Dining Set)
:CP: Leanne Door Cosy FairyTale (*new* @N21)
*AF* Potted Gerbera Daisies – Red
Toro. Tropical plant + Worn out Wooden Stepladder

pose: Frozen – Daisy Poses (*new* @ Tres Chic)

Posted in Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life

Controversy

A strong spirit transcends rules. ~Prince

How true it is…I just wrote yesterday about “differentness” and how I struggled to find my place in the world after we quit moving. Prince played such a huge role in my road of self discovery. I’ll share one quick story and then get on with the picture and credits, because I’m just very sad today. We lost such an amazing talent and truly magnificent spirit.

In the 8th grade (shut it about my age), a group of us would all meet in the band room to listen to Prince’s Controversy album, because none of our parents would let us listen to it at home. That album means more to me than most people would imagine. R.I.P. Prince and thank you for sharing yourself with the world. ❤

controversy

wearing:
CATWA HEAD Candy
IKON Triumph Eyes – Glass
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
[theSkinnery] Sonya (Catwa Applier) – honey (*new* at C88)
Moon. Hair // – Blondes – Mysterons (*new* at C88)
.Shi : Headphone [V1.Black] RARE
[Cynful] Hey Bae Top – Eggplant
[Cynful] Hey Bae Pants – Eggplant
*MUKA* Garter Thigh Socks – Lara
{Livalle} Chyna -Lace up Platform Boots

pose: Purple Poses Trish 02

decor left to right:
[ keke ] huge cozy up pillow – pink
::KKs:: Paint your life – pillow crown
floorplan. record shelf / stained
Stereo & components (floor records & cassettes): [ kunst ] – Vintage (complete set)
Toro. Wallhanging + Lights {Morrocan}
Apt B // Douze Roses – Crate Pillows

BAZAR  Stockholm-Headphones (decor) & Stockholm-Music tapes
:CP: East Side Blush Rug

photographed in:
Apt B // Old & Rusted – Attic RARE