Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Uber SL

Rather Extreme

I’ve seen some rather extreme reactions to the whole name changing thing that’s happening. Some people are saying they will delete anyone with this name or that. Some are telling their friends if they change their names they can’t be friends. I would like to believe that ALL of these people are kidding, but we know that at least one of them isn’t. What has surprised me the most is the amount of hateful judging that’s been happening on social media.
I saw one post that suggested anyone that paid to have their name change was a shitty person, because they could’ve given that money to charity. That kinda set me off, to be honest. I mean, who do you think you are judging everyone that changes their name? Is it YOUR money? No, it most certainly is not. If we’re going to sit here and judge one another for not giving what we can to charity, let’s start with the time he spent writing that post and defending it. He could have spent that time doing something helpful, don’t you think? I personally think someone’s a wee bit upset cuz he can’t change his personality for $40. You can’t know what people do with their real life funds. You don’t know whether or not they give to charity. Not everyone broadcasts every donation they make. I know I don’t.
I get that people think it might be a waste of money or a silly thing to do, especially since we have display names, but you can’t truly know the reasons why people do what they do until you’ve lived their lives. Oh, but you can’t live their lives, can you? No, cuz then it would be your life and you clearly would’ve made difference choices, etc. So, take it easy on each other and remember that now more than ever we need to be supportive. Love one another please…we have enough hatred in the world already, there will never be too much love. ♥

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Sady is wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant // Tricia @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber
Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK

RichB. Temka Earrings @ Neo Japan
RichB. Temka Face Chain @ Neo Japan
RichB. Bond Bracelet
^^Swallow^^ Runway Bento Rings @ Kustom9
Ascendant – Polished Square Nails
AsteroidBox. Saskia Top @ Equal10
AsteroidBox. Jessie Shorts @ Kustom9

pose: evolove pain.5

What a Night! *RARE* – Heat Massive – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Blueberry, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Hotter than Hell

He calls me the devil
I make him wanna sin
Every time I knock, he can’t help but let me in
Must be homesick for the real
I’m the realest it gets
You probably still adore me
With my hands around your neck
Can you feel the warmth, yeah
‘Cause my kiss goes down you like some sweet alcohol
Where I’m coming from, yeah
Is a darker side of me that makes you feel so numb
‘Cause we’re hot like hell
Does it burn when I’m not there?
When you’re by yourself
Am I the answer to your prayers
I’m giving you the pleasure of heaven
And I’ll give it to you

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Sady is wearing:
hair:  #18 {Limerence} Willow hair-All Naturals RARE
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

[CX] The Altar Horns @ Anthem
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust
AsteroidBox. Paige Top @ Anthem
Blueberry – Catch Me – Bunny Set – Panties

pose: Ana Poses – Rome

Love CIrcle – DeepBreath – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Reign, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Don’t Get Any Closer

What if I let you and you don’t like what you see
‘Cause it’s not what it seems let me tell you why
You have no idea yeah you’ve only seen a piece
But now it’s underneath no I cannot lie
Sometimes I get so frustrated
I’ve tried a million times to say it
It’s so much easier to fake
So trust me
Don’t get any closer
These walls are super high so don’t even try
To get any closer
I’m scared you’re gonna find
All the things I’ve been hiding from you
All the things I’ve been hiding from you
What if you hear the thoughts that haunt me in my sleep
The secrets I don’t speak running through my mind
You have no idea yeah you’ve only seen a piece
But now it’s underneath no I cannot lie
~ Bebe Rexha – Don’t Get Any Closer

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Sady is wearing:
hair:  Stealthic – Plush
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK
:oushk – Zahra Chain Veil @ Belle
Yasum*Add Me*Legacy&Lara*Yang-Top* @ Kinky
Yasum*Add Me*Legacy&Lara*Ying-Pants* @ Kinky
REIGN.- AMI PLATS

pose: T E M P L A R //FURY @ Belle

Tusa Backdrop *RARE* – The Bearded Guy

 

Posted in Animals, Events, Fashion, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Feet on the Ground

Sometimes with all the craziness that’s going on around me, I just need to look down and remember to keep my feet on the ground. I know it sounds silly, but as I practice mindfulness sometimes it helps to have that visual. Just to see this is where I am right now. I’m not in the past where things are over and done. I’m not in a future that I cannot see or accurately predict. I am right here, right now, and I need to focus on just that.

asteroidbox rezzroom

AsteroidBox. Rory Boots @ Neo Japan

[Rezz Room] Bearded Dragon Animesh @ Man Cave

The Desert Backdrop – The Bearded Guy @ Dubai Event

Posted in Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Home Decor, Lelutka, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Refuse to Fit In

“You’ll learn, as you get older, that rules are made to be broken. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. Dance as though EVERYBODY is watching. March to the beat of your own drummer. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.”
― Mandy Hale

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Sady is wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant  \\ [Pigtails] RARE @ Arcade
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: Glam Affair – Lelutka Skin – Aura @ ARCADE

Ascendant – Jelly Strass Nails @ Kinky
(Yummy) Zodiac Ring Set @ Uber
REIGN.- PETER SMUSHER
Cynful T-Shirt Dress @ FaMESHed

pose: FOXCITY. Beach Bunny Bento Set

scene:

Golden Gilada – Partuza – The Bearded Guy

Serenity StyleSady Record Player Station RARE @ TLC

16. Elm. Malika Bedroom Gacha – Rug [Light] @ Arcade

Mutresse-Quirky Corgis-13 @ Arcade

Ariskea[Costa] Dragona Plant
Ariskea[FreshAir] Spider Plant [Sick]

 

Posted in Animals, Bueno, crate, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Lamb, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Linger

So, a few days ago or so, I did a post titled, Sady’s Soundtrack. In this post, I provided a link to a YouTube playlist of mine and offered my readers a chance to ask me about any of the songs and why they are so special to me. Well, I didn’t really figure anyone would ask, but my friend, Troy, did shoot me an IM on Facebook and asked about the song Linger by The Cranberries. I was immediately falling back into memories of days lying on my bed, staring out the window listening to this on my headphones. He would stand in the doorway and watch me singing.
You see, I was living in a Three Quarter House at the time, that’s kind of like a half way house, but with more independence and less rules. This house was also co-ed. His room was down the hall and naturally we were not supposed to be dating. There were hella good reasons for that, but I was in my twenties and you couldn’t tell me anything. *still can’t* He was such a bad boy. He was older by a couple of years and he looked just like Tupac. (Everyone said so.) He was smart and funny. He was also bad news…they all warned me, but again, I wouldn’t listen. The funny thing is when I first fell in love with that song, we had just met. Little did I know that was some serious foreshadowing come to life. For an entire year of my life, he had me wrapped around his finger and very much made a fool of me.

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Sady is wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Lover
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

AsteroidBox. Mya Bodysuit @ Whore Couture
Little Fox – Piper leather boots @ Kinky

pose: FOXCITY. Night Sassy Bento Pose Set

scene: 

Basement – Groove Night – The Bearded Guy

Di’Cor Handbag Clutter

BUENO-Journals Clutter-If Not Now When

crate Octagon Wall Shelf
crate Barclay Bed Aqua

Dahlia – Conjure – Candle – Black
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Vintage Clock – Copper .06
Dahlia – Conjure – Dried Herbs – Roses
Dahlia – Baby Robert – Antique Lamp – Silver – 1
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Jardin – Roses in Brown Tin
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroon Box
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Bundled Kitty – Brown – 03. RARE
Dahlia – Amore – Gem Chocolates – White
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Lashes Pillow – Blush 30
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Hot Water Bottle – Grey 14

dust bunny . areca palm plant

Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White

MH Rosebud Dresser

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

Eudora3D Suitcase + Props Browns @ Uber
Eudora3D Vintage Trunk + Props Browns @ Uber

CELESTE – Glitter Square 4m – Static

Posted in Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

You Should Be Sad

Let me start this off by saying
I really meant well from the start
Take a broken man right in my hands
And then put back all his parts

But you’re not half the man you think that you are
And you can’t fill the hole inside of you with money, girls and cars
I’m so glad I never ever had a baby with you
‘Cause you can’t love nothing unless there’s something in it for you

Oh, I feel so sorry
I feel so sad
I tried to help you
It just made you mad
And I had no warning
About who you are
Just glad I made it out without breaking down
~ Halsey – You Should Be Sad

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Chickadee Tremor helped me with editing

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Stealthic – Devotion (can’t really see it, but it fits well under the hat FYI)
hat: **Guarded Cross** Cowboy Hat COBRA
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Ginny (LeLutka&Bom) @ Uber
Ascendant – Defiant Nails @ Kinky
top: amias – RAVA
shorts: AsteroidBox. Iris Shorts

pose: T E M P L A R//MUSTANG @ Belle

Nude Show – More Pleasure – The Bearded Guy @ Kinky

Posted in Cynful, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, vinyl

The Bubbles

There’s no sign on the gate
And there’s mud on your face
Don’t you think it’s time we re-investigate this situation
Put some fruit on your plate

You’ve forgotten how it started
Close your eyes
Think of all the bubbles of love we made

And you’re down on your knees
It’s too late, oh don’t come crawlin’
And you lie by my feet
What a big mistake, I see you fallin’

Got a buzz in my head
And my flowers are dead
Can’t figure out a way to rectify this situation
Don’t believe what you said
~ Natalie Imbruglia – Big Mistake

cynful vinyl avaway tram

Sady is wearing:
hair:  tram J0109 hair @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Ginny (LeLutka&Bom) @ Uber

*AvaWay* ABBY Cat Ears
*AvaWay* MEOW Necklaces Set
Cynful Snuggle Cardigan – FLF Pack Jan 24, 2020
VINYL – Public Tube Top @ Uber
VINYL – Blunt Skirt & Belt @ Uber

pose: T E M P L A R // SPITFIRE @ LOOK

El Gato – Remember Milei – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Bueno, DOUX, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

Go Crazy

“Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead.”
― Charles Bukowski

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wearing:
hair: DOUX – Sasha hairstyle @ Dubai Event
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face
eyes: [Heaux] Gatsby
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears
skin: DeeTaleZ Skin *Kacee* for GENUS HEADS
eyeshadow: TONE 2 – If Only You Knew Smokey Eye @ Belle
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – GENUS NUDE SWINGS 8
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Tattoo “Rise of Quetzalcoatl”_by GoK

SU!– Face Piercing Set 01
Ascendant – Basic French Nails
: CULT : His Princess Rings/Silver
BUENO-Restrain Top @ Uber
Mug – April Thong

pose: Diversion – Unravel  @ The Liaison Collaborative

Danger Yellow – Future Cosmos – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

A Second Time

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
― Shannon L. Alder

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hair:  Lamb. Baddie
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – GENUS BOOTY CALL 4

Ascendant – Skyfall Nails
AsteroidBox. Adrian Jacket @ Equal10
Valentina E. Frances Mini Black

pose is in the ao by Ana Poses

Vapor – At Midnight – The Bearded Guy