Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, N21, Second Life, {le fil casse}

The colors are fadin’ out

The colors are fadin’ out
Is it quiet where you’re sleepin’?
Your records, my empty house
I wish I knew what you were feelin’

Fightin’ every instinct while you hold your pride
Back to the beginning, it swallows my mind
You’re all that I think about
I even see you when I’m dreamin’

I wish that I could hate you, ah, baby
I wish that when I left, you’d of chased me
I didn’t wanna change, but you made me
Now you’re tellin’ all your friends that I’m crazy

Hard to believe that you ever really loved me
I made believe that you cared when you touched me
I know I’ll be movin’ on
In slow motion
~ Charlotte Lewis – Slow Motion

le fil casse aleutia lyrium

Sady:
hair: DOUX – Dua hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: DeeTaleZ *SKINS* for LELUTKA HEADS (EVO.) – Flora

SU!– Almond Nails
*Tentacio*Lady pain collar
{le fil casse} Rebecca Tied Tee Legacy RARE @ Epiphany
[Aleutia] Jia Cargo Pants @ N21

pose: Lyrium. Aiko Static Series @ Dubai

Danger Yellow – Future Cosmos – The Bearded Guy

RO – Spook Show – Freida Freak Mannequin
RO – Spook Show – Val Vain Mannequin

Posted in Dahlia, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Legacy, Second Life

How ’bout these notions

I hear the birds
When they’re singing
I hear the sirens
When they’re ringing
But I can’t take my mind off of you
A thousand words, pouring out
The distance of over there
Is moving on and out
You said it’d be alright
How ’bout these notions
Hmm, they’re deep as ocean
Calling out my name
Screaming out in vain
Singing hallelujah
Tell your mother, she don’t understand
Tell your mother, she’s not listening
Why don’t you tear my heart
The chain is made of string
I roll the dice
You seal the deal
That don’t matter
Cause pain will heal
I will follow you
Into the dark

Exile BnS Focus

hair:  Exile – Rosalie
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face W001 – Mocap
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin:  [Glam Affair] Josie Applier [ Genus ] @ Access

Apocalyptic Heart mandala tattoo
Lowen – Angel Sunglasses
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – GENUS ROYAL FLUSH COLLECTION #6
SU!– Almond Nails

Blossom&Seeds Bea @ Dubai

pose: Focus Poses – Life is Better on the Boat @ Access

Tentacio Fresh sweet. Notebook

hive // flor simple beach towel .

Dahlia – Malarkey – Margarita

[Commoner] THC Gummies / Beach Bliss

DEAD DOLL – Beach Tote

 

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Legacy, Second Life

Marathon of Possibilities

I have a tendency run a complete marathon of possibilities in my head with just about everything. It doesn’t matter if its something I’m excited about or something that scares me. So, if I meet a guy and everything is falling into place, I’m quick to think of all the ways this could work out in good ways, all while waiting for the penny to drop. I make myself absolutely crazy doing this. As I continue my therapy and learning to be mindful, I have been trying really hard not to do this. As it often leads to very hurt feelings for which I have no one to blame but myself. Listen, I’m trying, okay?
So, recently I met someone that has already made some serious improvements to my life. I ran the marathon, of course, and I got excited. Alas, real life has gotten in the way of my virtual dreams and the penny has officially dropped. HOWEVER, I’m super pleased with myself this go round, because I did not fall apart or feel that sense of devastation when the penny dropped. I just accepted the situation for what it is and have decided to just make the most of it. This person offered me some tools that work with my therapy tools and I’m hopeful about my own personal plan for a change. So, I’ve grabbed that silver lining by the tail and I am holding on for dear life. I don’t know how much time I have left on this planet, but I’ll be damned if I’m going to just give up. I’ve survived far too much to let life hold me down now.

Little Fox

hair: –FABIA– Mesh Hair < Elba>
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face W001 – Mocap
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin:  [Glam Affair] Josie Applier [ Genus ] @ Access

Wednesday[+] ~ Idoru Eyelashes @ Kustom9
[Heaux] Dolly Eyes

.::Nanika::. Leah Necklace
Little Fox – Sophia @ Anthem

pose: FOXCITY. Playroom Bento Pose Set

scene:
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Playroom

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow

*Tentacio* melancholy days
-record player
-feel the music

all plants from dust bunny

 

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

I do….want to get the f***ck outta here!

The new Khaleesi gown from JustBecause is absolutely stunning and that’s no surprise considering Annie’s talent for gowns. Now, anyone that knows me knows I’m not big on gowns. So, for me to gush about a gown is pretty unique. In fact, there are several women across the grid planning to use it for a wedding gown and that got me thinking about weddings. I’m not a fan. In fact, I’d be a prime candidate for a runaway bride which led me to using Diversion’s Escape poses to create my own runaway bride photo. I call it, “I do…want to get the fuck outta here!”

doux jb diversion

 

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Cassie hairstyle @ TresChic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.2
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair]  LIllian Skin [ Lelutka ] @ Uber

nails: –SU!– Almond Nails
*Tentacio* Daisy crown
*Just BECAUSE* Khaleesi Gown

pose: Diversion – Escape Poses
location: Route66

Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, Uber SL

How will we be remembered?

The 1920s are often referred to as the roaring 20s, but I have to wonder how 2020s will be recognized. The coughing 20s? Lord knows this year has been anything but boring, but roaring sure isn’t how I’d describe it. Perhaps this will be the year of DOOM or maybe despair. Each decade of the 20th century holds its own special place in the fashion annuls, but what will we remember about the 21st century. How will we collectively be remembered long after we’re gone?

mudhoney arcade june 2020

Mithral * Green Oxalis Triangularis (Pack B) @ Shiny Shabby
Mithral * Living Wall Display (Light) @ Shiny Shabby
Mithral * Alocasia Duo (White)

Ariskea[Jardim] Hanging Wood Plant Decor[1] @ Uber
Ariskea[Belisa] Vintage Record Vinyl -Sand @ Kustom9

crate Mindseye Rainbow – Cool Mix for Pride at Home
crate Green Gardener Hanging Plant

D-LAB Stand Swing fan W @ Uber

dust bunny . quirky planters . hedgehog
dust bunny . blossom books

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large
Foxwood – Little Tiger – Lay @ Uber

+Half-Deer+ Lingerie Clutter – Teal – Flat (Bra)
+Half-Deer+ Pet Succulents – White Cat x
+Half-Deer+ Catface Rug (Texture Change)
+Half-Deer+ Blanket Clutter – All Colors – Flat Medium
+Half-Deer+ Goat Bro – FIgurine (Yuki)
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Hanging Bra
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A
+Half-Deer+ Hanging Birch Branch – Dream (Gold)
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Hanging Thong
+Half-Deer+ Socks Clutter – Tex. Change – Flat Messy Pair
+Half-Deer+ Stringlights – Ceiling – Criss Cross

hive // leather tote . yellow
hive // sweet plushies . plain heart unicorn
hive // macrame hanging plant . white
hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . pink variegated

KraftWork Serene Collection . Right Pillow . Pastel Tones
KraftWork Love Bunny . Linen Yellow
KraftWork Serene Collection . Book and Flower . Pastel Tones
KraftWork Serene Collection . Neckroll Pillow . Pastel Tones

MudHoney Classic Photo Room 2 @ Arcade

tarte. allison room divider (white) w lights
tarte. photo grid RARE

Tentacio Secret world. Draw
Tentacio Secret world. Camera

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)

LEMME…Shit happens // Neon
LEMME… Dear diary // Make today amazing
LEMME…Carpe Diem // Suitcase // Mint
LEMME… F*ck in every room // Shelf

Stockholm&Lima: Daydream Curtain

(Luc.) Invitation, Sculpted Planter V3 Female (PG), R-Mirror

MVT – Beauty time basket
MVT – Beauty time products

WRONG – AIR MATTRESS – POWDER

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Kustom9, Second Life

Just a Girl

“Beneath the makeup and behind the smile I am just a girl who wishes for the world.”
― Marilyn Monroe

elm bueno dahlia tresblah

K&S – // Harmony. skybox

BUENO-Luggage Set-Black @ Kustom9

Dahlia – Tori – Donuts – Maple

dust bunny & con . lauren bathroom . wall light . gold
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . hanging robe . a
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . hamper
dust bunny . potted dragon tree
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . potted rubber tree

Elm. Capalini Closet [Charcoal] #2
Elm. Capalini Closet [Charcoal] #5

Elm. Ava Vanity Set @ C88
Elm. Ava Vanity Plant
Elm. Ava Vanity Side Drawers [Charcoal]
Elm. Ava Vanity Light Box
Elm. Ava Vanity Candle & Book
Elm. Ava Vanity Make-Up Organizer
Elm. Ava Vanity Jewellery Stand
Elm. Ava Vanity Ring Organizer
Elm. Ava Vanity Lipgloss Stand
Elm. Ava Vanity Lamp
Elm. Ava Vanity Displayed Handbag
Elm. Ava Vanity Shelf [Charcoal]

+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Pink Floral
+Half-Deer+ Blanket Clutter – All Colors – Flat Folded

Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Hanging Ivy
Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Folded Cloth

06. Lagom – Babygirl [ Shirt hanger ]

tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

Tentacio Good feeling bag

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow
-tres blah- Golden Cage – Tablet
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)
-tres blah- Coffee To Go
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Pampered – Mag and Berries
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand
-tres blah- Jolie – Train Case
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
-tres blah- Jolie – Chic Perfume

TA Infinity Shoes Set

Posted in Animals, Blueberry, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, vinyl

NOPE.

I don’t know about everybody else, but when I get a friend request from someone I don’t know and haven’t heard of on Facebook, I usually look at their profile. First, I want to know they are from Second Life and not IMVU. Secondly, I want to make sure they are from SL and not some rando from God knows where just adding all the females he can find. On that note, if I have the time, I will give their timeline a quick glance. If everything is in a language I don’t understand (which is pretty much anything, but English) then I probably won’t add them. If the first thing I see offends me or leads me to believe they will be easily offended by me, I probably won’t add them.
This morning, I logged into to several friend requests and the first thing I saw was a post about  how this person was on the verge of quitting SL. There was no point in logging in anymore. Asking what was the point, because all of her friends were gone. This is when I think in memes. You know the meme of the toddler that’s coming down the hall, turns the corner…sees something and turns right back around and is out of there? Yeah, that was me looking at this profile and hitting decline. NOPE.

doux vinyl bb rr fc K&amp;S

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Rehab hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber
Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK

VINYL – Fact Cardigan
Blueberry – FLF – 1/17 – Panties

[Rezz Room] Box German Shepherd Puppy @ Access

FOXCITY. What Gives Bento Pose Set

K&S – // Harmony. skybox
Tentacio – Good feeling bag

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

A Choice

“Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”
― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

Lagom bathroom

Elm. Eira Apartment

#10 Elm. Bathroom Decor Glass Jars
#9 Elm. Bathroom Decor Flower Vase
#15 Elm. Bathroom Decor Bathbomb Stand Silver

{anc} bubbles . pole 1prim /MC

Apple Fall Bathroom Lotions
Apple Fall Coral Lid Jar w/ Bath Bombs

Ariskea[Lavende] Bath Bomb RARE

[Con.] Hanging Fishing Float – Blue

dust bunny . hanging plants . spider planter
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . cotton ball container
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . qtip container
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . bath bombs
dust bunny . hanging plants . cheese plant
dust bunny . hanging plants . double planter
dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter

Space Odyssey & Lagom – Romace Respite @ Equal10
22. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Cabinet Blue ]
18. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Hair Care Blue ]
17. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Bath Bombs ]
14. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Towel Rack ]
28. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Mirror ]
03. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Corner Tub Blue ADULT ] RARE
15. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Rose Petals ]
11. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Rug ]
16. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Bubble Bars ]
08. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Guest Towls White ]
25. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Privy Shelf Blue ]
26. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Privy ]
09. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Laundry Basket ]
10. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Scale ]
13. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Toilet Roll ]
12. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Tooth Brushes ]
04. S.O&L – Romace Respite [ Sink Blue ]

Tentacio – I haven’t gone to the bathroom

Posted in Cynful, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Pose Fair, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tannenbaum, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

I don’t need diamonds

I don’t need diamonds, no sparkly things
‘Cause you can’t buy this a-feeling
Nothing lights my fire or wraps me up, baby, like you do
Just want a cozy, a cozy little Christmas here with you
~ Katy Perry – Cozy Little Christmas

tv ga cynful prism
Such a fun song, I couldn’t resist!

hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Holly hair @ Tannenbaum
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
body: Legacy
skin: [Glam Affair] Hanna Applier [ Genus ] @ Uber

*Tentacio* Xmas time red @ Kinky
-Xmas hat red
-Xmas collar red
.TeaBunny. Festive Specs @ The Liaison Collaborative
FAKEICON / mary gems collar
Cynful Anticipation Robe @ Santa Inc
ERSCH – Elf Helper Gacha bottom @ Arcade

pose: Diversion – Holiday Spirit Poses @ Pose Fair

Echo – Joy – Dangling Bauble Tree @ Tannenbaum

 

 

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Reign, Second Life, shopping

Taking some time

For the first time in almost four years of blogging (March will be 4yrs) I have requested a vacation from about half the brands that I officially blog. I chose them carefully, as they had deadlines and/or their rules are a bit more strict about how they want their items showcased. I have no issue with any of that, of course, but I want to take a few weeks to relax and learn. My very handsome nephew, Trylan aka Trouble Dethly, has promised to teach me some tricks in photoshop…as have a few other amazing bloggers and family members.
Hopefully, you’ll see some improvements in my photos and when I completely return to my full time blogging, I will have a brand new approach to my pictures. It’s time for me to take a step back, relax, regroup, and rededicate myself to my craft. I absolutely love blogging and I won’t be stopping at all, but I am going to slow it down. When all is said and done, I may decide to cut back…who knows? I might finally commit to a genre or a style…*gasps*…yeah, don’t hold your breath on that one. I’m looking forward to spending some productive and entertaining moments with members of my SL family…with my blogger friends…as well as my other friends. I’m going to focus less on being lonely and more on being fulfilled.

mudhoney &amp; more

Elm. Dream Mirror [Silver] LI: 11 @ FaMESHed

hive // coffee on the go . holder LI: 2

KraftWork Sienna’s Clutter . Single Rose Vase Rose LI: 3

Loft & Aria – Brewer basket w/Books LI: 4

[Merak] – Photo Frame Type B LI: 1
[Merak] – Photo Frame Type A LI: 1
[Merak] – Decorative Red Heels (Type2) LI: 1

MudHoney Adrian Office
MudHoney Adrian Desk LI: 3
MudHoney Adrian Desk Plaque LI: 1
MudHoney Adrian Office Chair LI: 3
MudHoney Adrian Computer LI: 1
MudHoney Adrian Files LI: 3
MudHoney Adrian Keyboard LI: 1
MudHoney Adrian Computer Mouse LI: 1

MudHoney Heidi Trash Can LI: 1
MudHoney Heidi Magazines 1 LI: 1
MudHoney Heidi Magazines 2 LI: 1
MudHoney Heidi Storage LI: 1
MudHoney Heidi Wall Art LI: 2

PILOT – Book and Tablet Stack LI: 1

Second Spaces – Cluttered House – charging station LI: 1
*Second Spaces* geeky powerstrip with cords LI: 3

Tentacio i’m busy LI: 1

Mithral * Arrowhead Plant (White Pot)
Mithral * Vertical Wall Pipe Hanger (Silver)
Mithral * Hanging Propagation Set (Light Wood)
Mithral * Anthurium Vittarifolium (Wood Pot)

.peaches. Resolutions Clutter – Personal Assistant
.peaches. Resolutions Clutter – Planner
.peaches. Resolutions Clutter – Calendar
.peaches. Resolutions Clutter – Pens

Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Emotional Baggage’ Handbag Clutter

REIGN.- BABE CAVE RUG- # 18