Posted in DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, vinyl

It’s time.

Welp. Everyone around me seems to be changing. Some for the better, some for worse. As we wrap up another year, I’ve decided that in order to obtain the things I do want in my life (what’s left of it) that I need to make room, but letting go of the things that are not working out. I’m good at letting things go…including people. I was an Army brat and we moved constantly when I was a kid. So, walking away and not looking back for anything more than a reminiscent glance is simple enough. I’ll admit that the longer something or someone has been a part of my life, the harder it is to let go, but in time…I’ll be fine…no matter who, what, where, or why. I’ve survived way too much crap in this life to be held back by people that aren’t worth my time. And things? Well, they are just things, aren’t they?
As the end of this year inches closer and closer, I’m taking a good hard look at what I’ve been doing with my life as of late. It’s time to clean house…both worlds. I’m making changes and these changes are for ME…no one else. I’ve spent the last few years bending over backwards and tip toeing around broken glass to avoid hurting people I love, but have they done the same in return? In most cases, I’m afraid not. Don’t worry about Sady, she’ll be fine. Yes, I will be fine, but I won’t be around as a doormat, punching bag, fall back plan, dirty secret, or second choice anymore.
It took me way too long to get here and I’m not turning back now. I appreciate the roles everyone have played in my life over time and I am so grateful for the lessons, but I’m done. I’m putting my proverbial foot down. I’m establishing boundaries and for those that can’t respect them…welp. RIP. Its time for me to filter out some of the toxic people,  behaviors, habits, excuses, etc. So, here’s looking at you 2019, cuz 2020 will be better or I will die trying. It is just that simple.

doux ison vinyl equal semotion

hair:  #1 DOUX – Beanie Babe hairstyle [M] RARE @ Arcade
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
body: Maitreya
skin:  — PUMEC #RARE 2 – KATE – MAY   @ Kustom9

ISON – cropped turtleneck sweater
VINYL – Genetics Tartan Skirt @ FaMESHed
EQUAL – Elettra Boots @ FaMESHed

SEmotion Libellune Winter Deer Animesh #2 RARE @ Arcade

pose: T E M P L A R #5 @ SOS

location: Snow falls

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, RunAway Hair, Second Life

Not Kansas

“Well, Toto, this is NOT Kansas!”

What if that tornado didn’t take Dorothy and Toto to Oz, but instead took her to little Havana? Oh how differently THAT story would have unfolded. Yes, this is what happens when I’m left alone with my imagination and a dog in a bag! Well, what would your story be with this adorable pup? Well, you can find out by going to the Arcade. Or you could grab this adorable hair and outfit at FaMESHed and come up with a completely new story of your own design. Let your imagination and inner fashionista take you away like a tornado and see where YOU land.

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wearing:
hair:  [RA] Zoe Hair @ FaMESHed
Just Magnetized – Basic Hairbase – set 05
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
^^Swallow^^ Crusties Ears 2.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

[Kres] Cadence Collars – Kitten @ Kinky
SEmotion Libellune Glamour Puppy Bag Animesh @ Arcade
Ascendant – Meow Nails
ChicModa // Jenna Romper @ FaMESHed

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Selective

A friend of mine admitted something rather alarming to me recently. She said that before she got to know me, she was intimidated, almost afraid of me. *laughs* I kinda like the idea that people are afraid of me, but to be fair, I’m not sure why they would be unless its just my name. *laughs* On the other hand, my closest friends seem to forget my name and are shocked when I say awful things. The only way my name could have been more accurate would have been to call myself, “Filterless.” I’m true to myself and I don’t put on airs to impress other people. That can work for me and against me.

I think what happens is that people say they want the truth, but sometimes the truth isn’t always beautiful. Thus, many people find my honesty refreshing, while others find it off putting. It has taken my mother ages to accept that this is just who I am. She spent most of my life worrying about how I made her look. Honestly, I don’t think people were even thinking about her nearly as much as she thought they did.

While I am very selective about those I get close to, I am no one to be afraid of…well, unless you piss me off. Even then, its just a lot of words you’ll get from me, some of it might be brutal, I suppose, but at the same time, I’m not really that confrontational. I just walk away from people and don’t look back. I’ve been that way my entire life. I’m not going to kiss anyone’s ass in the hopes they’ll be my “friend.” We either are or we aren’t, time will tell. Disagreements might come up, but if we can’t approach them like adults then really, what kind of friendship did we have? And if you dismiss my friendship without explaining why, then again, I know that I meant nothing to you from the beginning and vice versa.

Your maturity really shows AFTER a friendship ends. Do you run about talking shit about them? Do you just dismiss it and let it go? Do you pester someone for answers? Do you insult them in hopes to get a reaction? I’m curious how other people handle things like this and I will definitely be writing more about this in the future.

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wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Luxe @ FaMESHed
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

_CandyDoll_ Sheri Shirt @ Kinky
_CandyDoll_ Sheri Skirt @ Kinky
_CandyDoll_ Sheri Heels @ Kinky
SEmotion Libellune Sweet Kitten #18 UNCOMMON @ Limit8

pose w/props: Le Poppycock *Versions of April* Fair Flora

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Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, E.V.E, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Narcisse, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Vanity Event

Do You Believe In Magic?

When I was in the 4th or 5th grade, around 8 or 9 yrs old, I had a huge crush on Shawn Cassidy. For one thing, he was one of The Hardy Boys. If you don’t know who that is, I want you to go to google right this minute and educate yourself, because they were all the rage, along with Nancy Drew and the Bobbsey Twins. Why am I bringing this up? Well, around that same time, Shawn Cassidy had taken on a music career. Naturally, I had to have that album. One of his most popular songs was his rendition of “Do You Believe in Magice” originally by The Lovin’ Spoonful. When I was creating this photo, that song kept going through my mind and I was reminded of this baby blue silver jacket I had with Shawn’s face on the back. His face plastered all over my walls. I adored him. Finally, I can answer the question…NO, I do not believe in magic. *laughs*

do you believe in magic

wearing:
hair:   #9 {Limerence} Sandy hair with hat-B&W (*new* @ Imaginarium)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: LOTUS. Balance Eyes 02 (Catwa) (*new* @ Vanity Event)
eyeliner/tattoo: YKON – 3 Satanic Girl (*new* @ Vanity Event)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly

.Inkhole. Vani Necklace Set ( Black Metal ) (*new* @ Vanity Event)
Mowie. – “Harlow” Clutch (*new* @ Vanity Event)
ChicModa // Summer Dress (*new* @ TLC)
Narcisse– Sassy Strappy Heels (*new* @ TLC)

pose: SEmotion Female Bento Modeling poses Set 33  (*new* @ Vanity Event)

E.V.E Cyber Flowers CLOUD & MURAL (*new* @ TLC)