Posted in Animals, Bloom, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, N21, Prism Events, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping


Okay, so the whole social distancing thing is something I’ve been practicing for many years. However, during this time, I have decided that its time for me to rearrange my furniture. My bedroom in rl is rather odd, so there’s really only two walls my bed can be on, but its been on the wall between my windows for years. It’s time to sling it around to the other wall, plus I’ve taken this time to do some spring cleaning…getting rid of things and acquiring new things. *giggles* It’s called recycling! Wait…no, I guess its more like replacing…DON’T JUDGE ME! Anyway, I thought that rearranging furniture would be a great activity for people in RL during this time of rearranging our lives.

refuge nutmeg disorderly tarte

[Rezz Room] Rabbit Arctic Animesh (Companion) RARE

Mithral * Geo Pipe Hanger (Copper) @ Bloom

DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse @ Belle
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Teapot
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Frame
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Books

dust bunny . pilea peper plant

MudHoney Photo Room 5

Nutmeg. Bucolic Set @ Shiny Shabby
Nutmeg. Bucolic Serving Bowl / 1
Nutmeg. Bucolic Console Table

Nutmeg. Disarray Chair w/Plaid White

tarte. hanging plants @ kustom9
tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

tarte. ivy chevron trellis (natural) @ N21

Refuge – Vintage Spring Gacha @ Bloom
Refuge – Vintage Spring Bunny Statue
Refuge – Vintage Spring Egg Basket
Refuge – Vintage Spring Bird Toy
Refuge – Vintage Spring Crystal Lamp
Refuge – Vintage Spring Dresser RARE
Refuge – Vintage Spring Flower
Refuge – Vintage Spring Book Stack

Schadenfreude Daisies in a Teacup, saucer @ Bloom

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, Uber SL

Coastal Getaway

We are smack dab in the middle of summer now and there’s no denying it. The heat where I live is absolutely unbearable. Fortunately, I don’t have to go out in it very much. Though my dog stubbornly refuses to grow opposable thumbs or learn how to use the toilet. So, I do have to fight the heat a few times a day. We can hide from the heat in Second Life, but we don’t have to hide from the world when we can decorate our homes so beautifully.
Peaches has released this Coastal Getaway Bed set, complete with night stand and this gorgeous lamp. With all the nautical themes present on the grid at the moment, you can create the perfect coastal getaway in your very own virtual home. Happy shopping and may July bring you all the joy you deserve. ♥


.peaches. Coastal Getaway Bed @ Uber
.peaches. Coastal Getaway – Bed
.peaches. Costal Getaway Bed – Lamp
.peaches. Costal Getaway Bed – Table

dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter
dust bunny . hanging plants . spider planter

..::THOR::.. Decorative Helm
..::THOR::.. Nautical candle

hive // macrame hanging plant . white

tarte. night sky curtain

floorplan. throw rug / octopus
floorplan. leaning chalkboard / octopii

Intrigue Co. – Plushie Pals: Ocho the Pacific Octopus

Schadenfreude The Treif Menorah (octopus)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Go To War

“I don’t know what you had in mind
But here we stand on opposing sides
Let’s go to war
Let’s go to war
We arm ourselves with the wrongs we’ve done
Name them off one by one
Let’s go to war
Let’s go to war
Everything you say
Everything you do
You push it in and you cut me down
And you cut me down
(War, war, war)
Screaming at the ones we love
Like we forgot who we can trust
Screaming at the top of our lungs
On the grounds where we feel safe
Do we feel safe? Do we feel safe?”
~ Nothing More – Go To War


hair: Magika – Victoria
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
^^Swallow^^ Crusties Ears 2.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

=Zenith=Buckle Gloves
Ascendant – 420 Nails
:::insanya::: Ripped Leggings HC
AsteroidBox. Obsidian Boots @ K9

pose by Del May

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life


So, I had on the outfit I wanted to blog and I knew I wanted to shoot my photo from the side. I thought it would be awesome if I was looking out at a flat desert. Off I went in search of the perfect location. I had saved a landmark recently from a photo I saw on flickr and decided to give it a shot. The location was perfect and I was ready to line up my shot, when I got an IM from a friend of mine asking if I’d moved onto the sim. Well, no, I didn’t even realize it was residential until he said that. The next thing I know, he’s photobombing my picture and now he’s forever going to be in my blog! Thanks, Noizy, for lining up so perfectly beside me!
BTW, if you don’t know Noizy, I suggest you locate him inworld and check out his mad DJ skills. He live mixes his music and while he does it, he’s streaming live on Twitch. And ladies? He’s not the least bit hard on the eyes..*winks*


hair: MINA – Serene @ Salon52
Foxy – Kitty Headset @ K9
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Lunar – Susy @ equal10
Blueberry – Babe Shorts

pose by Ana Poses
location: Dusty Shores

special thanks to my friend Noizy for the photobomb *winks*

Posted in Bondi, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

This is Real

Here’s a snippet of one of the best songs ever, performed by some of the greatest rock musicians of my time. It’s amazing talent like this that for a few minutes, even on the worst day, can make me glad to be alive. I love to listen to this on full volume and sing as loud as I want and dare anyone to try and stop me. If you’re not familiar, then check it out, the youtube link is below….this is real fucking music!!!

“Under the water,
It’s cold and it’s grey.
My torrid autumn,
Another season decays.
Open up the Hollow,
And my walls come down.
I tell you it’s a problem,
Just when no one’s around.
But then,

I know what’s wrong,
God, you complicated everything.
I know you’re gone, gone, gone,
This is where I will draw a line.

I will draw my line.

Burning my cathedrals’,
Cause I don’t pray anymore.
Look at all of these people, Tragic little people,
They smile and then they don’t know what for.
But then,

I know what’s wrong,
God, you complicated everything.
I know you’re gone, gone, gone,
This is where I will blur my line.”
~ From Can To Can’t
(Corey Taylor with Dave Grohl, Rick Nielsen, Scott Reeder)
(from “Sound City” soundtrack)


hair: .:EMO-tions.. *CHRISTINE* @ Salon52
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

BONDI . The Rockstar Headphones . @ FaMESHed
Swan Nara Choker – gold – heart – black ribbon @ Belle
**RE** Quinn Rings Set
Ascendant – Smoothie Nails @ Shiny Shabby

amias – KAMALA top @ Belle
[HU] Cassy Dungarees @ Belle

pose: Ebano Poses Hat set @ Unik

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Second Life

Diversion on Ladder

So my beautiful friend, Rina Edenflower, recently retired from blogging. I’ll be honest, I was a bit devastated as she’s someone I’ve admired for years. Turns out, she’s moved from blogger to creator and is making poses. This particular pose can be found on Marketplace for only L$10. She’s just starting out, so there’s not a lot on there just yet, but these are poses made by a successful blogger who only retired after five years of blogging. So, if there’s a pose maker out there that knows what bloggers need, she is definitely one of them. So, watch out Flickr, Rina’s not done with you yet! (She just changed the name of her story from Latter to Diversion, so initially the post was called Latter on Ladder, which was funny to me…now it’s just weird, but that’s ok)


hair:  Tableau Vivant // Esperanza hair @ C88
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
.:I ProFect I:. Valea Mesh Eyes @ Unik
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust

**RE** Quinn Rings Set
Ascendant – 420 Nails @ Anthem

Pseudo– Minka Top @ Belle
Pseudo- Minka Shorts @ Belle
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

pose: Diversion – On The Roof

KraftWork Bellosguardo Set @ FaMESHed
-KraftWork Bellosguardo Library White
-KraftWork Bellosguardo Ladder White

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Foxcity, Kaithleen's, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life


So, this is just super exciting news that I’m dying to share. I really try not to boast or brag ever, because I just think its tacky. However, I just won an award for Best Narrative Blogger by BVN!! This was such a huge deal to me, especially considering who the runners up were. I mean, Strawberry Singh and Skippy Beresford? Seriously? I don’t know how I won over either of them, because they are two of the most talented photographers and bloggers I’ve ever seen. All I can say is that I have some seriously good friends and readers. Upon receiving my award, I knew that I owe it to my readers to be better than song lyrics and quick quotes. So, I’m going to do my absolute best to actually write more. I’m not saying I won’t still use song lyrics here and there, but I’m going to try not to rely so heavily on them going forward. You are the ones that voted for me and I appreciate it soooooo much. The best way I can show you how grateful I am

Bloggies 2018

hair:  Lamb. Garden (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

: CULT : Dark Side Rings
[ kunst ] – Lucy choker
(Yummy) Cleopatra Nose Ring – Silver
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
-SU!- Medusa Piercing Silver

*T.Whore* – Sexy Fur Stole White MESH
Kaithleen’s Kala Set

pose: FOXCITY. Rain Bento Pose Set (*new* @ C88)
location: BVN Bloggie Awards

Posted in Events, Fashion, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

Winter is Here

Winter is here and its time to find creative way to get warm. In RL, I have the perfect blanket. I actually love wrapping up in it completely naked, because its the softest furry blanket I’ve ever owned. It’s a king sized as well, so I can slip down into it and be completely immersed in its warmth. In SL, this isn’t really much of a concern, so we can LOOK hot rather than worrying about actual temperatures. There’s no shortage of fur coats and jackets this season, even fur bikinis like this one. And if the holidays have you feeling down, there’s plenty of retail therapy on grid. I promise it works!!

snow white

hair: ::Bold & Beauty:: Hair :: Winx.
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
SU!– Oksana Eyeshadow
SU!– Agatha Lipstick Nudes (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
Kibitz – Bitch necklace
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing,la passionnee
SU!– Bento Piercing Set 03 Nose Rings
Moon Elixir – Rich Girl – Coat – Snow (*new* @ District20)
Moon Elixir – Rich Girl – Bikini – Snow (*new* @ District20)

pose: Foxcity Fixated Set
FOXCITY. Lucid Dreaming – Black/Red

Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, {le fil casse}

Thinking Bout You

Yes, I know…another music post, Sady? Really? Yes, cuz its my blog and sometimes that’s where my mind is. Its times like these, photos like these…the music says it so much better than I can. I can only hope you’ll relate, appreciate the tunes, the photo, and above all the gorgeous creations from some incredibly talents designers. As always, lyrics and YouTube link provided below.

Thinking Bout You by Ariana Grande

I’ve been thinkin’ bout you
Yeah, I’ve been missing you
Where the hell are you, oh, when I need you?
I could still hear your voice
I ain’t got no choice
‘Cause I’m here all alone
I know I can’t wait ’til you get home

Oh, I don’t have you here with me
But at least I have the memory
I try to make it through the night
But I can’t control my mind

I’m just thinkin’ bout you
I’m thinkin’ bout you, I’m thinkin’ bout you
I’m just thinkin’ bout you
I’m thinkin’ bout you, I’m thinkin’ bout you

Got these thoughts in my head
Ain’t no way to forget
Got me losing my breath
Nobody got me the way that you did
Had my eyes rolling back
Had me arching my back
Now you love me so good
I wish you would hurry up and come back


hair:  Stealthic – Sensual (*new* @ C88)
skinDeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Face Miriam”
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
tattoo.Identity. Body Shop – Reborn Wild

Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing,la passionnee(cheekbone)
-SU!- Bento Piercing Set 03
EF: Janus Choker
Amala – The Daddy’s Necklace

{le fil casse} Siouxsie Dress (*new* @ Rewind)
Phedora ~ Jessica boots ~ 28 C (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose by Foxcity
SAYO SCENES – Moderna Courtyard – COMMON
+Half-Deer+ Sakura Petals

Posted in Collabor88, Fashion, ON9, Phedora, Second Life, Self Reflection, shoes, The Annex, The Liaison Collaborative

Damn, you look good!

So, my desk is in my bedroom…I love my bedroom. I spend most of my time in here. The other day I was just feeling so tired and I looked over my shoulder, thinking I heard a noise and my bed just looked so comfortable that I spoke to it. What did I say? Well, you’d have thought I was talking to a lover or something, because I just sighed and said, “Damn, you look good! I want to be in you so bad right now!” *bursts into giggles* I realize how dirty that sounds, but honestly…my bed is super comfy and I really wanted to crawl in and never come out.
I did eventually crawl into bed and pass out, but it was much later in the night. So, what does that have to do with this picture? Well, I kinda sleep like that…oh I don’t look quite so sexy, my tongue isn’t licking my top lip, its usually just sticking out between my lips like a dog, except that dogs look cute when they do it. *laughs* So, when I took this picture I got amused and well, if you’re a regular reader or you know me…well…yeah, you know that mind works in very bizarre ways and you’ve just jumped right down the rabbit hole with me.

phedora annex

hairICONIC:MORGANA (*new* @ ON9)
head: CATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: Glam Affair – Felicity – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ C88)
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Strong (MBA)

**RE** Simone Heart Collar
**RE** ReVoX Aros Couple Bracelet – Female
Schadenfreude Raven Wee Beastie Ring 1 (worn as a bracelet)
The Annex – Lauren Dress – Decay – MAITREYA (*new* @ The Liaison Collabortive)
Phedora ~ Kylie heels (*new* @ ROMP)

pose: . Infiniti . – Heels 1M (ROMP)