Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

So torn

I am so torn right now between the Autumn decor that is everywhere and the holiday decor that is falling across the grid like a steady snowfall. I’m doing my best to squeeze in as much Autumn as I can before we slide into full blown Winter. Naturally, I will need to take a beach break along the way at some point, cuz BIKINIS! I am falling more and more in love with decor by the day. This can’t be a surprise given the influx of decor posts I’ve been dropping lately. Its not my fault. Look at the stuff in this scene! Between Crate, Barley, and Sway’s…what was I supposed to do? Resist? Ok, I’m going to need you to put that crack pipe down now.

barley crate sway & more

22769 – Autumn Cage LI: 6

*alirium* DwarfForest [Ember] LI: 3

crate Harvest Entryway  Set @ Belle
crate Harvest Entryway Branch Bag LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Bench P.G LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Pumpkin Chandelier LI: 6
crate Harvest Entryway Shelf LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Trunk LI: 2

#2 Elm. “Book Nook Gacha” Autumn Suitcase LI: 3

HPMD* Garden Tree09 with Lights – red a LI: 7

hive // start of autumn journal . group gift LI: 1

SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Foliage Deco LI: 6

Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn Porch @ The Liaison Collaborative
Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn Porch LI: 18
Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn leaves on floor LI: 2
Sway’s [Lukas] Bench LI: 5

{what next} Fall Harvest Wheelbarrow LI: 6

Barley – Autumn is Here Set 
Barley – Autumn is Here Tartan Pillow
Barley – Autumn is Here Tray w/ Pitcher and Cups
Barley – Autumn is Here Mugs
Barley – Autumn is Here Medium Pumpkin
Barley – Autumn is Here Set
Barley – Autumn is Here Little Pumpkin
Barley – Autumn is Here Sign
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin w/ a Message
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin Duo
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin Bucket
Barley – Autumn is Here Linen Pillow
Barley – Autumn is Here – Paris in the Fall Pillow

Posted in Animals, Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

All my favorite colors

I woke up to the morning sky, first
Baby blue, just like we rehearsed
When I get up off this ground, I shake leaves back down
To the brown, brown, brown, brown
‘Til I’m clean

Then I walk where I’d be shaded by the trees
By a meadow of green
For about a mile
I’m headed to town, town, town
In style

With all my favorite colors, yes, sir
All my favorite colors, right on
My sisters and my brothers
See ’em like no other
All my favorite colors
~ Black Pumas – Colors

Sayo Thor Merak KW Refuge RR

22769 – Autumn Cage LI: 6 @ The Liaison Collaborative

*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold] LI: 3

Ariskea[LateSunday] Pumpkin Spice Pie LI: 1

dust bunny . cider sunsets . sweater weather LI: 2

+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Ground LI: 2
+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Trailing LI: 1

KraftWork Ballon de Fete LI: 4 @ Belle

[Merak] – Fall Treats LI: 3 @ Kustom9
[Merak] – Old Stomp Table LI: 2 @ Kustom9
[Merak] – Fall Blankets LI: 4 @ Kustom9

SAYO – Harvest Bench (Adult) LI: 11 @ FaMESHed

tarte. hay bale & linen (seat) – PG LI: 4
tarte. hay bales & pitchfork LI: 7

..::THOR::.. K9 Bday Gift – 2019 LI: 3 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Distressed Table LI: 1 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Woodland Tray LI: 2 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Melody Moments LI: 1 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Birdhouse Shovel LI: 1 @ Kustom9

[we’re CLOSED] grass field dry 03

Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin A @ The Liaison Collaborative
Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin C @ The Liaison Collaborative
Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin B @ The Liaison Collaborative

[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sit
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Play
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sleep
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Animesh Companion RARE

Posted in Animals, Home Decor, Prism Events, Salem, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Magic could whisper

“As a kid, she’d always loved Halloween. A magic night. A night when anything could happen. Monsters could be real. Magic could whisper in the air.”
― Cynthia Eden, A Bit of Bite

thor sayo rezz room

Bee Designs Halloween Plushies Gacha 7 @ Black Fair
Bee Designs Halloween Plushies Gacha 3 @ Black Fair

dust bunny . midnight apothecary set @ Anthem
dust bunny . midnight apothecary . bats tree . black
dust bunny . midnight apothecary . venus fly trap
dust bunny . midnight apothecary . graveyard terrarium

04. Lagom – Araneae Witch [ Spider Bubbles Pink ]
06. Lagom – Araneae Witch [ Banner Web ]
01. Lagom – Dimension Mirrors [ Getting out ] RARE
08. Lagom – Araneae Witch [ Mannequin ] RARE

SAYO – Goth Glam Wall Panel @ Salem

SAYO / Harvest Loft Gacha @ Arcade
SAYO – Harvest Loft Gacha – Tapestry – COMMON
SAYO – Harvest Loft Gacha – Sofa – COMMON
SAYO – Harvest Loft Gacha – Lanterns – COMMON
SAYO – Harvest Loft Gacha – Harvest Bed – RARE
SAYO – Harvest Loft Gacha – Rug – COMMON

..::THOR::.. Le Clairvoyant Set @ Anthem
..::THOR::.. Macabre Clay Skull
..::THOR::.. Petals & Leaves
..::THOR::.. Magic Wand
..::THOR::.. Moon Lore Book & Petals
..::THOR::.. Dark Velvet Chair
..::THOR::.. Clairvoyant Sphere – RARE
..::THOR::.. Fear Inoculum
..::THOR::.. Ouija Board Noir – ULTRA RARE
..::THOR::.. Dark Tarots
..::THOR::.. Poisoned Coffee
..::THOR::.. Sacred Geometry Table – RARE
..::THOR::.. Triple Moon Box
..::THOR::.. Herbalist Book
..::THOR::.. Brass Candle Holder
..::THOR::.. Altar Bowl
..::THOR::.. Altar Dagger
..::THOR::.. Wheel of The Year
..::THOR::.. Psychic Book
..::THOR::.. Sacred Geometry Book
..::THOR::.. Amethyst

[Glitzz] Salem Nigth – Floating Candles
[Glitzz] Salem Night – Sparkles Rotating

*HEXtraordinary* Hand of Glory

[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Set @ Arcade
[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Animesh (Companion) RARE
[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Vampire Yawning
[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Vampire Animesh (Companion) RARE
[Rezz Room] Coffin Cat Bed
[Rezz Room] Cauldron Bowl
[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Napping

Echo – Summon – Potion Bottles – 4
Echo – Summon – Potion Bottles – 5
Echo – Summon – Potion Bottles – 7

3.Cubura Haunted Candle Metal/Purple

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life

My People

Today is my birthday and despite my age (don’t ask), I’m excited. No matter how bad things get, I love my birthday. I suppose its a matter of conditioning. I’m an only child and my birthday was always a big deal. My mother always baked a cake and made a big meal, whatever I wanted. So, I have lots going on today, but I want to express my gratitude.
Days like today, I truly feel blessed. I have the most wonderful group of friends in Second Life. More than I am entitled to, I can assure you. I hear about how people stab each other in the back all the time and it breaks my heart. While I have some friends that are as fake as a three dollar bill, even my fake friends aren’t bad people. But I have some of the truest friends anyone could ever hope for and those are MY people. They are the ones that know the real me, what I’m capable of…they know my heart. I cannot begin to thank those people enough. I am so very grateful for all of my friends, even the fake ones, because each of them offers me a lesson in love, trust, and integrity. So, I won’t wait until Thanksgiving for this…I will show my gratitude today, so if you are one of my friends I thank you from the bottom of my heart.♥

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.peaches. Virajas Day Bed @ FaMESHed

+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn

NOMAD // Autumn Leaves

Nutmeg. Winter Brunch Accent Stool w/Packages
Nutmeg. Pile of Vinage books Group Gift
Nutmeg. Grandma’s Cottage Basket w/Flowers
Nutmeg. Disarray Newspapers & Hat
Nutmeg. Stacked Buckets
Nutmeg. Old Story Frames Wood
Nutmeg. Dacha Old Wooden Chest
Nutmeg. Disarray Round Wooden Table w/Cloth
Nutmeg. Flower Cherub Statue @ Shiny Shabby
Nutmeg&RK Poses. Old Stool w/Cloth Decor (Group Gift)
Nutmeg. Rattan Tote Carry, Light Blue

SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Foliage Deco
SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Pumpkin Candles

 

Posted in Home Decor, Kustom9, Prism Events, Salem, Second Life, shopping, unKindness, {what next}

Autumn Bug

Okay, the Autumn bug has bitten me and the bite is infected! I can’t seem to stop! I am loving all the amazing Fall creations out there. Alright, let’s face it. I will stop, cuz HALLOWEEN! But as soon as October ends, I’ll be doing it up Autumn style, all over again. So, for now, this might…keyword: might…be the last Autumn decor scene I do until November. Maybe. We’ll see. No promises. *grins*

Happy Fall

=EliBaily= Ivy

+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Big Group
+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Trailing

LISP – Hanging Birdcage – Autumn (with shadow)

NOMAD // AUTUMN LEAVES @ Kustom9

NOMAD // Autumn Garden Bench w. Leaves

PLAAKA ReviveTree  @ Kustom9
PLAAKA DryStoneWall @ Kustom9

SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Foliage Deco
SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Pumpkin Candles

Serenity Style– Eizen Primitive Halloween Doll LANTERN2 @ Salem
Serenity Style- Eizen Primitive Halloween Doll RARE @ Salem

..::THOR::.. The Buddies Shed @ Man Cave Event
..::THOR::.. Buddies Shed Pillow
..::THOR::.. Rusty Heater
..::THOR::.. Pallet Bench 1
..::THOR::.. Pillow Seating Nuss
..::THOR::.. Pumpkin Pillow
..::THOR::.. Fall Bike Exclusive
..::THOR::.. Eggnog Mug
..::THOR::.. A Cozy Moment – Eggnog Deliver
..::THOR::.. Rustic Kettle
..::THOR::.. Buddies Pallet Shed
..::THOR::.. Pallet Bench 2
..::THOR::.. Pillow Seating Brown

uK – Autumn Golden Eggs Nested

{what next} Happy Fall Banner

ChiMia:: Autumnal Wreath

/ frag.ments’ / Fall Thingamabobs Crate ( Dark )

[Rezz Room] Red Fox Sitting
[Rezz Room] Red Fox Watchout
[Rezz Room] Red Fox Laying

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Collabor88 Shines Bright

So many good things I want to tell you about! Oh my goodness! Let’s start at the top and work our way down. Stealthic has been out of pocket for a while. We’ve all been wondering when he’d be back and when we’d get some more of his amazing hair. Well, just in time for Collabor88’s birthday round, he’s back and he did not disappoint! I went out on a limb and grabbed the black/white pack of Porcelain, then I did something I never do…I used the tinting hud. I wanted a slight brown tint to the light black hair. Not only did it work, but I’m super stoked with the results.
Now, let’s move to the gorgeous necklaces draping my neck! Supernatural has delivered the perfect balance of delicate and jeweled with their Stelar set. You get your choice of silver or gold chains, but there’s a hud that offers an endless array of jewel tones to match anything you choose to wear them with. Not only that, but these beautiful chains are separate. You can wear one or all three! I love these kinds of options.
I’ll wrap this up as I confess that my photo does not begin to do this Diamond Dress justice. Cynful has found a way to deliver bling in a whole new way. The diamond waist band is option, there are also diamond straps. So many choices for the diamonds colors, but it doesn’t stop there. No, the Cynful team went all the way! You can adjust the glittering and the glow! All three of these amazing finds can be found at the birthday round of Collabor88. This is one round you do not want to miss, because if you’re like me….oh my goodness…Collabor88 is shining brighter than ever!

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head: Catwa Catya
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Gabrielle @ Collabor88

Stealthic – Porcelain @ Collabor88
.::Supernatural::. Stelar Set @ Collabor88
Cynful Diamond Dress @ Collabor88

FOXCITY. Breather VOL2 Animated Pose Set

SAYO – Geometric Wall Panel
DaD “Mandarin Spa Jellyfish floor lamp” @ Uber

Posted in Bondi, breathe, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life

We all have blind spots

We all know some one that only hears what they want to hear, sees what they want to see. I believe that’s more prevalent in Second Life than anywhere else. Like orange juice concentrate, the misplaced loyalties on the grid run rampant. People being “loyal” to false friends, closing their eyes to the truth and choosing to turn their eyes elsewhere. I’m not quite sure what people are afraid of, but feeding someone’s ego with lies is not doing anyone any favors. The thing is that when we lie to those that are supposedly close to us, we lie to ourselves, as well. We have to ask ourselves if that’s what we would want if it was us on the other side of the blindness…the deafness. By turning the blind eye, the deaf ear…are we doing them a favor? Or are we so afraid of the truth that the lie is more comforting? What are our motives for such a level of dishonesty, especially if we really are completely aware of the truth?

So, I’m back to writing and the ramblings of my mind are bound to be weirder than ever, but I’ve decided to restrict myself less. A new friend reminded me that I started this blog as an outlet for me. Sure, I absolutely love showing off my favorite designers and will always do that, but the words? I can’t censor myself and get therapeutic value from it, now can I? *laughs* Consider this your warning….lol.

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Basics:
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
SU!– Piercing Set 06
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria @ Kustom9

hair: Navy+Copper – Genna
BONDI . The Peacemaker Headphones @ FeverFete
Addams // Zury Crochet Holes Top
Addams // Caroline Knot Rope Bikini
[BREATHE]-Midori Heels

pose: FOXCITY. Soulfood Bento Pose Set

scene:
SAYO – Lena Corner Collection
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Lounger
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Floor Lamp
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Floor Canvas
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Succulent Cluster

Elm. Nia Nightstand [Cotton]
Elm. Nia Frame Small [Gold]
Elm. Nia Frame Large [Silver]
Elm. Nia Books [Blue]

MudHoney Olwen Laptop
MudHoney Books – Food & Happiness
MudHoney Trophy Bowl
MudHoney Metal Stick Decor
MudHoney Trophy Bowl
MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box
MudHoney Liza Heels – Nude
MudHoney Olwen Movies
MudHoney Liza Heels – Black
MudHoney Liza Bra
MudHoney Liza Panties

Posted in Artisan Fantasy, Dahlia, Death Row Designs, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness, {what next}

Dirty Laundry

“Found it over in the corner
Wadded up on the bedroom floor
You shoulda hid it in the closet
You shoulda burned it, you shoulda lost it
Now I’ma have to hang you out to dry, dry, dry
Clothespin all your secrets to the line, line, line
Leave ’em blowing in the wind, just say goodbye to you
All those midnights sneaking in
I’m late again, oh, I’m so sorry
All the Ajax in the world ain’t gonna clean your dirty laundry”

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Artisan Fantasy Conquistador Bath Towels 1

Dahlia – Loire – Towels – Blue – .06 C/M

DRD – Series 01 – Dirty Laundry – Light

dust bunny . potted bromeliad
dust bunny . quirky planters . hedgehog

:HAIKEI: where you’ve been /gacha {4}
:HAIKEI: where you’ve been /gacha {3}
:HAIKEI: Humid dusty cottage gacha {3}

+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Leaves
+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Pink Floral
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor B
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Thong
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Bra

hive // macrame hanging plant . white

Nutmeg. Dacha Crumpled Towel

SAYO – Geometric Wall Panel – 05

SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection @ Uber
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Clothing Hamper
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Mudroom Lockers
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Washer / Dryer Combo
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Artwork
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Cabinets
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Rug
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Sign
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Lost Socks Organizer
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Bench
SAYO – Elm Laundry Collection – Stand

uK – Spring Cleaning Clothes Basket

{what next} Housekeepers Box Decor (green)

Mutresse-Sleeping-Shortie Cats

(fd) Cat – 05 Curled On Back
(fd) Cat – 11 Sitting

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

[Rezz Room] American Bully Puppy Sleep

.peaches. Emunah Bed – Magazine Clutter

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Find Joy

“Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home… it’s your responsibility to love it, or change it.” ~ Chuck Palahniuk

fancy decor and more

dust bunny . pink medinilla plant
dust bunny . potted cheese plant
dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . pilea peper plant

Fancy Decor: Harper Set @ FaMESHed
-Fancy Decor: Harper Floor Lamp
-Fancy Decor: Harper Artwork
-Fancy Decor: Harper Sofa – Blue (adult)
-Fancy Decor: Harper Table
-Fancy Decor: Harper Candle
-Fancy Decor: Harper Decanter
-Fancy Decor: Harper Tray

Fancy Decor: Books and Plant
Fancy Decor: Capo Magazine Stack A

Fancy Decor: Pieter Set @ Anthem
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Lamp
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Cabinet (white)
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Succulents
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Vase
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Jug
-Fancy Decor: Pieter Mirror

SAYO – Botany Books & Frames Cluster
SAYO – Succulents & Scents Cluster
SAYO – Theo Lacquer Tables – Large Tray Table

Mithral * Vertical Wall Pipe Hanger (Silver)
Mithral * Hanging Propagation Set (Light Wood)

[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 2
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 3

[Rezz Room] Boxer Dog Puppy Wait @ equal10
[Rezz Room] Boxer Dog Puppy Up @ equal10

Junk Food – Spiced Rum @ TLC
-Junk Food – Rum Bottle Rez
-Junk Food – Rum Tumblers

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life

For Now

I’m going to make some changes to the way I blog for a little while. Some of you already know that I’m in therapy and with my second session under my belt, I’m facing a lot of truths about myself that I’m not entirely comfortable sharing in my blog right now. I started my blog as a form of therapy, at least that’s what I thought. I’m seeing now that it was just a tool and not the healthiest one, at least not for me. For now, I’m going to focus on me in real life and when it comes to Second Life…well, my blog…I’m going to focus on what’s in front of me. I’m not really a great writer about fashion or home decor, so I’ll be relying on quotes and song lyrics quite a bit going forward. I’m sorry if I’m letting anyone down, but this is what I need to do for me….for now. I want you to know how much I really appreciate those of you that actually read my blog and maybe I’ll come back around to writing again. ♥

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wearing:
hair: DOUX – Vel hairstyle @ Belle
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

: CULT : ROU RINGS SET @ Kinky
Ascendant – Camo Day Nails
BUENO– Committed Set @ C88

Cynful Laced Up Top + Corset Set @ C88
[Cynful] Nienor’s Leather Skirt

pose: RK Poses. Lana

SAYO Sin – Manic Reverie – Deep Silence Lighting