Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

I do….want to get the f***ck outta here!

The new Khaleesi gown from JustBecause is absolutely stunning and that’s no surprise considering Annie’s talent for gowns. Now, anyone that knows me knows I’m not big on gowns. So, for me to gush about a gown is pretty unique. In fact, there are several women across the grid planning to use it for a wedding gown and that got me thinking about weddings. I’m not a fan. In fact, I’d be a prime candidate for a runaway bride which led me to using Diversion’s Escape poses to create my own runaway bride photo. I call it, “I do…want to get the fuck outta here!”

doux jb diversion

 

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Cassie hairstyle @ TresChic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.2
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair]  LIllian Skin [ Lelutka ] @ Uber

nails: –SU!– Almond Nails
*Tentacio* Daisy crown
*Just BECAUSE* Khaleesi Gown

pose: Diversion – Escape Poses
location: Route66

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Exploration, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Trust Issues

“I’m just letting you know I’m emotionally unavailable
I’d love to reciprocate your love but I’m incapable
I know that you don’t get it, but I’m just so unstable
And all I could think about is how you’d be unfaithful
You think that I am crazy
But that, that does not phase me
And no, you cannot change me
Just know you cannot save me”
~ Olivia O’Brien – Trust Issues

I really want to elaborate on how deeply the quoted lyrics above hit home. There has only been ONE man in my entire life that has not betrayed me and that was my maternal Grandfather. I honestly do not believe he ever would have either. Granted, I was only 7yrs old the last time I saw him before he died, but the way my mother talks about him…well, I have to believe he never would have betrayed me. He was amazing the had the bluest eyes I have ever seen. Every other man in my life has hurt me by making me feel less than worthy. Every man I’ve dated has cheated either with me or on me. Yes, I said with me. You see, I learned my lesson about the betrayal early on. So, in my early 20s, I wouldn’t date a man that didn’t have a woman at home. Why? Because at that time, I would have rather been the woman he cheats with than the woman he cheats on. I was treated exceptionally well by those men and had no restrictions. They couldn’t very well insist on monogamy from me when they were going home to fuck someone else, now could they?
I’m not saying there aren’t some good, honest men out there. All I can say is that they’ve not been men I dealt with for very long. Perhaps its the type of men I’m attracted to. I can accept that. Regardless of why, it comes down to this one thing. I am incapable of trusting a man romantically. I tried to last year, but like all the rest….that led to betrayal and the shattered remains of a heart that wasn’t even healed from the last betrayal. The promises people make when they think they’re in love….hmmmm, I don’t know, I suppose the old addage, “Promises were made to be broken,” has proven to be true….at least in my life. So, trust issues? Nah, more like a full blown subscription to NTA….never trust anyone.

Trust Issues

wearing:
hair:  Vanity Hair::Baccara
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber

^^Swallow^^ Princess Bento Rings
^^Swallow^^ Magic Necklace

Tee*fy Jenna Tube Top
Blueberry – Aria – Stylized Pants
REIGN.- BECKY STUDDED BOOTS

pose: Foxcity. Sass Bento Pose Set
location: Route66

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Bondi, Catwa, Chic Moda, Essenz, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, ULTRA, Vanity Event

Kind Strangers

If your car has to break down in the middle of nowhere it never hurts to have a sexy mechanic working on your car.

On a more serious note, never let it be said that there are not some perfectly kind strangers in SL willing to help out another stranger for a few minutes. I had originally gone to this sim, thinking that I would take a photo in a diner or something along those lines. Then I say the classic mustang and a very nice looking avatar posed as if he were working on it. Sadly, his entire profile was in Portuguese, so to Google translator I went. One thing was certain, he was happily taken and didn’t like girls who disrespected that. Noted. In English (he can translate, too, right) I told him that I wasn’t flirting but would he mind staying put for a blog photo I wanted to do. He kindly obliged and the moment I was done, he poofed away. No friendships made, no advances from either of us, no more conversation….just two photographers passing in the light. *giggles*

So, I owe a huge thank you to  Hendrick Kos (SirAatrox) for being so kind to a complete stranger. It’s people like him that restore just a teensy bit of my faith in human kind.

can you fix it

wearing:
hair:  TRUTH VIP Reyane
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
BONDI . The Wanderer Sunglasses (*new* @ ULTRA)
Cae :: Gianna :: Necklace
Cae :: Gianna :: Bracelets
*PerveTTe* Bond [Arm Chain] [Silver] (*new* @ RLD)
ChicModa // Emma Tank Top (*new* @ FaMESHed)
ChicModa // Emma Denim Skirt (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Essenz – Varadero (*new* @ Vanity Event)
pose by Foxcity
location: Route66