Posted in Cynful, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

I’m still learning

I should be living the dream
But I’m living with a security team
And that ain’t gonna change, no
I got a paranoia in me
And you wouldn’t believe
Everything that I’ve seen, no
Coming apart at the seams
And no one around me knows
Who I am, what I’m on
Who I’ve hurt and where they’ve gone
I know that I’ve done some wrong
But I’m trying to make it right
Did the one I love do me wrong?
Give me up right now
I know that I love you but I’m still learning
To love myself
I’m still learning to love myself
~ Halsey – Still Learning

richb cynful

Sady is wearing:
hair:  [monso] My Hair – Lokelanni @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [Glam Affair] Reese Skin – Lelutka @ Uber

RichB. Kitty Ears @ SaNaRae
RichB. Imo Earrings
[CX] Tyrant’s Chain @ FaMESHed
MIWAS / Mei Belt jacket
Cynful Bodysuit Set @ FaMESHed
MIWAS / High waist Fishnet tights

pose: Lyrium. Lindalein Series
TrashTheBeat Backdrop – The Bearded Guy

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

Who knows what I’ll be doing?

Things are changing everywhere. Not just the world as we know it with all the Covid19 stuff, but all around me. I’ve taken on more jobs in sl which is cutting into my blog time as well as other things. However, in an attempt to find a balance between all of my commitments, I’ve come to realize that my therapist was right. Multitasking is ineffective. I was so heartbroken when she first said this, but I decided to be open minded about it. I did as she suggested, by taking on one task at a time. I even tried to be more mindful about it. Ugh. She was right. I was wrong. *stomps her foot* Go figure.
So, with all of this going on, I will be making changes to how I blog and what I blog.
As much as I love doing decor, it is far more time consuming and often does my head in. So, I decided to cut waaaay back on my decor commitments. There are a handful of brands that I’m just not even close to ready to break up with…and it was a hard decision dropping four of my favorites yesterday. Alas, I will simply be a customer and continue to feature them when possible, without the time constraints.
I will probably write a lot less going forward. There’s a few reasons for this. One is that aside from not really having time to do it for every single post, most people aren’t really reading it. I mean, I’m going to do what I want…so I will still write from time to time, but for the most part, you can expect lyrics, quotes, excerpts or a quick quip about the items I’m blogging. Of course, I say all of this now….but give me a month or two and who knows what I’ll be doing. LOL.

doux littlefox lw burrow

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Lulu hairstyle @ TresChic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

.::Nanika::. Aimy Necklace
RichB. Halo Cuffs
[Since 1975]-Phone&Case-You’reMine (old group gift)
Little Fox – Jennie knitted top @ Access
Little Fox – Jennie suede skirt @ Access

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – Loving Nature Set
location: Burrow Coffee & Whiskey Co.

Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Uber SL

Rather Extreme

I’ve seen some rather extreme reactions to the whole name changing thing that’s happening. Some people are saying they will delete anyone with this name or that. Some are telling their friends if they change their names they can’t be friends. I would like to believe that ALL of these people are kidding, but we know that at least one of them isn’t. What has surprised me the most is the amount of hateful judging that’s been happening on social media.
I saw one post that suggested anyone that paid to have their name change was a shitty person, because they could’ve given that money to charity. That kinda set me off, to be honest. I mean, who do you think you are judging everyone that changes their name? Is it YOUR money? No, it most certainly is not. If we’re going to sit here and judge one another for not giving what we can to charity, let’s start with the time he spent writing that post and defending it. He could have spent that time doing something helpful, don’t you think? I personally think someone’s a wee bit upset cuz he can’t change his personality for $40. You can’t know what people do with their real life funds. You don’t know whether or not they give to charity. Not everyone broadcasts every donation they make. I know I don’t.
I get that people think it might be a waste of money or a silly thing to do, especially since we have display names, but you can’t truly know the reasons why people do what they do until you’ve lived their lives. Oh, but you can’t live their lives, can you? No, cuz then it would be your life and you clearly would’ve made difference choices, etc. So, take it easy on each other and remember that now more than ever we need to be supportive. Love one another please…we have enough hatred in the world already, there will never be too much love. ♥

tableau asteroid box richb evolove

Sady is wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant // Tricia @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber
Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK

RichB. Temka Earrings @ Neo Japan
RichB. Temka Face Chain @ Neo Japan
RichB. Bond Bracelet
^^Swallow^^ Runway Bento Rings @ Kustom9
Ascendant – Polished Square Nails
AsteroidBox. Saskia Top @ Equal10
AsteroidBox. Jessie Shorts @ Kustom9

pose: evolove pain.5

What a Night! *RARE* – Heat Massive – The Bearded Guy

Posted in breathe, Collabor88, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

Try and face the world

Oh, got my hands tied around my back
And time put a rope around my head
And hung from the rafters of my fear
Dark in the eyes
Try and face the world, I can’t bear to
My knees hit the ground and my hands start shaking
Old feelings from new faces
A rope on the floor and a poor man hanging
Please help me chop this tree down
Or hold me from underneath
Words never once cut me down
Oh, don’t you cry for me
Oh
I’ve seen an ocean run away
I’m torn from the truth that holds my soul
I’m down in the grave where I belong
Oh, what a ride
Identified my devil
Wings to the sky on the run from trouble
With my own hands, no shovel
I dug through the ground, now I’m hanging above saying
Please help me chop this tree down
Or hold me from underneath
Words never once cut me down
Oh, don’t you cry for me

tableau breathe

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Buttercup @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

RichB. Hamatis Earrings
RichB. Skully Arm Band
RichB. Halo Cuffs
Pixicat– Maya Set @ C88
[BREATHE]-Miyasu Heels @ C88

pose: Ana Poses – Jiufen

Lagom – Rainy days Window @ The Liaison Collaborative

Posted in Bloom, Chic Moda, DOUX, Events, Legacy, Lelutka, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic

Fit your attitude

When I finished editing this picture, I showed it to Chris (my bo’fren) and he asked if I was mad at someone. I just laughed. I’m not mad at anyone, I just love this pose from Diversion. However, I feel like there’s always someone or something deserving of a big F*CK YOU. (yes, I did just censor myself, its called growth or something like that). I just felt particularly badass in this outfit, okay? I’m sure it’s the accessories from RichB that really made me feel so badass, cuz this Blossom top from ChicModa is quite sweet, almost delicate. And we all know jeans can go in either direction. Though I must say these jeans from Little Fox fit like a glove! So, I guess you could say that its really all about accessorizing to fit your attitude….and well, most of you already know MY attitude. *grins*

doux chicmoda little fox diversion

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Bianca hairstyle @ Tres Chic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1 @ Skin Fair
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Ashley (LeLutka)

RichB. Hamatis Earrings
*AvaWay* GWEN Ribbon Corset CHOKER
RichB. Skully Arm Band @ Fetish Fair
RichB. Halo Cuffs
-SU!- Almond Nails @ Anthem
ChicModa // Blossom Top @ Bloom
Little Fox – Skinny low jeans @ Access

pose: Diversion – Lunacy Poses @ Aenigma
MINIMAL – Fungsun Backdrop @ Equal10

Posted in DOUX, Events, Exploration, Fashion, GenusProject, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, vinyl

Let’s Taco ’bout You

If you’ve been in Second Life for any substantial amount of time, then you’ve had someone get all up in your business. You’ve had someone watching your every move. You’ve had someone hate you for no rational reason. You’ve had someone make you out to be something you’re not. This happens to all of us at some point in time. Hell, some of us even experience this in real life. I really don’t know what happens to a person to make them behave in such an obsessive manner. We’ve all been hurt and betrayed at some point in our lives. So, I have a really hard time wrapping my brain around what makes someone so consumed with other people’s lives that they allow it to rob them of their own joy. It’s actually quite sad, really. Can you imagine wasting so much of your energy on someone you don’t like and constantly trying to justify your actions to yourself?
Maybe you’re one of those that gets in other people’s business or stalks them or hates someone for no rational reason. To those that do the watching and hating, I have one thing to say, “Just maybe if you paid as much attention to your own life, your own business, you would have a life worth living. Until you do learn to mind your own business, enjoy the show, cuz the light in my life shines far too bright for me to be worried about you.”
I’ve said it many times in the past and I’m sure I’ll say it again, “If you’re not feeding me, financing me, or fucking me…your opinion of me does not matter, nor do you get a say.” So, keep talking about me, keep accusing me, keep watching me, keep hating me….as for me? Well, its Tuesday…and I’m having tacos, Baby! Of course, I wrapped this all up with Taco Tuesday. *laughs* Did you expect anything less?

vinyl miu doux
Nachos are like deconstructed tacos, right?

wearing:
hair: DOUX – Melanie hairstyle @ TresChic
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face
skin: DeeTaleZ Skin *Kacee* for GENUS HEADS
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Tattoo “Rise of Quetzalcoatl”_by GoK

[ kunst ] – Alexandra collar
RichB. Halo Cuffs
VINYL – Foodie Tee @ Food Court
Miu – Alina leather pants

Hangry – Nachos
-Hangry – Nachos – Hold
-Hangry – Single Nacho – Hold

:LW: Bento Poses – Certain Things

location: FMD Boardwalk

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, GenusProject, Maitreya, Second Life

Our hope’s gone up in smoke

This indecision’s got me climbing up the walls
I’ve been cheating gravity and waiting on the falls
How did this come over me, I thought I was above it all
Our hope’s gone up in smoke, swallow your crown

Choke! On a kiss, I thought I’d save my breath for you
Choke! On a kiss, I thought I’d save my breath for you
Give me some rope I’m coming loose, I’m hanging on you
Give me some rope I’m coming loose, I’m pulling for you now
Give me some rope I’m coming out of my head, into the clear
When you go I come loose
~Foo Fighters – Rope

lunar doux foxcity

hair:  DOUX –  Ava hairstyle
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body

RichB. Trust FaceChain
OSMIA – Nostalgia.Gacha.Earrings
Kibitz – Mystical stars necklace
**RE** Festive Rings Set
Lunar – Miki Top @ equal10
Lunar – Miki Track Pants @ equal10

FOXCITY. City Life Bento Pose Set

VideoClub Backdrop – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Dahlia, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life

Peepers

Tis the season to dress up in all sorts of festive outfits and the recent annual BVN Holiday Party was no exception. They had a themed formal of white and gold. Yes, I had to wear another formal. Lucky for me, I have a weakness for the gowns at Just Because, so I had a few to choose from…even if they make me itch. *laughs* Okay, not really…well, not in Second Life, but I’m not big on formals. That’s just a bit froofroo for my tastes. However, I was a good sport and went to the party in a beautiful golden gown. In fact, my friend and fellow blogger, Caitlin Mirabella, took a picture of us in our gowns and she did a fantastic job. Though none of that is what is being showcased here.
You see, there were lots of fabulous blogger prizes being given away at random and I was the lucky winner of a three month blogger gig with Avi Glam. To be honest, I wasn’t all that familiar with the brand before hand. That has certainly changed and just in time for my adventure with close ups! You see, Avi Glam is best known for their amazing eyes. I’m a sucker for some pretty eyes, so I leaped at the chance to scoop up some new peepers! Be on the look out, because I will be showing off plenty of beautiful eyes in all my close ups.

SadyCat

hair:  [monso] My Hair – Mili @ Kustom9
Beusy: Lunar Cat Ears @ Kustom9
RichB. Trust FaceChain
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
AG. Enlightened Eyes – Lagoon
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – GENUS NUDE SWINGS 8 @ Access
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
Dahlia – Leyla – Kitten Collar @ FaMESHedX