Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Gos, Home Decor, Lybra, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life

Spank Me

Alright, calm down, I’m not literally asking all of you to come spank me. As much as I do love a good spanking…*blushes*…its just that this dress from Lybra really makes you want to drop something in front of that person you have a crush on, so you gotta bend over and hope that they like what they see. Ok, yeah, maybe I sound like a cat in heat, but whatever you want to call it, we know its going to get someone’s attention. Oh don’t act so coy, you know you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been wanting to do a pose like this with a belt in my mouth and had a hard time finding anything quite like I wanted. Low and behold, ask and ye shall be granted goodness in thy name as called upon the great designer, Lybra Rage, the designer behind Quasi. Not only did he love my request but he made the belt and named it after me. It even comes with a hud. So, with all the Valentine’s stuff going around, the KinkyEvent, the Fetish Fair, not to mention all our favorite regular events like FaMESHed….well, there’s never been no shortage on flirty, sexy, and fun items on the grid. So, when you get done staring at my ass…yeah, I see you….go shopping and get yourself all dolled up for the upcoming day of lovers!♥
As for me? Some couple have Netflix and chill? I have tumblr and toys. *grins*

spank me
How’s that for a hump day post? <eg>

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Audrie  (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Quasi – Sadystika Belt
LYBRA . ELVIRA (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Gos] Lady G Platform Pumps  (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set

scene:
:CP: Dove Bench
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Foxcity, Gos, Home Decor, Maitreya, Phedora, RunAway Hair, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, The Annex

Forgotten Road Trip

Remember that road trip that Sady & Grace took? Well, they eventually landed in Vegas, broke and tired of traveling. They were fortunate enough to get jobs as back up dancers for one of the biggest show on the strip. Man, did those feathers itch. They simply haven’t had time to reach and keep us posted about their adventures, so I’m going to assume they’re hiding something. Here’s a rare shot of them relaxing between shows. Don’t judge them for the mess, they practically live in that room.
dressing room

Sady is wearing:
hair:  *Besom Hair~ Vega V1 *Blondes* #20 (*new* @ Epiphany)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Polly – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Epiphany “Classy & Sassy” By Phedora (*new* @ Epiphany)

pose: FOXCITY. Detached Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)

Grace is wearing:
hair:  [RA] Lana Hair – (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: YS&YS – Rose Tone 2
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
Gos – Bianca Pumps

pose: FOXCITY. Red Hot Bento Pose Set

SCENE:
REIGN.- BABE CAVE #1 RARE (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOSS BABE DESK 2 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- MISC. SUPPLIES (WHITE)- # 10 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE SOFA- #15 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE OTTOMAN (SILVER)- # 16 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE RUG- # 18 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOOKS AND HEELS- # 22 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE VANITY- # 27 (*new* @ Epiphany)

Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Kiss & Makeup’ Makeup Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Emotional Baggage’ Handbag Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Planet Of the Vapes’ Electric Vape (*new* @ Epiphany)

Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

Dead Dollz – Vacanze Romane – Suitcase
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Smokey Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Nude Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Colors Palette

-tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Makeup Bag
-tres blah- Jolie – Makeup Organizer
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
-tb- Vanity – Brushes
-tb- Vanity – Nail Polishes
-tb- Vanity – Platter of Treasures
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Morning Start
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – What’s in My Bag RARE

1. [ dynasty ] – The Oxford Effect – Comb/Cologne

Quasi – Standing Jewelry Box
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Fancy Decor: Serpentine Candlestick (silver & black) *new*
Fancy Decor: Plastic Side Table (pink)

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Hair Accessories (Pastel)

05.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Bra A
08.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Socks B

[ zerkalo ] Backstreet Hideout – Bra

* SORGO – Pain Killers

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine (Rez)
NOMAD // Bright Headed Mannequin A

The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bustle RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bodice – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Purple – MAITREYA(Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Train – Purple – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Headdress RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)

{-MK-} mannequin_Cloth (Black/1Li)

not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 3
not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 4

A N E Decor – Skull Vase Makeup (1Li) Pink

 

 

Posted in Animals, CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Jian, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, unKindness

Like Lovers Do

Hey Violet – Like Lovers Do

I see you watching me
Eyes on your target
Mix drinks and smoke rings
It’s already started
It won’t be too long before me and you
Are doing what lovers do
Clothes on the floor
We’re exploring our bodies
Getting you off is my new favorite hobby
Lipstick on your neck brands like a tattoo
Cause that just how lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
His and hers closets are perfect for skeletons
Hiding resentment and shared infedelities
Cheers to regret, wash it down with some booze
Drinking like lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
That’s how it goes
So take care like a grown-up
Life’s not a fairytale, it’s hard to own up
Hire a hitman to take care of you
And end it like lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
I see you watching me
Eyes on your target
Mix drinks and smoke rings,
It’s already started
Let’s roll the dice and we’ll both make our moves
Playing like lovers do

playroom

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Halona (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
_CandyDoll_ Paula Dress

pose: Foxcity Beach Bunny Set

scene:
:CP: Dove Rug (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Callot Cabinet (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Annular Clock (silver)
Fancy Decor: Stack of Books II (*new* @ Uber)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Catch All
Fancy Decor: Pinecone Candle (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Callot Mirror (*new* @ Uber)
Refuge – Spark Lamp Shimmer Silver Larger
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0
Dutchie mesh leather poof chocolat
:CP: Dove Book & Tea (*new* @ Uber)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Paper Pile
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Agenda RARE
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Snail Mail
:CP: Dove Bench (*new* @ Uber)
Ariskea[Sage] Succulent 2
Ariskea[Sage] Succulent 1
Kinky Cat Decoration (Black)
Qausi – Pleasure Box
Quasi – Kink Toy Shelf V.2
JIAN Wall-Mounted Betta Tank (*new* @ Uber)
uK – Pony Girl Rocker Wood (*new* @ Kinky)

Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

WTF?

The world is a strange place and Second Life is even stranger. I have yet to have one single day in SL that I didn’t at the very least ask myself, “WTF?!” It could be something crazy in my inventory and I’m questioning my sanity on the day I made that purchase. A lot of times I run into some pretty strange looking avatars and think it, as well. However, nothing makes me go, “WTF?!” more than how some people treat each other. I’m not talking about trolls and griefers. I’m talking about people that play with each other’s emotions. Or those people who genuinely think they are superior in a virtual world because of the clothes they wear or how their avatars look. I don’t personally understand a lot of the looks and lifestyles in SL, but one thing I will defend to the death is their right to enjoy the freedoms of consenting adults. With the mass diversity we have on the grid, I find it utterly disgusting at this time of year when someone says, “Happy Holidays” and is shot down for not saying, “Merry Christmas.” Or vice versa. Someone just wished me well…who cares why? I’m not a Christian, but if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I will wish them one back. Why? Because its their holiday and I’d love for them to enjoy it. So, everyone needs to chill out and wish each other well…not start world war 3 over politics and religion during what should be happy times. Afterall, WTF is wrong with wishing someone a little happiness?

wtf

wearing:
hair: #Foxy – Milena Hair (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype (*new* @ Uber)
[VALE KOER] MILENA WINDBREAKER (*new* @ Kustom9)
[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES

pose: Foxcity Formal Vol1 Set
Quasi – Joe’s Coffee Backdrop (*new* @ Hipster MEN’s)

Posted in Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Mina Hair, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, United Colors

Naughty Girl

I tried to avoid this topic, because Kess Crystal is a cunt! *laughs* When I wrote the blog, “Dangerous Proposition,” I knew that I was taking a big risk by promising to make a post about every topic or question posted on the blog, FB, or sent to me inworld. My darling, bestie Kess went dark and dirty on me. *shakes her head & laughs* Soooo, Kess said, “I would like you to talk about the 3 worst things you have done on Tequila!” I could write a post for each of them if I were to give a lot of details, but I’m not going to do that. I’m going to keep it short-ish.

  1. I was 19 and drank an entire bottle of tequila at a bonfire. I was there with a date, but it was a massive party and I left with some friends to go to another party. At the 2nd party, I apparently had a very long conversation with a tree. We finally make it back to the bonfire party. Everyone has left except my date and some of his friends. I was so drunk I couldn’t walk. I should probably mention that he had gotten a brand new car earlier that day. Yeah, I made a huge mess of his brand new car….inside and out. *hangs her head*
  2. Last year I was drinking tequila on skype with Kess and I’m pretty sure this is why she asked this damn question. I had turned on my camera to show HER my new black bra, but as I did her RL walked by…so he got a great shot of my tits in my new black bra. I’ve been told I was showing other people my bra later that night. I do not remember doing that.
  3. The last time I drank tequila, I was on skype with a handful of people. At one point I got very sick. I didn’t want them to hear me throwing up, but I didn’t have time to mute. I threw my cordless headset in the sink and in between hurling I would yell, “I’m ok!” and “I’m soo sorry.”

So, there ya have it. Tequila makes Sady a very naughty girl. Of course, I can get plenty naughty without alcohol, too. *winks at Josh*

playtime

Josh is wearing:
hair: Barber Shop / David
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: [SIGNATURE] Gianni – Mesh Body
::GB:: Black three-pieces / Stripe Vr.02
::GB::Bai color WT / Black

Josh sitting in Dutchie maledom chair 2.0

Sady is wearing:
hair:  MINA – Eden (*new* @ Kinky)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Merrylu” Nordic (*new* @ Uber)
tattoo: Oz Design : MoonWolf Tattoo
UC_I_dare_outfit (*new* @ Kinky)
Phedora ~Elvin the unicorn (*new* @ Kinky)

*~M`n B~* Handcuffs
[Fetch] Spanking Paddle – Cunt

Sady’s pose: Foxcity Balance Set

scene:
Paparazzi BACKDROP – The Room With A View (with raindrops)
Quasi – Playtime – Neon Sign (Red)
Quasi – Kink Toy Shelf
Qausi – Pleasure Box
David Heather-Kneel Table/Wood2
Plethora – Kink Tray (For Her)

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Phoenix, Rebel Hope, Second Life, shopping, unKindness

My Blogging Journey – #SecondLifeChallenge

I’m stepping up to do another Strawberry Singh challenge! Yep and this one is all about my blogging journey.

  1. How long have you been blogging about Second Life? I started once many years ago, but didn’t stick with it. I didn’t really know about Flickr and thought it was a good way to show off the awful pictures I was taking. I really thought they were good at the time. *laughs* I started my current blog in March 2016, so the answer would be a year and half…math is hard.
  2. Why did you start blogging? two years ago, I went through one of the hardest times in my life. I acted out and behaved recklessly. I watched my dear friend, Kess Crystal, who was also going through a lot. She was getting better and she had dove into her blog for therapeutic purposes. I had been taking much better pictures the previous year and decided that I would try blogging again. Perhaps it would therapeutic for me, too. It did and it continues to be a great outlet for my emotions and creativity.
  3. How many times a week/month do you post? More often than not, at least once a day. Sometimes twice a day. Once in a blue moon, I take one day off a week.
  4. Do you keep track of how many hits or subscribers you have? I did in the beginning. I was practically obsessed with it. I look about once a month now or after a blog that particularly special to me.
  5. Which electronic devices do you use to blog with? Just my PC. I can’t imagine doing it any other way.
  6. Do you monetize your blog? If so, do you mind sharing how much you make approximately? No, I don’t. However, because of my amazing sponsors I do manage to save a ton on shopping. So, in a way, I guess you could say I do, but I can’t really put a price tag on that.
  7. What has Second life blogging  taught you? Wow, it really has taught me so much, but to list everything…I’m not sure I could. I’ve learned the value of self marketing, good manners, being true to myself, better organization skills, and so very much more.
  8. Do you feel like Second Life blogging takes away from your real life? It can only take what I give. So, no, right now it enriches my life. It will always be up to me to maintain a balance between real life and Second Life.
  9. Do you have a mission statement for your blog, if so, what is it? Not really, if anything I have a mission statements for my life: I do what I want. My blog, my way.
  10. Share your top 3 tips for new bloggers/vloggers.
    a. 
    Do this because you love it, not for free stuff. They will know the difference.
    b. Don’t take rejection personally. It’s impossible to know why they like this blogger over that one. I didn’t fully understand that until I became a blog manager. I assure you, it is not personal.
    c.  Be true to yourself. Don’t blog for a store you don’t fully support. Your integrity is not worth free stuff. Remember why you started doing this in the first place.

my blogging journey

hair: :::Phoenix::: Siarra Hair Group Gift
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
EarthStones Eyeglasses – The Countess
!Rebel Hope – Rina Mesh Shirt Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose created using AnyPose

scene:
:HAIKEI: Old industrial skybox
Dead Dollz – Vacanze Romane – Suitcase
[ zerkalo ] Huge pile of books RARE
E-Clipse Desiderio Ankle Boots Black
:HAIKEI: where you’ve been /gacha {4}
uK – Toboggan Shelf Set
uK – Autumn Books and Deco
uK – Autumn Golden Eggs Nested
uK – Autumn Glass Vase
*YS&YS* Wardrobe Shelf 05
uK – Lady Boss Conference Runner (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Lady Boss Conference Pouffe Pink (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Lady Boss Conference Pouffe Silver (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Lady Boss Conference Short (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uk – Lady Boss Conference Laptop (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Lady Boss Conference Hanging Lights (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Nude Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Smokey Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Colors Palette
28.erratic / cwe – stack of books 1
MINIMAL – Memories Gacha Notebooks *3*
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
tres blah– Jolie – Makeup Organizer
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box
uK – Lady Boss Conference Geo Planters (*new* @ FaMESHed)
{A} Annabel Lee Books Pile
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Morning Start
tb– Vanity – Nail Polishes
tb– Vanity – Platter of Treasures
tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
tres blah– Jolie – Vintage Bottle
Second Spaces – Makeup Junkie – eyes
tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Makeup Bag
Zaara [home] : 12 Attar perfume bottles
tb– Vanity – Brushes
Quasi – Standing Jewelry Box
[ zerkalo ] Black & White – Hair Care
Second Spaces – Makeup Junkie – palettes
+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Hair Accessories (Pastel)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – What’s in My Bag RARE
Glam-Jewelry box by BAZAR

Posted in Cynful, E.A.Studio, Fashion, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Love Me

How could this be anything but a music post? The minute I saw this gorgeous Neveah jumpsuit from Cynful I knew exactly how I wanted to photograph it. It screams “love me” doesn’t it? This led me to an earworm….so here you go…link & lyrics…details below the picture. Have a good one♥

Lovepool by The Cardigans

Dear, I fear we’re facing a problem
You love me no longer, I know
And maybe there is nothing that I can do
To make you do
Mama tells me I shouldn’t bother
That I ought to stick to another man
A man that surely deserves me
But I think you do!
So I cry, I pray and I beg
Love me love me
Say that you love me
Fool me fool me
Go on and fool me
Love me love me
Pretend that you love me
Leave me leave me
Just say that you need me
So I cry, and I beg for you to
Love me love me
Say that you love me
Leave me leave me
Just say that you need me
I can’t care ’bout anything but you
Lately I have desperately pondered,
Spent my nights awake and I wonder
What I could have done in another way
To make you stay
Reason will not lead to solution
I will end up lost in confusion
I don’t care if you really care
As long as you don’t go

love me

wearing:
hair: .LeLutka.HF03 hair
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

Astralia – Wisdom angel bracelets Black
.:E.A.Studio:. BOX Moray Nails -Gloves-Ring Set

[Cynful] Neveah Jumpsuit
KC– IMPERO BOOTS

pose by Foxcity (edited with Anypose)
scene:
Pseudo– Movie theather Scene
Quasi – Love Me Neon Sign

Posted in Cynful, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, ON9, Second Life, shopping

Make Up My Own

I miss having a vanity. I had them in every home for many years…then along came computers and I’ve rarely had room for both. So, the makeup found its way to the bathroom, crammed onto a shelf with all sorts of other things. Curling irons, blow dryers, hair brushes, and accessories found their way into a basket under the sink. While, I know this set from Fancy Decor was not necessarily intended to be a vanity, much like real life, I love creating something of my own with the creations of others. Even my desk in real life is actually a red wicked sided garden table. I love it so much and I found it at a thrift store for a steal of a price! So, that’s me…I make up my own things by using various items I find along the way as inspiration!

fixin to

wearing:
hairTRUTH HAIR AveryElena (April VIP gift)
head: CATWA HEAD Kathy
dimples: Izzie’s – Catwa Dimples Hud
lipstick: [PF] CATWA LIPSTICK Applier – Glossy Pout
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [IB-LAKSHMI]Rita-CATWA Mesh Head Applier Skin(*new* @ON9)
tattoo: .::Nanika::.Olga tattoo Black (*new* @ON9)

*AGATA* Angela tanktop (*new* @ON9)
*AGATA* Angela belt bra (*new* @ON9)
[Cynful] Bombshell Pants

pose: FOXCITY. Hair Days Bento Set (*new* @ON9)
scene:
Fancy Decor: Arrow Rug
!! Follow US !! Vintage beauty bucket
Fancy Decor: Lacquer Table (*new* @ Black Fair)
tres blah– Jolie – Makeup Organizer
Fancy Decor: Floor Lamp (glass & gold) (*new* @ Black Fair)
Fancy Decor: Circle Mirror (gold) (*new* @ Black Fair)
Fancy Decor: Luxe Console (black)
+Half-Deer+ Cutie Curling Iron – Silver
+Half-Deer+ Cutie Flat Iron – Silver
-tb- Vanity – Platter of Treasures
Fancy Decor: Wire Crystal Candle
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Makeup Bag
Quasi – Makeup Addict Clutter
-tb- Vanity – Brushes
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box
NOMAD // Allergy Medicine (Rez)
Fancy Decor: Take Heart Frame
Fancy Decor: Leather Bench (gold) (*new* @ Black Fair)
:HAIKEI: where you’ve been /gacha {3}
AF Worn Luggage Bag
Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White
Fancy Decor: Black and White Pillow
Fancy Decor: White and Black Pillow