Posted in Collabor88, Dahlia, Death Row Designs, Second Life

You’ve Changed

My friend, Sassy Nitely, posted this as a status on Facebook:

I think it’s funny when people say “you’ve changed”. Isn’t that the point, though? To grow and evolve? We’re not meant to stay the same. Sure, we can stay the same at the core – but our opinions, the stuff we will/won’t put up with, relationships, etc. They all change as we age. When someone says “you’ve changed” just thank them for noticing. There’s nothing wrong with evolving. 

This really made me think and I was grateful that it did. She’s absolutely right. I’ve always hated when people say that people don’t change, because we do. We all do. You can often mark those changes with the various milestones in your life. Everything that happens to us changes us just a little bit. How could you not? I definitely think this is a topic I will be revisiting in the future.

my mudhoney bedroom

Ariskea[Blush] Chair Pillow [Sweety Bloom]

Dahlia – Ariana – Jewelry Display – Pink
Dahlia – Ariana – Mirror – Silver
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Vintage Clock – Silver 04.

DRD – Rustic Bathroom – Sink

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large

MudHoney Elara Bed @ Collabor88
-MH Elara Mirror
-MH Elara Dresser
-MH Elara Nightstand
-MH Elara Bed Adult
-MH Elara Bed Drapes

MudHoney Liza Heels – Nude
MudHoney Liza Heels – Black
MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box
MudHoney Liza Bra
MudHoney Liza Panties
MudHoney Liza Painting   **retextured by me**
MudHoney Paxton Succulents
MudHoney Briley Chair – White
MudHoney Heidi Journals
MudHoney Heidi Laptop
MudHoney Jackie Rug

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine

Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Serenity Style– Glasbury Wall Lamp

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Jolie – Lotions
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand

{what next} Isabelle Cosmetics Decor
{what next} House Plant – Rubber Tree (stand)

Butter Woman Bust White Wood

Posted in Catwa, crate, Death Row Designs, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Jian, Kustom9, Lamb, Lybra, Maitreya, Prism Events, Quasi, Salem, Second Life, shopping, ULTRA

Guarantees in Life

There are few guarantees in life, but one thing is for sure. You will get hurt. You will find yourself in some of the darkest places imaginable right in your own head. You will eventually die. And no matter who you are if you have tits bigger than a B cup and you sleep in a tank top, you will wake up with one tit out. It never fails.

waking the dead

wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Meow
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
eyes & shadow: [ Conviction ] Living Dead Doll
face & partial body applier: S.E CATWA + OMEGA RIDE OF THE DEAD MASK APPLY 01 (*new* @ Kustom9) ***includes Diamonds and black crown attachment-not shown

LYBRA . XL STILETTO NAILS
: CULT : Dark Side Rings

*Vanilla Bae* Holly Shirt & Cardi: (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES
**UTOPIA@Design** – “XILA” (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty Bento Pose Set

scene:
JIAN Spoiled Rotties 12. Skeleton Pup Companion (*new* @ Epiphany)

Quasi – Dripping with Sin – 3D Painting

crate Travelor’s Trolley (*new* @ Blueprint)

Rounded Bed (Adult) CHEZ MOI (*new* @ ULTRA)

[La Baguette] Voodoo doll (deco) (*new* @ Salem)
:::ChicaChica::: Holy blood Cocktail tray REZZ (*new* @ Salem)

drd phantom broken mirror

Fapple– Always Prepared- Side Table
Fapple– BDSM Tool Box

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – black

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Quasi, Reign, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative, unKindness

Let the Stories Unfold

“A room should never allow the eye to settle in one place. It should smile at you and create fantasy,” – Juan Montoya.

In honor of the quote and all the designers that have pieces in this setting, I leave you to explore, as there are many stories to be told, if you simply open your mind and let the stories unfold.

classic

Fancy Decor: Faline set (*new* @ C88)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Sofa – Tapestry
-Fancy Decor: Faline Wall Panel (gold)
-Fancy Decor: Faline End Table (gold & white)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Handled Bowl
-Fancy Decor: Faline Coffee Table (gold & white)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Candlestick
-Fancy Decor: Faline Armchair – Tapestry

Fancy Decor: Bonham Rug

16 Fancy Decor: Van Gogh Sketch

Quasi – Lovers 3D Art Piece

uK – Gothic Mannequin (B) (*neew* @ TFC)

Mutresse-Shortie Cats (*new* @ Arcade)

Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroon Box (*new* @ AuLovely)
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroons – Set 2 D
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Metal Serving Tray – Gold

Dahlia – Concetta – RoseTea Tin – White (*new* @ TLC)
Dahlia – Concetta – Closed – Tea Tin – Gold

Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag – RARE .01
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Sunglasses & Candy .04
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Lipstick, mascara & Cream .05
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Perfume & Lipgloss .06
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Compacts & Foundation .07

Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Blue
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Red

Dahlia – Mayza – Clutch

REIGN.- PLANNER- GIRL BOSS (DECOR)- #17

Can’t Even — Golden Vase with Twigs

tres blah– Jolie – Golden Hand
-tb- Bon Voyage – Books
-tres blah- Pampered – Bouquet
-tres blah- Jolie – Train Case

Apt B // Hello Billy – Hatboxes

[ zerkalo ] Hidden Gems – Square Box

Scarlet Creative The Arcade Sep 15 – Greenwich Telephone

8f8 – Mange Destin 06 – Rich chocolate truffles

BUENO-Wallet-Cream

DIGS – Hand-Rolled Smoking Decor

*YS&YS* Holborn Hanging Ivy

[Schultz Bros.] 13. Chandelier

hive // macrame hanging plant . white

15.erratic / coc – dragonfly jar

PILOT – Hanging Planter [White]

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – gold

Posted in Apple Fall, Bueno, CandyDoll, Catwa, Collabor88, crate, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Quasi, Second Life, unKindness, Vanity Event, {le fil casse}

Lost on You

If you’ve never heard of LP, I heard you to check out more of her work. This song captures so much of how I’m feeling these days….

LP ~ Lost on You

When you get older, plainer, saner
When you remember all the danger we came from
Burning like embers, falling, tender
Long before the days of no surrender
Years ago and well you know
Smoke ’em if you got ’em
‘Cause it’s going down
All I ever wanted was you
I’ll never get to heaven
‘Cause I don’t know how
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you could cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Baby, is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Wishing I could see the machinations
Understand the toil of expectations in your mind
Hold me like you never lost your patience
Tell me that you love me more than hate me all the time
And you’re still mine
So smoke ’em if you’ve got ’em
‘Cause it’s going down
All I ever wanted was you
Let’s take a drink of heaven
This can turn around
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you could cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh, oh oh
Bab, is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you cold cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Lost on You
wearing:
hair:  [RA] Mia Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Raquel Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ C88)
[bade] – Nerd glasses BLACK
Mowie. – “Oda” Choker (*new* @ Vanity Event)
**RE** Dragon Rings, Bracelets & Claws BG  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
{le fil casse} Lindsey Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)
_CandyDoll_ Ayaka Boots (*new* @ Notice me, senpai)
pose: FOXCITY. Melancholy Bento Pose Set
scene:
BUENO-Studio Skybox- Natural (*new* @ The Seasons Story)
crate Galvanized Chair (*new*)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
uK – Malibu Entry Basket Stack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Malibu Entry Bookstack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Second Spaces – sick day pills, cough syrup
MINIMAL – Memories Gacha Notebooks *3*
Kalopsia – Caramel Ice Cream
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE
:CP: Boho Glamping Pillow A
AF Heart of Polaroids
NOMAD // Amore Loveletters
[Black Bantam] Kitten In My Glass Decor (*new* @ Vanity Event)
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box
Fancy Decor: Watson Collection Fatpack (*new* @ C88)
-Fancy Decor: Watson Stacked Boxes
-Fancy Decor: Watson Sconce
-Fancy Decor: Watson Potted Orchid
-Fancy Decor: Watson Side Table
-Fancy Decor: Watson Poster Bed (adult)
-Fancy Decor: Watson Stack of Books
-Fancy Decor: Watson Owl Prints
-Fancy Decor: Watson Rug
Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Captive Little Mermaid

So, my warped little mind got to thinking about what would happen if mermaids were real. First of all, you know some rich prick would find a way to catch a few and have them in his private house sized aquarium. Then I thought about how there’s this fossil out there that suggests there really was a creature like a mermaid, but it was much smaller. Naturally, if there smaller or similar in size to tropical fish, they’d be heavily coveted for personal aquariums. And that is what led me to doing this photo. I know its a bit out there, but I kinda dig it. Hope you do, too.

mermaid

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Wispers in the wind
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)
LYBRA . MAGIC SUMMER TEMPEST (*new* @ Uber)

pose: Quasi – Mermaid Blogger Pack (*new* @ Uber)

scene:
JIAN Longfin Tetra Aquarium
JIAN Longfin Tetra Swimmers

Quasi – Mermaid Blogger Pack: (*new* @ Uber)
-Quasi – Mermaid’s Hideaway Ruins
-Quasi – Mermaid’s Hideaway Seaweed Left
-Quasi – Mermaid’s Hideaway Anchor
-Quasi – Mermaid’s Hideaway Rock
-Quasi – Mermaid’s Hideaway Seaweed Right

dust bunny . pilea peper plant

Posted in Bad Unicorn, CandyDoll, Events, FaMESHed, Gingerfish Poses, Jian, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Quasi, Second Life, TMD

Dear Bloggers…pt 2

Dear Bloggers,

Please stop treating what we do as a competition. It’s not a sport. There’s room for everyone.
Stop stabbing other bloggers in the back or trying to throw them under the bus. It rarely works out the way you hope it does and in the end, karma finds it’s way back to you.
Remember that none of us are perfect. Learn to forgive one another for misunderstandings and work together as a community.
Don’t bad mouth each other in front of their best friends.
Remember who helped you when you first started, know that as much as you run your mouths, so do the people you run and talk to.
Don’t bash a brand or even hint at bashing a brand in a public forum. You’re only making yourself look bad and you’re burning more than one bridge when you do that.
Stop taking everything so personally. The world doesn’t revolve around you.
Don’t be afraid to try new things.
There’s no need to suck up to designers and lie to them about the people that work for them. Designers are not idiots and you can damn well bet they know what they’re doing and who is who on their teams.
Accept feedback for what it is, constructive criticism, remember that it’s not your brand.
And last but not least, if YOU think this post is aimed at you….well, you might want to think about why you think that and just for the record, this isn’t actually aimed at one person specifically. This is just a list of what I thought was common sense behaviors, but apparently isn’t. Not sure why I bother doing these little schpeils, but I suppose I hope its going to make a difference. *shrugs* If you found anything useful, take it and use it. If not, leave it here and forget it. I really just want people to stop wasting their precious time on hate and negativity. So…happy shopping…happy blogging…happy living. ❤

Iconic

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Sigrid (*new* @ FaMESHed)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER

_CandyDoll_ Selina Jump (*new* @ C88)
_CandyDoll_ Selina Heels (*new* @ C88)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Kiss My Sass stand (*new* @ eBento)

scene:
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Snoozing Chair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 05 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 19 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Poster (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Bed (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rock Star Sign (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 08 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 13 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Smokers Stool ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Leaning Lamp ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Guitar (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Night Stand (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha RARE (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 14 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Un-Starry Night ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 15 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 07 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 04 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Dresser (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 02 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 11 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Railed Grail ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Rug *FATPACK EXLCUSIVE* (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rug (*new* @ 6Republic)

Posted in Animals, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Maitreya, Quasi, Second Life

Posting on Sundays

So, Grace has stated that whenever she post photos on Sundays they don’t tend to do that well on Flickr. I wonder if that’s true or if perhaps its the photos she’s choosing for Sundays. In order to prove my point, I figured two naked girls is bound to get some favs and definitely some views. *giggles* We’ll just post it and see if this does the trick, if not, then Grace wins the bet. What did we bet? Oh, that’s for us to know and you to watch our blogs for….*grins*

getting ready

Grace is wearing:
hair: #Besom~ Moonlight (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] – Monique

Sady is wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Risretto (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

pose: FOXCITY. Lip Service

scene:
Quasi – Worship
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Collection :: Companion (*new* @ FaMESHed)

 

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Narcisse, Phedora, Phoenix, Pose Fair, Quasi, Second Life

Kindergarten Tired

I use the term kindergarten tired all the time, but most people don’t always know what I mean. Think back to when you were like 4 or 5 yrs old. As if we were trained at birth, we did not want to go to sleep. We wanted to say up as late as the grown ups! There’s a story my mother loves to tell about me when I was in kindergarten and that’s where I coined the term. My bedtime was at like 7pm. Around 5pm, I started asking if it was “sebin otock” yet. I asked the question so many times that they asked me if I was tired. Of course, I denied being tired. Bedtimes are for babies, afterall. By 6pm, my parents were done and decided to lie, “Yes, its seven o’clock, you better get to bed.” I was so tired I cried as my mom made me wait until I had pajamas on.

kinder tired

wearing:
hair: :::Phoenix::: Brittany Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Narcisse– Dahlia Bra & Panties (*new* @ Blush)
Narcisse– Dahlia Pelerine & Garter (*new* @ Blush)
Phedora ~ Sisley boots (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: double take: down and out 4 set (*new* @ Pose Fair)

Quasi – Risque Bed
anxiety %generation skybox

Posted in Avenge, Pale Girl Productions, Quasi, Second Life, shopping, Skin Fair, Tres Chic

Do You Know Me?

Keeping this one short and sweet…leaning on a song & lyrics. It’s a message and if you don’t get it, then it wasn’t meant for you. I just want to know if you’re really reading. *winks*

John Mayer – Do You Know Me?

It’s just the strangest thing
I’ve seen your face somewhere
An early evening dream,
A past life love affair
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
In all my reverie
I thought I felt us there
A feather in my hand,
A flower in your hair
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?

do you know me

wearing:
hair: DOUX – Coco hairstyle (*new* @ TresChic)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Avenge] Heather skin applier for Catwa – pale

lashes: [POUT!] Pretty Lashes – CATWA applier
eyes: –SU!- [HUD] Isolabella Eyes
eyeshadow: –SU!- Monochrome Eyeshadow +CATWA APPLIER+
lipstick: –SU!- Leandra Lipstick 02 +CATWA APPLIER+

CURELESS [+] Sterile Face Bandages
[Atomic] Kitten Collar
**RE** Kitty Pearls Necklace
Birdy – Backstage – Lace – Lara – White

Quasi – 6 Ulysses Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)
Quasi – 9 Sparta Motherfucker Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)

Posted in Catwa, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, N21, Quasi, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Selfies

I’m often quite grateful that smartphones were not a thing when I was a teenager or in my 20s. As stupid as I was in my 20s, LAWD, I can’t even think about too much without blushing. Selfies became such a big deal, they had to introduce the word into the dictionary. The best selfies will always be the ones where we’re drunk, feeling good, and thinking we’re cute when we’re actually a hot damn mess. I personally take very few selfies. I prefer to take pictures of things I find interesting or beautiful.

prom night

wearing:
hair: #2{Limerence} Astarta hair (*new* @ LootBox)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
Izzie’s – Insomnia (Catwa Applier)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Bauhaus Movement – Delicate Headband&Earrings (*new* @ The Clique)
Bauhaus Movement – Delicate Necklace (*new* @ The Clique)
(Yummy) Minimalist Rings – Maitreya (*new* @N21)
[Cynful] City Life Set – Top + Skirt (*new* @ Uber)
tarte. flask (mustache) RARE

pose: FUSSY x FOXCITY. Selfie Set comes with phone

ninety – antisocial [ backdrop ] + resize
Quasi – 8. Carless Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)