Posted in Bad Unicorn, breathe, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Narcisse, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

Amy Lee cover of Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

You ever love someone so much you thought your little heart was gonna break in two?
I didn’t think so.
You ever tried with all your heart and soul to get you lover back to you?
I wanna hope so.
You ever pray with all your heart and soul just to watch him walk away?
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
I feel like crying, feel like crying!
You ever toss and turn your lying awake and thinking about the one you love?
I don’t think so.
You ever close your eyes your making believe your holding the one your dreaming of?
Well if you say so.
I hurts so bad when you finally know just how low, low, low, low, low, he’ll go.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
And I feel like crying, I feel like crying!
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing.
And I feel like crying, I feel like crying!

Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

hair:  :::Phoenix::: Maisie Hair (*new*)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Raquel Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ C88)

Dahlia – Blair – Sunglasses
Narcisse– Insouciant Collar
[Cynful] Coax Bellychain
[Cynful] Loquita’s Sequin Bikini (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[BREATHE]-Saori Heels (*new* @ C88)

pose: FOXCITY. Beach Bunny Bento Set

Trompe Loeil – Corazon Patio Bar (*new* @ FaMESHed)
tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Charmed Books
[Bad Unicorn] Coke Tray ‘Sheen Set’ (*new*)
[Bad Unicorn] Rolled Bill ‘Sheen Set’ (*new*)

Posted in Catwa, Culprit, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Gingerfish Poses, Maitreya, Phoenix, Pose Fair, Second Life

Being a Weirdo

I’m not sure what normal is anymore. I suppose its whatever your local society reflects as the norm. For instance, people that live near the beach probably wear swimsuits under the clothes during the summer quite regularly, assuming they like the beach. I just think it wouldn’t be abnormal to see people in swimwear at Dunkin Donuts when you’re grabbing your morning coffee. Yet, that would be kinda weird where I live, as there are no beaches here. Though, the Tennessee River is rather close, I imagine you might see swimwear near the marinas. My point is that normal is just a reflection of the majority of society, right?
In Boston, for instance, you can throw a rock from just about anywhere and hit a Dunkin Donuts. In Seattle, its a coffee house or Starbucks. Where I live, its a church. There are more churches here than convenient stores. So, being an atheist here is considered quite abnormal. I swear, I’m gonna start charging people $20 for every time they try to “save me” from eternal damnation.
The same can be true about the way people judge one another’s homes. For instance, I know a woman who most people would find completely and utterly tacky simply for the way she has decorated her home. She had essentially collaged anything she could with pictures of 80’s hair bands. She obsessed with KISS and her entire bedroom makes that very clear. So, when I saw these Prrrandas from Culprit, I could not help but to remember hanging out with her. She would get so excited every time she was able to add something new to her collection.
I’ve always admired her, because she has never given a thought to how others perceive her. She wanted a few simple things from her life and she got them. She’s happy, too. She’s not rich, but she owns a house and her favorite car, a Ford Mustang. Her house is filled with things SHE loves and that have special meanings to her. She has raised a very cool teenage boy on her own. She’s a 911 dispatcher (or was) and she is just wicked cool. I pride myself on being weird and I like to think she does, too. We should all stop trying to please the world and be true to ourselves for a change. If we all did that, what other people say and think about us, wouldn’t hold much power at all, would it?

Being a Weirdo

hair:  :::Phoenix::: Brooke
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – 4 -POINT INDUSTRIAL
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)
**RE** Dragon Rings, Bracelets & Claws BG (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Legal Insanity – MILF shirt #1 RARE
Legal Insanity – MILF panties #2 Fatpack RARE
Legal Insanity – MILF boots #3 Fatpack (Maitreya Lara) RARE

pose: GingerFish Pose – Midnight set (*new* @ Pose Fair)

-Culprit Prrranda Eric
-Culprit Prrranda Gene
-Culprit Prrranda Paul
-Culprit Prrranda Norman
-Culprit Prrranda Tommy

.peaches. Bae’s Journal – Lover

FD & Commoner: Slater Collection (*new* @ Uber)
-FD & Commoner: Slater Rug
-FD & Commoner: Slater Surfboard
-FD & Commoner: Slater Chaise – plain
-FD & Commoner: Slater Wall Art
-FD & Commoner: Slater Magazines
-FD & Commoner: Slater Pendant Light
-FD & Commoner: Slater Tray
-FD & Commoner: Slater Candle
-FD & Commoner: Slater Incense
-FD & Commoner: Slater Accent Tables

Posted in Catwa, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, Vanity Event

Have Some Fun

I’m certainly not going to get into the details, cuz meh. However, first thing this morning, before I’ve even finished my coffee I get a call on Skype about this guy and that guy. He said and he said and he said. UGH! As I’m writing this, I’m still on my first cup of coffee and have the sound of reason in my ear. I simply can’t take another minute of all the crap that I’ve somehow found myself pulled into, simply by listening to a friend. So, it seems there are a lot of shady people on the grid (big surprise, I know) and some of them make multiple alts just to mess with people’s heads. To which I say, steer clear. If you suspect someone is playing you on an alt, my advice is to walk away. You already don’t trust that person, so why bother? I have no desire to dig for the truth. I have no desire to waste my precious time on any of it. The minute I stop trusting people even on the smallest level, is the minute my walls go up and every conversation will turn dry and I will slowly but surely but a great deal of distance between us. Believe it or not, I do try not to be terribly rude, but there’s always the off chance that I’m wrong…it has happened a few times…lol.
It’s Friday, ffs, we should be getting ready for the weekend and to have some fun. Which is exactly what I plan to do. As much as possible anyway, I’ve got a lot on my plate and there’s no room for stupid shit. Bring on the silliness, bring on the dancing, bring on the music, bring on the sexy avatars…and on that note, since I took this picture after FMD’s theme party last Saturday, I’ll mention that I’m hosting there tonight with DJ Davish from 6-8pm slt. Yes, I did just shamelessly plug my shift. LOL. Remember its open to the public on weekends, that includes today…so c’mon over and check it out. In the meantime, happy shopping, cuz there’s a lot of amazing events going on right now and no shortage of amazing finds!

pool party

hair: :::Phoenix::: Brooke (*new* @ FaMESHed)
hairbase: Just Magnetized – Special Hairbase set 05 for CATWA
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
The Face ~ Catwa – Cookie ~ Eyeshadow palette (LIMITED PACK) (*new* @ Vanity)
The Face ~ Catwa – Cookie ~ Lipstick palette (LIMITED PACK (*new* @ Vanity)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Viktoria Applier
tattoo: DAPPA – Devour Tattoo. (*new* @ Vanity)

.fashionism. – Maya Fringe Earrings (*new* @ Vanity)
rings: (Yummy) Leave A Mark Set

-:zk:- Sunny Bikini FATPACK (*new* @ Vanity)

pose: <K&S> Heavenly pleasure. Bento poses (*new* @ Vanity)
location: FMD Pool Party Area from Saturday Night Themed Party

Posted in Second Life

I Can’t Help But Wonder…

I’m pretty sure most of us have heard or possibly even said something along the lines of dying happy if we died during sex. However, given that these days lots of people do voice sex, not just in SL, but all sorts of long distant relationships, right? I can’t speak for everyone, but I’ve had some damn good sex that way. Well, if you know me, you know where this is going…*laughs*
I cannot help but wonder if someone was to have a heart attack and die while having voice sex, particularly with someone in SL that has no clue of their actual location or address. AND what if said person, now dead person, lives alone?? Cuz this is something I joke about, too. I joke about being the old lady they find after the neighbors complain about the smell coming from my condo, they come in and find my animals eating my face. So, combine that scenario with HOW I might die…so yeah, let’s say it’s me. I die all happy during voice sex, but my body isn’t discovered for days or weeks, but when it is…there I am, some old wrinkled half rotted body lying there clutching my toys. Can you imagine the horror of the people who find me? Can you just imagine the stories they will tell their friends and laugh about for years to come? I’d be okay with that. Knowing that long after I’m dead, I’m still making people laugh. Well, if you couldn’t imagine it before, you have now. You’re welcome. *giggles & prances off*

sexy princess

hair:  :::Phoenix::: Aimy Hair  (May FaMESHed Go)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Viktoria Applier
**Sexy Princess** Sweetest Sin Bodysuit Black (Includes shoes)
.:Avanti:. Classique Nylons – Black

pose by Bauhaus Movement (edited with AnyPose)
SAYO – Century Sofa – Straight Banquette

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping, [BREATHE]

Love is Free

I don’t know about you, but I get real tired of all the hate that people sling around as if its okay. I’m fortunate enough not to take someone else’s misery personally, even when it is literally aimed at me. Here’s the thing though, I worry about the haters sometimes, because that sort of toxicity is so bad for them. It must eat them alive to be so filled with hatred for other people. For me, they are like dirt, I just wash it off and occasionally get mesmerized by the patterns made as it circles it’s way down the drain. Hate costs. It costs the hater more than the hated, but love is free. I can’t afford to waste my energy on hate, so I’ll be over here where the love is free, because this is where my spirit is free.

Sheryl Crow – Love Is Free

One, two, three!
Hey, hey!
She got a shack
Floating down the Pontchartrain
With the water rolling in
We gotta swim
Before the levees start to crack
Another day
Another dollar down the drain
You go to town
No one’s around
‘Cause if you drown
There ain’t no hope for coming back
It ain’t no big thing if you lose your faith
They kinda like to keep you in your place
You never know what might be coming your way
Oh everybody
Devil take your money
Money’s got no hold on me
Oh oh everybody’s making love
‘Cause love is free
You go to church
And pray to God for no more rain
A Cadillac
A paper sack
Well hey there Jack
You want some bourbon for the pain
Hey tambourine
Ain’t no rhythm on the street
With the voodoo
What do you do
When the radio just plays on anyway?
Those crazy fingers in your jelly jar
They’ll jack your money
While you sleep in you car
They got the karma
They ain’t getting too far
Oh everybody
Devil take your money
Money’s got no hold on me
Oh oh everybody’s making love
‘Cause love is free
Everybody come together
(Love is free)
Everybody come together
(Love is free)
Everybody come together
(Love is free)
Everybody come together
Oh everybody
Devil take your money
Money’s got no hold on me
Oh oh everybody’s making love
‘Cause love is free
Oh everybody
Devil take your money
Money’s got no hold on me
Oh oh everybody’s making love
‘Cause love is free
Love is free
Love is free.

love is free

hair: :::Phoenix::: Aimy Hair (May FaMESHed Go)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
BUENO-Drea Dress (*new* @ C88)
[BREATHE]-Akio Heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: an lar [poses] The Altered Series (*new* @ ROMP)
*PROMAGIC* Vivo BAckgrounds-5

Posted in Avenge, Bloom, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Phoenix, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

Exactly What I Need

This has been an absolutely insane week. Last weekend was bad enough, but it only led to a week full of disappointments. People never cease to amaze me. It almost seems as if the people I really want to believe in, people I once looked up to…are the ones that have let me down the most. I saw a meme earlier this week that read something like, “A this point, I’m more surprised by the people that stay than I am by the people that leave.” At least that was the general idea, might not be the exact words, but close enough. These days, I’m more surprised by the people that don’t try to stir up shit. Those are hard to find and its why I rarely leave my platform anymore.
I’ve got a few good friends, both male and female and that’s exactly what I need.

You look like therapy
Exactly what I need
You are the darkness for me to light, yeah
The perfect remedy
To heal what’s hurting me
Come be the therapy for me
And me for you, tonight

hair:  :::Phoenix::: Rebecca Hair (*new* @ Bloom)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
neve top – recycled biker (*new* @ Uber)
neve short – shameless plaid (*new* @ Uber)
[BREATHE]-Foxy Heels (*new* @ Uber)
FOXCITY. SkinFX – Volume I (*new* in mainstore)

pose: . Infiniti . – Darling set

[Avenge] Black/White backdrop (*new* @ Limit8)
NOMAD // Tufted Chair

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Collabor88, Cosmopolitan, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Phoenix, Pose Fair, Second Life, shopping

We Can Be Friends

I hear it all the time, “Men and women can’t truly be friends.” I know better. Okay, perhaps it’s true that one or both of them think about or have thought about sleeping with the other. Hell, maybe they even did once or twice, but if a friendship is what developed between them and there’s no real romantic connection, there’s absolutely no reason they can’t be friends. Unless one of you is a stalker or a rapist, of course. I have plenty of guy friends in SL, most of whom I have NOT slept with and never will. There’s never been an issue with sexual tension or anything of the sort. So, don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t be just friends with the opposite sex or whatever your sexual preference might be. It’s simply a matter of establishing boundaries and mutual respect.

AyRon &amp; Sady

Aaron is wearing:
Hair: Stealthic – Haunting
Head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Ears: Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
Body: [Signature] Gianni Body – Body
::GB::Stadium jacket
::GB:: Jacket in tank
::GB::Body bag
::GB::Stadium Pants

Sady is wearing:
hair: :::Phoenix::: Roxie Hair (*new* @ Black Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Darkness Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica
(Yummy) Layered Chain Choker – Gold
(Yummy) Leave A Mark Set (*new* @ C88)
TETRA – Kimmy off-shoulder sweatshirt (*new* @ C88)
ChicModa / Varsity Sweats (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)

pose: FOXCITY. Besties (*new* @ (*new* @ Pose Fair)
MI Ground One Background Blue



Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Narcisse, Phedora, Phoenix, Pose Fair, Quasi, Second Life

Kindergarten Tired

I use the term kindergarten tired all the time, but most people don’t always know what I mean. Think back to when you were like 4 or 5 yrs old. As if we were trained at birth, we did not want to go to sleep. We wanted to say up as late as the grown ups! There’s a story my mother loves to tell about me when I was in kindergarten and that’s where I coined the term. My bedtime was at like 7pm. Around 5pm, I started asking if it was “sebin otock” yet. I asked the question so many times that they asked me if I was tired. Of course, I denied being tired. Bedtimes are for babies, afterall. By 6pm, my parents were done and decided to lie, “Yes, its seven o’clock, you better get to bed.” I was so tired I cried as my mom made me wait until I had pajamas on.

kinder tired

hair: :::Phoenix::: Brittany Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Narcisse– Dahlia Bra & Panties (*new* @ Blush)
Narcisse– Dahlia Pelerine & Garter (*new* @ Blush)
Phedora ~ Sisley boots (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: double take: down and out 4 set (*new* @ Pose Fair)

Quasi – Risque Bed
anxiety %generation skybox

Posted in Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Phedora, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Please, Do Not Disturb

There’s a certain irony involved with a do not disturb message. Oddly enough, isn’t that usually when we want to? Just for kicks? Oh, that’s just me? Oh, c’mon….well…this is what happens when I wake and bake. I slide down walls and wonder about strange shit. My life is seriously bizarre right now. I can’t even begin to explain some of the decisions I’m making. I’m not sure if I’m set to self-destruct or being adventurous. I guess time will tell.

please do not disturb

hair: :::Phoenix::: Alice *NEW*
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
[Cynful] Candela’s Necklace
[Cynful] Antheia Romper (*new* @ C88)
Phedora ~ Ancora Sandals

pose: FOXCITY. Leaning (Stand) VOL2 (*new* @ Kustom9)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Meet You There (*new* @ Kustom9)

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Collabor88, Events, Exploration, Foxcity, Lybra, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, [ATI] Addicted to Ink

Super Useful Info

So, from time to time, I see people on Facebook and Flickr asking a pretty consistent set of questions. If I was establishing some sort of customer service or website, I suppose I’d say FAQs. Yeah, that’s actually pretty accurate, because that’s exactly what they are: frequently asked questions. First let me say, I do not believe in anyway that I’m truly providing new information to anyone that even reads my blog. However, I thought that since I keep seeing these same questions…and I just so happen to know some answers, that perhaps I could give one page to find them all quickly and simply. *laughs* You see, I’ve got a lot of information floating around in this crazy head of mine and even I can’t remember shit without asking. I could blame age or drugs, but less face it…we’re all human. So, I’m just gonna jump right in. You can click directly on the logos to go the pages listed.

Wondering what events are going on right now that you might not know about?
Go to Seraphim. That is also your goto page for some of the biggest and most popular monthly events like FaMESHed, UBER, Collabor88, Shiny Shabby, Kustom9, N21, Cosmo, ON9….you get the point. There are tons of events going on at all times. You’d actually be surprised at what you might find at some of the smaller, more obscure events. I’m not going to give examples of those. LOL. The bigger the event, the easier they are to find, but Seraphim covers a ton of stuff. Explore the site sometime. It might surprise you, plus its fun to see what the quotes at the top of the pages will change to. *grins*
So…. Seraphim …goto for shopping events.

Do you miss shopping at the mainstores? Sick of the lag or battle to get into a big event, but you really want to shop? Don’t care for the latest theme at your favorite event? Wish there was a way to know which stores are having sales, new group gifts, and/or new releases in the store? Go to MAINSTORE SL.  This is a page full of amazing finds and you’ll be amazed at the number of great items being released in the mainstores!
So….MAINSTORE SL for all things mainstore related.

Are you looking for bloggers for your store? Just want to check out some blogs? Looking for places to take pictures? Thinking about being a blogger, but you’re not sure. Well, everything you need to know about blogging, from stores that are looking to places to take pictures….even classes and seminars to help you learn more about blogging can be found on the Blogging & Vlogging Network site. There’s even a group inworld that you can join for free. This is a must join group if you’re already a blogger. Regardless of what you enjoy in SL, the BVN site will astound you with its wealth of information.
So….BVN for all things blogger related.

Do you love magazines? Do you like learning about the various designers, scriptors, creators, bloggers, etc? Curious about events and event owners, what goes on behind the scenes? Love looking at professional photos of various designs? Well, there are several magazines across the grid, but Eclipse is by far one of my personal favorites and its chock full of interesting articles, beautiful photos, and monthly features. It’s all about the latest styles for both men and women. This is a lifestyle magazine of what’s going on around the grid. Who knows you might just discover something new and exciting to do, as well. Unlike a regular paper magazine, Eclipse is online and there are links in the magazine that will take you directly to the store, blog, webpage, etc.
So….Eclipse Magazine for all the latest lifestyle info around the grid.

Simon Says

hair: :::Phoenix::: Riley *NEW*
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
tattoo: [ATI] Rita (*new* @ Applique)
:::NOIR::: Infinite Bracelets
(Yummy) Gardenia Rings (*new* @ C88)
LYBRA . EDIE (*new* @ Uber)

pose: FOXCITY. Surface Set
[Bad Unicorn] The Mansion Backdrop (FATPACK ONLY) *NEW*