Posted in Bueno, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Be Clear

Making your intentions and expectations clear to other people can save you an incredible amount of heartache down the line. Don’t wait for someone to push you into a corner for an explanation. If you feel that person isn’t worthy of an explanation, go ahead and tell them that. Don’t be a coward. Don’t shy away from confrontation because its uncomfortable, because the unspoken expectations will soon turn to resentments and do far more damage than an awkward conversation about the truth. You can save each other a lot of wasted time and energy by making your desires clear right up front. Tell each other what you want by being open and honest. No one has time for the guessing games, just be clear.

monso bueno

Sady is wearing:
hair:  [monso] My Hair – Brida @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

Cae :: Eternal :: Collar
:::NOIR::: Kate Necklace
BUENO-Vasti Outfit @ Uber

pose by oOo Studio

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Second Life

Her Chaos

“Wild woman are an unexplainable spark of life. They ooze freedom and seek awareness, they belong to nobody but themselves yet give a piece of who they are to everyone they meet.
If you have met one, hold on to her, she’ll allow you into her chaos but she’ll also show you her magic.”
― Nikki Rowe

bueno asteroid box bearded guy

hair:  DOUX – Cordelia hairstyle
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

BUENO-Night Gloves @ Collabor88
AsteroidBox. Iris Shorts @ Equal10

pose: oOo Taste One

Sad Road – Black Night – The Bearded Guy

OR C900 ANJEL SPIRIT SERIES

His hair is from Modulus & his jacket is from Legal Insanity

Posted in Events, Fashion, N21, Second Life, shopping, The Annex

Want to Play a Game?

“A game is an ongoing series of complementary ulterior transactions progressing to a well-defined, predictable outcome. Descriptively, it is a recurring set of transactions… with a concealed motivation… or gimmick.”
Dr. Eric Berne Games People Play

Sound familiar? If you’ve been in SL for even a few months, I’m sure you’ve encountered a player or six. Let’s just cut to the chase. They are predators. If they have an agenda that doesn’t coincide with what they’re telling you? Yeah, its a trap and you’re probably the prey or possibly the bait. Either way, its no good. What motives could they have? Oh, please…money and sex are top of the list.  So, do we hate the player or the game? Well, if I didn’t knowingly sign up to play “the game” then I certainly don’t need to blame the game, now do I? I say hate them both…hate the game AND the player!
Now, if YOU like to play the game…awesome for you, but wouldn’t it be a lot more fun if the other people playing knew they were playing? Cuz seems to me, its gotta be pretty easy to win a game of checkers if no one else is playing. We all talk about making the world a better place. Here’s an idea…treat each other with respect….c’mon dude at the candy store…sending a dick pic is like walking around in a raincoat flashing women at the mall. Not cool and honestly, the type of woman that would jump right onto a man after seeing a picture of his genitals? Well, lets be fair, you can find plenty of those on those free sex sims.
Sadly, pervs like that rarely take the time to read the back of a shampoo bottle, much less a blog about fashion. So, I’ll just laugh with my perv friends that know whenever we get a picture of someone’s genitals…we share with our friends and spend the whole day making jokes about how bizarre it looked. You see, there was no man attached to make it attractive. The only thing that came with this intimate photo? Ignorant, disrespectful, desperation…that’s what came with that photo.

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wearing:
hair:  Beusy: Vida Hairstyle (*new* @ N21)
head: CATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara

The Annex – Jezebel Dress – Onyx – MAITREYA (*new* @ Genre)
=Zenith=Cosy long Gloves – Maitreya
#EMPIRE – Xylobium

pose: oOo silent night_one_mirror
background: MINIMAL – Illusion II – *1* -RARE- (*new* @ Epiphany)