Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Just like a flower

Just imagine becoming the way you used to be as a very young child, before you understood the meaning of any word, before opinions took over your mind. The real you is loving, joyful, and free. The real you is just like a flower, just like the wind, just like the ocean, just like the sun. ~Don Miguel Ruiz

lybra belle kunst uber

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alexa @ Uber

Exile – Nadia @ Hair Fair
*LODE* Head Accessory – Peony Poem Wreath [white]
[ kunst ] – Eden Set (earrings & necklace) @ Uber
(Yummy) Lepidopterist Ring Set @ Uber
LYBRA . SANDY SET @ Belle

:LW: Bento poses – South Of The Border
NOMAD // Classic Peonies

Posted in Collabor88, Dahlia, Death Row Designs, Second Life

You’ve Changed

My friend, Sassy Nitely, posted this as a status on Facebook:

I think it’s funny when people say “you’ve changed”. Isn’t that the point, though? To grow and evolve? We’re not meant to stay the same. Sure, we can stay the same at the core – but our opinions, the stuff we will/won’t put up with, relationships, etc. They all change as we age. When someone says “you’ve changed” just thank them for noticing. There’s nothing wrong with evolving. 

This really made me think and I was grateful that it did. She’s absolutely right. I’ve always hated when people say that people don’t change, because we do. We all do. You can often mark those changes with the various milestones in your life. Everything that happens to us changes us just a little bit. How could you not? I definitely think this is a topic I will be revisiting in the future.

my mudhoney bedroom

Ariskea[Blush] Chair Pillow [Sweety Bloom]

Dahlia – Ariana – Jewelry Display – Pink
Dahlia – Ariana – Mirror – Silver
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Vintage Clock – Silver 04.

DRD – Rustic Bathroom – Sink

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large

MudHoney Elara Bed @ Collabor88
-MH Elara Mirror
-MH Elara Dresser
-MH Elara Nightstand
-MH Elara Bed Adult
-MH Elara Bed Drapes

MudHoney Liza Heels – Nude
MudHoney Liza Heels – Black
MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box
MudHoney Liza Bra
MudHoney Liza Panties
MudHoney Liza Painting   **retextured by me**
MudHoney Paxton Succulents
MudHoney Briley Chair – White
MudHoney Heidi Journals
MudHoney Heidi Laptop
MudHoney Jackie Rug

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine

Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Serenity Style– Glasbury Wall Lamp

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Workspace – Print and Books
-tres blah- Jolie – Lotions
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand

{what next} Isabelle Cosmetics Decor
{what next} House Plant – Rubber Tree (stand)

Butter Woman Bust White Wood

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping

I’m Keeping It!

I’ve talked about getting attached to decor scenes in the past and this is definitely one of them. I created a private beach in a dome over my friend’s land. I used the Trompe Loeil – Bowline Beach Treehouse and set this little scene up right on the upper deck. I love it so much, that I am actually keeping this scene. I’m kind of excited about it, because it’s the first time in a long time I’ve been able to even consider keeping a scene, much less one so cute. I don’t say its cute to brag in anyway, I just happen to really like it a lot. I think its cute, chill, and cozy…and what more could a person ask for on their balcony, right? *shrugs* I like it…that’s what matters.

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BackBone Patio Lounger @ Belle

dust bunny . dreamy outing . croissant sandwiches
dust bunny . dreamy outing . essentials bag
dust bunny . storybook living . fresh bouquet

JIAN Group Gift Corgi Sleepy Boi

[ keke ] watering can – green

[Merak] – Beach Mat with Towel @ Belle
[Merak] – Little Wicker Table @ Belle
[Merak] – Mer Cupcakes @ Belle

NOMAD // Classic Peonies

:::ChicChica::: Chic Cola DECO
:::ChicChica::: Chic Cola opened DECO

Mithral * Maranta Red Herringbone (Copper Pot)
Mithral * Lemon Lime Philodendron (Wood Pot)
Mithral * Monstera Adansonii (White Pot)
Mithral * Wall Pipe Display (Silver)
Mithral * Branch Wall Display (Blue Glass)
Mithral * Arrowhead Plant (White Pot)

{YD} Spring Puppies – Queen of Spring

Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Quasi, Second Life, shopping

Final Thing

“Oh this broken dawn light
When my shooting feels right
There’s just one final thing on my mind
Oh the mist of this dawn
The mist of a different dawn
The final thing on my mind?
Every waking dawn it’s you I see
Coming back to me
Everything you did is a part of me
Ripped apart from me
How did we get to be this cold?
How did I let you get so far from me?
We got it so wrong, so wrong
How did we let it get this cold?”

6Republic 1
crate Backyard Pub Shed Full Set @ 6 Republic Event
-crate Bottles, Cans & Ashtray Clutter – But Light
-crate Bottles, Cans & Ashtray Clutter – Ceck’s
-crate Backyard Pub Shed – Stool PG
-crate Bottles, Cans & Ashtray Clutter – Ashtray
-crate Backyard Pub Shed – Plant
-crate Bottles, Cans & Ashtray Clutter – Whiskey
-crate Bottles, Cans & Ashtray Clutter – Bokka

+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Edge

MudHoney Pocket Clutter

NOMAD // REINFORCED CONCRETE BED @ 6 Republic Event

Quasi – Pipe Dreams Sink Set @ 6 Republic Event
-Quasi – Pipe Dreem Light Fixture
-Quasi – Pipe Dream Sink and Mirror Set

Eleventh Hour: The Nook @ 6 Republic Event
-Eleventh Hour: Nook Light
-Eleventh Hour: Nook Rug

+ILO+ Video Days Apt @ 6 Republic Event

.peaches. Emunah Bed – Magazine Clutter

FOVA wall vase by Sources @ 6 Republic Event

Posted in Catwa, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, {le fil casse}

It Feels Good

My closest friends know that I’m a bit of a prankster. Nothing major, no bashing of the Xbox of anything like that, but I do like to put the fear of Gods in my mother, yank the chains of friends, and sabotage homes in Second Life. (You’ve been warned.) Recently, I was able to troll one of the captains of trolling himself, Mr Dusty Wasp. Oh yes, and it was glorious! I’ll do my best to keep this short…*giggles*
Dusty knows how much I love documentaries and how I’m very curious about how people, especially those with peculiar lifestyles or beliefs. So, being the awesome friend that he is, he told me about a documentary on Netflix about Flat Earthers. He went on to say he had no interest in it, but he knew I was curious about stuff like that. So, I watched it within a few days.
The day after I watched it. When I told him about it the conversation went pretty much as follows…
Sady: Oh hey, thanks for telling me about that Flat Earther documentary. I get it now.
Dusty: Oh yeah, what do you get?
Sady: Well, I get where they’re coming from. I mean there’s these airplanes that go all the way around the world, rather than the shortest way. If Earth was round, why wouldn’t they take the shorter route?
Dusty: Wait, what are you saying?
Sady: I’m saying, I get it! I see their point. It all makes so much sense now. I mean, didn’t NASA admit that the footage of the moon landing was done in a studio? So, why wouldn’t they like about the earth being round. I mean we thought it was flat begin with, but then the powers to be all told us that its round.
Dusty: OMG! I shouldn’t have let you watch that by yourself.
(I am cracking up at this point. I’m not sure I can keep going.”
Dusty: Here…please watch this video. It’s only about 10 mins long, but you just cannot believe that the earth is flat.

At this point, I burst into laughter and explain that, of course, I know the earth is not flat. I live in Huntsville, AL….the Rocket City. NASA is in my back yard and the rockets that go into space are built here and most of the stuff that has come back from space is on display at the U.S. Space and Rocket Center that’s located less than 10 miles from my house.

And now whenever I tell this story or refer to the flat earth in anyway, I am met with a resounding, “Fuck you!” *giggles* Fuck you, too, Dusty! ♥

I TROLLED THE CAPTAIN OF THE TROLLS!!! And it feels gooooood. *grins* Feel free to use this little trick on your friends and let me know how it goes.

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Are you sure it’s round?

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Angelica hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Cynful Jasmin’s Spiral Armlets @ Commotion until May 4th
**RE** Quinn Rings Set
[ Conviction ] Nameplate Choker – 07 Kitten /COMMON/ @ Epiphany
(Yummy) OM Layered Necklace
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust
Cynful 360 Belly Piercing
{le fil casse} Kathleen Bralette/ Panty @ FaMESHed X

pose by DelMay

MINIMAL – Futuristic Backdrop
NOMAD // Disco Ball

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Could roses bloom?

“Help, I lost myself again
But I remember you
Don’t come back, it won’t end well
But I wish you’d tell me too….
….
Our love is six feet under
I can’t help but wonder
If our grave was watered by the rain
Would roses bloom?
Could roses bloom?
They’re playing our sound
Laying us down tonight
And all of these clouds
Crying us back to life
But you’re cold as a knife”
~ Billie Eilish – Six Feet Under

too cute to jog

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Fleur (with Cap) – @ Kustom9
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Hangry – Floral Drink – Peach @ Kustom9
_CandyDoll_ Selena Top @ Belle
_CandyDoll_ Selena Pants @ Belle
_CandyDoll_ Selena Sneakers  @ Belle

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Sits VOL2 Pose Set
NOMAD // Tall House

Posted in Dahlia, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, Silence, Uber SL

The Hardest Part

I think the hardest part of doing decor posts is figuring out what to write. I’m not always as emotionally connected with my decor scenes as I usually am with my fashion pics. I’ve had this photo ready for at least a week know and every time I pull up the post to write something, I turn my head to the side like a confused dog. I’m actually quite proud of the scene and the arrangement of the items, but no clue what to say. I’m not a huge fan of leather furniture in real life, because I hate sticking to it. I do think its beautiful and I think of this room as a man’s area. A man who has a woman in his life, like a mother or sister, that insisted on a few female touches to the room. *shrugs* Maybe I’ll have more to say about the next picture. Though to be perfectly honest, I’ve been more visually inspired as of late, than verbally.

fancy decor and more

scene created in (Milk Motion) The loft

floorplan. door backdrop / rustic

Fancy Decor: Bradley (*new* @ Uber)
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Side Table
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Sculpture
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Lounge Chair
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Rug
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Coffee Table
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Magazine
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Floor Lamp
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Sconce
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Chaise
-Fancy Decor: Bradley Throw Pillow

Fancy Decor: Potted Succulent

Silence. – Caiti Cats – Black

Dahlia – Amore (*new* @ Sultry)
-Dahlia – Amore – Gem Chocolates – White
-Dahlia – Amore Frame – Brown

Dahlia – Always Set
-Dahlia – Always – Wallart – Rose Gold
-Dahlia – Always – BB Beer

220ML – Alabama Style
-220ML – Alabama Style [Cup w/ Liquid]
-220ML – Alabama Style [Peanuts]
-220ML – Alabama Style [Open Bottle]

NOMAD // Lily of the Valley Vase

[ keke ] zen gingko plant
[ keke ] zen weeds

Posted in crate, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Second Life, SHADES, {what next}

Nothing Lasts

“I pray to God
To stop these thoughts
It works for me
Can’t you see
I know that I’m better
I’m writing this letter
To my past self
Sitting on the shelf

Nothing lasts
It’s for the best
I won’t stay here
I won’t stay there
‘Cause now I’m happy
For You have changed me
I am so thankful
No longer painful”
~ Bedroom – Nothing Lasts

on my way to bed

SHADES – Spencer Bed Set
-SHADES – Spencer Bed
-SHADES – Spencer bedside table
-SHADES – Spencer Bench

{what next) Isabelle Vanity set
-{what next} Isabelle Vanity Table & Mirror
-{what next} Isabelle Vanity Stool
-{what next} Isabelle Nail Polish Decor
-{what next} Isabelle Tulips
-{what next} Isabelle Perfume Tray
-{what next} Isabelle Cosmetics Decor

[ keke ] zen collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-[ keke ] zen orbuculum sphere . silver
-[ keke ] zen gingko plant
-[ keke ] zen firefly lamp . silver
-[ keke ] zen weeds

Dahlia – Concetta – RoseTea Tin – Blue
Dahlia – Concetta – Closed – Tea Tin – Blue
Dahlia – Takashi – Floor Cushion – Blue
Dahlia – Ariana – Jewelry Display – Blue

8 – crate Lofty Livin Rug

Granola. Waverly’s Incense.

floorplan. door backdrop / rustic (*new* @ FaMESHed)

[MF] Beautiful suitcase closed

Armonia Decor [AD] Set Chairs Caracas. BLUE.

TA Code Guitar (Stand)

[Con.] Route 66 Sign – Blue

NOMAD // Lily of the Valley Vase

220ML – Alabama Style [Iron A]
220ML – Alabama Style [Open Bottle]
220ML – Alabama Style [Cup w/ Liquid]
220ML – Alabama Style [Peanuts]

[ kunst ] – Makbook S

C L A Vv. Cat Cafe – In A Cardboard

[-BLUE SKY-] Silver Disco Pillow

[Kres] Love Lights – Brat

Posted in Chic Moda, Collabor88, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Fancy Living

“I was barely in grade school when I helped my mother rearrange the living room furniture for the first time.” ~ Nate Berkus

We moved every two or three years, but our living rooms were rearranged at least three or four times a year. Why? Because my mother is crazy and always has been? I could write a book about all the different living room styles we had over the years. From peacock tapestries to bright orange walls. Oh yeah, she painted and wall papered, too. Living rooms were an easy target, but she had her sites set on the bathrooms, dining rooms, and bedrooms, as well. So, its no wonder that I have so much fun with decor in Second Life. It takes me longer to put together a scene and certainly longer to list the credits with links and tags. However, I tried to let it go once before and it broke my heart.

living room

Fancy Decor: Grantaire Set (*new* @ Uber)
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Sofa
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Coffee Table
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Magazine
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Jugs
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Candle Holders
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Mirrors
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Armchair
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Nesting Tables
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Lamp
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Shelf
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Pill Bookends
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Frame
-Fancy Decor: Grantaire Sculpture

Fancy Decor: Claire Collection (*new* @ A+Event)
-Fancy Decor: Claire Desk Clutter
-Fancy Decor: Claire Desk
-Fancy Decor: Claire Artwork
-Fancy Decor: Claire Office Chair
-Fancy Decor: Claire Desk Lamp

Fancy Decor: Thorne Collection (*new* @ Soiree by C88)
-Fancy Decor: Thorne Boxes
-Fancy Decor: Thorne Mirror

Fancy Decor: Blue Pillow
04 Fancy Decor: Throw Pillow
05 Fancy Decor: Floral Pillow – Blue & White

MudHoney Olwen Drink Tray
MudHoney Olwen Laptop
MudHoney Olwen Movies

Ariskea [Ophelia] Fake Plant
Ariskea [Ophelia] Big Plant
Ariskea [Ophelia] Succulent

Ariskea[Kuva] Cute succulent

ChicModa Decor // Accent Pillow // Hello Gorgeous (White)

Bee Designs Gold & Black gacha 3

[ kunst ] – Novak set / plant #1
[ kunst ] – Novak set / plant #2
[ kunst ] – Novak set books

NOMAD // Star Curtain

Granola. Violette’s Vases. Brass.

JIAN Chameleon :: Habitat

scene created in VARONIS – Lueur Skybox

Posted in Bueno, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

One thing leads to another

Bathrooms are the most intimate rooms in any home. We are rarely more vulnerable than we are in a bathroom, which is why movies like Psycho mess with us soooo bad! Just think about it, you shower and bathe in there….NAKED! We pull our pants down and sit on a porcelain seat with a hole in it that goes God knows where and God knows what could come up from there! Don’t act like it doesn’t happen, we’ve all seen the videos of snakes and stuff coming up out of the toilet! We even have the nerve to put a mirror in there! I mean, I know some of you look amazing naked and probably love staring at your bodies in the mirror, but I am not one of you!
The title of the blog is from that song by The Fixx. It really has nothing to do with the photo or the bathroom, but for some reason I couldn’t get that damn song out of my head when I was setting up the scene. Maybe its the trail of clothes….God only knows what I was thinking, but there you have it! Enjoy your next trip the bathroom…*smirks*

one thing leads to another

scene:
Fancy Decor: Crane Bathroom (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-Fancy Decor: Crane Bathtub
-Fancy Decor: Crane Toilet Roll
-Fancy Decor: Crane Toilet
-Fancy Decor: Crane Sconce
-Fancy Decor: Crane Mirror
-Fancy Decor: Crane Plunger
-Fancy Decor: Crane Console
-Fancy Decor: Crane Sink
-Fancy Decor: Crane Orchid
-Fancy Decor: Crane Lotion & Soap Bottles

Fancy Decor: Roux Towel Holder

Refuge – Spark Lamp Shimmer Silver Smaller

Foxy – Beauty Essentials Gacha
-Foxy – Beauty Essentials Gacha ‘Makeup Clutter 2’
-Foxy – Beauty Essentials Gacha ‘Makeup Clutter 1’

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Curling Iron – Silver
+Half-Deer+ Cutie Flat Iron – Silver
+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Hair Accessories (Pastel)
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Thong
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Bra
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor B
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A
tres blah– Jolie – Train Case
-tb- Vanity – Toiletries
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet

BUENO – Hair Dryers

!! Follow US !! Vintage beauty bucket COPY version

NOMAD // Improvised // Laundry Basket and Soap

DaD – Blowing Curtains

Ariskea [ Blossom] Cherry Blossom Wreath [ Pastel Green ]

PILOT – Fido [Carbon]

:HAIKEI: a vacant house gacha / {5}

20. Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter – Andrea

cat: I haven’t gone to the bathroom by May Tolsen