Posted in Bondi, breathe, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life

We all have blind spots

We all know some one that only hears what they want to hear, sees what they want to see. I believe that’s more prevalent in Second Life than anywhere else. Like orange juice concentrate, the misplaced loyalties on the grid run rampant. People being “loyal” to false friends, closing their eyes to the truth and choosing to turn their eyes elsewhere. I’m not quite sure what people are afraid of, but feeding someone’s ego with lies is not doing anyone any favors. The thing is that when we lie to those that are supposedly close to us, we lie to ourselves, as well. We have to ask ourselves if that’s what we would want if it was us on the other side of the blindness…the deafness. By turning the blind eye, the deaf ear…are we doing them a favor? Or are we so afraid of the truth that the lie is more comforting? What are our motives for such a level of dishonesty, especially if we really are completely aware of the truth?

So, I’m back to writing and the ramblings of my mind are bound to be weirder than ever, but I’ve decided to restrict myself less. A new friend reminded me that I started this blog as an outlet for me. Sure, I absolutely love showing off my favorite designers and will always do that, but the words? I can’t censor myself and get therapeutic value from it, now can I? *laughs* Consider this your warning….lol.

snapshot_023

Basics:
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
SU!– Piercing Set 06
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria @ Kustom9

hair: Navy+Copper – Genna
BONDI . The Peacemaker Headphones @ FeverFete
Addams // Zury Crochet Holes Top
Addams // Caroline Knot Rope Bikini
[BREATHE]-Midori Heels

pose: FOXCITY. Soulfood Bento Pose Set

scene:
SAYO – Lena Corner Collection
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Lounger
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Floor Lamp
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Floor Canvas
-SAYO – Lena Corner Collection – Succulent Cluster

Elm. Nia Nightstand [Cotton]
Elm. Nia Frame Small [Gold]
Elm. Nia Frame Large [Silver]
Elm. Nia Books [Blue]

MudHoney Olwen Laptop
MudHoney Books – Food & Happiness
MudHoney Trophy Bowl
MudHoney Metal Stick Decor
MudHoney Trophy Bowl
MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box
MudHoney Liza Heels – Nude
MudHoney Olwen Movies
MudHoney Liza Heels – Black
MudHoney Liza Bra
MudHoney Liza Panties

Posted in Catwa, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life

Teeth

There is no way to explain to my readers how excited I was about these gloves and panties. There’s a really fantastic (really bad) movie out there called Teeth and the way it makes men cringe cracks me up so much. I highly recommend this movie to everyone and I have seen it several times. I could not help but think about all the twisted ways one might use these gloves if they were real, especially if that someone was afflicted with Vagina Dentata. I will simply leave it at that, but I strongly encourage those with a dark side to visit the Eclipse Event. I honestly think this might be their best round yet.

teeth

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Ava (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
eyes: :Conviction: Viscous Eyes
eyeshadow: UniCult – Isis Catwa/Omega HUD (*new* @ Days of Yore)
lipstick: –SU!– Ayesha Lip Gloss
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
THIS IS WRONG Molochy tattoo (*new* @ Eclipse)

.peculiar.things. dropout shades (*new* @ Eclipse)
[Cubic Cherry] {Voracity} gloves (*new* @ Eclipse)

{MasKara} Dalayza Top (*new* @ Days of Yore)
[CX] Pantsu Codex – Teeth (*new* @ Eclipse)

pose: FOXCITY. Soulfood Bento Pose Set

Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Go

“I’ve got nothing to hide
I’ve got nothing at all
You with all of the answers
Leave me alone
(Leave me alone)

Talking, talking it hurts
I just want a dessert
What a bitter disaster
Leave me alone
(Leave me alone)”
~ Meg Myers – Go

use your senses

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Genna
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

(Yummy) Bang Bang Choker (*new* @ Uber)
Mimikri – Jazzie Leather Shrug (*new* @ Uber)
LYBRA . NEDA (*new* @ Uber)

pose: RK Poses. Kylie
location: REKA Holdings

 

Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Gos, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Oh Hi!

Oh hi there, you caught me roaming through an abandoned house on Borneo Isle. I was especially fascinated with this old piano. I always wanted to learn to play, but it wasn’t in the cards. Not sure who brought in the fresh sunflowers, but they certainly brighten up this dusty old space. I’ve never been big on sunflowers, but my mother like them. Everytime, and I do mean EVERYTIME, she sees them she tells me how my grandmother had them growing along the back of their yard like a fence, when she was growing up. Anyway, this little house that I stumbled across has plenty of photographic spots inside, not to mention the plethora of choices on the rest of the land. Go check it out, the link is in the credits below. ♥

sunflower

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Tia (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
SU!– Osanna Eyes
#ADORED – prizmo shadows – permafrost edition (*new* @ Sultry)
#ADORED – jucci gloss lips – candy princess edition (*new* @ Sultry)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
tattoo: .::Nanika::. Summer wind tattoo White Arm

(Yummy) Raining Diamonds
Dead Dollz – Lille Outfit (*new* @ Uber)
[Gos] Louise Trail Boots (*new* @ Uber)

pose: .Focus Poses. Urban 5
location: Borneo Isle

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Cynful, Dahlia, Maitreya, Second Life

Why Do Men….

Why do men want women’s panties? I understand this topic has nothing to do with this super sweet outfit, but I’m seriously confused about this topic. We see it in movies all the time, men sniffing panties. If I didn’t know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there are vending machines for used panties in some countries, I might just think that it was just one of those silly exaggerated Hollywood things, like how there’s always one survivor in a horror movie, unless its one of Rob Zombie’s. (God, I love him!) Why would anyone want to sniff underwear? I’d love to have someone explain that to me. I understand wanting something that smells like someone you love. I’ve slipped boyfriend’s shirts over pillows, but panties? GROSS! You don’t see women running around wanting to sniff men’s drawers. You know why? Cuz ball sweat…*shudders*

anastasia
Hmm, this could be the beginning of a whole new series of blog posts…*grins*

wearing:
hair:  Navy+Copper – Espresso
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
SU!– Osanna Eyes (new @ LEVEL)
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

lashes: #Besom Lashes~ BB Lash
eyeshadow: Veechi  – Romy Shadow
lipstick: -SU!- Leandra Lipstick 01

shanghai – Suri Jewelry Necklace Rose (*new* @ Unik)
Dahlia  – Gamma – Necklace (*new* @ Access)

[Cynful] Snuggle Cardigan
ChicModa // Anastasia Dress (*new* @ Belle)

pose by Del May
location: Missing Melody

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Maitreya, RAMA, Second Life, {le fil casse}

People DO Change

I really hate the phrase, “A leopard never changes its spots.” I disagree with the meaning behind it, completely. If meant literally, then its just a fact. However, it is rarely said with literal intent. It refers to people not being able to change their true character. I just do not believe that’s true. I believe that people can and do change, especially with age. Now, I understand that the phrase is actually refers to people’s innate traits, but again, I know that people DO change. I know they do, because I have…several times. The older I get, the more I evolve and change. I think that’s true about most people. No matter how old you, think back to who you were 7-10 yrs ago. I certainly hope you changed. We learn and we grow, to suggest otherwise is simply ridiculous to me. To suggest that someone cannot or will not change is really quite an insult. It’s like suggesting there’s no hope or reason to continue living and learning.

the garden
Then again, what do I know, I’m just another sexy avatar in a gorgeous leopard print bodysuit. *winks*

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Ivy (*new* @ Belle)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – Winter Flower
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

{le fil casse} Payton Bodysuit (*new* @ ROMP)

pose: GingerFish Pose Lush set (*new* @ eBENTO)

#selfie_RAMA – Festival Flower Wall RARE

Posted in Catwa, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, {le fil casse}

I try not to break

“Broken glass is thrown away,
splinters left become your pain.
Funny how trouble won’t fade away.
What’s in your veins stays in your veins.
I try not to break, but sometimes it is more than I can take.
Blood is thicker than water, they say.
But I’ve tried to wash my blood away.
Funny how those scars don’t leave a trace.
The ones that leave the deepest pain.
I try not to break, but sometimes it is more than I can take.”
~Shelley Harland – More Than I Can Take

Chocolate Advice

wearing:
hair:  Navy+Copper – Mae
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Dahlia – Bingley – Earrings
Dahlia – Bingley – Necklace
Dahlia – Bingley – Ring
{le fil casse} Priscilla Dress (*new* @ Uber)

pose: FOXCITY. Breather VOL1 Animated Pose Set

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Jian, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Sady & Rina

So, it finally happened. I finally pinned Rina Edenflower down for a collaboration. She is so completely talented it blows me away and I humbled that she took the time to pose with me. In fact, she hosted our collaboration and look it….I had Rina’s hand on my thigh for hours!!! Don’t hate! Congratulate!! *grins* Seriously, this was so much fun and the time we spent together taking our photos was really fantastic. She is as beautiful inside as she is outside. I wish I could tell you her story, but it isn’t mine to tell. Let’s just say, you have no freaking idea what other people have gone through until you take the time to genuinely talk and listen. I love her more today than I imagined possible and I am so grateful to call her my friend. I truly hope that you will see more collaborations from the two of us in the future.

To see her amazing version of our photo, you can click the photo below and follow the link….OR you can go straight to her blog: That’s Hot!

cuddle weather

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Navy+Copper – Mousse
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly

MINIMAL – Spesa Necklace
*Vanilla Bae* Neve Sweater – Maitreya RARE #3 (*new* @ Epiphany)
*Vanilla Bae* Neve Leggings Patterns – Maitreya RARE #1 (*new* @ Epiphany)
*Vanilla Bae* Neve Legwarmers  – Maitreya #14 (*new* @ Epiphany)
*Vanilla Bae* Neve Boots Gray – Maitreya #34 (*new* @ Epiphany)

Rina is wearing:
hair: Doe: Holly
head: .LeLutka.Head.Chloe
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair]

1. {sallie} Hold Me Knit – Oversized Cardigan RARE (*new* @ Arcade)
Tres Blah – Slumber Party Tank
Blueberry – Julia Leggings
REIGN.- MOJAVE MOCCASIN BOOTS

pose: –DNC- My same – Female Couple Bento Pose (*new* @ Uber)

scene:
23.Sese_Winter Ice Rink – Bench (*new* @ Arcade)
07 MADRAS Snow Bird Home Decor (*new* @ Arcade)
JIAN Reindeer Collection :: Static – Walk Low (*new* @ Uber)

 

Posted in Catwa, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life

I Want to Kill

This has been my first Thanksgiving without my husband and I’m doing anything I can to keep my mind off of it. I haven’t talked about it to anyone, because I don’t want to bring them down during their joyous holiday time….or add to their misery…lol. I have found it quite therapeutic to kill things…in a game. It’s no big secret that I have been playing GW2 for about six months now. It amuses me that all the years I was with my husband, he made me hate MMOs. He was so impatient, he would help me level up by running my low level characters through high level places, so I’d get all these experience points that I didn’t earn. Yet, he didn’t actually teach me much beyond the basics. For him there was an objective at all times and there was no point in just lollygagging around. With GW2, the friend that has taken me there and shown me around. He not only possesses the patience to “herd cats” aka keep up with me chasing shinies, but he encourages me to find joy in the game, no matter what it is. So, if I want to run around all day picking plants or killing frogs, he says go for it. Mind you, I didn’t say he does that with me…lol, but he appreciates every aspect of the game so much that he has introduced me to places and things that I never would have seen if I were so objective driven. So, as a big fuck you to the ex and an escape to me, you probably won’t see me around SL much this weekend….because in the words of Arlo Guthrie, “I want to kill…KILL…KILLL!”

gamer girl

wearing:
hair:  Navy+Copper – Fondue
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

IDEZA – Boomsound Headphones
Nov-Argentina Choker
*VanillaBae* Minx Hoodie & Shorts (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)

pose made with AnyPose

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Animals, Catwa, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Kustom9, Maitreya, REWIND, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Silly Epic Moment

Alright, well, this has absolutely nothing to do with the picture, but I just had something pretty cool happen to me in SL. I was at the Frisky Beaver listening to Red Heaven, when I’m alerted to my name being used in local. Yes, I have a sound alert, because I have a hard time keeping up with local AND IMs. So, I look in local to see this:
[17:11] Nazz Linden: wow Sady.. very cool looking blog

It might be silly, but to know that someone at Linden Lab actually looked at my blog AND liked it? THAT was an epic moment for me. I’m super stoked over it. I do realize it might be silly, as we are all just humans, but it’s still a big deal to me.

peace out

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Fondue (*new* @ REWIND)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyeshadow: UniCult – Flower Child (*new* @ REWIND)
Wednesday[+] ~ Queen Bee Lipsticks (*new* @ REWIND)
21.Yokai – Peace – Flower cheeks [pink] (*new* @ REWIND)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Lily – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kustom9)
Poupee – Hippie Trail Tattoo (*new* @ REWIND)

Ama. : Peace Out : Head Chain (*new* @ REWIND)
[Cynful] Baewatch Set
#EMPIRE – Ixora
JIAN Beagle Pup Companion

pose: FOXCITY. Autumn Bento Pose Set
ninety – ok [ backrop ] (*new* @ REWIND)