Posted in Catwa, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Don’t Worry

“Let advance worrying become advance thinking and planning.” ~Winston Churchill

Do you find yourself beginning your thoughts with ‘what if?’ What if the store is out of my favorite brand of wine? What if I don’t get that job? What if rains tomorrow? Worrying about things that haven’t’ even happened puts you in a state of stress, where you waste so much energy worrying about things you have no control over.  Well, here’s a suggestion. Rather than focusing on all those ‘what ifs,’ that are on your mind, create a solutions list. If the store is out of your favorite wine, think about an adequate substitute. Afterall, that’s not the end of the world. Keep sending out your resume and take those interview appointments. What else are you going to do if you don’t get THAT job, right? Pick an outfit that won’t be destroyed by the rain, have an umbrella ready, and a hairstyle that won’t take on a mind of its own. Now if it rains, it doesn’t matter so much, because you are fully prepared and you’re going to look great!
By going from worrying to planning mode, you can have a variety of solutions on hand regardless of the outcome. Besides worrying doesn’t change anything, but planning sure can.

loveless

wearing:
hair: Moon. Hair // Unwritten (*new* @ Belle)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
amara beauty – Reflective Eyes (*new* @ Unik)
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia (*new* @ Cupid Inc)

Dahlia – Jacqueline – Headband  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dahlia – Jacqueline – Earrings  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dahlia – Jacqueline – Necklace  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
(Yummy) Curator Rings Set
Ascendant – Flirt Nails (*new* @ Cupid Inc)
Narcisse– Jamie Sweater Dress ( (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Numb Bento Pose Set

Posted in Avenge, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Narcisse, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness, [BREATHE]

Selfies or Desire

Okay, so I was struggling with ideas for what to write about with this photo, because this one just kinda happened all on its own. That happens to me a lot. Sometimes I start with looking for a pose to show off an outfit or item and from there I end up building a scene around myself. I just woke up from a nice long sleep and I’m thrashing about for an idea. So, I take the internet and start looking for quotes about selfies and desire. Lord, the quotes about selfies are not very nice. So, with the sexy look of the photo and the neon sign, I decided to look for quotes about desire. Instead of finding something hot or deep, I found myself drawn to quotes that made me chuckle. So, I’m just gonna share a few below, cuz why the hell not?

Every time I look at you I get a fierce desire to be lonesome. Oscar Levant

Boredom: the desire for desires. Leo Tolstoy

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired. Robert Frost

On some great and glorious day the plain folks of the land will reach their heart’s desire at last, and the White House will be adorned by a downright moron. H. L. Mencken

one more time

wearing:
hair:   MINA – Carissa (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”
tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)
Narcisse– Roxbury Lace up Panties (*new* @ Kinky)
[BREATHE]-Lenora Heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Selfie VOL2 Bento Pose Set

scene:
Fancy Decor: Roux Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-Fancy Decor: Roux Sideboard (white)
-Fancy Decor: Roux Facial Mist
-Fancy Decor: Roux Lotion Bottle
-Fancy Decor: Roux Sink
-Fancy Decor: Roux Soap Tray
-Fancy Decor: Roux Mirror
-Fancy Decor: Roux Towel Holder

uK – Posh Living Settee Cloud GA (*new* @ Uber)

[Avenge] Hold me, Kiss me, Love neon – purple (*new* @ Limit8)

Posted in Catwa, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Mesh Body Addicts, Mesh Body Addicts Fair, Narcisse, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Key to Happiness

As human beings we all want to be happy and free from misery.
We have learned that the key to happiness is inner peace.
The greatest obstacles to inner peace are disturbing emotions such as
anger and attachment, fear and suspicion,
while love and compassion, a sense of universal responsibility
are the sources of peace and happiness.

key to happiness

wearing:
hair: #taketomiWEST – GigiH
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
SU!– Astrid Eyes
-SU!- Xanthe Lip Gloss
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”
tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)

Narcisse– Roxie Neck Cuff (*new* @ MBA)
*AvaWay* KITTY PASTIES
Legal Insanity – Lila lace up shorts (*new* @ Kinky)
Eudora3D Josephine Heels&Cuffs (*new* @ Kinky)

pose by Del May
House Of Shade – Light The Way Backdrop (*new* @ Blush)

 

Posted in Artisan Fantasy, Catwa, Eudora3D, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Narcisse, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Satisfy

I’m just gonna give you all a bit Saturday morning sensuality. Hope you all have you a great weekend

Nero~ Satisfy

I can feel it tonight
I know I’ll catch your eye
Touching you feels so right, let me come inside
Just come with me tonight, take me for a ride
Touching you feels so right, let me, let me satisfy
Let me, satisfy
Let me, let me, satisfy
Let me
I can feel it tonight
I know I’ll catch your eye
Touching you feels so right, let me come inside
Just come with me tonight, take me for a ride
Touching you feels so right
Let me, let me, let me, let me satisfy
Let me, satisfy
Let me, let me, satisfy
Let me, let me satisfy
sastify
wearing:
[RA] Jessica Hair
 Maitreya Mesh Body
Narcisse– Mara Legchain
Eudora 3D Jenn Pumps
pose: FOXCITY. Milk Bath VOL2 Bento Pose Set
*AF* Conquistador Chaise
Posted in Bad Unicorn, breathe, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Narcisse, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

Amy Lee cover of Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

You ever love someone so much you thought your little heart was gonna break in two?
I didn’t think so.
You ever tried with all your heart and soul to get you lover back to you?
I wanna hope so.
You ever pray with all your heart and soul just to watch him walk away?
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
I feel like crying, feel like crying!
You ever toss and turn your lying awake and thinking about the one you love?
I don’t think so.
You ever close your eyes your making believe your holding the one your dreaming of?
Well if you say so.
I hurts so bad when you finally know just how low, low, low, low, low, he’ll go.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
And I feel like crying, I feel like crying!
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing, baby did a bad bad thing.
Baby did a bad bad thing.
And I feel like crying, I feel like crying!

Baby Did A Bad, Bad Thing

wearing:
hair:  :::Phoenix::: Maisie Hair (*new*)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Raquel Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ C88)

Dahlia – Blair – Sunglasses
Narcisse– Insouciant Collar
[Cynful] Coax Bellychain
[Cynful] Loquita’s Sequin Bikini (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[BREATHE]-Saori Heels (*new* @ C88)

pose: FOXCITY. Beach Bunny Bento Set

scene:
Trompe Loeil – Corazon Patio Bar (*new* @ FaMESHed)
tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Charmed Books
REIGN.- SLUSHIE POUCH (*new* @ C88)
[Bad Unicorn] Coke Tray ‘Sheen Set’ (*new*)
[Bad Unicorn] Rolled Bill ‘Sheen Set’ (*new*)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Gos, Maitreya, Narcisse, Second Life, Uber SL

Hollow

Going through a lot these days and sometimes it is just impossible for me to form the words to express what I’m feeling. In cases like this, I will use a song and this time, Tori Kelly has them.

Tori Kelly ~ Hollow

I don’t wanna be the last man standing
I don’t wanna be the lonely one
Picking petals when the party’s over
No, it’s not any fun
‘Cause I’m fragile
And you know this
So hold me
Wrap me in love, fill up my cup
Empty and only your love can fill up my cup
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
I don’t wanna be the first one folding
I don’t wanna be the joker heart
Tell me, darling, will you understand me?
And not show me your cards?
‘Cause I’m paper-thin
And you, you make me whole again
So hold me
Wrap me in love, fill up my cup
Empty and only your love can fill up my cup
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
I confess (yeah), my weakness
Til you pick up the parts that are broken
Pour out your perfection on me now
And hold me
Wrap me in love, fill up my cup
Empty, ’cause only your love can fill up my cup
So hold me
Wrap me in love, fill up my cup
Empty and only your love can fill up my cup
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
‘Cause I’m hollow
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh
‘Cause I’m hollow (yeah)
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh (oh yeah)
‘Cause I’m hollow (I’m hollow)
Yeah, I’m hollow, oh oh oh

Goldielocks

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Paula hair (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)

Narcisse– Lia Bodychain
[Gos] Diana Lingerie Set (*new* @ Uber)
David Heather-Block Fur Trenchcoat/Tan

pose: FOXCITY. Stairs (Standing) Bento Pose Set
Lively – Classy Curtain {Silver/White} Backdrop

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Narcisse, RunAway Hair, Second Life, Vanity Event

Ocean Eyes

It’s a music post, but mostly just cuz I love the song and it goes perfectly with the photo. I don’t have a whole lot to say today. So, go shopping and have fun!♥

Billie Eilish – Ocean Eyes

I’ve been watching you
For some time
Can’t stop staring
At those oceans eyes
Burning cities
And napalm skies
Fifteen flares inside those ocean eyes
Your ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes
I’ve been walking through
A world gone blind
Can’t stop thinking of your diamond mind
Careful creature
Made friends with time
He left her lonely with a diamond mind
And those ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes
No fair
You really know how to make me cry
When you gimme those ocean eyes
I’m scared
I’ve never fallen from quite this high
Falling into your ocean eyes
Those ocean eyes

Ocean Eyes

wearing:
hair: [RA] Aschera Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Kailee (*new* @ C88)
SU!– Piercing Set 07 (*new* @ Access)
Narcisse– Sylvie Apron Dress (*new* @ Vanity)

pose by Bauhaus Movement

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Maitreya, Narcisse, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shopping

All Good Things

What I was thinking when I took this picture was that she had gone to revisit a favorite lake from her childhood and even took her dogs along, only to discover that it was overgrown and swampy now. The gelato stand had been abandoned. The snack shack was boarded up. She’d barely managed to get her dog out of the water before an alligator started heading their way. Alas, all good things must come to an end.

good things come to an end

 

wearing:
hair: [RA] Joy Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –  Rayna (*new* @ C88)

Rebel Gal :: California Sunglasses.
Cae :: Estrela :: Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
(Yummy) Sea Treasures Ring Set (*new* @ C88)
Narcisse– Ridley Bikini (*new* @ FaMESHed)
JIAN Splashy Spaniels 22. Brit Black Held (*new* @ Arcade)

pose: FOXCITY. Breather VOL2 Animated Pose Set

scene:
[Bad Unicorn] Galato Cart (Deco(c)rate)
JIAN Splashy Spaniels 2. Adult Companion RARE (*new* @ Arcade)
Modulus – Abandoned Kiosk

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Lamb, Maitreya, Narcisse, Second Life, shopping, {le fil casse}

Yes, I Am

I don’t know too many women that don’t relate to this song, at least parts of it. The only thing I’d change is the part about being a mother, unless you count my fur babies. I’m not a mother and I don’t want to be. I’ve already raised one woman’s son and that didn’t fair too well for me. I won’t do that again. I learned that lesson the hard way. Make no mistake, I’m very much a brat, so we can just replace mother with brat and this fits me to a tee. Youtube link is at the bottom of the page, but here are the lyrics.

Meredith Brooks ~ Bitch

I hate the world today
You’re so good to me
I know but I can’t change
Tried to tell you
But you look at me like maybe
I’m an angel underneath
Innocent and sweet
Yesterday I cried
Must have been relieved to see
The softer side
I can understand how you’d be so confused
I don’t envy you
I’m a little bit of everything
All rolled into one
I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your hell, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way
So take me as I am
This may mean
You’ll have to be a stronger man
Rest assured that
When I start to make you nervous
And I’m going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won’t mean a thing
I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your hell, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way
Just when you think, you got me figured out
The season’s already changing
I think it’s cool, you do what you do
And don’t try to save me
I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your hell, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way
I’m a bitch, I’m a tease
I’m a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I’m your angel undercover
I’ve been numb, I’m revived
Can’t say I’m not alive
You know I wouldn’t want it any other way

yes I am

wearing:
hair:  Lamb.. Wait (*new* in mainstore)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Viktoria Applier

{le fil casse} Midnight Bodysuit (*new* @ The Fantasy Collective)
Narcisse– Taylor Skirt (FaMESHed Go)

pose by Bauhaus Movement (edited with AnyPose)

[Kres] Love Lights – Brat

Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Pale Girl Productions, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Tonight @ FMD

If you’re like me, you couldn’t care less about the royal wedding and you’re more concerned about how you’re going to spend your Saturday night. Well, my favorite place to hang out in SL on a Saturday night is at FMD. I know this must come as a huge shock to you all, considering how conservatively I dress…*giggles* So, let me tell you just  a little bit about FMD. I’m not going to pretend to be an expert or any type of authority on the club, but what I do know is that there are loads of beautiful people there. While it is a pay to join group, the owner, Lance Pyara, is kind enough to allow open access on weekends. Every Saturday night is a themed party and you can dress up or down for the said events.
Tonight, the theme is Speakeasy Vintage Fashion and this party starts at 2pm slt and doesn’t stop until midnight. They’ve got as many time zones covered as they can. So, whip up your version of Speakeasy Fashion and head on over to check it out. I personally feel it’s well worth joining, but not everyone can afford to do that. So, regardless of you ability to join…the club is open tonight and ready for the party!! OOOH and did I mention there are prizes sponsored by Cynful, Prey, and United Colors tonight??? Yeah, so get ready to shake those tail feathers and come party with us tonight!
What’s that? Oh, no, I won’t be wearing this tonight, but FMD is a great place to wear those naughty clothes that show your private parts on any other day. Am I partial to this place? You’re damn right. I found my way there through a couple of friends, but I keep going back because I love it so much. So, don’t give me the bored speech, when this is just one of the many fantastic places waiting for you to explore.

Here’s your direct tp to FMD.

sitting pretty

Sady is wearing:
hair: Beusy: Mija Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)

SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
-SU!- Lovesick Lip Gloss

CODE-5 [ Pamerale ] FEMALE V0.04 (*new* @ ROMP)
toksik – Bloom Choker (Group Gift)
(Yummy) Free Spirit Rings (*new* @ C88)

Narcisse– Bailey Mini Tutu & Pasties (*new* Bound Box May)
[MODA] MADISON PLATFORMS (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Ground Sits VOL2

scene:
Ariskea[Cocoli] Banana Plant (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Granola. Violette’s Fatpack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-Violette’s Hourglass Side Table. Old Copper.
-Violette’s Vases. Brass.
-Violette’s Cage Pendants. Brass.
-Violette’s Cocktail Chair. Grey