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Wish I Could Tell Her

She was too young to be the Hollywood type
Too pure to understand the lows and the highs
She didn’t know if she was gonna survive
It all got so much better with time
All of the evil eyes
Tequila before sunrise
I’d tell her to watch her back
That she’s worth more than that
‘Cause she was a girl with good intentions
Yeah, she made some bad decisions
And she learned a couple lessons
Wish I could tell her
She was a girl with good intentions
Didn’t need the second guessing
Didn’t need to ever question
Wish I could tell her
She didn’t know all of the hurt she could take
Her world was crumbling and so was her faith
Wish I could talk to her, ’cause what I would say
“Oh baby, you’re enough to get you out of this place”
~ Selena Gome – She

Belle 4

hair: DOUX – Bianca hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: DeeTaleZ *SKINS* for LELUTKA HEADS (EVO.) – Flora

^^Swallow^^ Persia Ears @ Kustom9
MIDNA – Nina Glasses @ Belle
KUNGLERS – Damaris necklace @ Belle
:::ChicChica::: Bubble Tea REZZ @ Equal10
[HU] Darylyn Outfit @ Belle

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – Lovable @ Belle

 

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Loyalty

I see a lot of quotes and memes on Facebook about loyalty. If you’re on any form of social media, I’m sure you’ve seen them, too. Now, before I go any further, I’m not one of those contrary types that argues with memes and quotes, especially on the posts themselves. Mainly, because I don’t care that much about such things, but also because its super annoying when people argue with memes. With that said, I am going to point out one major flaw with the theme of all these blind loyalty, unconditional love, ride till you die kinda quotes and memes.
Here’s what got me started, I came across a quote/meme that read: Nothing is more attractive than loyalty. Well, I feel a bit like Dwight Schrute from The Office (U.S. version) when I say, “WRONG!” I mean loyalty is nice, don’t get me wrong, but to say nothing is more attractive? That’s not something I’m going to know about someone for a while. I can see how loyal someone is to someone else, but I can’t know that they will show me that same loyalty. Nor can I know who is deserving of such. Loyalty is really one of those things that come on a case to case basis. Let’s be honest, none of us are 100% loyal to everyone. Loyalty is something we earn from one another. I will be loyal to a friend until they are no longer deserving, but I’m not going to be loyal to someone that proves themselves to be toxic or dangerous or reckless. I mean, Hitler has some very loyal men under his regime, does that make them attractive? Not to me! So, no, I’m sorry, there are a lot of things more attractive than loyalty….like self respect, boundaries, a nice ass, a beautiful smile, a sense of humor…just to name a few.

belle accessories blossom

Sady is wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Jane hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: DeeTaleZ *SKINS* for LELUTKA HEADS (EVO.) – Cora

REIGN.- HEART DANGLE EARRINGS
MIDNA – Cora Glasses @ Belle
Ascendant – Polished Square Nails
KUNGLERS – Ella bracelets @ Belle
Blossom&Seeds Liza @ Belle

Loft & Aria – Calliope Armchair W/ Throw & Pillow

Posted in Death Row Designs, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

Let me explain…or not

I just had the funniest conversation with my 73yr old mother in real life, that I felt it was share worthy. First, I want to say that my mother has always been open minded and accepting of all people. She had a gay bestie in college, which is saying a lot, considering it was the 60s! So, without further adieu…this is my trying to explain something to my mom.

Me: Oh she’s TransFemale.
Mom: so she’s gonna be a man?
Me: no, she’s a woman
Mom: NOW? or before?
Me: always
Mom: no, but she was born as a man, right?
Me: no, she’s always been a woman…she just had the wrong parts
Mom: so she was born with men’s parts?
Me: yes, Momma
Mom: so she was a man
Me: no, she’s always been a woman!
Mom: then how is she trans?
Me: oh ffs, yes, she was born a man, go away!

I swear sometimes I think she does it on purpose. And what does this have to do with the photo? Absolutely nothing. *laughs*

midna have unequal belle

hair: Stealthic – Dawn
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin @ TresChic
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

MIDNA – Giseli Glasses @ Belle
[ILAYA] Lukida Earrings @ Uber
(Yummy) – Sorceress Ring Set @ Uber
Ascendant – Taffy Nails
Lowen – Mia Laced Bag
[HU] Colby Outfit @Belle

pose: Amitie From Paris With Love @ Uber

DRD – Newsstand