Posted in Cosmopolitan, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Leaving Me Alone is a Bad Idea

I don’t feel like this is rocket science, but apparently too many people don’t get it. So, here’s a little tip…if the person you are dating is upset/stressed/depressed/going through a rough time, going radio silent is NOT a good move. Unless they have specifically requested to be left alone…going away and not speaking to them is going to make things worse. Since, so few people seem to understand that, I just thought I’d put it out there.
This next part is just for me, or about me, I can’t speak for how others fully react to being pretty much abandoned while clearly needing the support of the one that supposedly loves them. For me, if  you walk away from me when times are hard, then you’ve just told me that I’m an option. You’ve told me that I’m not worth the effort of an actual conversation. Even if all you do is wrap your arms around me and tell me its going to be okay, the proceed to listen…THAT is far better that throwing up your hands and walking away. Once you make me feel like I’m not worth your time and effort, I’m done. I will not stick around to feel that way again and again. I know there are women out there on the grid that will wait for someone that doesn’t have the decency to send a message and tell them what’s going on. I will never understand that, but hey, to each their own. I’m not the one. I can feel like shit without your help. So, when you throw me to the wolves when I’m down and out, I will learn to stand on my own. I’m a fighter. That’s what I do. Ah, but here’s the rub….if I have to do this all by myself…wtf do I need you for? Nothing…which is what you left me with when you gave me that ever so fucking mature silent treatment.
Here’s the thing, if I’m an option to you, go away. When I let you into my heart, I mean it, so if you’re going to treat me like a pawn in your little love game….go find some thirsty bitch that’s going to take all that crap. I’m not her. In my opinion, none of us should allow anyone to treat us that way, but what do I know? I’d rather be alone than be treated poorly. I guess the point I’m making is that if you care about me don’t leave me alone and expect me to just be okay when you finally decide to man up and come back. I won’t be waiting.

tableau lyrium

hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Editorial hair – Ponytail [RARE] @ Arcade
head: LeLUTKA Erin Head
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Maya (LeLutkaEVO) @ Uber

eyeshadow: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA STUPID LOVE COLLECTION #3 @ Cosmopolitan
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA STUPID LOVE COLLECTION #7 @ Cosmopolitan

pose & background: Lyrium. Seashore Scene and Pose Series @ Pose Fair Market

Posted in Second Life

My Sasster

This is my sister from another mister and has quickly become one of my best friends. After hanging out almost daily for well over 6 months now, we made it official. I now have two sisters in Second Life. We’ve already been though some ups & downs and I’m happy to report that we worked it out like adults! The secret to a great friendship is communication and the willingness to confront uncomfortable situations head on. Ok, I’ll admit…we might need to walk away for a minute or a day, then regroup. The point is, we always come back with open arms, open hearts, and tons of laughter.

doux stealthic miu little fox breathe lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Eden hairstyle @ Dubai
head: LeLUTKA Erin Head
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair] Beatriz Skin [Lelutka] @ C88

lashes: [POUT!] Kelly – Eye lash collection @ Belle
eyes: [Heaux] Poppy Eyes – Essentials #5
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears

eyeshadow: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA LOVE LETTER COLLECTION #3
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA SUGAR DRIP COLLECTION #5
tattoo: Tattoo “Maneki Neko”_by GoK

Miu – Aurora outfit @ Tres Chic
[BREATHE]-Sorami Heels @ C88

Sassy is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Chiffon
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.0
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

*AvaWay* DORIS Necklaces
*AvaWay* LOVE Bracelets & Rings Set

Little Fox – Kelsey satin blouse @ Tres Chic
Little Fox – Kelsey jeans skirt @ Tres Chic
[Enchante‘] – Jacqueline Shoes

pose: Lyrium. Girls Dual Pose 10 @ Dubai

backdrop: K&S – // Telephone booth. Photobooth

Posted in Animals, Bueno, Collabor88, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Cruel Summer

Well, its almost summer and many areas the temps are quite convincing that summer has arrived early. Now, with all the social distancing  rules and hopefully common sense in place, I wonder how this is going to affect summer activities. I’ve seen plenty of shots on the news that showcase plenty of activity at the beaches. I really hope that people will stop listening to politicians about this virus, do a little bit of research for themselves, and protect each other. I know people are worried about the economy, but if this virus keeps wiping people out at the rate it’s been going…well, let’s just say, dead people don’t spend money either. No matter what you believe, please stay safe…the virus is real and before its over, we will all have lost someone to this horrific pandemic. Its better to endure ONE cruel summer than lose them all.

bueno swimsuit

hair: –FABIA– Mesh Hair < Elona> @ Access
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Shara (LeLutkaEVO) @ Uber

[theSkinnery] Lora Lash Collection (LeLutkaEVOLUTION) @ Access
eyeshadow: IDTTY FACES – – SWEET BABE LELUTKA #4
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – – SWEET BABE LELUTKA #9

Vibing — Vanessa Earrings @ Access
(Yummy) Adel Ring Set @ C88
Ascendant – Silvia Nails @ Access

BUENO-Sari Swimsuit @ Kustom9

pose: Lyrium. Luna Series Group Gift

Paparazzi – BACKDROP – Vapor Heights @ Equal10

KAZZA – CostalPatioSet

Junk Food – Ice Cream Cart (Pink) @ Equal10

O.M.E.N – French Bulldog Life Guard

Posted in Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Legacy, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, vinyl

This Adventure

Life is an adventure. Half of the adventure is the journey. As much as some of us (like me) enjoy our solitude, its also important that we learn to lean on one another. Enjoy each other’s company. For one reason or another, those we love may not be around forever. I’m not talking about death. I’m talking about people growing apart. We’ve all heard the saying, “People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.” We have to be willing to accept that change happens and sometimes people grow apart. It’s not always for a bad reason and we have to be willing to accept that its not always personal. Even if it is, chances are…their purpose in our life has been met. I’ve had many people come and go from my life over the years. I resent very few, because I choose to remember the good times. I choose to remember the good that came from that friendship/relationship. So, whether near or far, its important for us to be grateful for all those people that have been part of our journey and part of this adventure we call life.

lunar vinyl equal10

left
hair:  WINGS-HAIR-TZ0124 @ LeveL
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Shara (LeLutkaEVO) @ Uber

eyeshadow: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA MOON DUST COLLECTION #3
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA MOON DUST COLLECTION #8

TETRA – Luna necklace @ C88
(Yummy) Adel Ring Set @ C88
SU!– Almond Nails
Lunar – Rumi Top @ Equal10
Lunar – Rumi Shorts w/ Phone @ Equal10

right
hair:  DOUX – Cordelia hairstyle
head:  Genus Head – Classic Face
body:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin

VINYL – Sage Knotted Tee @ Equal10
VINYL – Book Punk Skirt @ Equal10

pose & background:
Lyrium. Girls Dual Pose 9 @ Equal10
Lyrium. The Crossing Backdrop Scene @ Equal10

Posted in Cynful, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

I’m still learning

I should be living the dream
But I’m living with a security team
And that ain’t gonna change, no
I got a paranoia in me
And you wouldn’t believe
Everything that I’ve seen, no
Coming apart at the seams
And no one around me knows
Who I am, what I’m on
Who I’ve hurt and where they’ve gone
I know that I’ve done some wrong
But I’m trying to make it right
Did the one I love do me wrong?
Give me up right now
I know that I love you but I’m still learning
To love myself
I’m still learning to love myself
~ Halsey – Still Learning

richb cynful

Sady is wearing:
hair:  [monso] My Hair – Lokelanni @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [Glam Affair] Reese Skin – Lelutka @ Uber

RichB. Kitty Ears @ SaNaRae
RichB. Imo Earrings
[CX] Tyrant’s Chain @ FaMESHed
MIWAS / Mei Belt jacket
Cynful Bodysuit Set @ FaMESHed
MIWAS / High waist Fishnet tights

pose: Lyrium. Lindalein Series
TrashTheBeat Backdrop – The Bearded Guy

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Lamb, Legacy, Lelutka, Pose Fair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, vinyl, [BREATHE]

Freedom of My Mind

“Lock up your libraries if you like; but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.”
― Virginia Woolf, A Room of One’s Own

lamb rise vinyl miu breathe lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Mod @ FaMESHed
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

[ rD ] Blossima Earrings @ Belle
[ rD ] Blossima Necklace @ Belle
VINYL – Blackberry Top @ The Liaison Collaborative
Miu – Brielle shorts @ FaMESHed
[BREATHE]-Kaiko Heels @ FaMESHed

pose & background: Lyrium. Garden View Scene – Easter Lily Field @ Pose Fair Market

Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Error

Okay, so I chose a song to go with this picture…not for the words necessarily, though I did look up the translated version. I don’t understand everything that is being referenced in the song, but the feel of it when I listen to it…well, sue me. I like it. So, give it a listen if you want or even check out the video…its pretty cute.
An error code error code error code error
An error code error code error no error !!
GARNiDELiA – Error

tableau belle

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // My Deer @ C88
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

Colivati – Star Lipgloss Pack – [LELUTKA EVO] @ Belle
Remezzo Kimmy Necklace
KUNGLERS – Grazia rings @ Belle
RUST REPUBLIC panties @ Belle

pose: Lyrium. Bird Series @ Dubai

Error Glitch – Never Change – The Bearded Guy

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

A Dash of Accidentally on Purpose

Yes, I forgot to wear earring in my bottom holes, but look at my shoes! Look at them…don’t worry about my ears and their empty hole. (Though these ears are amazing…I mean, you can hide the bottom earring to add your own…I just forgot, okay?) The shoes…look…how pretty are these? Yeah, I know…so you wanna grab them and this dress…both are from Little Fox and they look amazing together. What you’re not really seeing with this picture is that the people behind you will get a nice peek at your left butt cheek in this dress. Go on, you can look classy with just a dash of accidentally on purpose trashy. *grins*

doux little fox lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Ni hairstyle @ Dubai Event
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

^^Swallow^^ Runway Bento Rings @ Kustom9
Little Fox  – Miley mini dress @ Belle
Little Fox – Simone suede heels @ Shiny Shabby

pose: Lyrium. Hara Series @ Dubai Event
location: Burrow Coffee & Whiskey Co.

Posted in Artisan Fantasy, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Calling all my Cool Cats & Kittens

As soon as I saw the Triggered Tagged Kitty headband at Belle, I knew this was a must have. I mean, c’mon…I’m practically a cat. How could I resist? As I dug around in my inventory for “toys” to add to the photo, I came across the perfect addition to my kitty look. I discovered I had Noir’s Meow Gacha – Plug Tail. I quickly added that, as I was already wearing their Nala necklace…also at Belle! So, I’m calling to all you cool cats and kittens…*giggles*…yeah, I said it. C’mon, how can you not love her? I mean, I don’t love what she does exactly, but if you know who I’m talking about and you know me….you know I’m fascinated! Oh yeah, calling all my cool cats and kitten readers…there’s some cute lil cat goodies waiting for you at Belle…including the sexy lingerie I’m wearing!

diversion lyrium belle muse

Sady is wearing:
hair: Opale . Adeena Hair @ Access
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

headband/ears: – TRIGGERED – Tagged Kitty @ Belle
:::NOIR::: Nala Necklace @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Fur – Onyx @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Lingerie – Onyx @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Garter – Onyx @ Belle
:::NOIR::: Meow Gacha – Plug Tail Black

pose: Diversion – Spring Joy

scene:
Lyrium Through Glass Pastels Set 2 @ Welcome Back

Fancy Decor: Fuck Throw Pillow

*AF* Capturado Feather Ticklers
*AF* Capturado Rope Set

hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . pink variegated

MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box

Bellucci. Lover Buttplug

05. Lagom – Babygirl [ Messy Condoms ]

.peaches. Singles Awareness Clutter – Vibe

 

Posted in Cynful, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

I said…

I said, put your filthy hands all over me
And no, this ain’t the clean version
And what you gonna do with all that meat?
Cookin’ up a mean servin’
~ Justin Timberlake – Filthy

foxy cynful breathe lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: Foxy – Gemini Hair @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber
Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK

Cynful Gracey’s Shrug – FLF (April 4, 2020)
[BREATHE]-Kaeko Heels @ Epiphany

Alcohol Light – DeepBreath – The Bearded Guy

[ILAYA] Wet Dreams – Neon Light