Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Loving Myself

Like so many others, I notice people popping in and out of relationships in Second Life and I observe several that seem to endure the test of time. One thing that I notice quite a bit in the failing relationships is betrayal, mental/emotional abuse, and neglect. I can’t help but wonder if these people have children. If they do, would they want their children to behave in such a manner? Would they encourage their children to stay in a toxic relationship? I certainly hope not. I will never understand why people think its okay to treat one another so poorly and better yet, why anyone would accept that type of behavior.
Perhaps I’m too intolerant. Maybe I’m too picky. I know I have trust issues or rather full blown lifelong subscriptions, but there’s no way in hell I’m going to allow someone to be so blatantly abusive or disrespectful towards me. Yes, I do get incredibly lonely at times, but I’d rather work on loving myself than trying to survive a destructive relationship.

peaches serenity mud

ACORN Let It Snow Blocks

.peaches. Emberly Bench – With Blanket @ FaMESHed

GOOSE – couples snowy lantern

JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Stroll
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Graze
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Bound

MudHoney Chubby Snowman (VIP Group Gift)

Serenity Style– Beau Garden Fountain [WINTER] @ Uber
Serenity Style- Beau Garden Fountain SNOW ADD ON

LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}
LB_Hill-v1{winter}

*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen]

hive // fir trees

HPMD* Dirt Road – snowy

Posted in DOUX, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

It isn’t a crime

I finally faced the fact that it isn’t a crime not having friends. Being alone means you have fewer problems.

Whitney Houston

dead dollz eurdora galland diversion

hair:  #1 DOUX – Snowflake Queen hairstyle @ Arcade
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
.random.Matter. – Miroh Elfie Ears @ Kustom9
body: Maitreya
skin:  — PUMEC #RARE 2 – KATE – MAY   @ Kustom9

**CC** – Glamour Glitter
**CC** – Glitterati
KUNGLERS – Inga necklace
Dead Dollz – Mila Outfit @ Uber
Eudora3D Harper Boots @ FaMESHed

pose: Diversion – Cold Days – Bench @ Belle

Reindeer by Galland Homes  @ Tannenbaum

hive // fir tree

LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}

 

Posted in Collabor88, crate, Death Row Designs, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, pr!tty, Second Life, shoes, shopping, {le fil casse}

Books

“Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home.”
― Anna Quindlen

lfc seresty crate elm reign

hair:  pr!tty – Tory
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

{le fil casse} Alena Sweater Dress @ Kustom9
REIGN.- DONNA BOOTIES @ Collabor88

pose: Le Poppycock-Never look back

scene:
(Milk Motion) road to nowhere – Desert Land
(Milk Motion) cactus 1
(Milk Motion) cactus 2

Serenity Style– You are the one OLD @ 6 Republic

crate Sign Collection American Gods @ 6 Republic

KraftWork Cappadocia Hot Air Balloon

Elm. “The Railway Station”

4 – DRD – AE – Arctic Express – Train Car End – RARE

LB_Snakeweed

Posted in Second Life

I’m blogging a house!

So, I’m blogging a house! Yep, that’s new for me, but I was approached by Galland Homes and I’ve got to tell you that felt amazing. I couldn’t believe they wanted me to blog for them. I’ve never even blogged houses before. It’s my first time, so be gentle. I promise I’m going to get better at this. With that said, I fell in love with the front porch of this house and it reminded me of so many of the homes in my area. Nothing says summer like a nice cold drink on the front porch. I knew immediately that the Jolene set from MudHoney would be the exactly what this porch needed.
As for the interior, you’ll need to go over to Galland Homes and check it out for yourself, but I will tell you that this is a nice big house with lots of room. So, if you like open floorplans with enough space to cam around freely and decorating will not be hard at all. Plenty of plain walls for art and photos, but enough floor space to divide the area into different areas with some of those gorgeous room dividers. Downstairs has a really nice fireplace, as well as a separate kitchen area with beautiful windows that look out over the backyard and the back porch.

first Galland post

Lauren Valley by Galland Homes

all grass and trees by Little Branch

Mudhoney porch

MudHoney Jolene Porch Set
-MudHoney Jolene Chair
-MudHoney Jolene Coffee Table
-MudHoney Mint Julep Tray
-MudHoney Jolene Lantern

 

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping

Howlin For You

The Black Keys – Howlin For You

I must admit
I can’t explain
Any of these thoughts racing
Through my brain
It’s true
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

There’s something wrong
With this plot
The actors here
Have not got
A clue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Mockingbird
Can’t you see
Little girl’s
Got a hold on me
Like glue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Throw the ball
To the stick
Swing and miss and a
Catcher’s mitt
Strike two
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

howling

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Caralisa
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
[Cynful] Wish Necklace Set
[Cynful] Delrica’s Cozy Sweater (*new* @ C88)
[VALE KOER] THERMAL SOCKS GROUP GIFT

pose w/window included:  [ Focus Poses ]  Frosty Morning

on the window sill:
Apple Fall  Crumpled Newspaper
Apple Fall Liberty Sketchbook
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin

outside:
Soy.. Snow Covered Woods Set
Soy.. Snow covered cliff and rock Set
LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}
JIAN Grey Wolf :: Static Howl

Posted in Cosmopolitan, Death Row Designs, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Gingerfish Poses, Jian, RunAway Hair, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness

Oh Deer

When I was putting this scene together, I couldn’t help but get lost as I was thrown down memory lane. Earlier this year, I lost my aunt. I shouldn’t say I lost her, because to be honest, I didn’t really like her. My mom lost her sister. My mom was and still is quite heartbroken. While I didn’t like my aunt very much, there were things I liked about her. I loved visiting her for a few days at a time, because she lived on a mountain in the hills of West Virginia. I know, I know, but seriously, its a beautiful state, especially in the fall when the leaves are so vibrant. I loved being so enveloped in mother nature. There were deer that would come into her yard every night as the sun was going down and you never knew when you’d see a bear lurking about looking for apples. My aunt was especially gullible and I even had her hunting ghost orbs in the Catholic cemetery at the bottom of the mountain once. *laughs* Her home was rustic and so far removed from modern society to include dial up internet as it was all she could get where she lived.
I didn’t agree with her views on life, religion, or politics. I didn’t think she was a very nice person, but there we managed to share some funny moments. Like the time we mouthed words to each other and made my mother think she was going deaf. She fought hard the last few years of her life and finally couldn’t fight anymore. I understood that and I admired her decision to tell her family she was done fighting. To say goodbye and let her go. I know that took a lot of courage for her, considering how close she was to her children and how much she loved her husband. I dedicate this post to her, even though she has never approved of me, my lifestyle, my beliefs, etc. *laughs*

oh deer

wearing:
hair:  [RA] Rachel Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Megan (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Sour Times (*new* @ Darkness Monthly)

scene:
llorisen // simeon lodge (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Trompe Loeil – Keithia Bed Dark  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Draped Over
DRD gg rug brown
*Shabby* Boho Vintage Chest
Scarlet Creative The Arcade Sep 15 – Greenwich Telephone
dust bunny . bunny alarm clock . brown
23- 8f8 – primavera in Toscana Wall Lamp
uK – Simply Said Karma RARE (*new* @ Gacha Gardens)
dust bunny . spotted begonia
BALACLAVA!! Books [horizontal A]
!! Follow US !! Safety dog with pants
Apt B // Hello Billy – Hatboxes
!gO! SteamTeddy +Mad+
[ zerkalo ] Hidden Gems – Dress Form
Kalopsia – Curtaina – Chevron Beige
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 2
Fancy Decor: Hasting Bench (white) (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Open Book (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Rain Boots (*new* @ Uber)
Second Spaces – snow day books – messy stack
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 3
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 1
[Black Bantam] Puppies At Play (*new* @ Chapter Four)
DRD – Series 01 – Floor Lamp – Light2.
*MSS* Garden Party Hanging Wicker Ball Natural

outside:
JIAN Fallow Deer Buck & Doe (*new* @ FaMESHed)
LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}