Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Legacy, Second Life

Marathon of Possibilities

I have a tendency run a complete marathon of possibilities in my head with just about everything. It doesn’t matter if its something I’m excited about or something that scares me. So, if I meet a guy and everything is falling into place, I’m quick to think of all the ways this could work out in good ways, all while waiting for the penny to drop. I make myself absolutely crazy doing this. As I continue my therapy and learning to be mindful, I have been trying really hard not to do this. As it often leads to very hurt feelings for which I have no one to blame but myself. Listen, I’m trying, okay?
So, recently I met someone that has already made some serious improvements to my life. I ran the marathon, of course, and I got excited. Alas, real life has gotten in the way of my virtual dreams and the penny has officially dropped. HOWEVER, I’m super pleased with myself this go round, because I did not fall apart or feel that sense of devastation when the penny dropped. I just accepted the situation for what it is and have decided to just make the most of it. This person offered me some tools that work with my therapy tools and I’m hopeful about my own personal plan for a change. So, I’ve grabbed that silver lining by the tail and I am holding on for dear life. I don’t know how much time I have left on this planet, but I’ll be damned if I’m going to just give up. I’ve survived far too much to let life hold me down now.

Little Fox

hair: –FABIA– Mesh Hair < Elba>
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face W001 – Mocap
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin:  [Glam Affair] Josie Applier [ Genus ] @ Access

Wednesday[+] ~ Idoru Eyelashes @ Kustom9
[Heaux] Dolly Eyes

.::Nanika::. Leah Necklace
Little Fox – Sophia @ Anthem

pose: FOXCITY. Playroom Bento Pose Set

scene:
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Playroom

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow

*Tentacio* melancholy days
-record player
-feel the music

all plants from dust bunny

 

Posted in Animals, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Reign, Second Life, shoes, shopping

We consume for comfort

“Some people engage in retail therapy, buying new things to make themselves feel more secure, and others engage in knowledge therapy, amassing new ideas to make themselves feel like they know something. We consume for comfort. We rely on certainty to shield us from the pain of confusion. The truth is staggering, colossal, unfathomable, so we cling to our bite-sized lies. We organize knowledge into bulleted lists and line graphs while the wisdom of the present moment sits patiently at the doors of our perception.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Art of Talking to Yourself

miu little fox reign

hair:  tram J0616 hair @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.2
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair] Bia Skin [ Lelutka ] @ Kustom9
.:Vegas:. Tattoo Earthly @ Uber

RichB. Halo Cuffs
REIGN.- SLOUCHY TOTE BAG PAN DUH
Miu – Kiara top @ TresChic
Little Fox – Skinny low jeans
REIGN.- ORA SLIDES

pose: Diversion – Dial Up Poses includes Phone Box 

(Milk Motion) La trattoria alley

dust bunny . fresh fruit stand . full set

[Rezz Room] Rottweiler Adult Animesh

Posted in Bueno, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Home Decor, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, {le fil casse}

The Clearest Summer

“Another secret of the universe: Sometimes pain was like a storm that came out of nowhere. The clearest summer could end in a downpour. Could end in lightning and thunder.”
― Benjamin Alire Sáenz, Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe

stealthic bueno lfc lf thor lyrium

avatar:
hair:  Stealthic – Embers
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.2
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair] Bia Skin [ Lelutka ] @ Kustom9

BUENO-Ari Shirt-Fatpack @ Uber
{le fil casse} Sage Printed Shorts
Little Fox – Aghata platform heels

pose: Lyrium. Sky Gazing Series @ Equal10

scene: 
building: Scarlet Creative Carnaval 2

..::THOR::.. Beachin’ Pack @ Summerfest
..::THOR::.. Beachin’ Wooden Surf – fat pack exclusive
..::THOR::.. Beachin’ Wooden Chair Mix1
..::THOR::.. Beachin’ Tote Bag
..::THOR::.. Beachin’ Drink – fat pack exclusive – rez

Ariskea[Acai] Bohemian Pillow [Mustard]

[Commoner] THC Gummies / Beach Bliss @ Summerfest

DISORDERLY. / Smooth Summer / Strawberry Smoothie / Decor @ Summerfest

Granola. Farah Bird Of Paradise Planter. @ Equal10

[Merak] – Coastal Tray @ Summerfest

.peaches. Coira’s Summer Bash Noodle Pile @ Summerfest

tarte. dock cushion – lace

(Fundati) Ivy Leaves

 

Posted in Second Life

My Sasster

This is my sister from another mister and has quickly become one of my best friends. After hanging out almost daily for well over 6 months now, we made it official. I now have two sisters in Second Life. We’ve already been though some ups & downs and I’m happy to report that we worked it out like adults! The secret to a great friendship is communication and the willingness to confront uncomfortable situations head on. Ok, I’ll admit…we might need to walk away for a minute or a day, then regroup. The point is, we always come back with open arms, open hearts, and tons of laughter.

doux stealthic miu little fox breathe lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Eden hairstyle @ Dubai
head: LeLUTKA Erin Head
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair] Beatriz Skin [Lelutka] @ C88

lashes: [POUT!] Kelly – Eye lash collection @ Belle
eyes: [Heaux] Poppy Eyes – Essentials #5
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears

eyeshadow: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA LOVE LETTER COLLECTION #3
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – LELUTKA SUGAR DRIP COLLECTION #5
tattoo: Tattoo “Maneki Neko”_by GoK

Miu – Aurora outfit @ Tres Chic
[BREATHE]-Sorami Heels @ C88

Sassy is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Chiffon
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.0
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

*AvaWay* DORIS Necklaces
*AvaWay* LOVE Bracelets & Rings Set

Little Fox – Kelsey satin blouse @ Tres Chic
Little Fox – Kelsey jeans skirt @ Tres Chic
[Enchante‘] – Jacqueline Shoes

pose: Lyrium. Girls Dual Pose 10 @ Dubai

backdrop: K&S – // Telephone booth. Photobooth

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Mina Hair, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative

Cats & Books

If you own a cat and like to read, then you already know. If you own a cat and don’t like to read, but want your cat to pay attention to you…then listen up. Nothing attracts a cat quicker than cracking open a book. I don’t know what it is about these furry little assholes and books, but it has never failed me. The only place I can read undisturbed is in the bathtub. Every cat I have ever had has suddenly felt the need for my attention, the minute I get settled in with a good book.

mina littlefox diversion

Sady is wearing:
hair:  MINA – Tarja @ FaMESHed
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

Little Fox – Skylar top @ Anthem
S&P Beuanna panties
(AMD) LoungeWear Socks

pose: Diversion – Avoidance – Poses @ The Liaison Collaborative

The Loft & ARIA – Beckett Settee
The Loft & ARIA – Beckett Mirror

[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Jumping

 

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

A Dash of Accidentally on Purpose

Yes, I forgot to wear earring in my bottom holes, but look at my shoes! Look at them…don’t worry about my ears and their empty hole. (Though these ears are amazing…I mean, you can hide the bottom earring to add your own…I just forgot, okay?) The shoes…look…how pretty are these? Yeah, I know…so you wanna grab them and this dress…both are from Little Fox and they look amazing together. What you’re not really seeing with this picture is that the people behind you will get a nice peek at your left butt cheek in this dress. Go on, you can look classy with just a dash of accidentally on purpose trashy. *grins*

doux little fox lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Ni hairstyle @ Dubai Event
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

^^Swallow^^ Runway Bento Rings @ Kustom9
Little Fox  – Miley mini dress @ Belle
Little Fox – Simone suede heels @ Shiny Shabby

pose: Lyrium. Hara Series @ Dubai Event
location: Burrow Coffee & Whiskey Co.

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

Who knows what I’ll be doing?

Things are changing everywhere. Not just the world as we know it with all the Covid19 stuff, but all around me. I’ve taken on more jobs in sl which is cutting into my blog time as well as other things. However, in an attempt to find a balance between all of my commitments, I’ve come to realize that my therapist was right. Multitasking is ineffective. I was so heartbroken when she first said this, but I decided to be open minded about it. I did as she suggested, by taking on one task at a time. I even tried to be more mindful about it. Ugh. She was right. I was wrong. *stomps her foot* Go figure.
So, with all of this going on, I will be making changes to how I blog and what I blog.
As much as I love doing decor, it is far more time consuming and often does my head in. So, I decided to cut waaaay back on my decor commitments. There are a handful of brands that I’m just not even close to ready to break up with…and it was a hard decision dropping four of my favorites yesterday. Alas, I will simply be a customer and continue to feature them when possible, without the time constraints.
I will probably write a lot less going forward. There’s a few reasons for this. One is that aside from not really having time to do it for every single post, most people aren’t really reading it. I mean, I’m going to do what I want…so I will still write from time to time, but for the most part, you can expect lyrics, quotes, excerpts or a quick quip about the items I’m blogging. Of course, I say all of this now….but give me a month or two and who knows what I’ll be doing. LOL.

doux littlefox lw burrow

Sady is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Lulu hairstyle @ TresChic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

.::Nanika::. Aimy Necklace
RichB. Halo Cuffs
[Since 1975]-Phone&Case-You’reMine (old group gift)
Little Fox – Jennie knitted top @ Access
Little Fox – Jennie suede skirt @ Access

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – Loving Nature Set
location: Burrow Coffee & Whiskey Co.

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Kaithleen's, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Get on with my day

So much has happened this year, that I completely forgot that my blog turned four years old last month. I was hoping to do something special, but with the world the way it is right now…is it any wonder that I forgot? I didn’t even do my April Fool’s jokes this year. I just couldn’t bring myself to trick anyone the way I like to. Instead of saying, “Have a good day” we’re saying, “stay safe.” More and more of us grow infuriated by those that don’t take this seriously and stay home. Especially in the U.S., where we have so many government officials trying to minimize and politicize this pandemic. There’s so much confusion and misinformation going around out there. I’m just doing my best to not completely freak out. So, that’s just a peek into my scrambled little brain this morning. I guess I need to get on with my day and try not to think too much on the virus, as I am staying home and doing my best to stay safe.

doux little fox lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Sins hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

Ascendant – Temptress Nails
Little Fox – Debbie crop top @ Belle
Kaithleen’s Falling Panties

Lyrium. Comfort Zone Backdrop
**poses built in**

Posted in DOUX, Legacy, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life

I call her SteffyCakes, Schmeffy, and S3, among other things

I just want to take a minute to tell you about my dear friend and neighbor, Miss Stefania Giano. I call her SteffyCakes, Schmeff, and S3, among other things. You can call her Steff. *giggles* She is an amazing, intelligent mother of two in real life and in Second Life, she’s an incredible blogger, not to mention she works for some pretty ilustrious events …*cough* FaMESHed…*cough*…Uber…*cough*….ANDDDDD she’s my neighbor!!! Like she lives right next door!!! She is so much fun to be around and she can be a complete nutter…though I’m not sure I’m supposed to tell people that. Oh and she will take one for the team…just ask Ori…*looks around innocently*…or you can ask to see her baby hydra…*grins.* I’m really quite blessed to have this fantastic lady in my life and if you ever meet her, you’ll know why within minutes.

Steffy &amp; Sady Collab

Steffy is wearing:
hair: DOUX – Andrea Hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA.Head.Nova
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.1

*COCO*_BacklessCropTop
Little Fox – Skinny low jeans @ Access

Sady is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Brink
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1 @ Skin Fair
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Ashley (LeLutka)

KUNGLERS – Rosa necklace @ Belle
KUNGLERS – Rosa earrings @ Belle
KUNGLERS – Rosa ring @ Belle
.Safira. Ayrin Outfit @ Belle

pose: [ west end ] Bento Poses – Milk & Honey – Friends Pose

Posted in Bloom, Chic Moda, DOUX, Events, Legacy, Lelutka, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic

Fit your attitude

When I finished editing this picture, I showed it to Chris (my bo’fren) and he asked if I was mad at someone. I just laughed. I’m not mad at anyone, I just love this pose from Diversion. However, I feel like there’s always someone or something deserving of a big F*CK YOU. (yes, I did just censor myself, its called growth or something like that). I just felt particularly badass in this outfit, okay? I’m sure it’s the accessories from RichB that really made me feel so badass, cuz this Blossom top from ChicModa is quite sweet, almost delicate. And we all know jeans can go in either direction. Though I must say these jeans from Little Fox fit like a glove! So, I guess you could say that its really all about accessorizing to fit your attitude….and well, most of you already know MY attitude. *grins*

doux chicmoda little fox diversion

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Bianca hairstyle @ Tres Chic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1 @ Skin Fair
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Ashley (LeLutka)

RichB. Hamatis Earrings
*AvaWay* GWEN Ribbon Corset CHOKER
RichB. Skully Arm Band @ Fetish Fair
RichB. Halo Cuffs
-SU!- Almond Nails @ Anthem
ChicModa // Blossom Top @ Bloom
Little Fox – Skinny low jeans @ Access

pose: Diversion – Lunacy Poses @ Aenigma
MINIMAL – Fungsun Backdrop @ Equal10