Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Chic Moda, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life, Uber SL

Rough Week

It’s been a rough week full of tough decisions and its only Thursday! I’ve missed my last two group therapy appointments and I’m in serious need of some one on one with my therapist, luckily I have an appointment tomorrow. I’ve been avoiding someone close to me, because their lifestyle is toxic to me and despite the fact that I’ve asked repeatedly for some boundaries to be in place, this person refuses to show me even a modicum of respect.
It is absolutely heartbreaking to think that I might be losing a friend that I’ve grown to love so very much, but at the end of the day I must take care of myself. I’ve spent the last four years living in this dark hole of a life and as I try my hardest to pull myself out…I cannot allow anyone to hinder my growth. On the other hand, a true friend wouldn’t be so blatantly disrespectful, would they?
I mean, if I don’t set boundaries for myself and the people I allow in my life, I will only be putting myself back into that little people pleasing box, running around on auto pilot that has put me so far into the darkness I’m so desperately trying to escape. I want to enjoy what’s left of my life and I can’t do that if I continue to permit someone to consistently disrespect me. We tell each other all the time not to let our lovers do it, but we rarely approach the subject of friends. Sadly, that’s where I am right now and its a bridge I have avoided crossing for the better part of the past six months. *sighs*

chicmoda miu bueno truth derrek

Sady:
hair: TRUTH Kitten
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
.random.Matter. – Miroh Human Ears @ Kustom9
body: Maitreya
skin: [Glam Affair] Hanna Applier [ Genus ] @ Uber

BUENO-Mercy Shades @ Anthem
Kibitz – Wandie’s necklace @ Kustom9
Ascendant – Temptress Nails @ Kinky
ChicModa // Noelle Sweater @ FaMESHEd
Legal Insanity – Gioia flared pants

Derrek:
hair: Modulus – Miles Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: [Signature] Gianni Body
suit: [Deadwool] Hart

pose: Ardent Poses – Content

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Second Life

Her Chaos

“Wild woman are an unexplainable spark of life. They ooze freedom and seek awareness, they belong to nobody but themselves yet give a piece of who they are to everyone they meet.
If you have met one, hold on to her, she’ll allow you into her chaos but she’ll also show you her magic.”
― Nikki Rowe

bueno asteroid box bearded guy

hair:  DOUX – Cordelia hairstyle
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

BUENO-Night Gloves @ Collabor88
AsteroidBox. Iris Shorts @ Equal10

pose: oOo Taste One

Sad Road – Black Night – The Bearded Guy

OR C900 ANJEL SPIRIT SERIES

His hair is from Modulus & his jacket is from Legal Insanity

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Finding the imagination

Halloween is not only about putting on a costume, but it’s about finding the imagination and costume within ourselves. Elvis Duran

lamb aphorism bueno

hair: Lamb. Lark @ FaMESHed
head: CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria Applier
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

[CX] Bento Piercing Labret Ring
[CX] Bento Piercing Snakebites

collar: [CX] Hell’s Harbinger
necklace: BUENO-Tempted Necklace  @ Anthem
bracelets: Asteria “Heaven”
rings: : CULT : His Princess

!APHORISM! – Ann Crop Top @ FaMESHed
Legal Insanity – Gioia flared pants

pose by Ana Poses

location: The Liaison Collaborative

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, We <3 Role-Play

You Can Never Hurt Me Again

This is a story that I have never told
I gotta get this off my chest to let it go
I need to take back the light inside you stole
You’re a criminal
And you steal like you’re a pro
All the pain and the truth
I wear like a battle wound
So ashamed, so confused
I was broken and bruised
Now I’m a warrior
Now I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me again
Out of the ashes, I’m burning like a fire
You can save your apologies, you’re nothing but a liar
I’ve got shame, I’ve got scars
That I will never show
I’m a survivor
In more ways than you know
‘Cause all the pain and the truth
I wear like a battle wound
So ashamed, so confused
I’m not broken or bruised
‘Cause now I’m a warrior
Now I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me
There’s a part of me I can’t get back
A little girl grew up too fast
All it took was once, I’ll never be the same
Now I’m taking back my life today
Nothing left that you can say
‘Cause you were never gonna take the blame anyway
Now I’m a warrior
I’ve got thicker skin
I’m a warrior
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been
And my armor, is made of steel, you can’t get in
I’m a warrior
And you can never hurt me again
No oh yeah yeah
You can never hurt me again

goldilox

wearing:
hair:  /Wasabi Pills/ Olivia Mesh Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Wicca’s Wardrobe – Aki Mask (*new* @ We<3RP)
.::Nanika::.Star Collar
Zaara : Raksha arm-chains
**RE** Zaria Bracelets
Zaara : Raksha thigh-chain
Legal Insanity – Alice sheer dress

pose by Del May Poses

E.V.E Chained Red Orchid {Gold}

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Jian, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Pose Fair, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

RATS!

Some days I think I’d be better off hanging out with rats than most of the men I meet. I realize I’m no spring chicken in her 20s or even 30s, but the caliber of male personalities in Second Life is severely lacking. It’s no damn wonder women have thrown in the good girl towel and started going for what they need, rather than what they want. Men have been doing it for centuries, but let a woman go seek some self-gratification with a stranger and she gets herself a reputation. To hell with that, these days even the one night stand is likely to disappoint.
I’d love to see some of the men in SL put a bit more effort into courting a woman. Then again, why should they? If they wait long enough, they’ll be surrounded by thirsty sluts, hungry whores, and desperate housewives begging for it. See? I just did it myself, labeled batches of women with bad names. To hell with that! I say if you’re thirsty, get you a drink! If you’re hungry, grab a meal! If you’re desperate…uhm, yeah, maybe see a therapist? I don’t think that’s a healthy attitude to have when making decisions about sex. In the meantime, learn to take care of your own needs. We all know how. We’ve all done it and there’s certainly no harm in that…unless you nasty. So, don’t be nasty.
Yes, I am rambling, just letting my mind go where it wants. I have been up all night and I’ve thought about what to write and this is where I landed. There’s some super cute stuff out there, right now….so go shopping! I’m wishing you all a day filled with love & laughter. ♥

Rats!
When I used to go out I’d know everyone I saw
Now I go out alone if I go out at all

wearing:
hair:  Wasabi // Grier Mesh Hair (GO by FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

Dahlia – Virgin Mary Necklace (*new* @ Uber)
Dahlia – Haze – Earrings (*new* @ Uber)

Legal Insanity – Zara top (*new* @ Dubai)
Blueberry – Frank Jeans – Full Length
[ae] Straight Jacket Shoes

JIAN Rascal Rats 1. Shoulder Companion (*new* @ Epiphany)
JIAN Rascal Rats 4. White Companion (*new* @ Epiphany)

pose: SSP – Corner Time (*new* @ Pose Fair)

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Hold It

Have you ever wondered why so many men hold their hands in front of their genitals? Some even go so far as to cup them….right in public, like it’s nothing. You don’t see women going about with their hands on their tits or snatch. So, what is it with men? Why do they feel the need to hold it? Are they afraid its going to fall off? Are they protecting it from some invisible force that’s going to injure them? Did Michael Jackson make it look so cool that they all want to squeeze their bits so they can sing those high notes? Surely not, that sounds terribly painful.
It’s rarely professional looking types in suits either. It’s usually those in baggy pants. Perhaps they’re wearing boxers or not wearing underwear at all and miss the support that briefs provide. Perhaps they never graduated from the phallic stage of their lives. Maybe they just like the way it feels in their hands. I don’t know, but I sure find it peculiar. I’d love to hear other theories and if any men are reading this, perhaps you can enlighten me…why do you hold it?

legal insanity

wearing:
hair:  #Foxy – Milena Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

[Cynful] Chilli Bra
Legal Insanity – Kia joggers (*new* @ Kustom9)
[VALE KOER] RADIANT TRAINERS

pose: FOXCITY. Sass Bento Pose Set
location: Dirty Secret

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Blueberry, Catwa, Dahlia, Events, Lamb, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Choices

“Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the consequences of his choices.”
~  Alfred A. Montapert

I think its important to remember that, because we are constantly faced with choices from monumental life altering choices to the tiniest things like flipping our hair or smiling at a stranger. Some choices are going to carry far more weight than the others. So, I think its important to remember those consequences as we approach the weekend.

Especially Grace, cuz her consequences are probably going to be a massive hangover and a freshly dug grave in the back yard. *smirks*

off kilter

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Gem
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
Dahlia – Lancia – Necklace – TWO TONE
*PerveTTe* Bond [Arm Chain] [Black Silver](*new* @ RLD)
Ascendant – Najla Bento Nails (*new* @ Dubai)
Blueberry – Jenna – Bikini Top
Legal Insanity – Gioia flared pants (*new* @ Tres Chic)

pose: an lar [poses] The Vera Series
[Bad Unicorn] Imaginarium Backdrop (*new* @ Equal10)

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Kustom9, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, Tres Chic

Achill Island

So, one of my best friends is Grace Sixpence and she has recently acquired a homestead. She had the sim professionally landscaped to represent an actual island in Ireland and it is gorgeous. I could not resist going straight over and taking a photo for my blog. I will definitely return for more photos and I encourage you to do the same. She has opened it to the public and you can join her group at the landing point. You can also post your photos to her flickr group. So, after your next shopping trip, head on over to Achill Island for a great photo with a fantastic background, no matter where you pose.

Achill

wearing:
hair: [RA] Brookie Hair (*new* @ ShinyShabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly (*new* @ K9)
tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma

Blueberry – Berries After Dark – Top *new*
Blueberry – Berries After Dark – Boots *new*www
Legal Insanity – Ava denim skirt  (*new* @ TresChic)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Chill set (*new* @ OUTPUT)
location: Achill Island

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Jian, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life

Flipper

I know I’m about to show my age, but I don’t really care about that. People keep telling me it’s just a number and while that’s partially true, its a lot more than that. Anyway, I digress…shocker! I was actually going somewhere with this…oh yeah, Flipper!! I used to watch this show all the time as a kid. I thought there was nothing cooler than having a dolphin for a pet. Thinking back on it now, I don’t remember what any of the episodes were actually about. I do remember thinking that the sad part about Flipper was that you couldn’t cuddle a dolphin. I remember my father telling me stories about swimming with the dolphins at Virginia Beach when he was a kid. I can only imagine what that was like. It certainly sounded amazing. I know its not something I’ll ever do now, but it is definitely something I wished I had done. So, if you’re young and full of life…healthy and in any way able to do something as amazing as swim with dolphins, please go and do just that. You won’t regret doing it, but you might regret not doing it. I know I do.

flipper

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Tempest hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”
Legal Insanity – Eloria bikini (*new* @ Dubai Event)

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Gritty Beats_//-No Relief 17
JIAN Dolphin (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Posted in Catwa, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Mesh Body Addicts, Mesh Body Addicts Fair, Narcisse, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Key to Happiness

As human beings we all want to be happy and free from misery.
We have learned that the key to happiness is inner peace.
The greatest obstacles to inner peace are disturbing emotions such as
anger and attachment, fear and suspicion,
while love and compassion, a sense of universal responsibility
are the sources of peace and happiness.

key to happiness

wearing:
hair: #taketomiWEST – GigiH
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
SU!– Astrid Eyes
-SU!- Xanthe Lip Gloss
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”
tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)

Narcisse– Roxie Neck Cuff (*new* @ MBA)
*AvaWay* KITTY PASTIES
Legal Insanity – Lila lace up shorts (*new* @ Kinky)
Eudora3D Josephine Heels&Cuffs (*new* @ Kinky)

pose by Del May
House Of Shade – Light The Way Backdrop (*new* @ Blush)