Posted in Bad Unicorn, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping

Maid Wanted

Maid Wanted

Need maid to clean man cave every other day.
Job duties include, but are not limited to:
-Cleaning blow up doll….CAREFULLY!
-Refilling beer fridge
-Recycling cans & bottles. (We’re not monsters!)
-Cleaning glass on pinball machines. NO SMUDGES!
-Walk dogs & clean up any accidents.
-Carefully seal any women’s under garments in plastic.
-Attend to hangovers on occasion.
-Insure both sides of tee shirts are dirty before washing

Please send nude photo along with references to TheDudes@mancave.com

***for the dumdums, this is a joke, there’s no job and that email address is fake***
LOL…you know who you are…

Maid Wanted

scene created in =EliBaily= Stratford Industrial Loft – Dark

SHADES – Tufted Chair set
-SHADES – Tufted Chair
-SHADES – Stand Lamp
-SHADES – Side Table
-SHADES – geometic bowl s
-ART_NOW

[Bad Unicorn] Budget Bachelor Set (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Rage Board ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Night Light ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Mini-bar ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Empty Food Container ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Splash’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Invader’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Black’ Nood Rug ‘Budget Bachelor Set’

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Pizza or Boobs?’ Heart Pizza

JIAN ‘dorable Danes 1. Breezy Doggos RARE

Kalopsia – Foosball Table

*katat0nik* (no pose – kitty lady) Pool Toy

Second Spaces – Cluttered House – living room catch-all 1
*Second Spaces* geeky game controllers
*Second Spaces* geeky old school game cartridges

[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Frame
[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Case REZZ

[Commoner] Binge Watcher’s Survival Kit / Energy Drinks

floorplan. neon III gacha / pizza

+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Fast Food Clutter

O.M.E.N – Deco Popcorn & Soda – VIP GIFT

ionic – where is my Take away Chinese vegan food?

TA Game System

Posted in Avenge, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Red Fish, Second Life

Accessories

I’m a girl that loves her accessories. Oddly enough, I rarely blog accessories. I’m not sure why. Perhaps its because I wasn’t comfortable taking close up shots. However, whenever I go out to an event, I will spend an hour putting the right accessories with it. So, I’ve decided I’m going to try to focus a bit more of my blogging photography on accessories. By the way, this dress from Dead Dollz is amazing, so hurry over to FaMESHed before it closes for the month to get yours. This dress is amazing, there are options to make it solid, semi-sheer, and quite sheer. I’m showing the semi-sheer below. This is truly a sexy dress that has some chains attached with options to change the colors of those. I’ve added the necklace and earrings from Avenge to give it a more unique look, that I’m quite happy with. I’m rambling, because I’m avoiding what’s really on my mind. So, I’ll shut up and just encourage you to go shopping and have creating you own looks.

key to my soul

wearing:
hair:  Wasabi // Oops Mesh Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – 4 -POINT INDUSTRIAL
facial piercings: –SU!– Piercing Set 07 (*new* @ Access)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Lily (*new* @ Kustom9)
tattoo: RedFish – Sexy flower Tattoo

*katat0nik* (silver) Anima Eyepatch & Psyche Hole
[Avenge] Fashion necklace (*new* @ Limit8)
[Avenge] Fashion earrings (*new* @ Limit8)
**RE** Julia Belly Chain
.::Dead Dollz::. Isla Outfit (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Breather VOL2 Animated Pose Set

Posted in Bueno, Cosmopolitan, Kustom9, Lybra, Scandalize, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping

Be True to You

“You got to be true
True to yourself
Or you’ll be a fool
To somebody else”
-Yelawolf – “True to Yourself” ft. Bones Owens

I’m just quoting the song today. I’m not going to feed you all the lyrics, because this is not really a song post. Though I do love the newest from Yelawolf, I want to talk about being true to yourself. No matter how old you are, its important to be true to yourself and who you are…who you want to be…what you want from your life. It might be too late for some things, but its never too late for everything. The younger you are the fewer excuses you should have…look at people that move to another country with hardly any money to their names and make something of themselves without help from the government. If they can do, so can you! Seriously, no matter what your passion is, never stop. If you love to paint, then paint. If you can’t afford classes, its okay, paint anyway. Paint because you love it, not because you’re a professional. If you love to sing, but no one wants to hear you sing? That’s ok, sing in your car, your shower, sing your heart out. No one can stop you from that. If you can improve upon your passion, then do it. Be the best at whatever you love as you can. I urge those in their 20s to please listen and don’t let you life get away from you. You think there’s plenty of time, but I promise you that time will escape you and before you know it, you’ll be 40 and wondering what happened to your dreams. Be your own best friend and push yourself forward. Be true to you!

Be You

hair: Nutmeg & Entwined. Cameron (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: #PUMEC – XENA – Dead March – CATWA SKIN App.
nose piercing: –SU!– Piercing Set 05 Bridge (Catwa Tala)
lip piercing: –SU!– Piercing Set 05 Snakebites (Catwa Tala)
BUENO-Phone-Sugar Love Potion (*new* @ Kustom9)
**RE** Luxy Rings Set
LYBRA . XL STILETTO NAILS
Scandalize. Alura. SWEATSHIRT. Maitreya (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
Scandalize. Alura. PANT. Maitreya (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
E-Clipse Hype Boots Black

pose by Bauhaus Movement
*PROMAGIC* Vivo BAckgrounds-5
*katat0nik* (green) Spray Paint Set – Street Artist
*katat0nik* (purple) Spray Paint Set – Street Artist

 

Posted in Bueno, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Jian, N21, Second Life, Seven Emporium, shopping

Obstacles

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I’ve heard many times that the state of one’s bedroom is a direct reflection of their state of mind. *looks around in RL* Well, I’m screwed! My room is not so big, but I’ve managed to squeeze quite a lot of furniture and stuff in here. Its like an obstacle course. Well, that proves kinda true, doesn’t it? My mind is definitely an obstacle course. Its not my fault! There are squirrels EVERYWHERE!!! Not to mention shinies and I must have them all!!!
Screw the decor, that crystal skull looks perfectly normal next to the porcelain grasshopper! Yes, my TrueBlood DVD set does look awesome next to my Kim Addonizio books! Yes, I have cleaning products tucked into the wicker basket on the bottom shelf, ignore the dust, please.
Whether they’re obstacles in our rooms, on the road, or in our heads, we all encounter them sooner or later. Sometimes the way we maneuver them can alter our course so much that it changes our destination. The point remains, we will all face obstacles in our life, but by giving up we become our biggest obstacles yet.

A lot of people give up just before they’re about to make it. You know you never know when that next obstacle is going to be the last one. Chuck Norris

Yes I did quote Chuck Norris. *laughs*

obstacles

wearing:
hair: #Foxy – Babygirl Hair (*new* @N21)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
CATWA Catya BubbleGum
Blueberry – Tinker Tops
–Blueberry – Tinker Set – Long Sleeve Top
–Blueberry – Tinker Set – Panties
Blueberry – Tinker Set
–Blueberry – Tinker Set – Short Legwarmers
–Blueberry – Tinker Set – Sneakers

Poses by Foxcity (shocking, I know)

scene:
BUENO-Bike -Pink
!gO! SteamTeddy +Giddy+
7 – Roller Rink Boot Sign
REIGN.- DERBY SKATES BAG- #13
Anachron – Derby Doll Rollerskates – Cherry Bomb
Silence. – Heart with Arrow
JIAN Hamster Habitat
JIAN Hamster Ball Wanderer
tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)
:CP: Herman Planter White
tres blah– Pampered – Bouquet
dust bunny . bunny alarm clock . pink
BUENO– Laptop Blessed
+Half-Deer+ Fast Food Clutter – Soda Drink (Pink)
7 – David’s Dream
Fancy Decor: Capsule Lights (rose) (*new* @ Blush)
*katat0nik* (pink / RT) Old Boot
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Bra
*katat0nik* (pink / LT) Old Boot
BUENO-Big Sur Chair
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Offside Thong
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Draped Over
2PM. Bunny muff / pink

Posted in Events, Exploration, Fashion, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping, The Annex, We <3 Role-Play

Welcome To My Darkness

“Welcome to my darkness, I been here a while
Clouding up the sunlight, hurting for a smile
Or something, but something always turns into nothing….

….Acting like I’m heartless, I do it all the time
That don’t mean I’m scarless, that don’t mean I’m fine
But you’ll see, when someone else makes you this way”
Bishop Briggs – Dark Side

Its no secret that I have a dark side, I make jokes about my dark side being the side of me that likes pink, girly things like unicorns and cupcakes. I’m actually not a huge fan of those things, but its hard to hate things that bring so much joy to others. The truth is that my dark side is probably my truest side. Few people in my life have seen the darkest parts of my soul and I doubt anyone else ever will. I work really hard to keep it in check, because it can frighten people. It makes life harder than it already is.
Even the mild hints at my dark side tend to frighten people. My fascination with black clothes had my mother convinced I was a devil worshiper when I was only 19 and at one point I had black hair with blonde roots, as I am naturally blond. I was obsessed with Robert Smith of The Cure and did my make up a lot like his. Goth wasn’t a thing then, not like now. At my last job, all my co-workers had scriptures and crosses…family photos decorating their cubicles. I had skulls and dragons. When I told them I’m not a Christian, they assumed I was a devil worshiper, too. I had to explain that atheists don’t believe in the devil either. *laughs*
As, I’ve grown older, I have found more of a balance between the dark and the light. It’s helped me quite a bit and opened my world in ways I never imagined possible, but I will always embrace the dark as much if not more than the light. Its just who I am. Just like I will probably always go to sleep with the TV on…the only shows being those about crime, naturally….preferably serial killers. *grins*
I’ve recently made some changes to the way I’m blogging. I’ve been writing short stories or scenarios to go along with the photo. This is just a way to bring that balance into my creativity. I love writing, but I will admit that I’ve enjoyed writing the scenes much more than opening myself up and sharing such intimate parts of myself. I can’t promise that I will always write a story or scenario for each post, but I do think I’ll be doing it a lot more in the future. I hope that you, my readers, enjoy them as much as I do. If not, there’s always the option to just scroll on down to the details. ♥

dragon lady

wearing:
hair
: (r)M Hair, No.53’17  (*new* @ Hair Fair 2017)
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
skin: Glam Affair – Kibi – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – America (*new* @ Crystal Heart)
eyes: :Conviction: Viscous Eyes [HUD]
eyeshadow: –SU!– Smokey Eyeshadow
lipstick: –SU!– The Matte Lip Poison
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
*katat0nik* (dark) Cloud Dragon
The Annex – Mei Cheongsam (*new* @ We<3Role-Play)

pose by Bauhaus Movement
location: Sky Willow Asian Escape

Posted in Events, Fashion, Second Life, shopping, The Annex, We <3 Role-Play

Sady and the Dragon?

Join me, won’t you? For another journey down the rabbit hole into what’s otherwise known as Sady’s blogging process…and off we goooooooooo……. Just wave your fingers in front of your face and say, “Dooodliedooh Doodliedooh Doodliedoooh.” Think dream sequence from an old campy film…*nods.*
Alright, soooo…sometimes things just kinda happen to me, see? So, I’m fumbling through folders with ideas swirling around in my head like crazy when suddenly things just start falling into place and before you know it I’ve got this awesome scene with a giant dragon and me decked out in gold. Awesome! So, I grab the shots, do my editing…I’m happy with how it turns out. I slap two shots in my blog. I grab hyperlinks, tags, and categories. Boom, blog is almost ready to go. Now…what am I going to write?
I love fantasy pictures and creating fun scenes. I love movies with dragons but when it comes to actual lore? Nada. Sorry, I’m bone dry on that subject. I know they look super cool and I love them. I have a kissing dragons tattoo that I designed in rl, but I really don’t know any genuine dragon lore. So, naturally I went to Google to expand my knowledge base.
Step one, enter “golden dragon.” Step two, get bombarded with an endless list of Chinese restaurants across the U.S.A. Well, ok…lets try “gold dragon.” Ooooh, goodness, now I’m seeing links for all sorts of sites relating to Dungeons and Dragons, Dragon City, Forgotten Realms, and a few other gaming sites. Okay, this is not the lore I’m looking for. Back to the drawing board. I showed the photo to Josh and he suggested I write a story about Sady and the Dragon, but all I could think was Puff the Magic Dragon…which then made me think of smoking weed and how I really wish I had some right now. Ok, so no rule saying I have to write about dragons, right? So, I look up quotes about gold and the first thing I come across is a quote by Bob Marley and I’m back to wanting to smoke weed! Damnit!

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Well, I don’t have any weed, but I do have some lindens…so retail therapy here I come…and well, more insane blogs coming your way! Meanwhile, how about you all get out there and discover your own fantasy look, especially those of you that actually know more of the lore. Ha! Tis the season…week…look, there’s fantasy stuff going on at events all over…time to bring some of your dreams to the screen. Whether you role play or just like to dress up in awesome fantasy attire…there’s fantasy loot every where you look right now.

wearing:
hair: [RA] Chloe Hair (*new* @ We ❤ Role-Play)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
eyes: CATWA Mesh Eyes w/-SU!– [CATWA & OMEGA HUD] Xenira Eyes ALL COLORS
skinL’Etre Skin Shop – Megan Skin [Cotton Tone]
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara

.DirtyStories. Lorelia Headchain
(Yummy) Layered Chain Choker – Gold
LNS DESIGNS ]CIRCE ARM TORQ PACK

The Annex – Fionna – Top – Gold – MAITREYA (*new* @ Fantasy Gacha Carnival)
The Annex – Fionna 2 – Panty – Gold – MAITREYA (*new* @ Fantasy Gacha Carnival)

poses by Del May
scene:
Mushilu. MoosMonolite (*new* @ We ❤ Role-Play)
*katat0nik* (golden) Cloud Dragon

Posted in Events, Fashion, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping

Definitions

You can’t really be in Second Life too long without encountering some sort of drama. You can’t even get through your real life without it. Which is why it always amuses me and sends red flags running up my proverbial flag pole whenever I read a profile that declares they don’t do drama. There are all sorts of creative ways that people will say it and I’d like to believe that its usually added after some particularly exhausting episode. However, more often than not, I have found that the most hypocritical of people are the very ones who make declarations about drama, loyalty, and trust. The level of hypocrisy is astounding and I have to wonder who they think they are fooling.

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Its heartbreaking to see how toxic people can be to one another, particularly here in Second Life where most of us have been beaten and broken down so much in our real lives that we seek reprieve here, only to find that there is more deception and abuse waiting for us at the hands of bullies that hide behind anonymity using their keyboards as weapons.

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And because of the wretchedness I’ve witnessed lately I feel like I should share a few definitions, because clearly there are far too many people who are confused as to what certain words mean.

drama: a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict of forces
loyalty: the act of being loyal
loyal:   unswerving in allegiance: as
             a :  faithful in allegiance to one’s lawful sovereign or government
             b :  faithful to a private person to whom fidelity is due
             c :  faithful to a cause, ideal, custom, institution, or product
trust: belief that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc.

The definitions above come directly from Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary. Too many people in Second Life toss these words around loosely, using them to somehow justify the hurt they intentionally cause or try to cause other people. I’m not trying to lecture my readers, I promise I’m not. I just hope to raise a little awareness. I think its very important that we carry ourselves with some integrity and if we want respect, we should be willing to show respect not just for each other but for ourselves. If you question the true meaning of integrity or respect, but all means look them up, because I know there are a lot of people out there tossing those words around too loosely as well.
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Let us build one another up, rather than tear one another down. As my dear friend, Kess Crystal, recently blogged…let go of the toxicities, pay attention to red flags, and do what’s best for you. Being cruel to another is never the best for anyone, so please remember that you can walk away from people without malice.

Quick note about the stuff:
Shiny Shabby just opened and as always there’s rows and rows of delights just waiting for you. I managed to grab a few things…so the hair and choker were my must haves for this outfit, but this dress is pure fire and is a new release at ChicModa’s mainstore.

wearing:
.Shi Hair : Hearken / Unisex . E-Nordic (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
CATWA HEAD Gwen
CATWA Mesh Eyes
Glam Affair – Pia Applier ( Catwa / Tumble ) America 02  (*new* @Kustom9)
eyeshadow & lipstick by ::SG:: (SLACKGIRL)
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
Kibitz – Nedula chocker – onyx   (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
-7P-Ashley Tattoo Appliers
~ChicModa~ Tatianna Sweater Dress
*katat0nik* Arm Straps
=Zenith=Leather Belt Gloves
PHEDORA / Trinity Boots / 30.C (*new* @ Kustom9)

scene created using a variety of product from {anc} in a painted box
poses by Del May

Posted in Exploration, Fashion, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping

That Moment When…

You know you possibly spend too much time on the internet when you find yourself thinking in memes. Here’s what I mean…I find myself in precarious situations all the time..RL and SL. In those moments, I often find myself thinking things like, “When you think you might throw up, but you forgot to put a new liner in the trash can and you hope you have some under the sink within reach.” Honestly, we all know that would not work as a meme. It’s not funny. It’s not going to make sense to anyone but me. Yet, I found myself thinking that exact though earlier tonight. Followed by this one, “When you realize you think in memes.”
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I wonder if I’ll talk like that if/when I get old and senile. I can’t help but wonder how technology is going to change everything. We don’t hear the age old stories about walking ten miles uphill both ways to school anymore, but don’t we find ourselves thinking things we thought we never would or saying things we thought we never would. Then realizing, “OH MY GOD! I’m turning into my MOTHER!” That thought in and of itself is enough to give me nightmares and is far scarier than any movie I have EVER watched.
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Speaking of scary, since it is the season for scary things! When I got ready to take these pictures, I went exploring. Once I stopped being distracted by shiny things that I needed to hunt down and obtain for own overcrowded inventory, I found myself at Ms Penny Peacock aka Hallow Gothly‘s incredible Haunted Silent Peacock Hotel. This place is amazing! Truly a must visit sim for anyone looking for something different, but something dark, ominous, and at moments downright creepy. You see, much like myself, Hallow is constantly finding things she wants to to tweak or alter, so your visit today might be slightly different from you visit tomorrow. While I was there the scene in the barn changed completely! I won’t ruin the surprise by telling you what I discovered, but know that this place is perfect for photos. And if you see a  sweet little serial killer doll aka Lizzy Valentine, be sure to ask her for a tour. *grins*

wearing:
[monso] My Hair – Taeyeon
CATWA HEAD Gwen
CATWA Mesh Eyes
Glam Affair – Kelly Applier (*new* @ Salem)
.:E.A.Studio:. Piercing Bare Code Silver
:Diamante: Disengaged Plugs Piercing
L’Etre – Hestia Mesh Ears
**RE** Bad Kitty Collar
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
-7P-Ashley Tattoo Appliers
[Cynful] Hoodie Romper
*MUKA* Armbands Love
*MUKA* Cuff Love – Wrist Cuffs
[VALE KOER] GARTER SOCKS
*katat0nik* (black) D-Ring Boots RARE

location: Haunted Silent Peacock Hotel
poses by Bauhaus Movement

Posted in Exploration, Fashion, Second Life, shopping, What if...

What if…Purge

This is your emergency broadcast system announcing the commencement of the annual Purge. All crime, including murder,will be legal for 12 hours. All emergency services will be suspended. Your government thanks you for your participation. ~ Emergency broadcast system announcing the commencement of The Purge.

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If you’ve never seen these movies and happen to live under a rock, thus having absolutely no idea what these movies are about…well, read up or scroll on down to the blog credits, because this is my “What ifs…” about the films. This is not a review, although, I do recommend these movies, I don’t think they have earned any significant place in our cinematic history.  But that’s not what this post is about either. I’ve recently seen all three movies, the last one for the first time. Plus there was a post on FB about using the purge message as a ring tone and well…The Purge has been all up in my head. So, this is another round of…What if, because why not?
purge-with-class
What if the Purge became a real thing and much like they show in the 3rd movie, Purging has become trendy, as well as controversial. So, instead of the heroin junkie looking models….well, we’ll see girls in party dresses with weapons and combat boots! Lingerie models wearing nothing but a gun belt, wings, and a machine gun…in the infamous words of Paris Hilton, “That’s hot!” What if the most popular kids in high school were the ones that had the most kills, thus taking bullying to a whole new level? Imagine all the lines of stain removal products, guaranteed to remove blood. Stain resistant clothing, made especially for Purge Night. Prom themes planned to emulate The Purge with sacrifices instead of Prom King & Queen.
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Well, you know how my mind works. I’m curious as to what sort of “What if..” moments you all might have. I’d love to hear them. In the meantime, go shopping and purge yourself of some lindens. Its call retail therapy and who doesn’t need a little therapy?

***A quick mention about the location. I’m not big into role play, but this sim is really quite something and worth checking out, just please if you’re not going to participate or get involved with the role play, grab and observer tag and make sure you’re not standing in the middle of someone’s scene. *winks*

wearing:
Beusy: Trouble Mesh Hair
CATWA HEAD Dyana
:Diamante: Disengaged Plugs Piercing
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
erratic / koi tattoo (maitreya)
4. :BAMSE: Personal Cannon – Classic Black
15. :BAMSE: Trench Knife – Silver
LRD Lianna Dress Silk (*new* @ Lost & Found)
*katat0nik* (black) D-Ring Boots RARE ( The Arcade September)

poses: Le Poppycock *Neon Lights* (*new* @ U L T R A)

location: Darkness Prevails: Shattered Masquerade Roleplay Sim