Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Shameless

Don’t speak, no, don’t try
It’s been a secret for the longest time
Don’t run (oh), no, don’t hide
Been running from it for the longest time
So many mornings, I woke up confused
In my dreams, I do anything I want to you
My emotions are naked, they’re taking me out of my mind
Right now, I’m shameless
Screamin’ my lungs out for ya
Not afraid to face it
I need you more than I want to
Need you more than I want to
Show me you’re shameless
Write it on my neck, why don’t ya?
And I won’t erase it
I need you more than I want to
I need you more than I want to

asteroid box famx

hair: TRUTH Solstice
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.3.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Dalia (LeLutkaEVO) @ C88

AsteroidBox. Elena Lingerie @ FaMESHed X
(Luc.) Whisky Cocktail BENTO accessory @ Equal10

pose: FOXCITY. Pampered Bento Pose Set @ C88

MK Red – Vibrate Night – The Bearded Guy

[ILAYA] Logan Lounger

Kalospia – Luna’s Hanging Light @ C88

dust bunny . areca palm plant

Posted in Home Decor, Kustom9, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping

Just Asking

We hear about walking away from toxic people all the time, but its usually in reference to the obvious types of toxicity. People that are abusive mentally, emotionally, verbally, or physically are fairly obvious. We know that addicts in recovery can’t expect to stay clean if they’re hanging around with addicts that are actively using.  But what about those people that are doing everything within their power to better their lives and make wiser decisions? Don’t they also need to watch the company they keep so as not to fall back into the same pitfalls as before? I mean, a happily married man is probably going to spend far less time with his old bachelor buddies once he is married, right? And on the occasions that he does, he’s probably going to carefully choose activities that will not tempt him or put his marriage in danger. So, why is it that we’re expected to stick to people that continue to act out immaturely or destructively if we ourselves are trying to better our lives? I am not suggesting we cut these lovely people out of our lives completely or permanently. However, is it so wrong to distance yourself from people that are continuously acting irrationally, knowing they are being irrational, while we work on being more rational? What about the friends that choose to remain in sick relationships, complaining about the same abuse day in and day out? The friends that repeat the same cycles over and over again? How are we supposed to get better if we surround ourselves with sick thinking people? Just asking for a friend. *grins*

nutmeg mudhoney peaches

Merak Candle Box – Black Group Gift

MudHoney Victoria Gacha @ Arcade
MudHoney Victoria Beetle Plaque
MudHoney Victoria Spider Plaque
MudHoney Victoria Butterfly Plaque
MudHoney Victoria Portrait2
MudHoney Victoria Console RARE
MudHoney Victoria Portrait1
MudHoney Victoria Portrait3
MudHoney Victoria Candles

NOMAD // SPIDEY FLF Oct 18
NOMAD // “Just Spidey”
NOMAD // “Spidey Waves”
NOMAD // “Spidey Play Dead”

Nutmeg. Soul Collector @ Epiphany
9. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Armchair Brown Adult
12. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Pocket Watch
14. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Tray
Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Book1
11. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Draped Table
Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Book2
17. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Candle
13. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Magnifier
Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Book3
16. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Papers
18. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Phonograph
15. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Books
2. Nutmeg. Soul Collector’s Bag of Souls Brown RARE

.random.Matter. – NecroBotany – NecroBotanica Book [Blue] @ Kustom9
.random.Matter. – NecroBotany – Potted Plant [Black] @ Kustom9

{vespertine} obscure plantscapes – tillandsia medusa @ Epiphany

.peaches. Lech Lecha Wine Cart – Marble FLF Oct 18

Mithral * Philodendron Plowmanii (Concrete Pot) @ Kustom9
Mithral * Philodendron Verrucosum (Concrete Pot) @ Kustom9
Mithral * Philodendron Melanochrysum (Concrete Pot) @ Kustom9

Kalopsia – Farm Fresh Vase (brown) K9 gift

Scandalize.SPHYNX. Gold @ Epiphany

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, {what next}

Be prepared

There’s nothing quite like blogging a kitchen to show off some of the delicious foods that the creators in Second Life like to tease us with. Be it healthy or dripping in virtual calories, we can enjoy the assortment of goodies guilt free! Just so happens that I’m on a new regime to start eating healthier….living healthier, actually. So, be prepared to see more food in my posts, as looking at most of these delicious things will be all I can do! *laughs*

galland elm and more

Craftsman Kitchen by Galland Homes

DISORDERLY. / Coffee & Cupcakes / Chocolate @ Belle

dust bunny . mixer . color change . RARE
dust bunny . spicy fiesta . chips & guac
dust bunny . homemade soup . bag of groceries . pattern a
dust bunny . homemade soup . bag of groceries . pattern b
dust bunny . homemade soup . prep board
dust bunny . homemade soup . mug of soup

Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen @ Equal10
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Glassware #1 [Plain]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Plates #3 [Blue]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Cutting Board
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Butterdish [Open]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Glassware #2 [Plain]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Glassware #3 [Plain]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Plates #5 [Blue]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Herbs [Basil]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Kettle [Blue]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Glassware Bottle [Silver]
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #9
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #11
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Herbs [Rosemary]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Plate Rack [Blue]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Glassware #4 [Plain]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Mortar&Pestle [Silver]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Dutch Oven [Blue]
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Salt & Pepper
Elm. Laurel’s Kitchen Oil & Vinegar

Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha Set
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – Smoothie Samples – RARE
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #6
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #17
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #18
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #16
Elm. Summer Squeeze Gacha – #15

MudHoney Photo Room 6 @ Arcade

{vespertine}petite country french cooking @ Belle

{what next} Window Shelf (wood)

Mithral * Anthurium Clarinervium (White Pot)

Kalopsia – Apple Spice Set @ Kustom9

Hangry – Peach Cookie Letters & Symbols @ Kustom9

Posted in crate, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

How do you know I’m mad?

“But I don’t want to go among mad people,” Alice remarked.
“Oh, you can’t help that,” said the Cat: “we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.”
“How do you know I’m mad?” said Alice.
“You must be,” said the Cat, “or you wouldn’t have come here.”
― Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

berry dreamy

KraftWork Old Brooklyn Carousel

Garden by anc “hydrangea” (light blue) @ Belle

{anc} cotton bunny. sugar
{anc} bubbles

Con & Dust Bunny . Coffee Station – Gold

crate Strawberry Tea Cart

Dahlia – Evelyn Set @ Belle
-Dahlia – Evelyn – Stone Pathway
-Dahlia – Evelyn – Birdbath
-Dahlia – Evelyn – Garden Gazing Ball

DISORDERLY. / June Berries @ Belle
-DISORDERLY. / June Berries / Black & Blueberry Pancakes
-DISORDERLY. / June Berries / Blueberry Bowl
-DISORDERLY. / June Berries / Blackberry Syrup Jar

dust bunny . quirky planters . snail
dust bunny . quirky planters . hedgehog
dust bunny . quirky planters 2 . kitty planter @ Uber

dust bunny . strawberry season
-dust bunny . strawberry season . strawberry plant
-dust bunny . strawberry season . bowl of berries
-dust bunny . strawberry season . cake

Kalopsia – Effie’s Table

Serenity Style– Evelyn Dream Set @ Belle
-Serenity Style- Evelyn Dream Wardrobe
-Serenity Style- Evelyn Chair V1
-Serenity Style- Evelyn Chair V2
-Serenity Style- Evelyn Dream Basin

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Balance

We all need balance in our lives, an exchange that allows time for our jobs, leisure, socializing, and other activities. Making room for each area can improve our daily lives, as well provide outlets to pursue new interests.
Remember playing teeter totter or seesaw as a kid, trying to balance with a friend, suspended in the air, without moving up or down? But let one of you hop off, someone was falling on their ass HARD. The same can be true about a life that’s too imbalanced. Too much focus in one area leaves other areas neglected and eventually we fall on our ass.
Of course, its going to be damn near impossible to achieve that perfect balance in all areas of our lives, but if we can space some time from those activities that demand the most from us and redistribute some of that energy…well, we’ll be a lot closer to obtaining that balance that is so badly needed to enrich the quality of our lives.

balance

wearing:
hair: ICONIC.LETOYA (*new* @ Salon52)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
eyes: –SU!– Osanna Eyes
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Dead Dollz – Get Fit Set
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Bra
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Hoodie
-Dead Dollz – GetFit Leggings
[VALE KOER] HERMES KICKS

pose: FOXCITY. Balance Bento Pose Set
***includes weights

MINIMAL – Illuminate Backdrop #8
Kalopsia – Kali’s Yoga Ball

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

I Surrender

“Secret, hidden underneath it
Trying hard to keep it
Safely out of reach
Creeping, I can feel it breathing
Calling to the surface
Finally in my dreams
Sweet despair feel you devour me
Silently, oh won’t you carry me
Home”

so long 2018

scene created in Onsu ~ “Holly” Skybox

[DDD] Twinkling Ivy

Nutmeg. Chaise Longue Cream w/Knitted Throw
Nutmeg. Distressed Grand Piano Dark w/ Drape
Nutmeg. Dark Piano Chair
Nutmeg. Vintage Metronome
Nutmeg. Old Music Sheets. Floor

[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 2
[sf] 2 books – green and cream
{af} Tied Books
{vespertine -used suitcase books}
*AF* Bookcase Clutter 5 – Books 2
.09 [ kunst ] – Books

Serenity Style– Old Mermories Set (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
-Serenity Style- Old Memories Sideboard
-Serenity Style- Old Memories Leaves Trophy
-Serenity Style- Old Memories Scale
-Serenity Style- Old Photos Basket

{what next} Calm & Bright Wall Collage

Kalopsia – Flying Paper
Kalopsia – Grand Mirror – Floor

 

Posted in Apple Fall, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

Life of the Party

As far back as I can remember, my mother has always set the most amazing tables for dinner parties and holiday gatherings. Needless to say, she’s always cooked far too much food. I’m not going to write a lot here, just that this entire scene is dedicated to my mom.

Dinner Table

My mother has always insisted that the room is actually the life of the party and decor plays a huge part in that.

last supper

The key to all of my mother’s dishes, fancy dinner or not, is presentation.

stocking and punch

And no matter what, even when she’s lived completely alone, Christmas time requires decorations. It’s the law!

the tree

 

scene created in Onsu ~ “Maple” Skybox

Botanical – Douglas Fir Christmas Tree for Tannenbaum

Kalopsia –  All the Gift Boxes (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

Fancy Decor: Gilt Tree Decorations (*new* @ The Arcade)

Fancy Decor: Jordan Collection (*new* @ Collabor88)
-Fancy Decor: Jordan Hammered Cups
-Fancy Decor: Jordan Punch Bowl
-Fancy Decor: Jordan Christmas Trees

{moss&mink} Silk Draped Table
{moss&mink} Suede Dining Chairs
{moss&mink} Heart Drop Lights

Dahlia – Holiday Glam (*new* @ The Arcade)
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Cocktail Tray – Berry 25
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Golden Baubles
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Cake – Chocolate
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Necklace Box – Diamonds
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Antler Table Arrangement – RARE
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Caviar – 30
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Cake – Brulee
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Chocolates – Mousse 22
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Purse – Black
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Purse – Red
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Green Baubles
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Cocktail – Green – (REZ)
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Cocktail Tray – Absinth 24
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Antipasto Marble Platter
-Dahlia – Holiday Glam – Buffet Table – RARE

DISORDERLY. / A Very Cherry Xmas (*new* @ The Epiphany)
-DISORDERLY. / A Very Cherry Xmas / Cherry Tarts / Gold
-DISORDERLY. / A Very Cherry Xmas / Cherry Pudding / Gold
-DISORDERLY. / A Very Cherry Xmas / Cherry Wine / Black
-DISORDERLY. / A Very Cherry Xmas / Cherry Cookies / Gold

dust bunny . season of giving . bag of coal
dust bunny . lighted jars .
dust bunny . smores jar
dust bunny . kettle and sweets .

{what next} Christmas Stockings + Deer Stocking Holder

{what next} Chocolate Yule Log
**Advent gift for 7th December for the Love To Decorate Magazine Group – it can be found in a little Christmas tree decor object by the mainstore landing point and will be out until January 15th.**

RO – Home for the Holidays – Wreath

Bee Designs Winter Chalkboards (*new* @ TLC)

Apple Fall Clifton Cast Iron Fireplace – Black

[ARIA] Babette Rug

 

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, N21, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Tannenbaum

Krampus & the Grinch

It’s no secret that I’m a bit bah humbug about the holidays season, mostly because its funny. I almost hate to admit that I actually have some of the best Christmas memories from my childhood that anyone could hope for. Though this entire holiday season is especially hard due to the happenings in real life, but I’m surviving it so far. Pretty sure I gained another 10lbs from Thanksgiving, though. I like food…waaayyy too much.
Anyhoo, whether you love the holidays and all that it offers traditionally or you prefer to be on the Krampus & the Grinch side of it, there’s one event on the grid every single year that never fails deliver exactly what you’d hope to find. That event is Tannenbaum and its one of three events put on by Prism Events every year. I know there’s been some drama between event owners and script writers, and I’m certainly not going to pretend to know the whole truth. What I am asking is that you not punish the designers that were already signed up for these events before the drama went public. So, if you chose a side…I didn’t…but if you did, that is certainly your prerogative…please do not punish those designers that are innocently caught in the crossfire. Besides you’ll also be punishing yourself by missing out on amazing creations. Let’s have a happy holidays and leave the differences to those that are directly involved, k? I’m wishing you all a holiday season filled with love & laughter♥

Krampus & the Grinch

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Ryan hairstyle (*new* @  DUBAI)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

ERSCH – Splendor Earrings V2 (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
ERSCH – Splendor Choker V1 (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
(Yummy) Havana Ring & Bangle Set (*new* @ N21)
Blueberry – Julia – Jacket  *NEW*
Blueberry – Julia – Leggings *NEW*
Blueberry – Cece – Winter Boots

pose: GingerFish Poses – Burning Leaves
***edited position of right arm using AnyPose

scene:
*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen]
DYNASTY – Ornamental Lantern – Red (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
*HEXtraordinary* Baby Krampus (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Kalopsia gift boxes (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
{anc} snowfield (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Apple Fall, Bueno, Catwa, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Maitreya, Second Life, SHADES, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Vanilla

When I first came into Second Life, back in 2006, I was officially introduced to the Master tag and the entire D/s world. Prior to that, I knew there were fetishes and that people were into bdsm. However, I thought those were just kinks and fetishes. I had no idea they were lifestyles. Over time, I learned the differences between all types of subs and Dom/mes. For the longest time, you really couldn’t go anywhere without seeing some dude wearing a Master tag and a black cape. Now the trend seems to be more focused on Daddy Doms and BabyGirls, or perhaps that’s just where my path has led. However, based on some of the things I see on Facebook, I’m prone to think that those that are not into the bdsm lifestyle are somehow seen as boring. In fact, the term used for those that are not into bdsm is Vanilla. As if to say that Vanilla is a boring flavor.
The truth is, that vanilla is a build block flavor that is in more recipes than most people would realize. The same can be said about sex. I think its funny that so many people in the bdsm community fuss at one another for kinky shaming, as there are some rather extreme kinks out there. Yet, no one really stands up and says, “Ya know what? It’s okay to be Vanilla! It’s ok not to like dirty talk or toys or whips & chains.” There is nothing wrong with Vanilla.
In fact, I’ll take a Vanilla latte over one of those silly pumpkin spice lattes any day! Plus, you can take vanilla ice cream and add stuff to that to make it spectacular. Okay, I’m getting off track and now I want ice cream. Go shopping! I’m going to the kitchen!

Vanilla

wearing:
hair:   MINA – Frankie  (*new* @ Hair Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee

BONDI . The Elite Sunglasses (*new* @ Dubai)
BUENO-Sweater Dress (*new* @ Uber)
Eudora3D Haloke Boots&Socks (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

pose: FOXCITY. Show Time Bento Pose Set

scene:
SHADES – Tufted Love Seat (*new* @ Blueprint)
SHADES – Tufted Chair

Kalopsia – Drawer Shelf – Brown
[DDD] Twinkling Ivy – Patch
RARE. DYNASTY – Calligraphy Corner – Backdrop
tb– Bon Voyage – Books
hive // macrame hanging plant . stone
Second Spaces – snow day books – messy stack

Apple Fall Wooden Trunk (Decor)
Apple Fall Althea Rug – Antique Light
Apple Fall Huge Fan Palm
Apple Fall Designer Hat Box
Apple Fall Silver Antiqued Rabbit
Apple Fall Bronze Leaf Apple Branches
Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 1
Apple Fall Tea Tins & Tea Books
Apple Fall Cotton Cluster
Apple Fall Handbag & Scarf
Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 4
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin
Apple Fall Liberty Sketchbook
Apple Fall ‘iFall’ Notebook 2015
Apple Fall Roses Box (Champagne)
Apple Fall Pinecones & Hazelnuts (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)
Apple Fall Apples w/ Ornamental Stand – Copper (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)
Apple Fall Woodland Deer – Brass (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)
AF Ceramic Chubby Squirrel
Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 3
Apple Fall Grass Pot
Apple Fall Banana Tree

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping

Maid Wanted

Maid Wanted

Need maid to clean man cave every other day.
Job duties include, but are not limited to:
-Cleaning blow up doll….CAREFULLY!
-Refilling beer fridge
-Recycling cans & bottles. (We’re not monsters!)
-Cleaning glass on pinball machines. NO SMUDGES!
-Walk dogs & clean up any accidents.
-Carefully seal any women’s under garments in plastic.
-Attend to hangovers on occasion.
-Insure both sides of tee shirts are dirty before washing

Please send nude photo along with references to TheDudes@mancave.com

***for the dumdums, this is a joke, there’s no job and that email address is fake***
LOL…you know who you are…

Maid Wanted

scene created in =EliBaily= Stratford Industrial Loft – Dark

SHADES – Tufted Chair set
-SHADES – Tufted Chair
-SHADES – Stand Lamp
-SHADES – Side Table
-SHADES – geometic bowl s
-ART_NOW

[Bad Unicorn] Budget Bachelor Set (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Rage Board ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Night Light ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Mini-bar ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Empty Food Container ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Splash’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Invader’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Black’ Nood Rug ‘Budget Bachelor Set’

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Pizza or Boobs?’ Heart Pizza

JIAN ‘dorable Danes 1. Breezy Doggos RARE

Kalopsia – Foosball Table

*katat0nik* (no pose – kitty lady) Pool Toy

Second Spaces – Cluttered House – living room catch-all 1
*Second Spaces* geeky game controllers
*Second Spaces* geeky old school game cartridges

[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Frame
[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Case REZZ

[Commoner] Binge Watcher’s Survival Kit / Energy Drinks

floorplan. neon III gacha / pizza

+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Fast Food Clutter

O.M.E.N – Deco Popcorn & Soda – VIP GIFT

ionic – where is my Take away Chinese vegan food?

TA Game System