Posted in DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, vinyl

It’s time.

Welp. Everyone around me seems to be changing. Some for the better, some for worse. As we wrap up another year, I’ve decided that in order to obtain the things I do want in my life (what’s left of it) that I need to make room, but letting go of the things that are not working out. I’m good at letting things go…including people. I was an Army brat and we moved constantly when I was a kid. So, walking away and not looking back for anything more than a reminiscent glance is simple enough. I’ll admit that the longer something or someone has been a part of my life, the harder it is to let go, but in time…I’ll be fine…no matter who, what, where, or why. I’ve survived way too much crap in this life to be held back by people that aren’t worth my time. And things? Well, they are just things, aren’t they?
As the end of this year inches closer and closer, I’m taking a good hard look at what I’ve been doing with my life as of late. It’s time to clean house…both worlds. I’m making changes and these changes are for ME…no one else. I’ve spent the last few years bending over backwards and tip toeing around broken glass to avoid hurting people I love, but have they done the same in return? In most cases, I’m afraid not. Don’t worry about Sady, she’ll be fine. Yes, I will be fine, but I won’t be around as a doormat, punching bag, fall back plan, dirty secret, or second choice anymore.
It took me way too long to get here and I’m not turning back now. I appreciate the roles everyone have played in my life over time and I am so grateful for the lessons, but I’m done. I’m putting my proverbial foot down. I’m establishing boundaries and for those that can’t respect them…welp. RIP. Its time for me to filter out some of the toxic people,  behaviors, habits, excuses, etc. So, here’s looking at you 2019, cuz 2020 will be better or I will die trying. It is just that simple.

doux ison vinyl equal semotion

hair:  #1 DOUX – Beanie Babe hairstyle [M] RARE @ Arcade
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
body: Maitreya
skin:  — PUMEC #RARE 2 – KATE – MAY   @ Kustom9

ISON – cropped turtleneck sweater
VINYL – Genetics Tartan Skirt @ FaMESHed
EQUAL – Elettra Boots @ FaMESHed

SEmotion Libellune Winter Deer Animesh #2 RARE @ Arcade

pose: T E M P L A R #5 @ SOS

location: Snow falls

Posted in CandyDoll, Collabor88, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

What I Like

I’m so glad that there were a handful of responses to my blog, “Dangerous Proposition.” In fact, not all of them were from close friends. One of my readers, Starr, asked, “What style of blogging do you enjoy? Images with zero texts just concentrating on the quality of the image or using imagination to create a story or what?” I actually enjoy both. Obviously the photos are what grab my attention, but if the writer grabs my attention with the first few sentences I am likely to read the entire post. However, if the posts is merely describing events or the clothing, I won’t bother reading that. My best friend, Kess, does both in her blog. The first half is usually a personal story or antedote, then the photo, and then she has a section “about the stuff.” I rarely read the about the stuff part.
If the blogs are long winded stories that are filled with superfluous words, I’m likely to have a hard time comprehending and squirrels will quickly lead me astray.  I do love good quick little antidotes or stories though. It would be mighty hypocritical of me not to, considering I’m guilty of all sorts of writing with my posts.
I’m still open to questions and/or topic challenges, so feel free to comment here or on the original post. Or you can contact me inworld: Sadystika Sabretooth♥

sit how I want

wearing:
hair:  tram G1113 (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Amala – The Daddy’s Necklace
ISON – moto jacket dress (*new* @ Uber)
_CandyDoll_ Rania Boots (November C88)

pose: Foxcity Sits Vol2 Set

scene:
10 Fancy Decor: Ramses Wall Panel
+Half-Deer+ Thorny Vines
[ zerkalo ] Handcuff Chair – Leather
05 Fancy Decor: Ramses Rug

Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Just Hold On

It gets better. It gets worse. Just hold on tight and prepare for the ride of your life…literally, the ride of your life. Life is full of ups and downs, it is a ride. Its not a game, but its sure as hell like a roller coaster. Anticipation keeps us excited as we push ourselves upwards towards our goals. Our stomachs drop as our hearts break and fall down. The twists and turns that life throws us keep us spinning. Every once in a while some of us even go backwards for a while, but even then we’re simply building momentum to move onward and upwards. So, no matter how crazy the ride of life gets, remember to just hold on…it’s going to get better eventually. ♥

just hold on

wearing:
hair:  *ARGRACE* Akane
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
ISON – ruffle katie dress(*new* @C88)

pose by Bauhaus Movement

scene:
Fancy Decor: Damask Wall Panel (medium)
Fancy Decor: Wendla Dresser (wine) (*new* @C88)
Fancy Decor: French Landscape Etching B (*new* @C88)
Fancy Decor: Lock Box (*new* @C88)
Fancy Decor: Wendla Lamp (*new* @C88)

Posted in CandyDoll, Events, Fashion, Second Life, shoes, shopping

The White Dress

She hated taking the subway so late at night, but she had to get home. She had work tomorrow and there’s no way she’d find a cab at this hour. This is what she gets for going out on a work night. Ugh, the subway always smelled like urine and body odor. She dreaded the train coming to rush that stink into her nostrils, almost as much as she dreaded getting on the train at this hour. There was no way she was sitting on those filthy seats in her white dress. She had managed to keep drinks from spilling on it all night and she’d be damned if she was going to mess it up on her way home.
As she walked down the stairs, she rolled her eyes to herself, why is there always a hooker passed out down here? At least the people didn’t look too shady, maybe she could manage this without getting mugged after all. Yeah, she’d be fine, but her could feel an anxiety attack coming on. She reached in her purse for a Xanax and some strawberry lip-gloss. At least the smell of the lip-gloss with help with the stench of this place.
She managed to make it home without incident. Locking her door, she dropped her purse on the entrance table and made her way to the kitchen for a glass of wine before bed. She made her way to the bedroom and just as she was about to set her wine down, the cat hopped up on the nightstand startling her and the red wine splashed down the front of her dress.

subway

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Drive (August ’17 Luxe Box)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
ISON – michelle dress (August ’17 Luxe Box)
_CandyDoll_ Fate Boots (*new* @ Blush)

pose by Foxcity

scene:
*Drot* Subway Station – RARE
*Drot* Wet Floor Sign
*Drot* Barrel Standard
*Drot* Subway Trashcan
and various mesh NPCs I found on MP

Posted in Bueno, E.A.Studio, Events, Exploration, Second Life, shopping

Vacation Shopping

Have  you ever really shopped until you dropped? I have. Its the most wonderfully, exhausted feeling and nothing compares to it. Of course, the absolute best time to shop until you drop is while you’re on vacation. While on vacation, you can spread all new pretties out around you in the room without feeling that obligation to find them all a new home…hidden away in closets, boxes, and drawers.  Then you can either order room service and relax as you revel in you treasures…OR…you can get dolled up in some of your new things and show them off at a fancy restaurant. Yes, shopping till you drop is definitely one of my favorite activities when on vacation…ok, well it used to be. My butt is so tired these days…the ideal vacation would be just a relaxing weekend away from all my responsibilities.

vacation1

You can shop until your lindens drop in SL without too much exhaustion, especially now that Shoetopia is open. Ladies…this is one of those events to end us all. Fellas? Take your woman to this event…spoil her…she is going to love you real hard…I can almost guarantee it!  Shoes galore! This truly is a heavenly event! Okay, grab your details below and off you go…Happy Shopping!♥

vacation2

Sady is wearing:
hair: [RA] Cinderella Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: .:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
dimples: Izzie’s – Catwa Dimples
lipstick: [PF] CATWA LIPSTICK Applier – Glossy Pout
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
hands: -VA-VISTA BENTO
nails: ~GD~Doll Anthem(Long Coffin)

*LODE* Head Accessory – Leila
**RE** Luxy Rings
**RE** ReVoX Aros Couple Bracelet

ISON – ary dress -maitreya- (March Luxe Box)
BUENO-Elle Boot-Mat-Burned (*new* @ Shoetopia)

poses: Bauhaus Movement
location: Pandora Resort

Posted in Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life

Summer Colds Suck

“How are you feeling?” they all ask.

I want to tell them that I feel like road kill or that it feels like death just took a shit on my head. I want to be dramatic and cry out, “I’M DYING!” Okay, maybe I did say those things to a few of my closest friends, but c’mon let’s face it….SUMMER COLDS SUCK! I can deal with a lot things, but summer colds are the absolute worst. Of course, that’s because that’s what I’m suffering from right now. Naturally, I found a way to milk my miserable status by showing you just how sick I am. Even my avatar is sick…SEE?

sick day

 

pictured above:
CATWA HEAD Candy
IKON Triumph Eyes – Glass
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
[theSkinnery] Sonya (Catwa Applier) – honey (*new* at C88)
Izzie’s – CATWA Tears Applier
hair: ::Exile:: In The Shade

top: ISON – lace bralette (nude)
bottoms: ISON – lace trim shorts (nude)

furnishing/decor:
Bazar Stockholm-Bed
tarte. night sky curtain
*Second Spaces* Sick Day accessory set (on the nightstand)
Bazar Traveler-Night stand
tarte. ladder display
Bazar Glam-FEMALE closet WHITE

photographed in:
DaD DESIGN “Sun Forest Cottage” (*new* at Shiny Shabby)