Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Shameless

Don’t speak, no, don’t try
It’s been a secret for the longest time
Don’t run (oh), no, don’t hide
Been running from it for the longest time
So many mornings, I woke up confused
In my dreams, I do anything I want to you
My emotions are naked, they’re taking me out of my mind
Right now, I’m shameless
Screamin’ my lungs out for ya
Not afraid to face it
I need you more than I want to
Need you more than I want to
Show me you’re shameless
Write it on my neck, why don’t ya?
And I won’t erase it
I need you more than I want to
I need you more than I want to

asteroid box famx

hair: TRUTH Solstice
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.3.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Dalia (LeLutkaEVO) @ C88

AsteroidBox. Elena Lingerie @ FaMESHed X
(Luc.) Whisky Cocktail BENTO accessory @ Equal10

pose: FOXCITY. Pampered Bento Pose Set @ C88

MK Red – Vibrate Night – The Bearded Guy

[ILAYA] Logan Lounger

Kalospia – Luna’s Hanging Light @ C88

dust bunny . areca palm plant

Posted in Legacy, Lelutka, pr!tty, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE], {le fil casse}

The damage is done

Dreamers
They never learn
They never learn
Beyond, beyond the point
Of no return
Of no return
And it’s too late
The damage is done
The damage is done
This goes
Beyond me
Beyond you
The white room
By a window
Where the sun comes
Through
We are
Just happy to serve
Just happy to serve
You

lefilcasse breathe

Sady is wearing:
hair:  pr!tty – Fefe @ Level
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

[ILAYA] Svea Set (earrings & necklace) @ Uber
{le fil casse} Bonnie Top
{le fil casse} Delia Shorts @ Belle
[BREATHE]-Tomoka Heels @ Uber

:LW: Bento Poses – It’s Probably Me

location: Burrow Coffee & Whiskey Co.

Posted in Cynful, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

I said…

I said, put your filthy hands all over me
And no, this ain’t the clean version
And what you gonna do with all that meat?
Cookin’ up a mean servin’
~ Justin Timberlake – Filthy

foxy cynful breathe lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair: Foxy – Gemini Hair @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber
Tattoo “Dragon of the Rising Sun”_by GoK

Cynful Gracey’s Shrug – FLF (April 4, 2020)
[BREATHE]-Kaeko Heels @ Epiphany

Alcohol Light – DeepBreath – The Bearded Guy

[ILAYA] Wet Dreams – Neon Light

Posted in Chic Moda, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

Setting the Tone for Spring

One of my favorite memories from my childhood was dressing up for Easter with my mom and posing for a picture. We quit doing it after my father admitted that he was an atheist and I began to question the teachings of the church. It’s kinda funny, until he told me he didn’t believe in God, I didn’t know that was an option. I wrestled with his disbelief for many years and continued to believe well into my twenties. Eventually it was my studies in literature that enlightened me. Like many of the Christian holidays, I think the decorations are fun. I love the cheerful colors and it sets the tone for spring perfectly.

doux chicmoda breathe serenity style

Sady is wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Tainy hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

Tattoo “Op.7″_by GoK
*LODE* Head Accessory – Hellebore Wreath [pink dots]
ChicModa // Mirabelle Dress @ FaMESHed
[BREATHE]-Misaya Heels @ FaMESHed

pose: [ILAYA] Alcinda

Serenity Style– Greenville Easter Cups
**these are actually table top decor that I resized**

:CP: Happy Spring Hanger Group Gift

Posted in Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, [BREATHE], {le fil casse}

Pussycat, Pussycat

Pussycat, Pussycat
I’ve got flowers
And lots of hours
To spend with you
So go and powder your cute little pussycat nose!
Pussycat, Pussycat
I love you
Yes, I do!
You and your pussycat nose!
~ Tom Jones – What’s New Pussycat?

foxy lfc breathe ilaya

wearing:
hair: Foxy – Celine Hair @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1 @ Skin Fair
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: Glam Affair – Lelutka Skin – Natasha @ C88

^^Swallow^^ GothLoli Ears @ Anthem
[ILAYA] Xaria Collar @ Fetish Fair
{le fil casse} Rina Dress @ Equal10
[BREATHE]-Takiko Heels @ FaMESHed

FOXCITY. Neko Bento Pose Set (Breather VOL6) @ Kustom9

MINIMAL – Fungsun Backdrop @ Equal10
[ILAYA]YES, DADDY neon light @ Fetish Fair

Posted in Bueno, Eudora3D, Events, Exploration, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Principal Difference

“If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and man.”
― Mark Twain

bueno uber uber
From head to toe, I’m covered in items from the current round of Uber. Seriously, with the exception of my head, ears, shape, body, and eyes…everything else is from Uber.

hair:  tram I1209a hair @ Uber
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears @ Kustom9
skin:  [Glam Affair] Khloe Applier @ Uber
body: Maitreya Mesh Body

[ILAYA] Estelle choker @ Uber
[ILAYA] Estelle Rings  @ Uber
[ kunst ] – Amara Bracelets @ Uber
BUENO-Kavi Dress @ Uber
Eudora3D Rusty Boots @ Uber

[Rezz Room] Siberian Husky Animesh  @ Uber

pose: FocusPoses. Always take the scenic route

location: FMD

Posted in Chic Moda, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Clean Breaks

I’m not sure what it is about the holidays and the new year that pushes people forward…to make hard decisions and stand by them. Perhaps it has more to do with New Year’s…New Year, new me, new resolutions. We all make some sort of resolutions in the new year. We might not declare them with punch drunk pride, but inwardly I think most of kind of vow to do better. It’s a time for clean breaks and fresh starts. So, to all of you ripping off those painful but long overdue bandaids….Here’s to making the hard decisions and all their consequences. *raises a glass*

chicmoda barley

fashion:
hair: Stealthic – Allure
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.1)
skin:  [Glam Affair] Lady Applier @ Belle
lipstick: alaskametro<3 “Holly” lipstick @ Uber

[ILAYA] Madita Necklace @ Uber
ChicModa // Penny Sweater Dress @ Uber
Eudora3D River Boots @ Uber

pose: Diversion – Cold Days @ Belle

decor:
Barley – Oslo Complete Set @ Access
-lamp, table, basket, & accents

[Merak] – Emma’s Armchair @ Kustom9
[Merak] – Emma’s Otoman @ Kustom9

[Merak] – Fall Blankets

JIAN Kitten Booties :: Decor Sleepies

[BDKX] -//- Merry Krampus

 

Posted in Exploration, Fashion, pr!tty, Second Life, shopping

Have a look in my eyes

Have a look in my eyes
Underneath my skin there is a violence
It’s got a gun in its hand
~ Archive – Bullets

deaddollz ilaya

hair:  pr!tty – Anya
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

[ILAYA] Abiramy Necklace
Dead Dollz – Nemesis Mini

pose: Amitie Candles in the Dark Pack
location: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Death Row Designs, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

Let me explain…or not

I just had the funniest conversation with my 73yr old mother in real life, that I felt it was share worthy. First, I want to say that my mother has always been open minded and accepting of all people. She had a gay bestie in college, which is saying a lot, considering it was the 60s! So, without further adieu…this is my trying to explain something to my mom.

Me: Oh she’s TransFemale.
Mom: so she’s gonna be a man?
Me: no, she’s a woman
Mom: NOW? or before?
Me: always
Mom: no, but she was born as a man, right?
Me: no, she’s always been a woman…she just had the wrong parts
Mom: so she was born with men’s parts?
Me: yes, Momma
Mom: so she was a man
Me: no, she’s always been a woman!
Mom: then how is she trans?
Me: oh ffs, yes, she was born a man, go away!

I swear sometimes I think she does it on purpose. And what does this have to do with the photo? Absolutely nothing. *laughs*

midna have unequal belle

hair: Stealthic – Dawn
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin @ TresChic
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

MIDNA – Giseli Glasses @ Belle
[ILAYA] Lukida Earrings @ Uber
(Yummy) – Sorceress Ring Set @ Uber
Ascendant – Taffy Nails
Lowen – Mia Laced Bag
[HU] Colby Outfit @Belle

pose: Amitie From Paris With Love @ Uber

DRD – Newsstand

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

What are you complaining about?

I saw something rather bizarre on Facebook the other day. It was an entire thread about a few people who have been liking lots of photos on Flickr lately. The thread started with a question, but what followed was what fascinated and confused me. People claiming that they blocked the person for liking so many of their photos. Uhm, correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t we put our photos on Flickr to be seen and hopefully liked enough to make clicking that little star worth someone’s time? There were several other comments that made me chuckle and tilt my head to the side like a confused dog.

One person said that this person had too much time on their hands. Well, the same could be said about those complaining about so many Flickr favs, couldn’t it? I mean, isn’t that just a complete waste of time? Someone else said that the people faving so much were trying to gather favs themselves. That might be true, but it certainly doesn’t mean you must do so.

From there, someone mentioned people that copy/paste the same compliments over and over again. This is one statement that I can understand both sides of, because I am one of those people. Why? Despite the wordiness of my blog, I don’t always have eloquent words or time to explain all the amazing components that I find in a photo on Flickr. I have several words with cute emojis that I use, because different photos warrant a different type of compliment. However, I assure you that I do not copy/paste these compliments all willy nilly. I only paste them if I believe it, just like I don’t invite photos to my Bringing SLexy Back group if I don’t find the photo to be quite sexy.

I think the bigger question should be, “Why are you all complaining about something so many others are genuinely grateful for?” I personally am grateful that anyone takes the time to like or view anything of mine on any platform. Perhaps today, we could all just take a moment and give thanks for some of our blessings.

complaining

wearing:
hair:  #Foxy –  Ari Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
SU!– Osanna Eyes
#ADORED – prizmo shadows – permafrost edition (*new* @ Sultry)
#ADORED – jucci gloss lips – candy princess edition (*new* @ Sultry)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

[ILAYA] & [ kunst ] – Addison collar
SU!–  Dagger Earrings (*new* @ Eclipse)
(Yummy) Bohemia Ring Set
Ascendant  – Moon Dust Nails (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)