Posted in E.A.Studio, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Lapointe & Bastchild, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, TMD

She’s Crazy

Josh and I had a lot of fun working on this picture. *grins* We were going to write this post together, but decided that this song says it all and more. So enjoy the lyrics and the song…it’s even more sensual than the picture.

“Let me tell you story
About a little girl I know
When she walks into a room
You know she steals the show
She’s crazy
And it’s more than I can stand

I’m just crazy about that woman
And she’s just crazy ’bout this man

She wakes me every morning
With that tender lovin’ touch
Some fools don’t get enough
But she just loves me too much
She’s crazy
And it’s more than I can stand
I’m just crazy about that woman
And she’s just crazy ’bout this man

She always wants me around
But I just ain’t got no time
But you know she got these little ways
To make me change my mind
She’s crazy
And it’s more than I can stand

I’m just crazy about that woman
And she’s just crazy ’bout this man”
JT Coldfire – She’s Crazy

She's Crazy

Sady is wearing Phedora ~  Jackie heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Josh is wearing:
Modulus – Pavel Hair – Browns
[i.mesh] – Hairbase#1 BROWN (hud) – CATWA applier
IKON Triumph Eyes – Storm
.:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
VYC – Neat Scruff Beard HD *GIFT*
Slink Physique Male Mesh Body
L&B Swear Blazer (*new* @ TMD)
L&B Swear Salvage Moto Jeans
::GB::ZIP Wing tip / Black

*AF* Capturado Scrollwork
Dutchie maledom wall rings shiny
*AF* Utility Tray v1
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0
Dutchie mesh leather poof chocolat
Paris – Wine set by Bazar
Paris – Wine bottle spilled by Bazar
*AF* Capturado Cross Blk 1

Posted in Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Don’t Be Afraid of the Dark

Most of my friends will be quick to tell you that I have a very twisted sense of humor and a fit of giggles is often followed by extreme coughing as I often laugh so hard that I forget to breathe…and yes, on a few occasions I’ve passed out from laughing too hard.

muertos3I recently got quite tickled over phrases that can and often do sound dirtier in my head than they’re originally intended. One example is, “Things go bump in the night.” Even now I have the stupid little grin on my face, because all I can think is, “They do if you’re lucky!” As I was taking these pictures with the adorable little “dia de los muertos” pillow in the background I kept thinking about silly crass remarks like, “Killed it!” Which led to a series of much more disturbing thoughts that I won’t even begin to share.
*sneezes in Nish’ direction*            Oh! Excuse me!

This is one of the things I actually like about myself and I don’t think we acknowledge our good traits enough. Sure, we’ll put ourselves down and some of us can even accept a compliment, others not even that. How are we supposed to convince other people that we admire their qualities if we can’t even acknowledge our own? I don’t mean go bragging about something you can do. I mean personality traits. I have a wicked sense of humor and I enjoy it. While I know its not for everyone and is often ill-timed, I happen to think I’m pretty darn funny….most of the time. I’m no comedian, but I sure amuse myself and that counts for something, right? I realize there’s a fine line here. Some will go about telling the world how nice they are and how generous they are, but honestly…that’s not at all what I mean.  I’m thinking more along the lines of traits you essentially live with. How you are when you’re all alone with yourself. Are you kind to yourself? Do you make yourself laugh? Can you love yourself? (with the Hitachi, Nikole!) Have you pampered yourself lately? Why wait for the kindness, humor, love, and attention from someone else? Show yourself a good time!

muertosAnd I can’t even get through all that positive affirmation stuff without the dirty thoughts and yes, I’m quite sure it has nothing to do with my booty being on display. Okay, fair enough, the pictures probably don’t help, but hey, you’re still reading!
Yeah, so love yourself however you see fit, but do love yourself, even the dark and twisted parts of yourself. Cuz I’ve got to somehow tie this all back to the title I gave this post and really don’t want to change…so appreciate your weirdness and don’t be afraid of the dark.

I should really try to get more sleep before writing this stuff, huh? Get the lights will ya? Thanks….zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz…oh…*snorts*…deets….below…zzzzzzz.

TRUTH HAIR Debra –  variety
IKON Hope Eyes – Ice
MG – Necklace – Raisa
Slink Physique Mesh Body Hourglass
[HoR] Rule Bodysuit (*new* @ Swank)
Blueberry – Blaire Skirt  (*new* @ Collabor88)

:CP: Waltzer Chair Muertos (*new* @ TMD)
Maxi Gossamer – H&G – Curtains (*new* @ FaMESHed)
poses by Bauhaus Movement

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

Mad World

“It’s a very, very mad world, mad world.” ~Mad World by Tears For Fears (or whichever cover you prefer)

I’ve long argued that the world is not worse than it used to be, we simply know more about what’s going on around the world due to technological advances. There’s not more child abuse, rape, war, hate, or all out madness. Slavery is still very much alive. None of these things went away. They simply found new ways to hide and we found a new way to publicize the truths..and sadly the lies.

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It truly is a mad world out there and I often find myself empathizing and at time envying agoraphobics. However, the simplest way to counteract the complete madness of the world is to contribute to the brighter side. To walk out the door with fear. To drop some change into the homeless person’s cup even if he might buy booze or drugs with it. Its my duty and my pleasure to be kind to strangers in a world full of fear mongering hate. I smile at the lady who scowls at me in the grocery store and on a good day, I’ll even chuckle about it later.

mad world full

There’s also a very twisted sick part of me, for I am no saint (I know you’re shocked!). I often find myself amused at the ridiculous stupidity of criminals. I’m as bad as the next person for making fun of orange political figures (there’s more than one, calm your tits) and empty headed news personalities. I honestly believe that for most of us it boils down to perception and personal responsibility. After all, we’re responsible for how we react and respond to the world around us. We each have a responsibility to ourselves to make the most of this mad world. I’m not going to be paralyzed by fears of terrorism or anarchy. I’m going to live my life to the fullest. AND if the day comes that civil unrest lands at my front door, well…I’m no doomsday prepper, so we’ll just have to wait and see. In the meanwhile, I’ll deal with what’s on my plate…you know the one in my lap that tells me I need to see a doctor about this pesky ear infection.

mad world face


little bones. May  (*new* @N21)
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Apex
Amala – The Heart Nose Stud
[NikotiN]    Rainbow_Silver  RARE
.02 [ kunst ] – Chin flower RARE (*new* @ Kustom9)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Prodigy Ink–7P-Paradise Tattoo
erratic / janelle – crop top / feline
**RE** Precious Nails & Rings – Square
[n.i]*ck.set 5
LRD Overall Babes
::MA:: High Wedge Sneakers “Kingston” V2

pose by Del May edited using AnyPose
background by industy7 -_i7_urban studio_shanty town set (*new* @ The Epiphany)

Posted in Exploration, Fashion, Second Life

Sady and the City

A great city is that which has the greatest men and women. Walt Whitman

I realize I have already blogged about Elysium City of Templemore, but if you’ve been there you understand my enthusiasm and if you haven’t you should go soon. After only one visit you will surely share my excitement. As my dear friend, Grace Sixpence, so eloquently put it, “OMG! Everytime I’m here, I discover something new!” The same has been true for me. There is so much to see and explore, you could spend hours there and still discover something new. As if the scenery isn’t enough to draw you in…they present some of the absolute best live musicians on the grid quite regularly. A great way to keep up with what’s going on is to like the official Elysium City of Templemore Facebook page.

Sady and the City (back)

After shopping at Shiny Shabby, I knew exactly where I wanted to take my photos to present some of my latest finds. What I didn’t know is that I’d run into some of my good friends that were already there exploring or that I’d discover two new spots to shoot my photos. Okay, I actually discovered four, but only used two for this post. *giggles*

Sady and the City

I could gush on and on about this location, but I really want to encourage you to go check it out for yourself. Its truly beautiful and I am so grateful for all the hard work that went into it. I’m especially grateful that the owners have such a generous spirit and are willing to share this amazing paradise. It proves the quote by Walt Whitman, because this city is truly founded and fueled by great people.

=DeLa*= Mesh Hair “Veranica” Blondes (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Apex
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Prodigy Ink–7P-Paradise Tattoo
Izzie’s – Celestial Midi Rings
::Dead Dollz::. Imma – Black (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
#EMPIRE – Shasta (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

poses: oOo Studio
location: Elysium City of Templemore

Posted in Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life

My Memory

Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you! John Irving
I can’t help but wonder if an Elephant’s memory plays such tricks. I’ve long envied the memory that elephants are known for possessing. However, after doing a little reading I found out that while they have a great memory, they have poor eyesight. What a trade!
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These pictures are something I’ve thought of doing for a while and just didn’t get around to it, because….well, I forgot, okay? Sue me. There have been so many shinies and so many amazing events. My inventory is a complete mess and so is my head. So, prepare yourself for a great many posts mixing new, recent, and older items as I attempt to sort this all out. In the meantime, I will do my best to put them together in ways that will please the eye and inspire your own beautiful ensembles.
memory 3

TRUTH HAIR Dune –  light blondes (*new* @ Uber)
IKON Triumph Eyes – Silverleaf
.DirtyStories. Lorelia Headchain
.aisling. Aspasia – Earrings (Gold)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Birdy – Boho – Bikini – Aqua
**RE** Zaria Bracelets
Kibitz – Rosie rings – gold
Zaara : Raksha Body jewelry *FATPACK* [arms, belly, thighs, & ankles] (*new* @ Uber)

Birdy – Boho – Adult Elephant Aqua
:CP: Delilah Blossom Rugs
:CP: Boho Dreamtime Chandelier
:CP: Boho Dreamtime Hammock
:CP: Desert Rose Paisley Pouffe (*new* @ Uber)

build: Scarlet Creative Alaouite Skybox Prefab Luxebox June
poses: GingerFish

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

My Happy Place

happy place2
Everyone needs a happy place, whether its a real place, a virtual place, or just somewhere you go mentally. About four years ago, a friend of mine took me to Hazardous and it has been my favorite place on the grid ever since. Its not a fancy place, but its peaceful and beautiful. Sometimes I think it seems strange that I can feel so renewed or calm, simply by visiting this virtual place on my computer. Sitting there with the combination of their music and the ambiance.
happy place1

There are a few places across the grid that allow me to recharge my mental and spiritual batteries. Each one delivering its own unique energy. Hands down, Hazardous remains my favorite, but its a place I tend to go alone or with someone special.
happy place

=DeLa*= Mesh Hair “Paraty”
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Apex
.DirtyStories. Lorelia Headchain
LUXE. Choi Lip Ring (*new* @ N21)
LUXE. Triangles Necklace Gold
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
(fd) Summer Princess Shirt Dress – Cream (*new* @ Uber)
Wimey: Purest Branch Cuff Gold
Kibitz – Rosie rings – gold
fri. – Olivia.Sandals (Dust)

poses by !bang
photos taken @ Hazardous

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

Shades of Silver

silver close up

I don’t have a witty antidote or funny story. I’m just crazy in love with this outfit. I love silver, so when I find gorgeous silver and gray items that just fall in line together…yeah. There are so many amazing events going on right now and by mixing some older things with some newer items from several events, I’ve put together this look that I’ve actually worn more than once! Shocking, I know. So, enjoy the pictures and if you get a chance check out the location where I shot these pictures…its absolutely gorgeous and I will definitely be visiting Saint-Pete City again for future photos.



Exile:: Morning Glory Naturals
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Apex
.DirtyStories. Barbed Headchain Silver
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
[White~Widow] Genius – Silver
.4 [ kunst ] – Septum Keeper
.5 [ kunst ] – Spike Labret
.::Dead Dollz::. Anja – Pearl (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
15. :BAMSE: Trench Knife – Silver (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
Izzie’s – Spring Midi Rings (silver)
#EMPIRE – Bottlebrush (unpacked)

photos taken @ Saint-Pete City
poses: Kirin, Axix, and Infiniti

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

Weed or Flower

“A weed is but an unloved flower.”
Ella Wheeler Wilcox

This simple line from Ella Wheeler Wilcox’s poem, “The Weed,” is so poignant. Without the love and kindness of those around us, would we not all feel like weeds? I cannot fathom where I’d be if not for the mingling of my spirit with the spirits of others throughout my life. Each one leaving its imprint on my soul. Each one playing its own role in my journey. Occasionally we are lucky enough to find a spirit that shines so strongly, that even after one short week of knowing them…we know our life will never be the same.

Keep your hearts and minds open as you go through life to insure that you allow such loving energy into your life. Allow yourself these blessings, for we are each deserving, and there is no need for us to be weeds…let love in and allow yourself to bloom. ♥

delicate flower

*Besom~ Burn Down *Gothics*
^^Swallow^^ Ears Pax BLACK (*new* @ The Arcade)
.5 [ kunst ] – Spike Labret
(r)M, Posture Collar, No.02
**RE** Cora Harness (*new* @ Tres Chic)
[HoR] Net Unisex Bodysuit – Floral (*new* @ 􀀁 Swank Events)
#EMPIRE – Iris (*new* @ We<3RolePlay)

pose: GingerFish Poses -Get What I Want 4-CURVY

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

Power of Words

I love words. I love writing. Whether I’m worth reading is up to the reader. What I find amusing is the power we give words. Sure, when put together to make meaningful statements they often are deserving of such power. Yet, one word alone can so often offend so many when the meaning changes depending on the mouth that spews it.

power of words

Cunt is one of those delightful words that challenges many. I hear women all the time talk about how much they hate the word and how it offends them. Bitch is another one…but the list could go on forever. What I wonder is why we allow these words to have so much power over us. Why does the word cunt feel like more of an assault than the word chair?

If someone was to say, “Ya CHAIR!” Well, I think most of us would do a double take and laugh, “WTF?” Yet, let someone say, “Ya CUNT!” and people come unglued. Is one more true than the other? No? Then why so offended? Eh, something to think about. Call me whatever you want, just don’t call me….uhm…yeah, Idgaf…call me whatever you want. Except you, Tracy Redangel, cuz you’re a real cunt. *smirks*

**DISCLAIMER: Tracy is one of my best friends and I love her to pieces. She’s fine with what I said…so save you hate mail for a ginger with a soul..LOL**

power of words full

eyes: IKON Odyssey Eyes – Apex
collar:Kibitz – Leather collar cunt
tatoo: [White~Widow] Midnight in Paris
outfit: _CandyDoll_ Sugar Jumpsuit Black (*new* @ FaMESHed)
upper arms: *MUKA* Alia Set
forearms: *MUKA* Spike Bracers
boots: #EMPIRE – Freesia

GingerFish Poses Curves 3 mirror – Curvy

Posted in Fashion, Second Life

White Rabbit

White Rabbit: Don’t just do something, stand there… Uh… no no! Go go! Go get my gloves! I’m late!

Growing up an only child, a blond haired blue eyed child, I was often compared to Alice. My mother even attempted to tie ribbons in my hair. The ribbons never lasted long and I never related to Alice as much as I related to the scatter brained, hectic rabbit who was always misplacing things and running a bit behind. You see, much like the white rabbit, I have suffered from anxiety my entire life. I constantly worried about being late, offending people, and disappointing them. I still do. I often bite off more than I can chew and my good intentions often lead me right into a hole that I cannot begin to climb out.

I remember my father gave me my first watch in the third grade. I had just turned eight years old when he decided I was ready to learn how to tell time and appreciate its value. From that day forward, anytime I was late, I had no excuse and was severely punished anytime I wasted an adult’s time. This created a lovely cycle of anxiety that only worsened as I grew up. To this day, I struggle with anxiety, but the older I get the less I worry about disappointing people. You see, I realized that its unavoidable. One cannot go through their entire life without disappointing someone, nor can we go through life without being disappointed. So, today I will do my best not to fear the worst.

white rabbit

TRUTH HAIR Arwen – variety
[White~Widow] Caravage – White
.ET. L’odeur du cuir Bunny Mask white
~Soedara~ Silvana Camisk {Strong}
#6 Blueberry – Oakley – Chain Panties – Maitreya – White
**RE** Bad-Kitty Gloves Pack 1 – RARE
#EMPIRE – Rudbeckia

GingerFish Poses – Curves 1