Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

The Same Destination

Once upon a time, a very long time ago, I would go anywhere I could anytime I could. I’d pack my bag and hit the road with my friends. We’d go to the beach, the mountains, another city and we’d get lost every time, because we had no sense of direction, no cell phones, and no GPS. We kept scrapbooks that were so plain and boring, not all fancy like the professional looking ones out there today. We took pictures with disposable cameras and got excited over one hour developing. We always got double prints, so we could share. We didn’t take selfies, we took pictures of each other….and occasionally we found a kind stranger to take a group shot. I’m grateful to have lived the life I’ve lived. I’m closer to the end than the beginning now, but I can honestly say that life is definitely about the journey. We’ll all meet the same destination eventually…so make your journey yours and don’t let anyone restrict you. Travel with love and don’t look back. ♥

love to travel
Ariskea[April] Succulent Plant Copper Group Gift

*[Black Bantam] Fluffy Kitty V1 Blue Eyes RARE @ Kustom9

dust bunny . dreamy outing . croissant sandwiches
dust bunny . camellia stool
dust bunny . sweet dreams . fiddle leaf tree @ Uber
dust bunny . sweet dreams . alarm clock . gold @ Uber
dust bunny . postcards
dust bunny . storybook living . old backpack
dust bunny . sweet dreams . nightstand @ Uber
dust bunny . dreamy outing . essentials bag
dust bunny . book pile
dust bunny . quirky planters . snail
dust bunny . storybook living . researcher’s journal
dust bunny . camellia chair . adult

Elm. Aries Crystal Bookends [Pink]
Elm. Aries Shelf [Short]
Elm. Aries Moon Decor (Gold)
Elm. Aries Ram Skull [Natural]
Elm. Aries Wall Decor [Gold]
Elm. Aries Plant [White]
Elm. Aries Shelf [Long]

{moss&mink} Sweet Treasure – Ash
{moss&mink} Paper Flowers Pk1 – Flower1
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print Group Gift
{moss&mink} Floor Cushion Group Gift
{moss&mink} Paper Flowers Pk1 – Gold Dots

Serenity Style– The World is Yours–Wall Art  @ TLC
Serenity Style- The World is Yours- Lamp @ TLC
Serenity Style- The World is Yours– Shepherd Pouf @ TLC

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)

.Florix. Vintage Cupboard – White

Posted in Chic Moda, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, SHADES, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

The Color Pink

I don’t know why the color pink just feels so natural in a bedroom. Even in my real life bedroom, the minute my ex moved out of the bedroom? I started adding pink. Maybe I’m trying to climb back into the womb. Metaphorically, of course. Although, there was this one time that I had painted my room this beautiful salmon pink, because I fell in love with Sara’s bedroom in Sweet November. Shortly there after, my friend Justin came over and I showed him my bedroom. The first thing he said was, “I feel like I just walked into a giant vagina.” Needless to say, I’ve never had pink walls again. Though I didn’t repaint that bedroom. In fact, my friend Matthew had the pleasure of painting over that pink when he took over my lease. *giggles*
However, the luxury of Second Life allows me to have pink walls one day and gray the next. I love being able to change decor and clothing with the click of a few buttons. It still might take me all day to get the job done, but at least I’m not wrestling with paint brushed, pulling my back out with oversized furniture, or wrestling with jeans that have clearly shrunk in the last few months. *look around innocently and hides her candy*

let the light in

SHADES – Anastasia Bed (*new* @ Equal10)

ChicModa // Anti-Valentine’s Pillows // Single AF

Serenity Style-Mardi Gras Masks gacha (*new* @ TLC)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask Medusa 1 (DECOR)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask RARE (DECOR)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask Medusa 2 (DECOR)

Dahlia – Griffin – Cage – Gold (February Builder’s Box)

Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Blue
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Red

{what next} Rose Vase Decor #1
{what next} Rose Vase Decor #2
{what next} Rose Vase Decor #3

{what next} Heart Picture Frame (gold)

{what next} Emily Jewellery Box – open

.Florix. Vintage Cool – Mirror (*new* @ Equal10)
.Florix. Vintage Cool – Rug (*new* @ Equal10)

{moss&mink} Unicorn Pencilcase – Exclusive VIP Launch Gift
{moss&mink} Unicorn Notebooks – Exclusive VIP Launch Gift
{moss&mink} Floor Cushion
{moss&mink} Unicorn Party – Hanging Stars GIFT
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print GIFT

ChiMia:: Joanne Console [white]
ChiMia:: Pumpkin Spice & Chocolate Macarons

Fapple– Kama Sutra Gacha 03
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 06
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 07
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 11

::{u.f.o}::Swan Lake, Act1 – classic phone pink 1
.: vive nine :. Stacked Boxes w/ Shoes
Bleich – Mesh Blackbird – Pastel Pink
The Loft & Aria – Linen Storage Box
[Cosmic Dust] – FuckBoy Repellent
[Black Bantam] Bengal Kitten
dust bunny . potted sago palm
ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle
Ariskea[ FaMESHedGo ]Triangle Seilling Decor [BBPink] Gift
tarte. globe pendant lights

Posted in Blueberry, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Lamb, Second Life

I don’t understand

I’m really curious if there are girls in Second Life that actually fall for the lines that some of these men throw at us. I’ve heard of some pretty outrageous things that girls have said to men, as well. From dick pics to lame ass pick up lines to sexual assault, I’d like to say I’ve seen it all, but these ridiculous men cease to amaze me. I’m not talking about the plain ole, “Hi” or “Hello”…or even the “Nice avatar.”
I’m talking about those really far out and inappropriate intros. For instance, I had a guy emote that he grabbed me by the hair and bent me over a table. I didn’t know him from Adam’s housecat! Ironically, he’s IMd me two more times since then, each time at a different club. He never seems to remember me, but I sure af remember him. I mean, that kind of unsolicited emote is like a sexual assault, right? Or the guys that IM every girl in the club with the same opening line. Uhm, dude, we’re all dancing in a row on the same hud, we’re not talking in local, which should indicate we’re probably in a conference. Did you really think we wouldn’t tell each other about the rando in our IMs?
I’m really curious if this tactic works. How many girls do they have to copy/paste that message to in order to get a hit? Does anyone fall for that? If so….WHY???

blueberry foxy

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Mirror Kisses (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: -SU!- Astrid Eyes
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

-SU!- Celestria Earrings
Blueberry – Alma – Ruffled Top
Vinyl – Hart Wide Legs

pose by Del May
.Florix. Zebra Backdrop – PINK (*new* @ Equal10)

 

Posted in Catwa, E.V.E, Events, Fashion, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life

Silk and Honey

Well, my darling friend, Phenella…that I’ve dubbed PhenPhen and she lets me! I think she is simply adorable. She offered up a Challenge in response to my Challenge to Challenge post. If you haven’t already guessed, she’s given me honey and a silk scarf. Ha! Tricked you, you thought it was just silk, didn’t you? Nope, she was a bit more specific and let me tell you, the my mind went straight to the bedroom. Then I started thinking how sticky honey is and what a mess that would be. Honey would completely ruin a silk scarf! I imagine that PhenPhen was having tea, looked around and just tossed me two things she saw. *giggles* Well, my photo features silky textures and honey colors…so there you have it. My very weak attempt at tying honey and a silk scarf together.

losing my light

wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant // Falling hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola
LYBRA . RUBY (*new* @ Christmas Around the World)

pose by Del May

scene:
E.V.E PORTAL “Scattering a Rose” Gold
.Florix. Crystal Rain (*new* @ Busan)

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, crate, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Home Decor, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative, {le fil casse}

Blanket and Magnet

It’a another Challenge to Challenge post!! First off, I have to fangirl just a bit. Exis actually gave me this challenge and I’m a huge fan of her work. If you’re not familiar with her, you must check her out! So, she gave me blanket and magnet, which worked out perfectly for this post, because of the dogs. Let the short story unfold…

She didn’t have children in the traditonal sense, but she had two beautiful female huskies that she referred to as her dogters. Blanket and Magnet were named for their behavior, as Blanket had dragged around some type of covering since she was brought home. She had quickly discovered how to cover herself with it, too. Magnet followed Blanket every where and always had to be touching Blanket or the blanket she used to cover herself. This was to be their first Christmas as adult dogs and though Sady was quite sure that her furry children had no understanding of the holiday, she wanted it to be special for them. Each day they received a special little treat from the advent calendar and each day she added more to their Christmas scene. Magnet had gotten tangled up in the lights, but didn’t want them removed. For now, Sady would allow it. She drank her hot cocoa as she reflected on the past year and everything that had happened. She looked lovingly at her girls and found gratitude that there were at least two creatures in her life that had yet to betray her.

a lot of xmas

wearing:
hair: MINA – Sira (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

MIDNA – Lena Necklace (*new* @ TLC)
{le fil casse} Noella Bra Top (*new* @ Epiphany)
{le fil casse} Noella Sweater (*new* @ Epiphany)
TETRA – Cargo pants
NANIKA – Bea Heels -Maitreya- RARE (*new* @ TLC)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Cocoa Dream (*new* @ TLC)

scene created in the Blueberry – Holidays Gift – Sky Version Winter Cabin

KraftWork Advent Calendar (*new* @ TLC)

[ kunst ] & KraftWork – Candle house

crate All is Calm (*new* @ Epiphany)
-crate All is Calm Cinnamon Stick Candle
-crate All is Calm ~ Snowflake Hanger
-crate All is Calm ~ Log Slice Snowflake Hanger
-crate All Is Calm ~ Stockings
-crate All Is Calm ~ Toy Train
-crate All is Calm Log Slice Wreath
-crate All is Calm Gold Star Twig Tree
-crate Little Box of Hygge Epiphany Reward ~ VIP
-crate All is Calm Cranberry Orange Shortbread

.Florix. Scandinavian X-mas (*new* @ Arcade)
-1.Florix. Scandinavian X-mas Gifts – RARE
-.Florix. Scandinavian X-mas Books Green

DYNASTY – Cozy Winter (*new* @ Epiphany)
-DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Sled RARE
-1. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Closed Thermos
-2. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Opened Thermos
-3. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Hot Choco (Small Marsh)
-4. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Hot Choco (Big Marsh)
-5. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Lantern
-6. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Standing Tray
-7. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Cookie Batch
-8. DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Milk Set
-9 DYNASTY – Cozy Winter – Box of Cookies

Dahlia – Verona Holiday (*new* @ Epiphany)
-Dahlia – Verona Holiday – Holly Mice – RARE
-Dahlia – Verona Holiday – Macarons – Berry
-Dahlia – Verona Holiday – Cookie Box – Green

Dahlia – Denmark Collection (*new* for Builder’s Box)
-Dahlia – Denmark – Heart Stool – Copper
-Dahlia – Denmark – Blanket – Blush
-Dahlia – Denmark – Cappucino Tray

RO – Home for the Holidays – Tundra RARE
RO – Home for the Holidays – Alaska RARE

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Tannenbaum, vinyl

They Don’t Know

“I’m brilliant
At least that’s what they say
But they don’t know I’m not
Who the hell’s to know

And I’m charming
At least that’s what they think
But they don’t know I’m not
I’m really kind of mean”
~ Missio KDV

A light snow

wearing:
hair:  {Limerence} Elena hair (*new* @ Kinky)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Dahlia – Aspen – Earmuffs (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Dahlia – Bari – Choker
Ascendant – Merry Bento Nails (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Vinyl– Chocolate Coat Pak (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Blueberry – Cece – Winter Boots

pose: Foxcity Late Night Bento Pose Set

.Florix. Gingerbread House – Red (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Take Me Somewhere

I grew up watching these commercials about Calgon and hearing these exhausted women beg Calgon to take them away.  Then you would see them whisked away to some beautiful fantasy world of waterfalls and forest streams and beaches….all sorts of fantastic scenes. I begged my mother for some Calgon, so she got it….it didn’t take me anywhere! Can you believe that? *giggles*
I really don’t know what I thought was going to happen, but I do know that I believed I would be transported. I’m sure I watched far too many episodes of Fantasy Island around the same time and a big FU to you youngins who don’t know what Fantasy Island is…lol.

take me somewhere
A false memory would be everything
A denial my eliminent –Mogwai Take Me Somewhere Nice

.Florix. Outdoor bathtube (*new* @ Blueprint)
.Florix. Stone pavement
.Florix. Wood deck – 03

N4RS Spa Side Table
N4RS Spa Towels
N4RS Candles
N4RS Massage Oil

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Wine Duet

Apple Fall Design a Planter –

{anc} bubbles
{anc} forest lanterns

[DDD] Twinkling Ivy

Heart – Forest Undergrowth – Clover – Small

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, crate, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Vanity Event

Retail Therapy

After doing some minimal research on the Googlenets, I discovered that the average cost of one therapy session can range between $75-$200. That’s one hour to tell my problems to a stranger that’s going to turn around and ask me how does that make me feel? Nah, I’ll take my $200 for some shopping, because nothing makes me feel better than some retail therapy. I’ll tell my problems to the beautician, the nail girl, or the bartender like a normal person. *giggles*

Time to Shop

wearing:
hair:  [RA] Audrey Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly
tattoo: Mystic TaTToo Applier – Henna [CAROL G] (*new* @ Vanity Event)

**RE** Aurora Bracelets BG
#187# Summer Bag ~ Marine
_CandyDoll_ Bamzii Jump
Eudora3D Sierra Boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Aesthetic Perfection set (*new* @ TLC)

scene:
.Florix. The color wall – Blue (*new* @ Blush)

crate Salvador Set (*new* @ TLC)
-crate Salvador Set ~ Rug
-crate Salvador Set ~ Chair PG
-crate Salvador Set ~ Plant
-crate Salvador Set ~ Side Table

22769 – Hermes Clock Painted Steel

Toro. Zombie Emergency Box

Frogstar – Salvaged Wood Welcome Sign

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Collabor88, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Vanity Event

Blueberry

This isn’t really something I do very often, but for this post I’m going to talk about two stores. Well, mostly one, but I’m going to touch on another. I’m actually thinking that I might even do this more often. We’ll see. If you’re a regular reader, you know that the only norm to my blog is the lack of one. So, let’s just dive right in.

First store, I want to touch on is Stealthic. I love not needing a hair base when I wear Stealthic hair. If anything, I need to remove my hairbase. To top it off, he has recently taken on curls and they look absolutely amazing, especially in photographs. So, if you’ve never tried it (and if not, what rock have you been under) go grab some demos and check it out for yourself.

The main store that I want to talk about is, of course, Blueberry. Here’s the thing, I’m just going to get real with you here. I’ve heard people say, “Oh I don’t buy Blueberry anymore, because whenever she releases something new, everyone on the grid is wearing it.” Okay, but have you seen how many colors she has? Have you seen how you can mix and match her pieces from one outfit to another? The picture below is a prime example. This top came with a wrap around jacket and was released along side some adorable new leggings. However, I couldn’t resist mixing this top with the bikini bottoms from her previous release. You’ll see me mixing the bikini top with the bottoms next and there was another top with the bikini….a fringed top. That one is perfect with these bottoms or jeans….or even just panties. There’s no linden law that says you must wear Blueberry the way it was released. AND the more pieces you own? The more outfits you can make…and the thing is, they’re going to match, cuz its all from her color palette. Alright, I’ll hush now so you can go shopping….and take notice of how perfectly my Eurdora sandals are matching. *winks*

blueberry

wearing:
hair:  Stealthic – Haven (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyeshadow: Veechi – Tropical Paradise Shadow FLF
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Austine Applier [ Catwa ] Basic Line FLF
piercings: –SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
EF: Juno Necklace (*new* @ C88)
Ascendant – Holographic Bento Nails (*new* @ Vanity Event)
Blueberry – Alena – Off Shoulder Top
Blueberry – Jenna – Bikini Bottom
Eudora3D Charro Flats (*new* @ TLC)
pose is in the bed, I did use AnyPose to adjust the head and feet
.Florix. Montessorian Bed- Fresh (*new* @ Chapter Four)