Posted in Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

The Laundromat

Years ago, many many years ago, back in my very young, wild and single days, I used to love going to the laundromat with my roommate. We’d make a day of it and we always had so much fun. We were a wild pair. We’d drag all our laundry down the local laundromat, grab a couple of Diet Pepsis and get to work. The best part was waiting on the clothes to dry. We’d sit on the counter and chat. Sometimes we’d even have a bit of a picnic. There was a sandwich shop right around the corner, so if it was one those big laundry days, we’d grab some lunch for our countertop picnic.

It’s funny how you can have such fond memories of something that just felt like a necessity at the time. It certainly feels like a lifetime ago. Well, it might be someone’s lifetime ago, considering I was around 21 at the time. *laughs* Now, I can’t even remember the last time I went to a laundromat. My anxiety keeps me in the house as much as possible and lucky for me, I have a washer & dryer in my kitchen!

The Laundromat

hair: DOUX – Peach hairstyle @ Equal10
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: [theSkinnery] Monica (LeLutkaEVO)

(Yummy) Poppet Ring Collection @ C88
Lunar – Fany @ Equal10
Lunar – Fany Hoodie
Lunar – Fany Top
Lunar – Fany Shorts
Lunar – Fany Fanny Pack
Lunar – Fany Shoes

pose: Lyrium. Kess Static & Breathing + Fingers Series @ Pose Event

backdrop: MINIMAL – February Group Gift 2020

+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Pink Floral
+Half-Deer+ Lingerie Clutter – Red – Hanging (Panties)

:FANATIK HOME: Real Folded Sweater Blue
:FANATIK HOME: Real Folded Pants White

MH Laundry Slip Ledge
MH Laundry Bra Ledge
MH Laundry Panties Ledge
MH Laundry White Shirt Floor

KOPFKINO – Washing Day – Detergent – Common

BackBone Laundry Basket – Blanket – Black

BALACLAVA!! Laundry Cart (Clean)

Posted in Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping

Take One Day Away

“Every person needs to take one day away.  A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future.  Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any one of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence.  Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for.  Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”
― Maya Angelou, Wouldn’t Take Nothing for My Journey Now

mossmink mudhoney dahlia summerfest

#ninety – Ice- Cream Shop Build @ Summerfest
#ninety – Sea Food Shop Build @ Summerfest
#ninety – Smoothie Shop Build @ Summerfest

:Fanatik Architecture: ROCKS 2018

Ariskea [Plumeria] Plumeria Orange Plant @ Summerfest

[-BLUE SKY-] Wall Surfboard – Turtles @ Summerfest
[-BLUE SKY-] Wall Surfboard – Mandala Decor @ Summerfest

Dahlia – Nohea Set @ Summerfest
Dahlia – Nohea – Heart Bowls
Dahlia – Nohea – Table
Dahlia – Nohea – Towels – Tarnished
Dahlia – Nohea – Tropical Smoothie Bowl – Dragon

DEAD DOLL – Beach Tote @ Summerfest

MADRAS Elilan Book Stool @ Equal10
MADRAS Elilan Pot Decor @ Equal10

[Merak] – Coastal Desires @ Summerfest
[Merak] – Coastal Ladder Shelf
[Merak] – Coastal Lamp
[Merak] – Octopus Figurine (Blue)
[Merak] – Coastal Tray
[Merak] – Coastal Books
[Merak] – Octopus Figurine (White)

Mithral * Bulb Duo (Black) @ Equal10

MH Marli Deck Chair @ Summerfest

Skye Alligator Apple Bush
Skye Bamboo Palm LI:1
Skye Banana Plant LI:1
Skye Zingiberaceae LI:1

[BB] Animesh Party Pooper Pug @ Equal10

[Commoner] THC Gummies / Beach Bliss @ Summerfest

brocante. waterfront pier / worn @ Summerfest

hive // potted palm tree @ Summerfest
hive // summer tote @ Summerfest

tarte. palm trees @ Summerfest

{moss&mink} Milena Outdoor Chair @ Summerfest
{moss&mink} Milena Outdoor Sofa @ Summerfest

Posted in Death Row Designs, E.A.Studio, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness, [ATI] Addicted to Ink, {le fil casse}

Ride or Die

This month my blog celebrates it 2yr anniversary and I can’t thank YOU the readers enough for your support. It continues to amaze me that anyone takes the time to read my words, look at my pictures, or comment. I am so humbled by it all. More than anything I’m grateful to my Ride or Die girls or as I usually refer to them, my cunts.
A strange twist of fate, some rock music, and a barn brought us together in the most unexpected ways, but the formula works. Four of the five of us have been inseparable. Let me explain the mega-important role that each of these girls plays in our little Cunt Cult (that’s what we call ourself and Tracy even made us a logo! No, you can’t join. #sorrynotsorry) We are not the mean girls, but we’ve tried bringing people into our group in the past. It has always backfired and when the cunts turn on you, well, its not pretty.
We do not have a leader, but I suppose some would assume its Kess or me. No, but believe or not, Kess is often our sound of reason. The one that grounds us in reality, points out the reasons one of our latest and greatest ideas is a BAD idea. For those of you that know Kess, please stop laughing. She’s really far smarter than people give her credit for….no, wait, that’s Tracy. Everyone knows that Kess, while being a daft bint, is an amazing and incredible woman that sets a fairly good example for the rest of us. She tends to give us that kick in the ass when we need it. While she’s all of that and a bag of chips….we don’t listen to her for romantic advice, cuz when it comes to men….well, I think she’s finally got a good one, but good lord. She has gone through enough toads, that’s for sure. Its about high time she found some happiness.
Then there’s Tracy….and Rom. Rom is an honorary member, because he’s sorta of been along for the ride with us since the very beginning. Sadly, this post isn’t about Rom, but if you love some artistic photography, please check out Rom’s flickr. Now, back to Tracy, she’s the owner of GingerFish poses. I’m sure you’re all familiar with her store. If not, you should be. She was one of the first pose makes to do bento poses. Her prices are great and she’s an amazing individual. She’s probably the smartest of all the cunts, but you’d never know it to talk to her. *giggles* She’s a crazy ginger that eats the souls of children for breakfast. *grins*
Then there’s Grace! This girl is like my twin. We agree on almost everything, except her choice in men. Tally? Really? *bursts into giggles* Grace and I go back and forth picking at one another. She never judges me ever. No matter what stupid shit I do, she’s probably done the same or something close. If these cunts were angels and demons on my shoulder, Grace would definitely be wearing red…with cow print. I don’t even know how to explain Grace….she’s Irish…wait, North Ireland Irish (that seems to make a difference). Between her shitty internet service and her crazy accent, she can be difficult to understand on voice. However, I love this woman like no one’s business….she’s my twinkie♥There’s another cunt, Ava, but she’s off in the real world being all in love & pregnant. I love her, but I honestly didn’t get to know her that well before she left us for that other platform called Real Life. I love them more than words can express and I refuse to even think of my life without them. They all have Flickrs, so click their names where highlighted to check them out, if you’d like.
These are the first circle of my Ride or Die bitches. I have a 2nd circle and they are the MF’n bomb. Perhaps I’ll talk about them another time, but they are not bloggers and kinda prefer to keep their lives a bit more private.

Ride or Die
I’ll never let you down, I can’t let you down
Because when I couldn’t get my feet on the ground
You’d do anything to help me out
You never let me down
What goes around comes around
I’m just sitting here on my front porch singing
This one’s for my ride or die

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Peggy hair  (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Saska (Catwa Applier) honey
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – White Check – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)
{le fil casse} Donna Dress (*new* @ Uber)
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

her pose: Animosity – Cruisin’ set (*new* @ MOM)

Cruel is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Haunting
hairbase: Stealthic – Male Hairbase
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
beard: Volkstone Toni Facial Hair
ears: .:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
body: [SIGNATURE] Geralt – Mesh Body  *NEW*
skin: STRAY DOG – SHANE – CATWA
tattoo: [ATI] Nightmare…
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – Rusted Black (*new* @ Uber)
5.::GB:: Color denib pants / Black

his pose:  PM . Bronx (*new* @ MOM)

Scene:
uK – Modern Serenity Home (*new* Feb Builder’s Box)
:Fanatik Architecture: Roads of LISBON
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – White Check (*new* @ Uber)
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – Rusted Black – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)

Posted in Events, Landscaping, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping, unKindness

Checking Out

Sometimes I really surprise myself at how stupid I can be. (Stop growling, Troy!) Regardless of all my experiences, I can still be so ridiculously naive, that it takes a close friend to point out something that should be blatantly obvious to me. Okay, short story, even shorter, I let someone I had just met disrespect me and essentially assault me. Yet, somehow, my shock exceeded all logic.
Not so long ago, I would have read that person like a book. I would’ve come so unglued on his ass that there would be no question about how I felt about it all. My reaction would have been instantaneous and rightfully so. Then I would have blasted his ass on Facebook and warned every girl I know!
It’s as if my common sense has begun to decay, like this shanty town in the photo. I’m starting to feel like a spectator of my own life. Rarely playing an active role in what happens to me. The last month and a half have been absolutely insane. My heart got ripped out of my chest and shoved through a meat grinder. I had two separate leaks happening in my RL home at the same time. All of this has led me to make a series of bad decisions one after another.  I am NOT a doormat. I need to remember this, because even two years ago I stood up for myself and demanded more respect. This cannot continue. As appealing as it sounds, I can’t just check out. Mine is a life worth living and that means treating myself as good, if not better, than I want to be treated by others.
I realize I’m rambling and this probably makes little to no sense to anyone really.  Yet, there is it…a raw look at my stupidity, my emotions, and my thoughts. With that said, I’m going to sleep…I wish you all the sweetest of dreams when you next go. ♥

ShantyTown

Everything you see here is from unKindness
*except the rocks which are: :Fanatik Architecture: CLIFF COVERS Beach

Below is a list of everything by order of the sets they belong to:
uk – Shanty Church House Gacha – (*new* @ Gacha Guardians)
-uK – Shanty Church House Pray Billboard GoG
-uK – Shanty Church House Building RARE
-uK – Shanty Church House Hymn Board

uK -In the Bayou Gacha
-uK- In the Bayou Swamp Shack RARE

uk – End Times Photo Prop I&II – (*new* @ ManCave)
uK – End Times Billboard Photo Prop
uK – End Times II Billboard Photo Prop

uk – Shanty Repair Shop Gacha
-uK-SRS Ice Freezer
-uK-SRS Barrel Mess 1
-uK-SRS Shanty Repair Shop RARE
uK-SRS Always Open RARE
uK-SRS Barrel Mess 2

uK -In the Bayou Gacha
-uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile1
-uK- In the Bayou Common Shack
-uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile 3
uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile 2

Posted in Bloom, Events, fri.day, Klubwerk.poses, Second Life, Self Reflection, shoes, shopping

Have Some Fun

Anyone that’s friends with me on Facebook could know what sort of hijinx I got into last night. To be honest, circumstances in RL are a bit peculiar for me at the moment. So, I most certainly did wake & bake. Its going to be a relaxed, fun day for me, because this afternoon I’ll be hosting two older ladies coming off of a roadtrip. You see, my mother and my uncle’s widow will be coming back from my Aunt’s funeral this afternoon. My mother hasn’t stopped crying since the day before Easter when he sister passed away. Awww, don’t be too sad. Don’t celebrate or anything, but…my aunt lived a very full life. She traveled the world…as recently as two years ago…she was in London. Apparently my uncle wanted fish n chips every day. She was the mother of three pretty impressive kids, even if the one in Africa is a waste of space. (story for another day)
She’s been a grandmother for more than 20 years. In fact, she was a great grandmother. She lived in the mountains, bears literally climbed around on her house, but never once hurt them nor did they find any mutilated deer, regardless of how many hung about her house waiting for food. Think of a religious, slightly backwoods Disney film…*nods*
So, see? She had a pretty decent life. All in all, I’d say it was pretty successful.
With all of that said, I am just wanting to have some fun before my elders arrive home-ish from their 9hr-one way, crappiest reason ever, roadtrip. I know I need to have some food ready, but that’s about 10hrs from now…so in the meantime….*eyes her magic cookie*…thank goodness, Eli didn’t find it!

have some fun

wearing:
hair:  Moon. Hair. // Elusory (April Luxe Box)
head: CATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Tres Blah – Kiki Dress (April Luxe Box)
fri. – Buffy Sandals (*new* @ Bloom)

pose by KlubWerK.poses

:Fanatik Architecture: LISBON Straight A
Delia’s Hopscotch chalk drawing

Posted in Animals, Fashion, Landscaping, Second Life

This City Has Gone to the Dogs

This is probably the most fun I’ve had putting a picture together and to be honest, it had me feeling a bit like Cruella DeVille, despite the fact that there’s not a single Dalmatian in the mix. However, I was speaking with Jamie Cross of unKindness about her amazing Concrete Jungle gacha set for The Epiphany and we started talking about some of the other amazing sets that were in this round. One of the sets we talked about was the JIAN Countryside Collies Gacha set and how precious those little dogs were. At that moment the proverbial light bulb lit up over my head and I knew right away that this post was going to happen.
gone to the dogs
In these photos there are the white sleek dogs ({anc} flottante puppy. milk), there are a few labs from O.M.E.N., some Whippets from Foxes,  the Dobermans are from a pose  credited below, but all of the other canines are from Jian. Regarding the all of the adorable dogs from Jain: The cute collies are, of course, from this round of Epiphany, but the rest can be obtained at the mainstore. The buildings…naturally, are part of the Concrete Jungle set from unKindness at Epiphany, and though I keep forgetting to mention it, the roads are from the :Fanatik Architecture: NEW YORK set, available on marketplace and their mainstore.
dogs 2
All of the poses in this post can be found at TresChic from AMITIE and yes, they come with the Dobermans. The hair is also at TresChic by Phoenix and came right on time to go with this adorable outfit from Zenith that I obtained at Epiphany along with the aswesome heels. The nitty gritty details are below the last picture, complete with hyperlinks. Could someone please remind me not to drink wine while writing my next post? Thanks…lol.
dogs 3
I’m going back to Epiphany for more goodies…see you there! ❤

:::Phoenix::: Jessica Hair (*new* @ Tres Chic)
CATWA HEAD Dyana
02 [ kunst ] – Chin flower RARE (*new* @ Kustom9)
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
=Zenith=Criminal Police Jacket (Rose)(*new* @ The Epiphany)
=Zenith=Criminal Police Short (Rose)(*new* @ The Epiphany)
#EMPIRE – Alyssum Addon – Maitreya RARE (*new* @ The Epiphany)
#EMPIRE – Alyssum Shoe – Maitreya RARE (*new* @ The Epiphany)
dogs:
{anc} flottante puppy. milk
JIAN :: Silly Shibes
JIAN :: Wolf Pack
JIAN Countryside Collies (*new* @ The Epiphany)
JIAN Posh Pups
Jian Puff Pups
O.M.E.N – Waiting for Santa Paws (black, chocolate, & yellow)
Foxes – Travelling Heart – Whippet (black & brown) (*new* @ The Epiphany)

all of the buildings featured  are from the unKindness Concret Jungle gacha
(*new* @ The Epiphany)
roads/sidewalks:  :Fanatik Architecture: NEW YORK set

poses: AMITIE Doberman female (*new* @ Tres Chic)