Posted in Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Mina Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Last One

With any luck, this will be the last picture edited without the use of Photoshop. I’m taking that break I mentioned before and I’m working on learning some new techniques. I’m using Black Dragon to take the photos and I’m using Photoshop to edit. This is going to be a huge change for me, so it might even seem like my photos are getting worse before they get better. I certainly hope they don’t get worse and obviously, that isn’t the goal, but that’s how it goes sometimes, isn’t it? Take time away from any of my blogging obligations is going to be difficult enough as it is…I don’t know how NOT to blog anymore. So, yes, you will still see some stuff from me, but probably not two or three posts a day. *laughs* I just don’t have the time that I once had, not to mention that I want to make this about quality, instead of quantity. Wish me luck and feel free to contact me privately with any feedback you might have. I can handle constructive criticism. I promise.♥

GA Mina Addams

hair:  MINA – Enora @ Arcade
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
body: Legacy
skin: [Glam Affair] Hanna Applier [ Genus ] @ Uber

Vibing — Rose Necklace
*COCO*_CableKnitMohairSweater @ FaMESHed
Addams // Hillay Wool Pants
#EMPIRE – Aconitum

location: Luane’s World

**pose is in the chair

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Jian, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Taboo topics

The other day I wrote about people being overly sensitive on the internet and told them to Get off the internet! After reading that post a friend of mine IMd me to tell me how much she enjoyed the post. We got to talking about how certain subjects are so taboo, but that they shouldn’t be. Topics like mental health…depression and suicide, specifically. That just maybe if these topics weren’t so taboo, that people could talk about their feelings without feeling so ashamed and just possibly find the help they need. I’m not going to go into some diatribe about these subjects, but I am going to ask that my readers be more open to discussing such topics. You might just save a life. Depression is a very real illness and it is not just about having a pity party. Its so much more than that. I think for some it is impossible to understand until it has been experienced. I’m looking at you, Tom Cruise, but naturally you don’t think you’re crazy. *rolls Dusty’s cartoon eyes* Seriously, check on one another, be kind to each other, and share whatever love is in your heart with as many people as possible.

doux supernatural bueno

DOUX – Galvez hairstyle @ Belle Event
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
Tattoo “Kali Durga”_by GoK
.::Supernatural::. Brianna Choker @ Kinky
.::Supernatural::. Edna Set Black @ Kinky
#EMPIRE – Freesia – Latex Black

BUENO-Tinks Love Seat @ Collabor88
BUENO-Glitch- Blvk
BUENO- Coffee Charger- Black
JIAN Sneaky Snacker :: Pizza Pibble

Posted in Animals, Blueberry, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life

DoberMittens

I was so excited when I heard about these dobermans. Many many years ago, I stayed with a family that had several dobermans and upon my first visit, I was absolutely terrified. Mostly, because one of them would jump right over the fence and greet people at their cars. She was simply excited to see visitors. She turned out the be the sweetest dog ever, but man did she put the fear of god into people at the time. My experience with them has been nothing but positive so I named my main doberman, Mittens…short for DoberMittens. *grins*

blueberry rezz room

body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Tableau Vivant // Cinder hair
Bauhaus Movement – Emma Headpiece @ Hair Fair
Blueberry – Group Gift – Tank Top & Denim Skirt
#EMPIRE – Edelweiss

[REZZ ROOM] IMPERIAL DOBERMAN ANIMESH @ Man Cave

Posted in Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Careful there

As people in a world that seems to revolve a great deal around social media, I think it’s important that we choose our words carefully. I’ve seen it so many good people virtually destroyed because of a rant on social media. We’ve all seen it. Then there are those that go back and forth, arguing with one another on a very public social forum. Even more reckless are those that jump into those arguments not really knowing the entire story. We must be careful jumping on these bandwagons, because we really don’t know who is watching. Nor do we know what their perception of the situation is. I think its important that we take a step back and ask ourselves if its really important. Is the rant worth a public audience? Does this argument really need to take place and if so, is it truly necessary that it occurs in public? Do we know the facts of both sides? Have we asked any questions or are we surfing straight into a tsunami? They lied to us when we were kids…they told us that words can never hurt us. As adults, we all know better. So, please, take care when participating in this social media dramas.

phoenix ghoul eclipse ascendant

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Kleo @ Access

:::Phoenix::: Sophie Hair @ Hair Fair
Ghoul – Avaron Top @ Eclipse
Ascendant – Lady Danger Nails @ Fetish Fair
[CX] Pantsu Codex
#EMPIRE – Freesia – Latex Black

pose by Focus Poses

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Second Life

Diversion on Ladder

So my beautiful friend, Rina Edenflower, recently retired from blogging. I’ll be honest, I was a bit devastated as she’s someone I’ve admired for years. Turns out, she’s moved from blogger to creator and is making poses. This particular pose can be found on Marketplace for only L$10. She’s just starting out, so there’s not a lot on there just yet, but these are poses made by a successful blogger who only retired after five years of blogging. So, if there’s a pose maker out there that knows what bloggers need, she is definitely one of them. So, watch out Flickr, Rina’s not done with you yet! (She just changed the name of her story from Latter to Diversion, so initially the post was called Latter on Ladder, which was funny to me…now it’s just weird, but that’s ok)

snapshot_055

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Esperanza hair @ C88
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
.:I ProFect I:. Valea Mesh Eyes @ Unik
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust

: CULT : DIAMOND BOW COLLAR @ Belle
**RE** Quinn Rings Set
Ascendant – 420 Nails @ Anthem

Pseudo– Minka Top @ Belle
Pseudo- Minka Shorts @ Belle
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

pose: Diversion – On The Roof

KraftWork Bellosguardo Set @ FaMESHed
-KraftWork Bellosguardo Library White
-KraftWork Bellosguardo Ladder White

Posted in Catwa, Cynful, Eudora3D, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, N21, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

2am

“Two in the morning, I can’t control it
Lost in the moment, I just can’t get no sleep, eh
Two in the morning, everything’s frozen
I keep on falling and I just can’t get no sleep”
~Astrid, 2am

2am

wearing:
hair: [RA] Cinderella Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – 4 -POINT INDUSTRIAL
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)

OSMIA – Nostalgia.Gacha.Earrings
[Atomic] Dysfunctional Collar (*new* @ Crystal Heart)
EarthStones Flaunt Nipple Piercings (*new* @ RLD)
(Yummy) Curator Rings Set (*new* @ N21)
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust

[Aleutia] Arina (*new* @ RLD)
#EMPIRE – Arcade Dec ’16 – Panties
Eudora3D Berlin Heels (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: FOXCITY. Show Time Bento Pose Set

Trompe Loeil – Corazon Patio Bar + Props (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Posted in Animals, Catwa, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Kustom9, Maitreya, REWIND, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Silly Epic Moment

Alright, well, this has absolutely nothing to do with the picture, but I just had something pretty cool happen to me in SL. I was at the Frisky Beaver listening to Red Heaven, when I’m alerted to my name being used in local. Yes, I have a sound alert, because I have a hard time keeping up with local AND IMs. So, I look in local to see this:
[17:11] Nazz Linden: wow Sady.. very cool looking blog

It might be silly, but to know that someone at Linden Lab actually looked at my blog AND liked it? THAT was an epic moment for me. I’m super stoked over it. I do realize it might be silly, as we are all just humans, but it’s still a big deal to me.

peace out

wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Fondue (*new* @ REWIND)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyeshadow: UniCult – Flower Child (*new* @ REWIND)
Wednesday[+] ~ Queen Bee Lipsticks (*new* @ REWIND)
21.Yokai – Peace – Flower cheeks [pink] (*new* @ REWIND)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Lily – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kustom9)
Poupee – Hippie Trail Tattoo (*new* @ REWIND)

Ama. : Peace Out : Head Chain (*new* @ REWIND)
[Cynful] Baewatch Set
#EMPIRE – Ixora
JIAN Beagle Pup Companion

pose: FOXCITY. Autumn Bento Pose Set
ninety – ok [ backrop ] (*new* @ REWIND)

Posted in Death Row Designs, E.A.Studio, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness, [ATI] Addicted to Ink, {le fil casse}

Ride or Die

This month my blog celebrates it 2yr anniversary and I can’t thank YOU the readers enough for your support. It continues to amaze me that anyone takes the time to read my words, look at my pictures, or comment. I am so humbled by it all. More than anything I’m grateful to my Ride or Die girls or as I usually refer to them, my cunts.
A strange twist of fate, some rock music, and a barn brought us together in the most unexpected ways, but the formula works. Four of the five of us have been inseparable. Let me explain the mega-important role that each of these girls plays in our little Cunt Cult (that’s what we call ourself and Tracy even made us a logo! No, you can’t join. #sorrynotsorry) We are not the mean girls, but we’ve tried bringing people into our group in the past. It has always backfired and when the cunts turn on you, well, its not pretty.
We do not have a leader, but I suppose some would assume its Kess or me. No, but believe or not, Kess is often our sound of reason. The one that grounds us in reality, points out the reasons one of our latest and greatest ideas is a BAD idea. For those of you that know Kess, please stop laughing. She’s really far smarter than people give her credit for….no, wait, that’s Tracy. Everyone knows that Kess, while being a daft bint, is an amazing and incredible woman that sets a fairly good example for the rest of us. She tends to give us that kick in the ass when we need it. While she’s all of that and a bag of chips….we don’t listen to her for romantic advice, cuz when it comes to men….well, I think she’s finally got a good one, but good lord. She has gone through enough toads, that’s for sure. Its about high time she found some happiness.
Then there’s Tracy….and Rom. Rom is an honorary member, because he’s sorta of been along for the ride with us since the very beginning. Sadly, this post isn’t about Rom, but if you love some artistic photography, please check out Rom’s flickr. Now, back to Tracy, she’s the owner of GingerFish poses. I’m sure you’re all familiar with her store. If not, you should be. She was one of the first pose makes to do bento poses. Her prices are great and she’s an amazing individual. She’s probably the smartest of all the cunts, but you’d never know it to talk to her. *giggles* She’s a crazy ginger that eats the souls of children for breakfast. *grins*
Then there’s Grace! This girl is like my twin. We agree on almost everything, except her choice in men. Tally? Really? *bursts into giggles* Grace and I go back and forth picking at one another. She never judges me ever. No matter what stupid shit I do, she’s probably done the same or something close. If these cunts were angels and demons on my shoulder, Grace would definitely be wearing red…with cow print. I don’t even know how to explain Grace….she’s Irish…wait, North Ireland Irish (that seems to make a difference). Between her shitty internet service and her crazy accent, she can be difficult to understand on voice. However, I love this woman like no one’s business….she’s my twinkie♥There’s another cunt, Ava, but she’s off in the real world being all in love & pregnant. I love her, but I honestly didn’t get to know her that well before she left us for that other platform called Real Life. I love them more than words can express and I refuse to even think of my life without them. They all have Flickrs, so click their names where highlighted to check them out, if you’d like.
These are the first circle of my Ride or Die bitches. I have a 2nd circle and they are the MF’n bomb. Perhaps I’ll talk about them another time, but they are not bloggers and kinda prefer to keep their lives a bit more private.

Ride or Die
I’ll never let you down, I can’t let you down
Because when I couldn’t get my feet on the ground
You’d do anything to help me out
You never let me down
What goes around comes around
I’m just sitting here on my front porch singing
This one’s for my ride or die

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Peggy hair  (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Saska (Catwa Applier) honey
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – White Check – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)
{le fil casse} Donna Dress (*new* @ Uber)
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

her pose: Animosity – Cruisin’ set (*new* @ MOM)

Cruel is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Haunting
hairbase: Stealthic – Male Hairbase
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
beard: Volkstone Toni Facial Hair
ears: .:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
body: [SIGNATURE] Geralt – Mesh Body  *NEW*
skin: STRAY DOG – SHANE – CATWA
tattoo: [ATI] Nightmare…
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – Rusted Black (*new* @ Uber)
5.::GB:: Color denib pants / Black

his pose:  PM . Bronx (*new* @ MOM)

Scene:
uK – Modern Serenity Home (*new* Feb Builder’s Box)
:Fanatik Architecture: Roads of LISBON
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – White Check (*new* @ Uber)
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – Rusted Black – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Lybra, ON9, Second Life, shopping

Sometimes…

Now, I don’t want to lose you,
but I don’t want to use you just to have somebody by my side.
And I don’t want to hate you,
I don’t want to take you, but I don’t want to be the one to cry.
And I don’t really matter to anyone anymore.
But like a fool I keep losing my place and
I keep seeing you walk through that door.
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.
Now, I could never change you,
I don’t want to blame you.
Baby, you don’t have to take the fall.
Yes, I may have hurt you, but I did not desert you.
Maybe I just want to have it all.
It makes a sound like thunder, it makes me feel like rain.
And like a fool who will never see the truth,
I keep thinking something’s gonna change.
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart they can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay who they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.
And there’s no way home when it’s late at night and you’re all alone.
Are there things that you wanted to say?
And do you feel me beside you in your bed,
there beside you where I used to be?
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.

sometimes

wearing:
hair: Magika  – 01 – Disarray
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Bento Rings
LYBRA . SERINA (*new* @ Seasons Story)
#EMPIRE  – Ageratum

pose: Foxcity Indulge Bento Pose Set (*new* @ ON9)
Foxcity. Photo Booth – Sometimes (*new* @ ON9)

Posted in Events, Fashion, Second Life, Self Reflection, shoes, shopping

REWIND

The whole point of the REWIND event is to take us back in time, let us have some fun with some looks of yesteryear. Well, they’ve done it quite successfully this round. Not only did the stores nail the theme, but the layout of this event made me want to go back before its over and take some pictures. I just hope I remember. *laughs*
By far one of my absolute favorite finds is the Vivienne Outfit from Dead Dollz. This is for several reasons. For one thing, the name reminds me of one of my favorite shows from the 80s, The Young Ones. I could not help but think of Vyvyan Basterd and how much I loved that show. There were only like 12 episodes, but I saw them all more than once and it never failed that my mother would walk in during one of the most disgusting scenes. Being a clean freak, she would shudder and wonder wtf was wrong with me!
Another reason I love this outfit is the bold yellow and navy option I chose…well, it has me feeling a bit like a punk super hero! I could crash lame parties and bring them to life with the likes of Sex Pistols, Dead Kennedys, Black Flag, and The Ramones! I could get down and show them some rocking moves as the party slid into a more chill feeling with some David Bowie! You’re feeling it, too, huh? Yeah, this event definitely brought me to life in some very fun ways!
Go get your REWIND on and see what you come up with, because there’s absolutely no shortage of plaid, black, skulls, and safety pins at this round.

serenade me

Sady is wearing:
hair: Moon. Hair. // Edge (*new* @ REWIND)
headCATWA HEAD Tala
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Sintiklia – Nancy Choker (*new* @ REWIND)
Astralia – Punk is not dead Bracelet (Bento Maitreya) (*new* @ REWIND)
.::Dead Dollz::. Vivienne Outfit (*new* @ REWIND)
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

pose by Del May
MINIMAL – Retro Backdrops *3* (*new* @ REWIND)