Posted in crate, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, TMD, unKindness

Play Time

I see videos all the time of people recording their pets when no one is home. Their animals get into all sorts of things. However, mine seem to save their high jinks for an audience. We don’t come home to broken things or accidents. Nope, my animals do it all while we’re home. The most absent we can be is when we’re sleeping.
Now with my dog, Zoey, I know she’s being polite by not waking us up if she needs to go out. She’ll go in the kitchen where she knows it’s easy to clean up, rather than having an accident on a rug. She’s a good girl and smart, too.
My cat, Mr. Mayhem, on the other hand, is the epitome of an asshole cat. He seems to think that if he gets in enough trouble, we’ll throw him outside. Unfortunately for him, I know the story of Brer Rabbit. Mostly, I just yell at him as I chase him under furniture screaming, “You better learn to use the phone and dial the ASPCA, cuz I’m about to whoop your ass!”

playtime

 

scene created in: Room 144 – The [Den.] Residential

crate Otto Bed (*new* @ Go by FaMESHed)
crate Otto Bed Footlocker

uK  – Masculine Chic Set (*new* @ TMD)
-uK – Masculine Chic Console-Black
-uK – Bachelor Hall Wine Planter
-uK – Masculine Chic LED Lamp
-uK -Masculine Chic Art 1
-uK -Masculine Chic Art 2

uK – DJ Dead Chair Grey
uK – Chic Wall Clock (Metal)

JIAN ‘dorable Danes
JIAN Forest Cat

BUENO– Rug -Block

Fapple– BDSM Tool Box
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 03

+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, crate, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Vanity Event

Retail Therapy

After doing some minimal research on the Googlenets, I discovered that the average cost of one therapy session can range between $75-$200. That’s one hour to tell my problems to a stranger that’s going to turn around and ask me how does that make me feel? Nah, I’ll take my $200 for some shopping, because nothing makes me feel better than some retail therapy. I’ll tell my problems to the beautician, the nail girl, or the bartender like a normal person. *giggles*

Time to Shop

wearing:
hair:  [RA] Audrey Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly
tattoo: Mystic TaTToo Applier – Henna [CAROL G] (*new* @ Vanity Event)

**RE** Aurora Bracelets BG
#187# Summer Bag ~ Marine
_CandyDoll_ Bamzii Jump
Eudora3D Sierra Boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Aesthetic Perfection set (*new* @ TLC)

scene:
.Florix. The color wall – Blue (*new* @ Blush)

crate Salvador Set (*new* @ TLC)
-crate Salvador Set ~ Rug
-crate Salvador Set ~ Chair PG
-crate Salvador Set ~ Plant
-crate Salvador Set ~ Side Table

22769 – Hermes Clock Painted Steel

Toro. Zombie Emergency Box

Frogstar – Salvaged Wood Welcome Sign

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Bueno, CandyDoll, Catwa, crate, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Pose Fair, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic

Moving On Up

I could hardly do a post about moving and not get the Jefferson’s theme song stuck in my head. I don’t have a whole lot to say about moving except that I’m glad I don’t have to do it anymore. I imagine I’ll spend the rest of my life in this condo. It’s paid for…in full. I remember moving quite a bit as a kid and all through my 20s and my favorite part of moving was unpacking in the new place. That’s the one thing I’ll miss about moving, but otherwise, I’m glad to have a place that is genuinely my home and know that I don’t have to pack up and leave again.

moving day

wearing:
hair:  Beusy: Autumn Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”

tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)

Scandalize.Niah.TOP. (*new* @ TresChic)
_CandyDoll_ Nynfa Jeans (*new* Go by FaMESHed)

pose: [..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – Moving Day set (*new* @ PoseFair)
scene:
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – New Beginnings Backdrop (*new* @ PoseFair)
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion-Tender Moments Bed incl phone (*new* @ PoseFair)
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – Box Pile 1 (*new* @ PoseFair)
17 Fancy Decor: Yas Pillow
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Bra
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Thong
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Edge
dust bunny . fiddle leaf tree
BUENO-Pizza Boxes
[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’
:::ChicChica::: TakeAway
09 Fancy Decor: Gold Dots Pillow
+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Leaves
crate Filament Floorlamp Steel
Posted in Apple Fall, Bueno, CandyDoll, Catwa, Collabor88, crate, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Quasi, Second Life, unKindness, Vanity Event, {le fil casse}

Lost on You

If you’ve never heard of LP, I heard you to check out more of her work. This song captures so much of how I’m feeling these days….

LP ~ Lost on You

When you get older, plainer, saner
When you remember all the danger we came from
Burning like embers, falling, tender
Long before the days of no surrender
Years ago and well you know
Smoke ’em if you got ’em
‘Cause it’s going down
All I ever wanted was you
I’ll never get to heaven
‘Cause I don’t know how
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you could cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Baby, is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Wishing I could see the machinations
Understand the toil of expectations in your mind
Hold me like you never lost your patience
Tell me that you love me more than hate me all the time
And you’re still mine
So smoke ’em if you’ve got ’em
‘Cause it’s going down
All I ever wanted was you
Let’s take a drink of heaven
This can turn around
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you could cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh
Is that lost on you?
Oh oh, oh oh
Bab, is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Let’s raise a glass or two
To all the things I’ve lost on you
Oh oh
Tell me are they lost on you?
Oh oh
Just that you cold cut me loose
Oh oh
After everything I’ve lost on you
Is that lost on you?
Is that lost on you?
Lost on You
wearing:
hair:  [RA] Mia Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Raquel Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ C88)
[bade] – Nerd glasses BLACK
Mowie. – “Oda” Choker (*new* @ Vanity Event)
**RE** Dragon Rings, Bracelets & Claws BG  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
{le fil casse} Lindsey Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)
_CandyDoll_ Ayaka Boots (*new* @ Notice me, senpai)
pose: FOXCITY. Melancholy Bento Pose Set
scene:
BUENO-Studio Skybox- Natural (*new* @ The Seasons Story)
crate Galvanized Chair (*new*)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
uK – Malibu Entry Basket Stack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Malibu Entry Bookstack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Second Spaces – sick day pills, cough syrup
MINIMAL – Memories Gacha Notebooks *3*
Kalopsia – Caramel Ice Cream
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE
:CP: Boho Glamping Pillow A
AF Heart of Polaroids
NOMAD // Amore Loveletters
[Black Bantam] Kitten In My Glass Decor (*new* @ Vanity Event)
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box
Fancy Decor: Watson Collection Fatpack (*new* @ C88)
-Fancy Decor: Watson Stacked Boxes
-Fancy Decor: Watson Sconce
-Fancy Decor: Watson Potted Orchid
-Fancy Decor: Watson Side Table
-Fancy Decor: Watson Poster Bed (adult)
-Fancy Decor: Watson Stack of Books
-Fancy Decor: Watson Owl Prints
-Fancy Decor: Watson Rug
Posted in Aphorism, Bad Unicorn, Catwa, crate, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Home Decor, Lamb, Landscaping, Pose Fair, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL, unKindness

Grow or Wilt

People are like dirt. They can either nourish you and help you grow as a person or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die. ~Plato

I love this quote, because there’s so much truth to it. What we tend to forget is that we have a lot more control over our personal growth than we give ourselves credit for. We latch onto people, convincing ourselves that we are being loyal. We let people make us sick, we let them wilt us and drain us of our very life force, by trying to please them, avoid confrontations. We don’t want to hurt them. When so often, there’s nothing we’ve done to the other person to justify their actions or attitude. More often than not, it really has nothing at all to do with us. However, we continue to stand by them…allowing them to cast their issues upon us as if we were to blame. And so, the cycle begins. We bow down, we apologize, we plead with them. Then when we’re alone and thinking it over, we’re left confused. What did we actually do wrong? Probably nothing, really.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that when two friends have a disagreement that we should never accept responsibility. I’m talking about toxic people that blame everyone else for their problems. The ones that like to test their friends and point fingers based on paranoia and insecurities. You know, the ones that you really don’t want to spend a lot of time with, because you don’t know what to expect? *shrugs* I’m mostly just thinking in text…stream of consciousness. Rambling, because I hate cutting people from my life. Especially people I love so dearly, but we can only allow so much pain from a “friend” before we have to cut them loose. I have to decide whether I want to grow or wilt.

Where Things Grow

wearing:
hair:   Lamb. Honey (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)

!APHORISM! Joonie Top (*new* @ FaMESHed)
!APHORISM! Joonie Maxi Skirt (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Eudora3D LastSummer Clogs (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

pose: Fashiowl Poses – Here comes the sun (*new* @ Pose Fair)

scene:
[Bad Unicorn] Allora House (*new* @ Uber)
crate Hardwood Smoker Black
07. LAGOM – Hawaiian Party [Pineapple string] (*new* @ TLC)
19. LAGOM – Hawaiian Party [Balloons Yellow] RARE (*new* @ TLC)
Trompe Loeil – Corazon Palm Chair Natural PG
InVerse – MRockPath
uK – Malibu Entry Console Table Wood (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Malibu Entry Succulent Platter (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Malibu Entry Basket Stack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
uK – Malibu Entry Waves Rug (*new* @ FaMESHed)
crate Krusty Kitchen Shelf Full Set
Granola. Carmella Bird Of Paradise.  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Granola. June’s Pool Lounger.

Posted in Catwa, crate, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, REWIND, RunAway Hair, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, United Colors

My Led Zeppelin Summer

I can’t hear Led Zeppelin without thinking back to the most amazing summer of my life. I was in college and I had somehow gotten involved with this group of people that were unlike any one I had ever known in my life. That summer/fall season is just filled with the best memories and it was as if we were all transported back in time. We smoked a lot of weed that summer and listened to classic rock like Led Zeppelin and The Doors endlessly. It was truly a magical time in my life and I’m so grateful to have experienced it. I’ve long lost touch with all of those people now, but they will always be part of my precious memories of that summer. I’d relive that time again and again if I could.
We were young, progressive, and carefree. We danced on the edge of a mountain while the sun went down, then sat there listening to our music watching the cars zip pass us completely unaware of our existence. We had deep conversations and silly ones.  We had just a tiny taste of the 60s in the 80s and it was amazing.

dog days for summer

wearing:
hair: [RA] Rondra Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)

NS:: Boho Fringe bag (*new* @ REWIND)
UC_Laced_top (*new* @ Uber)
UC_Jean_shorts (*new* @ equal10)

pose: Le Poppycock-Well healed

scene:
crate Dylan Daze Groovy Ganesh Rug (*new* @ REWIND)
crate Dylan Daze Bong n Buds (*new* @ REWIND)
crate Dylan Daze Cactus Cupcakes (*new* @ REWIND)
crate Dylan Daze Tire Peace Sign (*new* @ REWIND)

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Gingerfish Poses, Home Decor, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, [BREATHE]

A Little Bit of Booze

Not sure why, but this set from Bueno really made me think of this song. So, there you have it…a song to go with the photo, cuz I’m not in the mood to share what’s on my mind this morning. *raises her glass* Cheers!

HELLYEAH – Alcohaulin’ Ass

Come on, a little bit of sunshine
A little bit of booze
A little bit of me
And a little bit of you
A little bit country
A little bit of blues
A little slice of heaven
And a little piece of you, come on
Alcohaulin’ ass
Pour another drink in my glass
Alcohaulin’ ass
Alcohaulin’ ass
A little bit thirsty
A little bit used
A little bit of whiskey
And a little pinch to chew
A little bit tired
And a bad attitude
A little bit of drinkin’
And another piece of you
Alcohaulin’ ass
Pour another drink in my glass
Alcohaulin’ ass
Alcohaulin’
You drove me to it, so there was nothing I could do
You pushed me down, split me right in two
Now I found the long hard road carried the weight of you
Boy, oh, boy, God damn, there’s only one thing left to do
A little bit of alcohaulin’ ass
Pour another drink in my glass
Alcohaulin’ ass, there’s only one thing left to do
A little bit of alcohaulin’ ass
Pour another drink in my glass
Alcohaulin’ ass
Alcohaulin’ ass

don't bother

 

wearing:
hair: .Olive. the Emma Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER

LYBRA . LINDA FATPACK (May FaMESHed Go)
[BREATHE]-Midori Heels (May Pocket Gacha)

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Sits VOL2 Pose Set

scene:
BUENO– Not Love Set -Fatpack (*new* @ ROMP)
~BUENO-Alcohol Later Neon-Red
~BUENO-Not Love Seat-Blood
~BUENO-Hecha a Mano Table-Car
crate Studio Stool Red
Ariskea[Cocoli] Banana Plant