Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Maitreya, Pose Fair, RAMA, Second Life

Actions

Actions will always speak louder than words, you just have to know how to listen by watching. I’ve talked about friendship dozens of times. Obviously, I’m no expert. I don’t even like people that much. That’s why I spend so much time alone. The older I get, the more people I get to know, the more true it becomes that I’m happier alone more often than not. However, if there’s one thing I do know, it’s this: A real and valued friendship can conquer adversity with truth.
Disposing of a friendship without any explanation speaks volumes about the type of person you are and what value you placed on that friendship. It doesn’t say shit about why you walked away. I’m not saying that everyone is due an explanation. Sometimes, its so obvious to us that we can’t imagine the other person would question why. The thing is, if they come to you confused and you refuse an explanation, not only have you just expressed how unimportant that person is to you, but you come off  a bit cowardly in my opinion. Your reason is yours, but if you’re not ready to explain or defend that reason…well, that really says more about you than them, don’t you think?
If your attitude and demeanor changes towards a friend, trust that they will notice. Furthermore, if they approach you about that change and you deny it? Well, you might as well unfriend them with no explanation. You’ve essentially just lied to their face and said in no uncertain terms that they are not worth the truth. Authentic friendships will not unravel over a little disagreement or even a big one, if both parties are mature and care enough to work through it.
Just food for thought, because I’ve dealt with all of these situations recently. I know I’m not perfect, but I do think I’m a decent friend more often than not. I own my mistakes and I own my pain. I will tell you that it hurts to be blatantly deceived and betrayed by someone you believed in. If you ever valued your friend, why not grab some ice cream, take a little walk, and talk it out. Maybe you can’t resolve it, but you damn sure won’t if you don’t try.

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Not everyone agrees with secondary photos in blogs and I’m not one to do them all the time, but on occasion I will be adding a second photo that zooms in on a few things to give a better look at the details our amazing creators put into their designs.

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wearing:
hair:  RAMA.SALON – Abbie Hair @ FaMESHed
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

{Momoko}Flower Crown @ Belle
Ascendant – Dracarys Nails
ChicModa // Brooklyn Top @ FaMESHed
ChicModa // Zoe Skirt @ FaMESHed
Pure Poison – Luna Platforms @ Belle
[Rezz Room] English Bulldog Adult Animesh (Companion) @ 6 Republic

pose: GingerFish Poses – I Scream for Ice Cream @ Pose Fair
location: Copper River

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, {le fil casse}

Copper River

I love this look so much that I put off taking my picture just so I’d have an excuse (in my own head) to wear it longer. Plus, I knew I would want just the right setting for the photo. I needed something would give that music festival in the desert feel. I knew just the place…Copper River. This sim houses two of the newest events on the grid and though nothing I’m wearing is from either event, it’s ok. The two events on that sim are Salon52 and Flourish, both owned by Keely Mistwood and Kess Crystal. Yes, my regular readers should recognize the name, Kess. She is one of my absolute best friends and has been one of my biggest inspirations in blogging. We’re so busy doing our own things these days, that when we do catch up we don’t talk too much or too long about business. So, I don’t know who did the landscaping for this sim (I probably should have found out), but it is amazing. The events are across the sim from each other, but the space between them is incredible and that’s all I’m going to say. Go see it.

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wearing:
hair:  16.Doe: Maddie V2 – Monotone @ Epiphany
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

(Yummy) OM Layered Necklace
.daydream. All Access Wristband (le fil casse/Cosmic Dust collab) @ Epiphany
**RE** Quinn Rings Set
:::ChicChica::: Chic Cola
[Aleutia] Savannah top & skirt @ FaMESHed

pose: shi.s.poses BENTO woman #23
location: Copper River