Posted in Apple Fall, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Self Reflection, shoes, shopping, skin, Uber SL, vinyl, [BREATHE]

a beautiful conversation about life

I was hanging out with some of my favorite people last night and one of them made a comment about “lazy homeless” people. I quickly jumped on the defensive. As I have been homeless on a number of occasions in my 20s and there was nothing lazy about my situation. Of course, I encountered loads of other homeless people during those times. I had to explain that while there are some people that simply don’t want to be responsible members of society. However, the bulk of the homeless people I encountered were anything but lazy. As being homeless is not an easy way to live. People that live in shelters must abide by an excess of rules put in place to keep things as orderly as possible. There are curfews and requirements one must continuously make to continue their stay and many shelters have limitations on how long people can reside there. I don’t have specific numbers, but I’d dare say that the majority of homeless people have not chosen that lifestyle as their preferred method of existence. Plus there are far more living without shelter. That is NOT an easy way to live. Its beyond dangerous. Once a person is homeless, it is safe to say that getting back on your feet is ridiculously hard. As I pointed out to my friend, what is the first thing you do the morning of a job interview? Shower, right? If you have no home, you have no shower and probably don’t have much in the way of a clean nice outfit to wear.
Anyway, the point is, don’t be so quick to judge people in situations you can’t begin to understand. Turns out that one of the other people there had also experienced homelessness and was glad that I spoke up. Meanwhile, our uninformed friend was enlightened and apologized. I didn’t find the apology necessary, but it was appreciated. I was especially glad that we were all able to have such a beautiful conversation about life without hate or disgust. I won’t name them, because too many private matters were discussed and only my part of the story is mine to tell. I suspect they might read this and because they might I want to give them to know something. I love you and I’m so grateful for your friendship. I look forward to getting to know you even better in the years to come. ♥

Clearly that has nothing to do with the photo. So, I’d like to add that if you have not gotten the Spring Decocrate, this set from Serenity Style is worth getting it, just for this set. Even if you didn’t pre order it, its worth the price. Go grab yours. I have to pay full price, too, cuz I forgot to pre order…lol. You’ll also notice I’m wearing the new Lost Girl dress from Vinyl. This is the first dress Vinyl has released in ages and its so cute! AND it goes perfectly with these new wedges that Breathe released at the Arcade! So get out your wallets, its time to go shopping!!

a beautiful conversation about life

hair: DOUX – Lucy hairstyle @ LEVEL
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — SARAH @ Kustom9
tattoo: *Bolson / Tattoo – Antheia @ Anthem

VINYL – Lost Girl Dress @ Uber
[BREATHE]-Mizuko Wedges @ Arcade

pose: Ana Poses – Saturday Night 8 @ Arcade

Scarlet Creative Charlotte’s Corner House Boat or Cabin

outside: Serenity Style– Eggs Farm Backdrop @ Uber Hometown

Serenity Style-Spring Colors Breakfast Set for Decocrate Spring
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Table
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Tray [LINKED]
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Chairs (blue, pink, yellow, & green)

Serenity Style– Vintage Treasures – Doors
Serenity Style- Vintage Treasures – Bookshelf

..::THOR::.. Think Green Gacha Set @ Arcade
-..::THOR::.. Hanging Crate
-..::THOR::.. Organic Hanging Tote
-..::THOR::.. Vintage Table Fan – Mint
-..::THOR::.. Greenhouse Stool – Cream
-..::THOR::.. Owl & Books
-..::THOR::.. Vintage Watering Can – Mint

  1. Apple Fall Blanket Curio
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 7
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 8
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 10
    West Village Sculpted Turtle – Verdigris

Di’Cor Snail Figurine @ FaMESHed

dust bunny . quirky planters 2 . kitty planter
dust bunny . quirky planters 3 . rainbow planter

Ariskea[Marguerite] Pitcher Flowers – Pale @ Anthem

[Fetch] Spring Treats – Bun Mug RARE @ Arcade

MADRAS Ooty Turtle Tea Pot Seafoam

CHEZ MOI Sleepy Kitty @ Arcade
CHEZ MOI Plant Vase 1,2, & 3 @ Arcade

The Loft & ARIA – Branwyn Rug

tarte. hanging trailing jade plant

{vespertine} hanging succulents. – string of pearls

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Home Decor, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping

Flower of Life

Love is the flower of life, and blossoms unexpectedly and without law, and must be plucked where it is found, and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration. ~D. H. Lawrence

ayla arcade june

Ayla. Homegrown Gacha @ Arcade
1. Ayla. Homegrown – Shed RARE
2. Ayla. Homegrown – Gardening Chair RARE
3. Ayla. Homegrown – Wooden Table
4. Ayla. Homegrown – Tool Rack
5. Ayla. Homegrown – Vegetable Basket
6. Ayla. Homegrown – Firewood Bucket
8. Ayla. Homegrown – DIY Birdhouse
10. Ayla. Homegrown – Hanging Plant (red)
11. Ayla. Homegrown – Hanging Plant (blue)

Ayla. DIY Plant Stands – Carrot Plant Stand

Apple Fall Stacked Round Baskets
Apple Fall Potting Shelf
Apple Fall Stacked Herb Pots – Clay
Apple Fall Shepherd Hook Wall Lamp – Iron
Apple Fall Potting Mix Bags
Apple Fall Tobacco Basket

Sheppard Hanging Plant CHEZ MOI

dust bunny . hanging plants . spider planter
dust bunny . farmers market . artichokes
dust bunny . farmers market . tomatoes
dust bunny . farmers market . chili peppers
dust bunny . farmers market . mushrooms
dust bunny . farmers market . green onions
dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter

HPMD* Shrubs
HPMD* WildGrasses

hive // macrame hanging plant . charcoal

Nutmeg. Garden Junk Water Pump
Nutmeg. Leather Bag Bone Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Garden Getaway Clutter Exclusive
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Broom
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Broken Chair / 1 PG
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Broken Chair / 2 PG
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Net Bag Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Barrel
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Brushwood
Nutmeg. Coffee Tray Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Blanket Pile / 1
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Milk Can
Nutmeg. Hanging Sneakers Worn Olive
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Bucket / 3
Nutmeg. Blanket Pile / 2
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Newspaper / 1 Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Garden Junk Newspaper / 2 Bonus Item

.random.Matter. – NecroBotany – Hanging Plant [Purple]

tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

..::THOR::.. DIY Candle Holder
..::THOR::.. Cute Plant
..::THOR::.. DIY Plant Stand

striped mocha – hanging lotuses

Posted in breathe, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shoes, shopping, Tres Chic

Whatever!

This is probably one of my favorite things to say. *laughs* As people are always trying to tell me what I can and cannot do…or what I should or should not do…and to them I say, “Whatever! I do what I want!” And that’s just how it is…and I’m keeping it short today, cuz WHATEVER!

miu breathe

Sady is wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Stella hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [Glam Affair] Dhalia Skin [Lelutka] @ Uber

TRIGGERED – Moon Craft Earrings
[ rD ] – The Journey Necklace @ The Liaison Collaborative
NANIKA – Veta Bracelet @ TresChic
Miu – Nyla dress @ FaMESHed
[BREATHE]-Kikomi Heels @ FaMESHed

pose: Secret Poses – April  @ Shiny Shabby
**comes with sunflowers**

Trellis Bench CHEZ MOI @ TresChic

Posted in Animals, Blueberry, Collabor88, Events, GenusProject, Kustom9, Prism Events, Second Life, Tannenbaum

Cherish one another, please.

I’ve spent the majority of my adult Christmases alone. This year won’t be very different. It’s not a great feeling and its one I wish no one ever had to feel. It can be absolute hell for some and the darkest of hours for others. I’m not suggesting that anyone hover over their friends, but please…if each of us take a moment to reach out and wish each other a good day…offer a shoulder if needed or able…a silly little joke…something personal. Not just a generic, “hey, how are you?” Ask something that requires them to think of an answer, not give you that auto pilot reply, “I’m fine.” If we all do this for one another, we will remind one another that we matter….all of us matter. Be kind and grateful to one another and for one another. There are no guarantees that they will still be part of our lives next year. Cherish one another, please.

prism barley blueberr tableau

hair:  Tableau Vivant // Avril hair  @ Collabor88  (Nov)
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.1)
skin:  — PUMEC #RARE 2 – KATE – MAY   @ Kustom9

Astralia Clothing – Xmas Flamingo Sweater FLF Nov 29, 2019
Blueberry – Power Play – Jeans
Blueberry – Power Play – Boots

pose in:
Xmas Ladder Tree (Adult) CHEZ MOI LI: 12 @ Tannenbaum
w/Xmas Gifts CHEZ MOI LI: 1

22769 – Dear Santa LI: 1

Ariskea[December] Star Wreath LI: 3

hive // fir tree . a LI: 3
hive // fir tree . b LI: 4
hive // fir tree A . snowy LI: 4

[Merak] – Christel’s Daybed PG LI: 15 @ Tannenbaum

PLAAKA SquirrelNutCracker

[Rezz Room] Pomeranian Snowman Animesh @ Tannenbaum

Barley – Raleigh Complete Set @ Belle
Barley – Raleigh Candle Holder – Black
Barley – Raleigh Accents
Barley – Raleigh Wall Centerpiece – Black
Barley – Raleigh Cannister
Barley – Raleigh Side Table 1
Barley – Raleigh Presents
Barley – Raleigh Candlesticks
Barley – Raleigh Home Sweet Home Pillow

Junk Food – I Believe Snowglobe @ Tannenbaum

Yokai – Plush Christmas @ Tannenbaum
2.Yokai – Plush Christmas – Santa Teddy Bear (red)
1.Yokai – Plush Christmas – Plush Christmas Gift RARE
13.Yokai – Plush Christmas – Candy Teddy Bear (green)

Yokai – Glowing Teddy Deer (Frost) @ Collabor88  (Nov)

*HEXtraordinary* Sitting Krampus Plushie- Chocolate @ Tannenbaum

 

 

Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Maitreya, Phoenix, Quasi, Second Life, shoes, shopping, United Colors

Talk is Cheap

“You’re a mouthful
That amounts for another week on my own
Now I’m a novel made resourceful
I start a chain with my thought
Talk is cheap, my darling
When you’re feeling right at home
I wanna make you move with confidence
I wanna be with you alone
Said help me help you start it
You’re too comfortable to know
Throwing out those words
Oh, you gotta feel it on your own”

wicca bb & uc

wearing:
hair:  :::Phoenix::: Shania Hair (*new* for Go by Fameshed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Wicca’s Wardrobe – Voshie (*new* in Bound Box)
UC_Lulu_high_boots (8new* @ Equal10)

pose by Foxcity
***sorry, forgot which set

scene:
Fapple– Closet of D
striped mocha – hanging lotuses – black
Quasi – Dripping with Sin – 3D Painting
Rounded Bed (Adult) CHEZ MOI

Posted in Catwa, crate, Death Row Designs, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Jian, Kustom9, Lamb, Lybra, Maitreya, Prism Events, Quasi, Salem, Second Life, shopping, ULTRA

Guarantees in Life

There are few guarantees in life, but one thing is for sure. You will get hurt. You will find yourself in some of the darkest places imaginable right in your own head. You will eventually die. And no matter who you are if you have tits bigger than a B cup and you sleep in a tank top, you will wake up with one tit out. It never fails.

waking the dead

wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Meow
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
eyes & shadow: [ Conviction ] Living Dead Doll
face & partial body applier: S.E CATWA + OMEGA RIDE OF THE DEAD MASK APPLY 01 (*new* @ Kustom9) ***includes Diamonds and black crown attachment-not shown

LYBRA . XL STILETTO NAILS
: CULT : Dark Side Rings

*Vanilla Bae* Holly Shirt & Cardi: (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[VALE KOER] WAIST PANTIES
**UTOPIA@Design** – “XILA” (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty Bento Pose Set

scene:
JIAN Spoiled Rotties 12. Skeleton Pup Companion (*new* @ Epiphany)

Quasi – Dripping with Sin – 3D Painting

crate Travelor’s Trolley (*new* @ Blueprint)

Rounded Bed (Adult) CHEZ MOI (*new* @ ULTRA)

[La Baguette] Voodoo doll (deco) (*new* @ Salem)
:::ChicaChica::: Holy blood Cocktail tray REZZ (*new* @ Salem)

drd phantom broken mirror

Fapple– Always Prepared- Side Table
Fapple– BDSM Tool Box

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – black

Posted in Apple Fall, Culprit, Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Dreams of Time

“Ocean is more ancient than the mountains, and freighted with the memories and the dreams of time.”  H. P. Lovecraft

Dreams of Time

scene:
Scarlet Creative Oceania Beach House

Culprit Mojave Set  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
_Culprit Mojave Bed
_Culprit Mojave Bedside Table
_Culprit Mojave Lamp
_Culprit Mojave Trunk
_Culprit Mojave Succulent
_Culprit Tasty Macarons
_Culprit Hot Chocolate B&W
_Culprit Hot Chocolate Willow

Apple Fall Althea Rug – Antique Light

RSD Pouf PG

Granola. Carmella Vintage Shell Print1. (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Granola. Carmella Vintage Shell Print2. (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Granola. Carmella Bird Of Paradise. (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Sheppard Hanging Plant CHEZ MOI
Sheppard Hanging Plant CHEZ MOI 1

Kalopsia – Lily’s Hanging flowers

-ATTIC- Hanging Sack Couch Plain

hive // macrame hanging plant . stone

Trompe Loeil – Geonna Hanging Lantern

Dutchie cafe table with tulips (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dutchie backgammon decor (*new* @ FaMESHed)

(fd) Cat – 03 Sitting Lazy
(fd) Cat – 02 Sleeping Curled
(fd) Cat – 11 Sitting
(fd) Cat – 05 Curled On Back
(fd) Cat – 13 Standing Up

Posted in 7madRaven, Events, Jian, Landscaping, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tannenbaum, Tres Chic

Trees & Thee

We interrupt your regular programming to tell you all about Trees & Thee before time runs out. With only less than 10 days before Santa drops down the chimney, we want to make sure that YOU are ready for the biggest holiday of the year!!!

Whether you want to pick a live tree, cut your own, or have us cut one for you, we know you don’t want one of those plastic fake trees. You want the real deal and we’ve got just the right tree for you! We’ve got Pine, Fir, Spruce and Cedar! Oh, but that’s not all! We’ve got ornaments, decor, and gifts! So, make sure to swing through our gift shop for any last minute gifts. We’ll even help you strap your special tree to the roof of your vehicle. And if you tip well, we will put in a good word with Santa! *winks*

Trees & Thee
C’mon down to Trees & Thee and pick up a tree or three!

The truth is you can get all your Christmas needs at Tannenbaum, but I’m doing a thing here, okay? Thanks!

[Con.] Winter Wagons – Full size Rezzable RARE

Patio Lights Single Pole CHEZ MOI (Nov TresChic)
Christmas Farm Tree Sign CHEZ MOI  (Nov TresChic)

hive // christmas tree farm (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
hive // fir tree set (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

ACORN Santa Stand (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Puppy  (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Reindeer Plushies (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
O.M.E.N Winter Dreams Globe (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

7mad;Ravens – Holiday Set  (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Christmas
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Believe
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Magic
-7mad;Ravens Red Xmas Candlesticks
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 1
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 2
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 3
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 4
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 5
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 6

Kalopsia – Carol’s Christmas Crates
Kalopsia – Carol’s Christmas Garland

JIAN Dove Holiday Banners (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
-JIAN Dove Holiday Banner ( Horizontal )
-JIAN Dove Holiday Banner ( Vertical )

R(S)W Fuzzy Holiday Bear – Boxed (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
R(S)W Christmas Crackers – 6 Pack (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

Dahlia – Finola – Ornament Basket – Assorted Silver 1LI (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Dahlia – Finola – Ornament Basket – Assorted Gold 1LI (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

*HEXtraordinary* Vintage Ceramic Christmas Tree Light – Green (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Culprit Mousie Balloon Music Box (*new* @ Tannenbaum)