Posted in Collabor88, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, poses

True love finally happens when you by yourself

‘Cause I’m my own soulmate (Yeah, yeah)
I know how to love me (Love me)
I know that I’m always gonna hold me down
Yeah, I’m my own soulmate (Yeah, yeah)
No, I’m never lonely (Lonely)
I know I’m a queen but I don’t need no crown
Look up in the mirror like damn she the one
One, one, one, one, one, one (The one)
Like damn she the one
One, one, one (The one)
That bitch in the mirror like yeah, I’m in love
Love, love, love, love, love, love (In love)
Like yeah, I’m in love
Love, love, love (In love)
Look up in the mirror like damn she the one
And she never tell me to exercise
We always get extra fries
And you know the sex is fire
And I gotta testify
I get flowers every Sunday
I’mma marry me one day
True love ain’t something you can buy yourself
True love finally happens when you by yourself
So if you by yourself, then go and buy yourself
Another round from the bottle on the higher shelf

**special thanks to my wifey, Ghoulie Waffles, for introducing me to this song**

https://www.flickr.com/photos/sadystikasabretooth/51173877361/in/dateposted/

hair: DOUX – Dana hairstyle @ Equal10
head: LeLUTKA Avalon Head 3.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.4)
skin: [Glam Affair] Mia Skin [Lelutka EvoX] @ C88
tattoo: Ladybird. // Tavi @ Equal10

NaaNaa’s Sama Necklace @ FaMESHed
(Yummy) Plumage Ring Set @ C88
LOTUS. Wings Nails 11 (Legacy) RARE @ Equal10
:::ChicChica::: Wine glass @ C88
Lunar – Nite @ Equal10
** Bralette, garters, panties, & robe**

pose: Lyrium. Get Glam – Make-Up Set @ Equal10

Decor: ..::THOR::.. Lazy Days Gacha Set @ Anthem

Posted in Cynful, Dahlia, Eudora3D, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Legacy, Second Life

The walls are closing in

Why do I sabotage everything I love?
It’s always beautiful until I fuck it up
Tell myself I’m safe and lonely
With nobody else to break my heart
Even though I know you’d never
I’m my own worst enemy and think you are
Matches in my back pocket
I’m the queen of burning bridges
I will only let you down
Why do I sabotage everything I love?
It’s always beautiful until I fuck it up
Why do I sabotage everything I love?
The walls are closing in because I built them up
Why can’t I let myself be happy? (Ooh)
Why do I gotta get in my own way? (Ooh)
My shoes are worn out, always runnin’
From the reasons that I really wanna stay

The walls are closing in

hairbase: Tableau Vivant \ leLutka EvoX Hairbase 03
hair: Tableau Vivant – Wrap-up ponytail Add-on
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.4)

Cynful Fishnet Set @ Inithium
Eudora3D Stormy Heels & stockings @ FaMESHed X

pose: Diversion – Come Back – Pose Set

FOXCITY. Photo Booth – City Life

[IK] Wicker World @ TLC
-[IK] Wicker World – Screen
-[IK] Wicker World – Armchair
-[IK] Wicker World – Table
-[IK] Wicker World – Tea Set

hive // hanging bougainvillea plant . pink @ Anthem

Dahlia – Liona – Cat Planter @ Kustom9
Dahlia – Liona – Llama Planter – Right – Green leaves @ Kustom9

Posted in Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Another hole to dig my soul in

One of the challenges of being a blogger is trying to decide the best pose to show off an item. The new No Filter Outfit from Cynful is one of those outfits that looks amazing from all sides and the newest hair from Stealthic, Metropolis, is no different. I hope you all have plenty of lindens on hand, because I see some very pretty things that are just dying to be part of your teensy lil ole inventory. *giggles* If you read my blog, you’re a shopaholic like me and I know damn well you’re inventory isn’t teensy. I need to clean my up before I get locked out of sl for my inventory being too damn big. LOL
Oh and y’all know I couldn’t write so little without adding at least SOME lyrics, right? Cuz music is life!!

A heart will swell before it’s hardened
With the flick of the hair, it can make you old
Another hole to dig my soul in
I’ll leave anything bare that keeps me soul

Another hole to dig my soul in

hair: Stealthic – Metropolis @ Anthem
head: LeLUTKA Avalon Head 3.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.4)
skin: [Glam Affair] Rika Skin [Lelutka EvoX]

Cynful No Filter Outfit @ C88

pose: FOXCITY. Delicate Bento Pose Set
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Lobby

Posted in Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative

Kitsune…huh?

I’d say its fairly obvious that I’m not into anime or even Asian culture. Though, I do love some Asian cuisine! So, the first time I saw or even heard of a kitsune was in Second Life. Even then, I wasn’t all that interested. I just assumed it was a cute creature from Anime. I was like, “Kitsune…huh?” Eventually, I looked it up! What I found surprised me.

Kitsune in the literal sense is the Japanese word for fox. Foxes are a common subject of Japanese folklore; in English, kitsune refers to them in this context. Stories depict legendary foxes as intelligent beings and as possessing paranormal abilities that increase as they get older and wiser.Wikipedia

If you keep reading the Wiki page about it, you’ll discover that the more tails it’s more powerful, older, and wiser. So, as you can see by just the little bit of information on the Wiki page, kitsune isn’t an anime thing after all. They are part of Japanese folklore more so than anime. Now, I just feel stupid for always assuming that’s what they were. Just a gentle reminder to do a little research before we go running off at the mouth about things we don’t really know about.

Kitsune…huh?

hair: Tableau Vivant \ Hitaisho @ Neo Japan
head: LeLUTKA Avalon Head 3.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.4)
skin: [Glam Affair] Jezebel Skin [Lelutka EvoX]

[Glam Affair ] Spring Brows Line 04
[Glam Affair] Mystic Face Make-up ( EvoX)
[Glam Affair] Rose Lipstick – EvoX

ED. Itsuko Kimo Bamboo @ Neo Japan

[Rezz Room] Box Kitsune @ Neo Japan

pose: an lar [poses] The Hanna Series @ TLC

8f8 – Make Believe set @ Anthem

Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Legacy, Lelutka, shopping, skin, Uber SL

There was a time

There was a time when I was alone
No where to go and no place to call home
My only friend was the man in the moon
And even sometimes he would go away too
Then one night, as I closed my eyes
I saw a shadow flying high
He came to me with the sweetest smile
Told me he wanted to talk for a while

There was a time

hair: DOUX – Sixty Nine hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Avalon Head 3.0
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.4)
skin: [Glam Affair] Rika Skin [Lelutka EvoX]

:::ChicChica::: Cigarette with ring holder
(Yummy) Aaliyah Ring Collection
Seniha. Avril Top @ Uber
.miss chelsea. Bria Shorts @ Anthem

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – Born To Be Real

DaD “Kite Fly with Me ” Green @ Anthem

Posted in Animals, Events, Home Decor, Second Life

Special Place of Zen

These days, I think we’d all like a spa vacation. Unfortunately, due to the current times, that simply isn’t an option for most of us. However, I have found some tranquility by creating my own spa inworld and simply allowing my avatar to enjoy the setting, while I listen to some soft meditation friendly music. It would seem that the creators in SL have a similar idea, as I was able to use the new Urban Spa set from Atelier Burgundy & Pitaya as my foundation, then added elements from other spa sets in my collection to personalize it. There’s quite a bit that isn’t shown here, to include spring water and a mud bath, but I think this photo gives you an accurate view to grasp the idea. Hopefully, it will inspire you to create you own special place of zen. ♥

Special Place of Zen

(luc) Clay Floral Mandala LI:12

-Pixicat- Bastet.Sphynx (Lazy) LI:2

Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa @ Anthem
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Bamboo Vase LI:4
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Ficus LI:14
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Fountain LI:3
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Fruits LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Green Pouf LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Green Yoga Mat LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Green Yoga Mat -rolled LI:1
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Room Divider LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Tea Set Green LI:1
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Tea Set Grey LI:1
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . White Pouf LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . White Yoga Mat LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . White Yoga Mat -rolled LI:1
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Wood trolley LI:2
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Chaise Long White LI:10
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Fabric Divider LI:8
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa . Massage table LI:5
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa Building RARE LI:62
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa.Aromatherapy Diffuser 1 LI:1
Atelier Burgundy + Pitaya . Urban Spa.Aromatherapy Diffuser 2 LI:1

DaD “Mandarin Spa”
DaD “Mandarin Spa Jellyfish floor lamp” LI:4
DaD “Mandarin Spa Sensory rug” gift LI:7
DaD “Mandarin Spa Towel Basket” LI:2
DaD “Mandarin Spa small table A” LI:1

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large LI:5
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small LI:4

KraftWork Zen Refuge
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Asian Coffee Table Wood LI:1
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Asian Lamp (with projector light) LI:2
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Buddha Vase LI:26
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Candles Path LI:4
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Ceramic Mobile LI:2
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Meditation Table LI:5
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Metal Chimes (no sounds) LI:1
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Spa Candle Set 1 LI:4
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Spa Candle Set 2 LI:5
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Tatami Rug LI:5
KraftWork Zen Refuge . Yoga Poses Banner LI:1

dust bunny . hanging plants . double planter LI:6
dust bunny . lauren bathroom . hanging robe . a LI:3

hive // macrame hanging plant . charcoal LI:2

{vespertine} hanging succulents. – string of pearls., LI:5

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Second Life, shopping, skin, tattoo

Sunshine

“And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees, just as things grow in fast movies, I had that familiar conviction that life was beginning over again with the summer.”
― F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby

Sunshine

hair: DOUX – Silent hairstyle @ Equal10
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — NASTENA @ Arcade
tattoo: *Bolson / Tattoo – Antheia @ Anthem

TRIGGERED – Moon Craft Earrings
-SU!- Poison Sunglasses V.2
(Yummy) Aaliyah Ring Collection @ Uber
Seniha. Darsha Set @ FaMESHed
(Tunica, Belt, & Shorts)

[Rezz Room] Pug Adult Animesh

pose: Lyrium. Camera Ready Pose & Prop Set @ Equal10

Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Pool @ Arcade
-1. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Pool RARE LI:6
-12. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Pool Clutter LI:3
-13. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Privacy Screen LI:3
-14. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Sofa LI:7
-15 . Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Armchair LI:3
-16. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda CoffeeTable LI:1
-17. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Side Table LI:1
-18. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Orchid Arrangement LI:2
-4. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Gazebo RARE LI:48
-6. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Fireplace LI:13
-8. Fancy Decor + KraftWork Voda Hanging Lantern LI:3

Apple Fall Lemonade LI:1
Apple Fall Lemonade Pitcher LI:2

Ariskea[Mocorra] stone path LI:3

Dahlia – Flamingo Float LI:3

MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha @ Arcade
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #02 LI:1
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #04 LI:1
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #05 LI:1
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #10 LI:2
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #11 LI:8
MINIMAL – Plant Collection Gacha #12 LI:8

Pixel Mode – Anahata – Magazine Clutter LI:3 (no longer available)

Posted in Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, skin, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

It might stop

I’m up all night online
I’m looking up my symptoms
Tell myself I’m fine
But my system just ain’t listenin’
Like ooh
This ain’t normal how I’m feelin’, no
Ooh
Running higher than a fever
When my palms start to sweat
I feel it in my stomach
This is how I get
Every time I know you’re comin’ over
Ooh
Sometimes I think that I might die with you
Ooh
It’s like I’m almost too alive with you
Ahhh
Ooh ohh ooh
Oh, it feels like
My heart’s gonna beat so fast, gonna beat so fast
Gonna beat so fast that it might stop

It might stop

hair: tram K0227 hair @ C88
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — NASTENA @ Arcade
tattoo: *Bolson / Tattoo – Antheia @ Anthem

  • TRIGGERED – Moon Craft Earrings
    (Yummy) Aaliyah Ring Collection @ Uber
    Cynful Strappy Set – Gloves
    Cynful Hankie Top @ Equal10
    Cynful Hankie Skirt + Panties @ Equal10
    [BREATHE]-Takiko Heels

[Rezz Room] Panther Animesh @ Equal10

pose: FOXCITY. Chilling

FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Cozy Balcony

dust bunny . potted palm
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . potted rubber tree

tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

DaD “Farmhouse Pillows Basket”

Madras 11 Zebra Decor

KraftWork Icelandic Dining Clutter . Rug

Posted in Apple Fall, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, Self Reflection, shoes, shopping, skin, Uber SL, vinyl, [BREATHE]

a beautiful conversation about life

I was hanging out with some of my favorite people last night and one of them made a comment about “lazy homeless” people. I quickly jumped on the defensive. As I have been homeless on a number of occasions in my 20s and there was nothing lazy about my situation. Of course, I encountered loads of other homeless people during those times. I had to explain that while there are some people that simply don’t want to be responsible members of society. However, the bulk of the homeless people I encountered were anything but lazy. As being homeless is not an easy way to live. People that live in shelters must abide by an excess of rules put in place to keep things as orderly as possible. There are curfews and requirements one must continuously make to continue their stay and many shelters have limitations on how long people can reside there. I don’t have specific numbers, but I’d dare say that the majority of homeless people have not chosen that lifestyle as their preferred method of existence. Plus there are far more living without shelter. That is NOT an easy way to live. Its beyond dangerous. Once a person is homeless, it is safe to say that getting back on your feet is ridiculously hard. As I pointed out to my friend, what is the first thing you do the morning of a job interview? Shower, right? If you have no home, you have no shower and probably don’t have much in the way of a clean nice outfit to wear.
Anyway, the point is, don’t be so quick to judge people in situations you can’t begin to understand. Turns out that one of the other people there had also experienced homelessness and was glad that I spoke up. Meanwhile, our uninformed friend was enlightened and apologized. I didn’t find the apology necessary, but it was appreciated. I was especially glad that we were all able to have such a beautiful conversation about life without hate or disgust. I won’t name them, because too many private matters were discussed and only my part of the story is mine to tell. I suspect they might read this and because they might I want to give them to know something. I love you and I’m so grateful for your friendship. I look forward to getting to know you even better in the years to come. ♥

Clearly that has nothing to do with the photo. So, I’d like to add that if you have not gotten the Spring Decocrate, this set from Serenity Style is worth getting it, just for this set. Even if you didn’t pre order it, its worth the price. Go grab yours. I have to pay full price, too, cuz I forgot to pre order…lol. You’ll also notice I’m wearing the new Lost Girl dress from Vinyl. This is the first dress Vinyl has released in ages and its so cute! AND it goes perfectly with these new wedges that Breathe released at the Arcade! So get out your wallets, its time to go shopping!!

a beautiful conversation about life

hair: DOUX – Lucy hairstyle @ LEVEL
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — SARAH @ Kustom9
tattoo: *Bolson / Tattoo – Antheia @ Anthem

VINYL – Lost Girl Dress @ Uber
[BREATHE]-Mizuko Wedges @ Arcade

pose: Ana Poses – Saturday Night 8 @ Arcade

Scarlet Creative Charlotte’s Corner House Boat or Cabin

outside: Serenity Style– Eggs Farm Backdrop @ Uber Hometown

Serenity Style-Spring Colors Breakfast Set for Decocrate Spring
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Table
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Tray [LINKED]
-Serenity Style- Spring Colors Breakfast Chairs (blue, pink, yellow, & green)

Serenity Style– Vintage Treasures – Doors
Serenity Style- Vintage Treasures – Bookshelf

..::THOR::.. Think Green Gacha Set @ Arcade
-..::THOR::.. Hanging Crate
-..::THOR::.. Organic Hanging Tote
-..::THOR::.. Vintage Table Fan – Mint
-..::THOR::.. Greenhouse Stool – Cream
-..::THOR::.. Owl & Books
-..::THOR::.. Vintage Watering Can – Mint

  1. Apple Fall Blanket Curio
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 7
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 8
    Apple Fall Books – Arrangement 10
    West Village Sculpted Turtle – Verdigris

Di’Cor Snail Figurine @ FaMESHed

dust bunny . quirky planters 2 . kitty planter
dust bunny . quirky planters 3 . rainbow planter

Ariskea[Marguerite] Pitcher Flowers – Pale @ Anthem

[Fetch] Spring Treats – Bun Mug RARE @ Arcade

MADRAS Ooty Turtle Tea Pot Seafoam

CHEZ MOI Sleepy Kitty @ Arcade
CHEZ MOI Plant Vase 1,2, & 3 @ Arcade

The Loft & ARIA – Branwyn Rug

tarte. hanging trailing jade plant

{vespertine} hanging succulents. – string of pearls

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, [BREATHE], {le fil casse}

Is it hard knowing you’re wrong?

I heard from a friend of a friend
That you’ve been checking back in
‘Cause I said goodbye, moved overnight
And you haven’t heard much since then
Wondering how I’m doing now
It’s none of your business first of all
Wondering how I’m doing now
But if you’ve got to know, well sure
Well sure
You think I’d be lost
Think I’d be lost without you, lost
Is it hard knowing you’re wrong
See I got lots without you
Lots without you

Is it hard knowing you’re wrong?

hair: Tableau Vivant \ Water lily – Dropping @ Arcade
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — SARAH @ Kustom9
tattoo: *Bolson / Tattoo – Antheia @ Anthem

(Yummy) Aaliyah Ring Collection @ Uber
{le fil casse} Mei Collection @ Arcade
(top & panties-black)
[BREATHE]-Sasumi Heels @ FaMESHed

[Rezz Room] Sphynx Animesh @ ManCave

pose: Diversion – Come Back – Pose Set

backdrop: MINIMAL – Natural Nude Backdrop III Spiral @ Kustom9

  • TRIGGERED – Antidepressant Kit (Wine Bottle & glass)

..::THOR::.. Small Radio

dust bunny . hanging plants . cheese plant

hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . light