Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Loveless

Crosses in the distance bells ring fast
Loveless in our shelter time will pass
Would you take a chance on us?
Could you take a chance on us?

Call out to the lonely with regrets
Loveless is your answer time will pass
Couldn’t take a chance on us
Couldn’t take a chance on us

Take my hand
In belief we trace our steps
Understand
No relief in silhouettes

Battled myself so many times
What I was isn’t what I want now
We can seek denial and search for miles

Blessed love the love I need
Rolling drums the loveless bleed

Take my hand
In belief we trace our steps
Understand
No relief in silhouettes
~ Lo Moon – Loveless

nutmeg canopy

*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]

KraftWork Rustic Garland Bottle . Terracota @ Access
KraftWork Rustic Garland Bottle . Rose @ Access
KraftWork Rustic Garland Bottle . Green @ Access

Nutmeg. Old Wood Canopy
Nutmeg. Old Wood Canopy Lamp
Nutmeg. Old Wood Canopy Curtain
Nutmeg. Old Wood Canopy Lantern

Nutmeg. December Eve Books
Nutmeg. Disarray Iron Wine Rack
Nutmeg. Dacha Crumpled Towel
Nutmeg. Stacked Buckets
Nutmeg. Disarray Newspapers & Hat
Nutmeg. Disarray Old Jar Plant
Nutmeg. Dacha Hanging Candle Bucket
Nutmeg. Dacha Old Wooden Chest
Nutmeg. Dacha Candle Jar
Nutmeg. Dacha Tub w/ Linens
Nutmeg. Dacha Metal Bathtub wo/Shower
Nutmeg. Dacha Shower Necessities

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Loving Myself

Like so many others, I notice people popping in and out of relationships in Second Life and I observe several that seem to endure the test of time. One thing that I notice quite a bit in the failing relationships is betrayal, mental/emotional abuse, and neglect. I can’t help but wonder if these people have children. If they do, would they want their children to behave in such a manner? Would they encourage their children to stay in a toxic relationship? I certainly hope not. I will never understand why people think its okay to treat one another so poorly and better yet, why anyone would accept that type of behavior.
Perhaps I’m too intolerant. Maybe I’m too picky. I know I have trust issues or rather full blown lifelong subscriptions, but there’s no way in hell I’m going to allow someone to be so blatantly abusive or disrespectful towards me. Yes, I do get incredibly lonely at times, but I’d rather work on loving myself than trying to survive a destructive relationship.

peaches serenity mud

ACORN Let It Snow Blocks

.peaches. Emberly Bench – With Blanket @ FaMESHed

GOOSE – couples snowy lantern

JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Stroll
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Graze
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Bound

MudHoney Chubby Snowman (VIP Group Gift)

Serenity Style– Beau Garden Fountain [WINTER] @ Uber
Serenity Style- Beau Garden Fountain SNOW ADD ON

LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}
LB_Hill-v1{winter}

*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen]

hive // fir trees

HPMD* Dirt Road – snowy

Posted in crate, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

So torn

I am so torn right now between the Autumn decor that is everywhere and the holiday decor that is falling across the grid like a steady snowfall. I’m doing my best to squeeze in as much Autumn as I can before we slide into full blown Winter. Naturally, I will need to take a beach break along the way at some point, cuz BIKINIS! I am falling more and more in love with decor by the day. This can’t be a surprise given the influx of decor posts I’ve been dropping lately. Its not my fault. Look at the stuff in this scene! Between Crate, Barley, and Sway’s…what was I supposed to do? Resist? Ok, I’m going to need you to put that crack pipe down now.

barley crate sway & more

22769 – Autumn Cage LI: 6

*alirium* DwarfForest [Ember] LI: 3

crate Harvest Entryway  Set @ Belle
crate Harvest Entryway Branch Bag LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Bench P.G LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Pumpkin Chandelier LI: 6
crate Harvest Entryway Shelf LI: 2
crate Harvest Entryway Trunk LI: 2

#2 Elm. “Book Nook Gacha” Autumn Suitcase LI: 3

HPMD* Garden Tree09 with Lights – red a LI: 7

hive // start of autumn journal . group gift LI: 1

SAYO – Fallen Autumn Set – Foliage Deco LI: 6

Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn Porch @ The Liaison Collaborative
Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn Porch LI: 18
Sway’s [Lukas] Autumn leaves on floor LI: 2
Sway’s [Lukas] Bench LI: 5

{what next} Fall Harvest Wheelbarrow LI: 6

Barley – Autumn is Here Set 
Barley – Autumn is Here Tartan Pillow
Barley – Autumn is Here Tray w/ Pitcher and Cups
Barley – Autumn is Here Mugs
Barley – Autumn is Here Medium Pumpkin
Barley – Autumn is Here Set
Barley – Autumn is Here Little Pumpkin
Barley – Autumn is Here Sign
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin w/ a Message
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin Duo
Barley – Autumn is Here Pumpkin Bucket
Barley – Autumn is Here Linen Pillow
Barley – Autumn is Here – Paris in the Fall Pillow

Posted in Animals, Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

All my favorite colors

I woke up to the morning sky, first
Baby blue, just like we rehearsed
When I get up off this ground, I shake leaves back down
To the brown, brown, brown, brown
‘Til I’m clean

Then I walk where I’d be shaded by the trees
By a meadow of green
For about a mile
I’m headed to town, town, town
In style

With all my favorite colors, yes, sir
All my favorite colors, right on
My sisters and my brothers
See ’em like no other
All my favorite colors
~ Black Pumas – Colors

Sayo Thor Merak KW Refuge RR

22769 – Autumn Cage LI: 6 @ The Liaison Collaborative

*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold] LI: 3

Ariskea[LateSunday] Pumpkin Spice Pie LI: 1

dust bunny . cider sunsets . sweater weather LI: 2

+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Ground LI: 2
+Half-Deer+ Fallen Leaves – Autumn – Trailing LI: 1

KraftWork Ballon de Fete LI: 4 @ Belle

[Merak] – Fall Treats LI: 3 @ Kustom9
[Merak] – Old Stomp Table LI: 2 @ Kustom9
[Merak] – Fall Blankets LI: 4 @ Kustom9

SAYO – Harvest Bench (Adult) LI: 11 @ FaMESHed

tarte. hay bale & linen (seat) – PG LI: 4
tarte. hay bales & pitchfork LI: 7

..::THOR::.. K9 Bday Gift – 2019 LI: 3 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Distressed Table LI: 1 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Woodland Tray LI: 2 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Melody Moments LI: 1 @ Kustom9
..::THOR::.. Birdhouse Shovel LI: 1 @ Kustom9

[we’re CLOSED] grass field dry 03

Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin A @ The Liaison Collaborative
Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin C @ The Liaison Collaborative
Refuge – Autumn Glass Pumpkin B @ The Liaison Collaborative

[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sit
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Play
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sleep
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Animesh Companion RARE

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Everything’s broken

Take away all your little things
Life gives exactly what you need
Running away from everyone into me
I can’t relieve your suffering
Everything’s broken at the seams
Page from the story of your life
Fantasy
~ Cold – Without You

lagom nutmeg

22769 – Frosted Glass Floor Ball Lamp – COMMON LI: 1

*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen] LI: 3

Apple Fall Un Salon de Jardin LI: 34

JIAN Arctic Fox :: Static Sit R LI: 1
JIAN Arctic Fox :: Static Sleep L LI: 1
JIAN Arctic Fox :: Static Stand 1 L LI: 1

Lagom – Frosty Fall set @ TLC
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Forgotten jacket ] LI: 8
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Leaf pile 2 ] LI: 1
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Frosty buckets ] LI: 1
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Leaf pile 1 ] LI: 2
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Leaf bags ] LI: 3
Lagom – Frosty Fall set [ Leaf pile 3 ] LI: 1

Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Complete Set @ Anthem
Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Round Tray LI: 4
Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Oval Tray LI: 7
Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Table / 1 Bonus Item LI: 3
Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Plate Stack LI: 4
Nutmeg. Antique Dinnerware Bowl LI: 4

Air_Somnium (B) frost1 silver_CM
Air_Somnium (D) frost1 silver_CM
Air_Somnium (A) frost1 silver_CM

Posted in Animals, Home Decor, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

You ain’t gonna stop me

You ever see those people that always have to comment on the Facebook memes about that’s “actually…” blah blah blah? They absolutely kill me. I just can’t help but tilt my head and wonder what happened to them. I mean, what makes a person feel the need to poke holes in a meme? Its a joke. If you don’t like it, keep scrolling. Matter of fact, if you don’t like memes, you might not wanna follow my personal page. *laughs* I mean, they’re supposed to be funny. It’s not MY fault that you don’t get the joke or have a sense of humor.  Honestly, I really wish that FB would give me an eye rolling emoji for cases like this. By all means, knock yourself out….comment away and show the world how stupid you look, but mainly ask yourself why you feel the need to actually do that? What’s your motive? Maybe deep down inside you’re just a funhater. I dunno, but ya know what? You ain’t gonna stop meeeeeee! Muahahahahaha!

nutmeg serenity style rezz

*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]

dust bunny . midnight apothecary . venus fly trap @ Anthem
dust bunny . midnight apothecary . graveyard terrarium @ Anthem

Nutmeg. Flower Cherub Statue @ ShinyShabby
Nutmeg. Backyard Stool Brown
Nutmeg. Vintage Metronome
Nutmeg. Old Story Frames Wood
Nutmeg. Disarray Wooden Candlestick 2
Nutmeg. Disarray Wooden Candlestick
Nutmeg. Disarray Iron Wine Rack
Nutmeg. Old Music Sheets. Floor
Nutmeg. Stacked Buckets
Nutmeg. Pile of Vinage books Group Gift
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Candle Holder2
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Vase3
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Vase2
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Candle Holder1
Nutmeg. Dacha Candle Jar

Nutmeg. Summer’s End Branch
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Papers
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Ladder
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Peonies
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Book
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Candles
Nutmeg. Summer’s End Wooden Chair

Serenity Style-Soul Whispers @ The Liaison Collaborative
-Serenity Style- Soul Whispers Piano
-Serenity Style- Soul Whispers Candle
-Serenity Style- Soul Whispers Music Sheets
-Serenity Style- Shoul Whisper Ruins RARE
-Serenity Style- Soul Whispers Mirror

[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Yawning @ Arcade
[Rezz Room] British Shorthair Jumping @ Arcade

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, N21, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Tannenbaum

Krampus & the Grinch

It’s no secret that I’m a bit bah humbug about the holidays season, mostly because its funny. I almost hate to admit that I actually have some of the best Christmas memories from my childhood that anyone could hope for. Though this entire holiday season is especially hard due to the happenings in real life, but I’m surviving it so far. Pretty sure I gained another 10lbs from Thanksgiving, though. I like food…waaayyy too much.
Anyhoo, whether you love the holidays and all that it offers traditionally or you prefer to be on the Krampus & the Grinch side of it, there’s one event on the grid every single year that never fails deliver exactly what you’d hope to find. That event is Tannenbaum and its one of three events put on by Prism Events every year. I know there’s been some drama between event owners and script writers, and I’m certainly not going to pretend to know the whole truth. What I am asking is that you not punish the designers that were already signed up for these events before the drama went public. So, if you chose a side…I didn’t…but if you did, that is certainly your prerogative…please do not punish those designers that are innocently caught in the crossfire. Besides you’ll also be punishing yourself by missing out on amazing creations. Let’s have a happy holidays and leave the differences to those that are directly involved, k? I’m wishing you all a holiday season filled with love & laughter♥

Krampus & the Grinch

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Ryan hairstyle (*new* @  DUBAI)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

ERSCH – Splendor Earrings V2 (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
ERSCH – Splendor Choker V1 (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
(Yummy) Havana Ring & Bangle Set (*new* @ N21)
Blueberry – Julia – Jacket  *NEW*
Blueberry – Julia – Leggings *NEW*
Blueberry – Cece – Winter Boots

pose: GingerFish Poses – Burning Leaves
***edited position of right arm using AnyPose

scene:
*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen]
DYNASTY – Ornamental Lantern – Red (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
*HEXtraordinary* Baby Krampus (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Kalopsia gift boxes (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
{anc} snowfield (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Aphorism, Apple Fall, Bad Unicorn, Catwa, crate, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

Hidden Treasure

Have you ever played one of those hidden clue games? There’s several on Facebook, plenty of apps for phones, etc. You find the hidden objects and progress through the story. The picture with the hidden objects usually reflect that particular part of the story. Well, when I initially started setting up this scene….I ended up chasing squirrels all over the internet. What started out as a squirrel’s Halloween party quickly turned into a hidden object picture. Except, you don’t have to find them, they are all listed below with slurls so that you can go grab your own fun Halloween and Autumn decor! Happy shopping!♥

hidden halloween

wearing:
hair:  #Besom~Pesha
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alice Applier

!APHORISM! Ariana Hoody (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Addams // Millie Wool Socks // N*30

FOXCITY. Legs for Days Bento Pose Set

scene: 
*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]
*alirium* DwarfForest [Ember]

[ keke ] tree with mattress . all seasons (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[ keke ] willow leaves for ground – maxi

NOMAD // Scattered Leaves

Apple Fall Pinecones & Hazelnuts

JIAN Red Squirrel Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-JIAN Red Squirrel Feeder Tree
-JIAN Red Squirrel (Wanderer)

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Ghost Stand ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Game Over Backpack ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Tricked Treats Pumpkin (Arcade Exclusive)
-[Bad Unicorn] Dinosaur Mask ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ RARE
-[Bad Unicorn] GRRReen Hands

crate Jack O’Lantern Decor ~ Ironwood Hills Gift
crate Nightshade Cloak Rack

.BIRCH Pentagram Torches (*new* @ TLC)

{what next} Fall Harvest Wheelbarrow
{what next} Autumn Bicycle Decor

Dahlia – Newport – Distressed Trinket Box  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dahlia – Baby Robert – Antique Lamp – Copper ~ Ironwood Hills Gift

floorplan. vintage crate

hive // extra crates [dark]

SAYO – Vizcaya Garden Party Set – Candles & Leaves

Posted in Animals, Events, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Ole McF*ckit Had a Farm

Ole McFuckit had a farm…(sing along, you know you wanna)
Gracey, Tracy, and Rom
On that farm there was a cow…
Gracey, Grace, and Grace…*giggles*
With a moo moo here, and booze booze there
Here a moo, there’s some booze
Gracey, Grace, and Grace…*bursts into giggles*

Ole McFuckit had a farm…
Tracy, Tracy, Trace….
On that farm was a little pig…
Tracy, Tracy, Trace….*laughs*
With an oink oink here, and some candy there
Here’s an oink, there’s a boink
And Rom got him some….*cries from laughin so hard*

It had to be done….oh but wait, there’s one more verse to finish this off….

Ole McFuckit had a farm…
Kessie, Kesstie, Kess…
On that farm there was a barn…
Kessie, Kesstie, Kess…
With a squeaky door, and a rock DJ
Here’s a song, there’s some hay
And Exodus lived in a barn….*runs like hell*

Okay, so this post was mostly a series of private jokes, but I could not help myself. If you know these cunts, you’ll understand. Long live the McFuckits!!!♥

Ole McFuckit

JIAN Highland Cattle Shed (*new* @ Uber)
JIAN Highland Cattle Collection (*new* @ Uber)
JIAN Highland Farm Fences (*new* @ Uber)

JIAN Playtime Piglets 1. Hay Napper RARE

JIAN Countryside Collies :: Adult Wanderer RARE

JIAN Barnyard Buddies :: Water Trough

22769 – Hay Bale with blanket

O.M.E.N – Autumn Harvest Truck – Red

Botanical – Dirt Road Straight

HPMD* Garden Trees

*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]

Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, fri.day, Home Decor, ON9, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping, unKindness

Home

“I know if I can find my own way back
There’s a life I always knew but never had
I’m tired of fighting things that I can’t change
Letting me go so I can finally find my place”
Sigma & Rita Ora – Coming Home

home2

Yesterday, I wrote about having the ground beneath our feet to catch us when we fall, but I didn’t mean that in such a literal sense. That ground is my foundation. My circle of friends…my family…my home…that place that I can always go back to no matter what happens to me on this grand adventure of a life. When I’m tired and beat down, I can go home and know that I am safe…I am grounded…and there is no other place quite like it. To my home…my people…I love each of you and I can’t thank you enough. I might be flying high and free at the moment, but I haven’t forgotten that you all are there and without you I wouldn’t be here now. I love you all so much. Part of me wants to list you all, but you know my squirrelly little memory will leave someone out, so I’ll do some general shouts out that you’ll hopefully understand…Home really is where the heart is.

To my Cunts…I love you guys so freaking much and how you teach me to throw caution to the wind and say with glory, “McFUCKIT!” ♥
To my Lockjaw Family…my God, what a delightful group of amazing and talented misfits! You all rock! Don’t any of you forget that!♥
Need a better name for the Stoner’s group…but they know who they are…I hope. I love you bitches so damn much. Never stop being fabulous, please. We have all been through so much this past year, lets rule the world this year!♥
To all my friends, listed in a group or not…to the creators that support me, believe in me…you are all my home and I appreciate you more than you know. Thank you.

wearing
hair
: [monso] My Hair – Ruda  (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
eyes: CATWA Mesh Eyes w/-SU!– [CATWA & OMEGA HUD] Xenira Eyes ALL COLORS
eyeshadowIzzie’s – Catwa – Applier Dark Metallic Eyeshadow Hud
dimples: Izzie’s – Catwa Dimples Hud
lipstick: [PF] CATWA LIPSTICK Applier – Glossy Pout
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
hands: -VA-VISTA BENTO

**RE** Simone Heart Collar
SPIRIT – Chill top [BLACK] (*new* @ C88)
fri. – Tillie Warmers (Coal) (*new* @ C88)

scene:
HPMD* Big Leaf – pale color
*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]
:: N :: Daffodil Box (*new* @ ON9)
uK – Solace Door Nook Blue (*new* @ C88)
uK – Solace Nook Hanging Lamp (*new* @ C88)
.:Bee Designs:. Tulips Gacha 11  (*new* @ ON9)
Ariskea & Unkindness[Solace] Seat 17 Anim [Singles] (*new* @ C88)
(fd) Cat – 02 Sleeping Curled
Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Iron table (*new* @ C88)
Ariskea & Unkindness  [Solace] Candle 4 (*new* @ C88)
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin
Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Romarin Plant (*new* @ C88)
(fd) Cat – 11 Sitting

poses: Del May w/some editing on 2nd pic using FATE Hand Poser HUD & AnyPose