Posted in DOUX, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lelutka

Listen or Read?

I recently broke down and got the Audible app. While I do enjoy the soothing tone of certain voices reading to me, I know how to listen to a sample of the narrator to know whether or not I should listen to a book or actually read it. There’s just nothing quite like the actual reading of a book while enjoying a cup of coffee or tea, along with the occasion petting of an insistent cat. I adore books. Not just the reading of them, but the possession of them as well. The distinct smell of an old library, a used book store…even a new book store with a built in coffee chain offering overpriced drinks and stale pastries…each place holds its own nuance. Well, I could ramble about this all day.
What I really want to tell the ladies reading my blog today is to check out this outfit from Seniha. OMG, I love it so much, I’ve worn it for three days. Get the fatpack and have fun with it. I’m pretty sure you won’t want to take it off either.♥

Listen or Read?

hair: DOUX – Olga hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA RARE 1 -BOM – LELUTKA / LEGACY – MARCH @ Kustom9

Kibitz – Celestina’s necklace @ Kustom9
Seniha. Nubia Sweater @ Equal10
Seniha. Nubia Top@ Equal10
Seniha. Nubia Leggins@ Equal10
Seniha. Nubia Boots&Socks@ Equal10

pose: Diversion – Ice Maiden Poses @ Aenigma
location: Small Town Green

Posted in Bloom, Chic Moda, DOUX, Events, Legacy, Lelutka, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic

Fit your attitude

When I finished editing this picture, I showed it to Chris (my bo’fren) and he asked if I was mad at someone. I just laughed. I’m not mad at anyone, I just love this pose from Diversion. However, I feel like there’s always someone or something deserving of a big F*CK YOU. (yes, I did just censor myself, its called growth or something like that). I just felt particularly badass in this outfit, okay? I’m sure it’s the accessories from RichB that really made me feel so badass, cuz this Blossom top from ChicModa is quite sweet, almost delicate. And we all know jeans can go in either direction. Though I must say these jeans from Little Fox fit like a glove! So, I guess you could say that its really all about accessorizing to fit your attitude….and well, most of you already know MY attitude. *grins*

doux chicmoda little fox diversion

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Bianca hairstyle @ Tres Chic
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1 @ Skin Fair
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Ashley (LeLutka)

RichB. Hamatis Earrings
*AvaWay* GWEN Ribbon Corset CHOKER
RichB. Skully Arm Band @ Fetish Fair
RichB. Halo Cuffs
-SU!- Almond Nails @ Anthem
ChicModa // Blossom Top @ Bloom
Little Fox – Skinny low jeans @ Access

pose: Diversion – Lunacy Poses @ Aenigma
MINIMAL – Fungsun Backdrop @ Equal10

Posted in Events, Fashion, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Conditional Love

There’s a lot to be said about the topic of unconditional love and this is a subject I struggle with quite a bit. I don’t think we can necessarily turn off love as if it were a water fountain or a light switch. However, I do think there are times in our lives that we must distance ourselves from people we love. I have loved a lot of people in my life. Despite what people like to believe, I’m a very loving person with a lot of love to give. With that said, I am not perfect, nor will I continue to show someone that love if they mistreat me or endanger my well being. It has taken me years to get to a place where I’m even close to loving myself as completely as I should. I’ll be damned if I’m going to risk that self love for someone that treats me or themselves like shit.
I wouldn’t say that my love has conditions, but there’s only one person on this planet that I will ever love so completely that no matter what they do (imagine the absolute worst) that I would still love them with all of my heart…and that person is my mother. Everyone else? Well, I love some people more deeply than others, but there are some sure fire ways to kill my love. I’ve walked away from people I loved more than once, because they’re too self centered or delusional. Friendship and love are two way streets, you get what you give with me. So, if you treat me as disposable, I will be leave. If you treat me like an option, I’ll remove myself from the equation. It really is that simple, because I’m not gonna be your ride or die knowing you’re going to jump out of the car before we drive off the cliff.

magika cx cureless

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Magika – Faye
^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

[CX] Ziekling’s Tongue
CURELESS[+] Eirisse Set

pose: Diversion – Faded Poses @ Aenigma