Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Jian, Landscaping, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Loving Myself

Like so many others, I notice people popping in and out of relationships in Second Life and I observe several that seem to endure the test of time. One thing that I notice quite a bit in the failing relationships is betrayal, mental/emotional abuse, and neglect. I can’t help but wonder if these people have children. If they do, would they want their children to behave in such a manner? Would they encourage their children to stay in a toxic relationship? I certainly hope not. I will never understand why people think its okay to treat one another so poorly and better yet, why anyone would accept that type of behavior.
Perhaps I’m too intolerant. Maybe I’m too picky. I know I have trust issues or rather full blown lifelong subscriptions, but there’s no way in hell I’m going to allow someone to be so blatantly abusive or disrespectful towards me. Yes, I do get incredibly lonely at times, but I’d rather work on loving myself than trying to survive a destructive relationship.

peaches serenity mud

ACORN Let It Snow Blocks

.peaches. Emberly Bench – With Blanket @ FaMESHed

GOOSE – couples snowy lantern

JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Stroll
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Graze
JIAN Fallow Fawn Static Bound

MudHoney Chubby Snowman (VIP Group Gift)

Serenity Style– Beau Garden Fountain [WINTER] @ Uber
Serenity Style- Beau Garden Fountain SNOW ADD ON

LB_Conifer.v2{Seasons}
LB_Hill-v1{winter}

*alirium* DwarfForest [Frozen]

hive // fir trees

HPMD* Dirt Road – snowy

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Second Life

Chicken Salad

As shocking as this might be, I have another topic that has nothing to do with the photo.  Let me explain…*laughs*…so I was watching some Netflix and eating a chicken salad sandwich. This was no ordinary  chicken salad sandwich. This was a chicken salad made with poppy-seed dressing, dried cranberries, and pecans on a light flaky croissant. The lights are on, so I can clearly see the red of the cranberries, but one of them was long and made me look a little closer. Whew, that was indeed a cranberry. However, it made me wonder. Raisins and other small dried fruits always look kinda questionable when mixed in with other food…at least to me. I can’t help the way my mind thinks, OK? So, I’m looking at the contents of my sandwich and it hits me, “How do we know that every one of these dried cranberries is a cranberry? What about the poppy-seeds?” I mean,seriously, they could slip roaches into this salad and how many of us would know? Those poppy seeds could be roach eggs! For those of you that don’t eat processed foods, I commend you. You probably never question what you’re eating. I’m starting to wonder if its not time for me to reign it in a bit, myself. I mean…ew! Just ew!

peaches foxwood and more

.peaches. Skyrne Palette Set @ FaMESHed
-.peaches. Skyrne Palette Set – Chair
-.peaches. Skyrne Palette Set – Couch

.peaches. The Queen’s Peace – Incense

Mithral * Vertical Wall Pipe Hanger
Mithral * Hanging Propagation Set

220ML – Bolanos Tequila @ Kinky

ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle

Apple Fall Althea Rug – Antique Light

Con & Dust Bunny . Gracie Living Room – Bag Clutter
dust bunny . darling string light tapestry
dust bunny . storybook living . old backpack
dust bunny . storybook living . researcher’s journal

Elm. Aries Moon Decor (Gold)
Elm. Clarissa Curtain
Elm. Indie Summer Guitar [Wood]

13 Fancy Decor: Napkins

Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small
Foxwood – Hallway – Wall
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large
Foxwood ~ Delilah ~ Spaniel Resting (animated)
Foxwood – Lilly – Puppy Basket

Posted in Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Second Life

Nice Butt

Do you guys have any idea how hard it is for me to blog a bathroom and not make potty jokes? Even the creator, imaginerabbits, added that adorable little frame complimenting your butt. Then last night a friend of mine shared a tweet that read, “My friend once messaged me and said, ‘When you sit on a toilet, you’re connecting your butthole to a city wide network of connected buttholes.’ How do I unthink this?” And in keeping things short, I’m going to leave you with that and see if you can unthink it. I sure can’t. Buttholes Unite!

snapshot_028

ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle
ACORN Shadow Box Butterfly Green

Ariskea[Bougee] Fresh Cotton
Ariskea[Lavende] Lavender Candle
Ariskea[Bougee] Zen Green tea
Ariskea[Amber] Giant Plant Philo [Healthy]
Ariskea[Lavende] Bath Bomb RARE
Ariskea[Lavende] Savon de Lavande[Lavander]
Ariskea[Lavende] Eau de Lavande

dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter

Elm. Grace Rug [White]
Elm. Bathroom Decor Tub Rack White RARE
Elm. Jessa Clawfoot Bathtub [Silver]

Tentacio I haven’t gone to the bathroom

.peaches. Juniper Bathroom Set – FULL Beach @ FaMESHed
.peaches. Fenwin Sidetable – White

Posted in Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

Leisure Time

“This is very important — to take leisure time. Pace is the essence. Without stopping entirely and doing nothing at all for great periods, you’re gonna lose everything…just to do nothing at all, very, very important. And how many people do this in modern society? Very few. That’s why they’re all totally mad, frustrated, angry and hateful.”
― Charles Bukowski

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FD & Commoner: Indio Set @ C88
-FD & Commoner: Indio Wall Art
-FD & Commoner: Indio Candle
-FD & Commoner: Indio Storage Shelf
-FD & Commoner: Indio Accent Chair – adult
-FD & Commoner: Indio Cactus Planter
-FD & Commoner: Indio Floor Lamp
-FD & Commoner: Indio Sofa – white – adult
-FD & Commoner: Indio Rug
-FD & Commoner: Indio Coffee Table
-FD & Commoner: Indio Magazine
-FD & Commoner: Indio Boxes
-FD & Commoner: Indio Pottery A
-FD & Commoner: Indio Hourglass
-FD & Commoner: Indio Pottery B
-FD & Commoner: Indio Basket
-FD & Commoner: Indio Side Table
-FD & Commoner: Indio Books

Dahlia – Babylon Eclectic – Roxanne Cactus – Yellow – 17
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroon Box
Dahlia – Concetta – Closed – Tea Tin – Green
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Bundled Kitty – Brown – 03. RARE
Dahlia – Jardin – Roses in Brown Tin
Dahlia – Sika Affection – Bottles & Pearls – Gold 24

ACORN & Dahlia Tote bag -Brown
ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle

Ariskea[Bougee] Fresh Cotton
Ariskea[Emi] Hedgehog Planter [Blue]
Ariskea [Ophelia] Succulent
Ariskea [Ophelia] Big Plant
Ariskea[Amber] Giant Plant Philo [Healthy]
Ariskea[Bougee] Zen Green tea
Ariskea[ Forsythia ] Paper flower [ Greeny]
Ariskea[Birdy] Little Bee Vase [Ivoire]
Ariskea [Emi] Tulip Blooming [ Peach]
Ariskea[GoldFish]Wonderful Frame
Ariskea [Ophelia] Fake Plant

Foxwood ~ Delilah ~ Spaniel Resting

9. Nutmeg. Dandy Ashtray Bronze
Nutmeg. Winter Brunch Packages

.peaches. Bae’s Journal – Lover

Posted in Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness

Ready For a Nap

It occurred to me while I was creating this scene that I rarely put a TV or computer desk in the bedrooms I set up in Second Life. Yet, in real life, I have both in my bedroom. I can’t even sleep without a television on all night. Apparently, I’ve been like that since I was a baby. My father used to race motorcycles and he was quite good. I would sleep like the baby I was throughout the race with all the motorcycle engines whizzing by, but the moment things got quiet and there were only a handful of engines running I would wake up and burst into tears. Naturally, this horrified my mother, because people would stare and think that the sweet little baby (me) had actually been crying throughout the entire race. *giggles* Welp, I’m going to do my best to remember all of this the next time I put together a bedroom scene, but we’ll see. Looking at this cozy room is making me want to crawl into my own bed and take one of my 6 hour naps.

getting ready for an adventure

scene:
uK – Rollins Bedroom Set (*new* @ Uber)
-uK – Rollins Bed
-uK – Rollins Nightstand
-uK – Rollins Table Lamp

uK – Helena Cabinets and Access (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-uK – Helena Mirror Shelf Trio
-uK – Helena Pink Marble Cabinet
-uK – Helena Candles Platform

*Tentacio*Travel with me. Fat pack (*new* @ Kustom9)
-Travel with me. Memories
-Travel with me. Luggage

Foxwood  – Hanging Plants – Large (*new* @ Kustom9)
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small (*new* @ Kustom9)

06. ACORN Think Pink Camera (*new* @ Arcade)
07. ACORN Think Pink Ashtray (*new* @ Arcade)

3.Sese_Flowers Shop_Box Yellow (*new* @ Arcade)

Soy. One gerbera in cider bottle vase

tres blah– Jolie – Vintage Bottle

Zaara [home] : 12 Attar perfume bottles

MudHoney Pax Stone Tray (*new* @ Arcade)

Dahlia – Vintage Memories – Clock – White

Mutresse-Sitting2-Chubby Puppies (*new* @ Arcade)
Mutresse-Sitting1-Chubby Puppies (*new* @ Arcade)

Posted in Chic Moda, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Second Life, SHADES, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

The Color Pink

I don’t know why the color pink just feels so natural in a bedroom. Even in my real life bedroom, the minute my ex moved out of the bedroom? I started adding pink. Maybe I’m trying to climb back into the womb. Metaphorically, of course. Although, there was this one time that I had painted my room this beautiful salmon pink, because I fell in love with Sara’s bedroom in Sweet November. Shortly there after, my friend Justin came over and I showed him my bedroom. The first thing he said was, “I feel like I just walked into a giant vagina.” Needless to say, I’ve never had pink walls again. Though I didn’t repaint that bedroom. In fact, my friend Matthew had the pleasure of painting over that pink when he took over my lease. *giggles*
However, the luxury of Second Life allows me to have pink walls one day and gray the next. I love being able to change decor and clothing with the click of a few buttons. It still might take me all day to get the job done, but at least I’m not wrestling with paint brushed, pulling my back out with oversized furniture, or wrestling with jeans that have clearly shrunk in the last few months. *look around innocently and hides her candy*

let the light in

SHADES – Anastasia Bed (*new* @ Equal10)

ChicModa // Anti-Valentine’s Pillows // Single AF

Serenity Style-Mardi Gras Masks gacha (*new* @ TLC)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask Medusa 1 (DECOR)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask RARE (DECOR)
-Serenity Style- Mardi Gras Female Mask Medusa 2 (DECOR)

Dahlia – Griffin – Cage – Gold (February Builder’s Box)

Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Blue
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Red

{what next} Rose Vase Decor #1
{what next} Rose Vase Decor #2
{what next} Rose Vase Decor #3

{what next} Heart Picture Frame (gold)

{what next} Emily Jewellery Box – open

.Florix. Vintage Cool – Mirror (*new* @ Equal10)
.Florix. Vintage Cool – Rug (*new* @ Equal10)

{moss&mink} Unicorn Pencilcase – Exclusive VIP Launch Gift
{moss&mink} Unicorn Notebooks – Exclusive VIP Launch Gift
{moss&mink} Floor Cushion
{moss&mink} Unicorn Party – Hanging Stars GIFT
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print GIFT

ChiMia:: Joanne Console [white]
ChiMia:: Pumpkin Spice & Chocolate Macarons

Fapple– Kama Sutra Gacha 03
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 06
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 07
Fapple- Kama Sutra Gacha 11

::{u.f.o}::Swan Lake, Act1 – classic phone pink 1
.: vive nine :. Stacked Boxes w/ Shoes
Bleich – Mesh Blackbird – Pastel Pink
The Loft & Aria – Linen Storage Box
[Cosmic Dust] – FuckBoy Repellent
[Black Bantam] Bengal Kitten
dust bunny . potted sago palm
ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle
Ariskea[ FaMESHedGo ]Triangle Seilling Decor [BBPink] Gift
tarte. globe pendant lights

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Reign, Second Life, shopping, Silence, unKindness, {what next}

Condo Christmas

I am a sucker for skyboxes, but let’s face it, most of us use skyboxes because we don’t need a lot of space. Therefore, its fair to assume that most skyboxes won’t be very big. Although, some of them most certainly are as big if not bigger than some of the most popular houses. However, I tend to believe that most skybox lovers prefer the quaint spaces. Just like real life, decorating small spaces for holidays can often present its own challenges. So what if you don’t have a fireplace, you can hang those stocking from a shelf near a window. If Santa’s fat ass can find his way down a chimney, surely he can use that same magic to get through a window!

Condo Christmas

scene created in Onsu ~ “Ash” Skybox

SHADES – Lawrence Corner (*new* @ Equal10)
SHADES – Lawrence Chair (*new* @ Equal10)
SHADES – Lawrence Sofa

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow
[-BLUE SKY-] Silver Disco Pillow
[-BLUE SKY-] Bow Pillow
Silence. – No Limits
[-BLUE SKY-] White Studs Pillow
[-BLUE SKY-] White Solid Pillow
Silence. – Wake Up

uK – Winter Slumber Runner v1

hive // jolly coffee table chest
Apple Fall Wine Glasses
Apple Fall Apples w/ Ornamental Stand – Ceramic
Apple Fall Argentinian Malbec

Fancy Decor: Faline End Table (white)
ACORN Let It Snow Blocks
REIGN.- BOOKS AND HEELS- # 22
Apple Fall Whisky Decanter

{what next} Nordic Winter Decor Set –
-{what next} White Nordic Print 1
-{what next} White Nordic Print 2
-{what next} White Nordic Print 3
-{what next} Nordic Stocking (White#1)
-{what next} Nordic Stocking (White#2)
-{what next} Nordic Stocking (White#3)

Apple Fall Plaster Horse
Apple Fall Ceramic Chubby Squirrel
Apple Fall Ornamental Elephant – Ceramic

tres blah– Workspace – Print and Books
[ zerkalo ] Hidden Gems – Books
28.erratic / cwe – stack of books 1

Posted in Bueno, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, unKindness, {what next}

Home Office

It’s getting unbelievably cold outside at night, but during the temperatures during day  fluctuate 10-20* from what they are at night. My poor desk is staying cleaner, but I’m getting farther and farther behind. So, today, I’m going to do everything I can to get caught up in SL…yes, this is how I shall spend my Saturday. Hell, I went to bed at 8pm last night with a handful of medication.
I’ve always dreamed of having a beautiful study much like this one. I see photos of other people’s desks on FB and I’m can’t help but wonder how the hell they keep them so clean. It’s definitely something I’m working on. In the meantime, if you’re like me and love office supplies and fun ways to decorate a home office or study area. Give some of the stores listed below a visit. They’ve all got super cute stuff and I’m lacking the words to be all touchy feely and wordy this morning. So, I wish you all a weekend filled with love & laughter & shopping♥

home office

scene created in Myrrine Greenhouse white

uk – Celestial Nook Cabinet & Acces Set
-uK – Celestial Nook Shelf Left White
-uK – Celestial Nook Trunk White
-uK – Celestial Nook Book Set 2
-uK – Celestial Nook Book Set 3
-uK – Celestial Nook Crescent Moon Silver

ACORN Writing Desk Set
-ACORN White Wood Desk
-ACORN White Wood Chair
-ACORN Perfume Art -Pink
-ACORN Perfume Art -Blue
-ACORN Desk Lamp -White/Metal
-ACORN Pencil Case
-ACORN Pencil Stand
-ACORN Letter Holder
-ACORN Vase of Tulips -Apricot
-ACORN Stationary Organiser -Blush
-ACORN World Globe
-ACORN Rug -Ashton

ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle
ACORN Shadow Box Butterfly Green
ACORN & Dahlia Shelly -Suede Cerice

{what next} Wall Hanging Plant #3
{what next} House Plant – Eucalyptus (stand)
{what next} House Plant – Rubber Tree

BUENO– Laptop Blessed

KraftWork 2018 Calendar . Fameshed November Gift 2017

{moss&mink} Dazzle Pumpkin (Cluster)
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print GIFT
{moss&mink} Unicorn Party – Hanging Stars 1 GIFT

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in 7madRaven, Events, Jian, Landscaping, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tannenbaum, Tres Chic

Trees & Thee

We interrupt your regular programming to tell you all about Trees & Thee before time runs out. With only less than 10 days before Santa drops down the chimney, we want to make sure that YOU are ready for the biggest holiday of the year!!!

Whether you want to pick a live tree, cut your own, or have us cut one for you, we know you don’t want one of those plastic fake trees. You want the real deal and we’ve got just the right tree for you! We’ve got Pine, Fir, Spruce and Cedar! Oh, but that’s not all! We’ve got ornaments, decor, and gifts! So, make sure to swing through our gift shop for any last minute gifts. We’ll even help you strap your special tree to the roof of your vehicle. And if you tip well, we will put in a good word with Santa! *winks*

Trees & Thee
C’mon down to Trees & Thee and pick up a tree or three!

The truth is you can get all your Christmas needs at Tannenbaum, but I’m doing a thing here, okay? Thanks!

[Con.] Winter Wagons – Full size Rezzable RARE

Patio Lights Single Pole CHEZ MOI (Nov TresChic)
Christmas Farm Tree Sign CHEZ MOI  (Nov TresChic)

hive // christmas tree farm (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
hive // fir tree set (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

ACORN Santa Stand (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Puppy  (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Reindeer Plushies (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
O.M.E.N Winter Dreams Globe (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

7mad;Ravens – Holiday Set  (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Christmas
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Believe
-7mad;Ravens Pillow/Crate Magic
-7mad;Ravens Red Xmas Candlesticks
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 1
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 2
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 3
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 4
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 5
-7mad;Ravens Xmas Art 6

Kalopsia – Carol’s Christmas Crates
Kalopsia – Carol’s Christmas Garland

JIAN Dove Holiday Banners (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
-JIAN Dove Holiday Banner ( Horizontal )
-JIAN Dove Holiday Banner ( Vertical )

R(S)W Fuzzy Holiday Bear – Boxed (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
R(S)W Christmas Crackers – 6 Pack (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

Dahlia – Finola – Ornament Basket – Assorted Silver 1LI (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Dahlia – Finola – Ornament Basket – Assorted Gold 1LI (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

*HEXtraordinary* Vintage Ceramic Christmas Tree Light – Green (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Culprit Mousie Balloon Music Box (*new* @ Tannenbaum)