Posted in Bad Unicorn, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

You Can’t Tell

You can’t tell what someone has been through in real life just by looking at them. You sure as hell can’t do that in Second Life. Yet, for some reason, people in SL tend to judge one another so much more harshly than they judge others in real life. We scream about body shame, micro aggressions, and other issues in SL. We gather our friends and point fingers, we blast them on social media, but how often do we do that in real life? Do we gather our neighbors to ostracize someone else in the neighborhood? Do we chase down cars leaving stores that have offended us? No, you don’t, I don’t…no one really does. I just don’t understand why being behind a keyboard makes some people so rude. Yes, I understand that there’s a certain degree of anonymity, but to me that’s even more reason to be kind. We have no idea who we are dealing with on the other side. Not really. Even with profiles full of information and clues, we can not tell what someone else is dealing with or what their life has been like or why they choose this virtual existence. I think it is pretty fair to say that everyone has been through a lot this past year. So, let’s go into this next year with more kindness and compassion. Please.

You Can't Tell

hair: DOUX – Ines hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

ears: — PUMEC – / Mesh Ears\ – Dance of evil genius
nails: Tulssy – Abstract Fatpack Coffin

[ILAYA] Ylva Dress and Svea Scarf @ Uber

Serenity Style– Magical Christmas- Cute Fawn RARE @ Tannenbaum

pose: space cadet – fireflies

[Bad Unicorn] Cold World Backdrop – Falling Snow @ FaMESHed

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Rejoice & Celebrate

It’s been a long while since I did a dedicated decor post, but I could not let me avatar overshadow any of the delightful details in this scene. I just couldn’t. I did think of inviting friends to sit around the table, but again…I just couldn’t bring myself to interrupt the flow of this decor. However, with that said, if you’ve ever wanted to put together a dinner party for the holidays…this is surely the year. We need to reach out to one another more than ever, as 2020 has been one swift kick in the arse after another. So, rejoice and celebrate the best you can this season. I know I’m doing my best.♥

Rejoice & Celebrate

HEXtraordinary Sparkling Winter Birch Tree LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Candles [Left] LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Candles [Right] LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Garland LI:7 @ Tannenbaum

01 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Pavilion RARE LI:64 @ Arcade
01 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Snow Add-On LI:8 @ Arcade
02 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Dining Table RARE LI:7 @ Arcade
02 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Table Extension LI:2 @ Arcade
03 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Tartan Chair LI:3 @ Arcade
04 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Linen Chair LI:3 @ Arcade
05 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 1 LI:1 @ Arcade
06 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 2 LI:2 @ Arcade
07 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 3 LI:1 @ Arcade
08 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 4 LI:1 @ Arcade
09 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Dessert Plates LI:1 @ Arcade
10 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Napkin LI:1 @ Arcade
11 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Mini Gift Tray LI:2 @ Arcade
12 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Winter Cake LI:1 @ Arcade
13 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Wreath LI:4 @ Arcade
14 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Persian Rug LI:5 @ Arcade
15 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Finger Food Tray LI:2 @ Arcade
16 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Chandelier LI:2 @ Arcade
17 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Drink Glass LI:1 @ Arcade
17 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Wine Glass LI:1 @ Arcade
18 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Centerpiece LI:6 @ Arcade
19 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Console LI:5 @ Arcade

:::ChicChica::: Pumpkin Pie Dispenser LI:1 @ Tannenbaum

Apple Fall Heritage Christmas Tree – Golden White / Lower LI LI:18

Ariskea[Nutcracker] Nutcraker [Gold] LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

KraftWork Ginger & Cocoa . Red Cocoa Mug LI:1 @ Uber
KraftWork Ginger & Cocoa . White Gingerbread Wreath Stand LI:3 @ Uber

KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Beige Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Green Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Red Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Table Candle & Pine Cones LI:2 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Window & Frame Light LI:5 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Winter Sled Light LI:6 @ The Liaison Collaborative

Refuge – Winter Scene Home (twinkle) LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

[[RH]] XMAS CAKE – Silent Night – LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
[[RH]] XMAS CAKE -Deer- LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

andika[Friandises de Noel]Pavlova/decor-1Li 1 LI:1 @ Tannenbaum

dust bunny . harvest feast . cranberry punch pitcher LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . cranberry sauce .fullset exclusive LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . gravy boat LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . green beans LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . mashed potatoes LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . sweet potato casserole LI:1

Posted in Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Drunk on Christmas…just like Grace!

This song made think of my friend, Grace….she jokes about drinking in order to put up with her family. Now let’s hope she doesn’t kill me for this…LOL

Christmas is a time, a special time of year
With peace and joy and happiness and, wonderment and cheer
Opening your presents underneath the tree
And spending countless hours with your family

That’s why I’m drinking drinking drinking
I’m gonna drink all day
I’m coming home for Christmas and my family’s insane
Just got to make it through the day
And there’s no other way
I’m gonna get drunk, drunk, drunk on Christmas

Drunk on Christmas...just like Grace!

hair: Tableau Vivant // Puffy hair @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA @ Kustom9

.::Supernatural::. Kinsley Necklace @ Tannenbaum
SPIRIT – Widow top @ Uber
SPIRIT – Widow skirt @ Uber

[Fetch] Holiday Treats – Vodka RARE @ Arcade

pose: Lyrium. Elise Static & Breathing + Fingers Series @ Dubai

hive // modern farmhouse kitchen

DISORDERLY. / Bundt Xmas / Candycane @ Tannenbaum

[Cinoe] Mannish Danishes @ Arcade

Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Letters – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Herborist Book – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Coffee – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Wooden Doll – COMMON @ Arcade

Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Machine
Fancy Decor: Satie Milk Frother
Fancy Decor: Satie Cream & Sugar
Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Pods



Posted in Collabor88, Dubai, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, skin, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

NOW, I’m ready!

Ok, I’ve stuffed myself with food the way you stuff a plushie at Build-a-Bear! Now, I’m ready for Christmas. No, I don’t mean the dinner, I mean the decorations. I think the delicious food makes me so complacent that I can embrace my belly and laugh right along with jolly ol’ Santa!!! In fact, I might just waddle around behind him and embrace feeling small in his shadow. *laughs* Seriously though, its always been a tradition at my house to decorate for Christmas the day after Thanksgiving.
I’ve never been one to decorate every room in the house. I keep the decor in the living room and dining room, maybe a little ceramic tree in the guest bathroom provided there’s room. Once upon a time, I did the whole yard and lights on the building, but I’m too old and lazy to be climbing on ladders nowadays. Okay, mostly scared and lazy, ok? I’m not the most graceful person on the planet.

NOW, I'm ready!

hair: Doe: Winterberry @ Tannenbaum
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA @ Kustom9

Just BECAUSE Sady Sweater @ Uber
KITJA – Mona Jeans NAVY @ Kustom9
[BREATHE]-Misaku Heels @ C88

pose: Lyrium. Coral Static & Breathing + Fingers Series @ Dubai

scene:
dust bunny . christmas tree RARE

BALACLAVA!! Christmas Village Decor @ Tannenbaum

MH Holly Pillows @ Tannenbaum

Atelier Burgundy . Greetings Card Clutter @ Tannenbaum

Pitaya – Natural Gift Boxes @ Tannenbaum

Foxwood – Winter Pugs @ Tannenbaum

+Half-Deer+ Vintage Deer Figurines @ Tannenbaum

Sese – Advent Calendar @ Tannenbaum

Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

All I want for Christmas

I don’t want a lot for Christmas
There is just one thing I need
I don’t care about the presents
Underneath the Christmas tree
I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true oh
All I want for Christmas is you

All I want for Christmas

hair: [^.^Ayashi^.^] Hiromi set @ Tannenbaum
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM @ Kustom9

Ama. : Festive Kitty Collar @ Tannenbaum
CK Sugar kitty christmas white @ Tannenbaum
[ CONSENT ] Apple Set @ Uber
[BREATHE]-Mizoko Heels @ Uber

pose: Amitie Xmas Wreath @ Uber

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Chic Moda, Kustom9, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, [BREATHE]

A Long Week

So this is the same outfit I wore in my previous post, It’s Tannenbaum Time, but I changed the colors to a less festive theme. *laughs* Y’all know I couldn’t get out of that green & red fast enough, right? This is why fatpack is my favorite color! I’ll keep this one short & sweet…its going to be a long week! There’s going to be a lot of sales out there this week in both worlds, so please stay safe and Happy Shopping♥

A Long Week

hair: Exile – Gia @ Tannenbaum
LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
[LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2.1)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA @ Kustom9

[ kunst ] – Old Cigarette Holder
ChicModa // Keileigh Sweater Dress
[BREATHE]-Mitari Heels @ Black Fair

[Rezz Room] German Shepherd Puppy

Diversion – Wine O’Clock Poses @ Access

MINIMAL – Brooklyn Building

{vespertine} – trailing succulent.
Loft& Aria – Somerset Patio Chair With Pillow – White
tarte. ivy chevron trellis (natural)
..::THOR::.. Standing Ashtray [T]
dust bunny . hanging plants . cheese plant
{vespertine} – monkey mask vine monstera.
Apple Fall Handbag & Scarf
Soy. Super long Hanging Hedera
dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter


Posted in Prism Events

It’s Tannenbaum Time

It’s Tannenbaum Time and there are few things on the grid to get you in the Christmas spirit, like Tannenbaum by Prism Events! Today, I’m only listing the three items that are most prevalent in this photo. My attire will be listed in a future post to better showcase what I’m actually wearing. The main reason I put Mace and myself in the photo was to show off one of the poses in the sled. This sled is so beautifully detailed and pairs so well with this new Wanderlust Cottage by Hisa, that you are sure to see them featured together quite a bit. Of course, I couldn’t resist showing of the adorable Winter Pug by Foxwood, there are several in the pack so I highly recommend grabbing these. I have so many more items to share with you from the event, but these three should be enough to give you that little nudge. Head on over to the event and enjoy the festivities.♥

It's Tannenbaum Time

HISA – Wanderlust Cottage – Winter edition @ Tannenbaum

22769 – Santas Sled @ Tannenbaum

Foxwood – Winter Pug – Hold bow @ Tannenbaum

Posted in Animals, Bloom, breathe, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Legacy, Lelutka, Prism Events, Second Life, Uber SL, [BREATHE], {le fil casse}

Staying Home

Staying home is not a new concept for me and my day to day life hasn’t changed much because of all this. However, I realize this is quite a struggle for some and that many people get extremely bored during this time. I wish I could share all the wonderful ideas for things to do at all…alone, but there’s not really not enough time, nor does anyone really want to read a list of stay home ideas from an sl blogger. I do, however, hope that you’re all doing your part to flatten the curve. For many areas of the world its only going to get worse before it gets better. So, count your blessings that you have a home to stay in and pray for those that don’t. The world is a scary place these days and we all need to do our part…now more than ever.

doux lfc breathe rr kw lyrium

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Stealthic – Penance
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

.::Nanika::.Star Collar
{le fil casse} Lizzy Dress
[BREATHE]-Mihoka Heels @ Uber

[Rezz Room] English Bulldog Adult Sleep

Lyrium. Through Glass Stands Poses @ Equal10

Lyrium. Through Glass Dusk 1 – Light Windlights @ Equal10

andika[Spring Sweets Dispenser Set]apricot pancake/1Li @ Bloom (ends on April 4th)
andika[Spring Sweets Dispenser Set]Cafe Latte/1Li 1 @ Bloom (ends on April 4th)

dust bunny . hanging plants . double planter

KraftWork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter @ Uber
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Hanging Ivy
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Corner Unit White Clean
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Folded Cloth
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Sea Shell Decor
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Fern Basket
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Photo Frame
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Greenery Book Set
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Sunflower Cup
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Sunflower Book Set
-Kraftwork Kess Corner Unit & Clutter . Roses Vase

 

Posted in Bloom, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, Landscaping, Prism Events, Second Life

Hold Fast

“Hold fast to dreams,
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird,
That cannot fly.”
― Langston Hughes

lagom kraftwork anc

{anc} dandelion fluff “daytime” @ Kustom9

-Garden- by anc dandelion @ Bloom

Lagom – Petalrain [ Pink ] @ Bloom
(also comes in blue, green, purple, red, and yellow)

KraftWork Garden Guardian Fountain . Stone @ Bloom
(also comes in Bronze and Marble)

Posted in Animals, Bloom, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, N21, Prism Events, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

Rearranging

Okay, so the whole social distancing thing is something I’ve been practicing for many years. However, during this time, I have decided that its time for me to rearrange my furniture. My bedroom in rl is rather odd, so there’s really only two walls my bed can be on, but its been on the wall between my windows for years. It’s time to sling it around to the other wall, plus I’ve taken this time to do some spring cleaning…getting rid of things and acquiring new things. *giggles* It’s called recycling! Wait…no, I guess its more like replacing…DON’T JUDGE ME! Anyway, I thought that rearranging furniture would be a great activity for people in RL during this time of rearranging our lives.

refuge nutmeg disorderly tarte

[Rezz Room] Rabbit Arctic Animesh (Companion) RARE

Mithral * Geo Pipe Hanger (Copper) @ Bloom

DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse @ Belle
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Teapot
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Frame
DISORDERLY. / Spring Farmhouse / Books

dust bunny . pilea peper plant

MudHoney Photo Room 5

Nutmeg. Bucolic Set @ Shiny Shabby
Nutmeg. Bucolic Serving Bowl / 1
Nutmeg. Bucolic Console Table

Nutmeg. Disarray Chair w/Plaid White

tarte. hanging plants @ kustom9
tarte. hanging trailing jade plant
tarte. hanging marble pothos plant
tarte. hanging spider plant

tarte. ivy chevron trellis (natural) @ N21

Refuge – Vintage Spring Gacha @ Bloom
Refuge – Vintage Spring Bunny Statue
Refuge – Vintage Spring Egg Basket
Refuge – Vintage Spring Bird Toy
Refuge – Vintage Spring Crystal Lamp
Refuge – Vintage Spring Dresser RARE
Refuge – Vintage Spring Flower
Refuge – Vintage Spring Book Stack

Schadenfreude Daisies in a Teacup, saucer @ Bloom