Posted in Catwa, Cynful, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Lybra, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Pixel Prom 2020

Pixel Prom has been a thing for many years in Second Life, but this was my first prom ever. No, I’m not a Euro that’s never had an opportunity to go to prom. I’m in the U.S. I had dates for three out of four proms, but I managed to weasel my way out of all of them except one and technically that was not a prom it was a Military ball and it was the only introduction I needed to formal dresses for me to know that was NOT for me. In fact, I hated that dress and the dance soooo much that I called a friend of mine to come take my place so I could go home and get that god forsaken dress off my body. No, our date did not mind, he was lucky to have a date! She was all about formals so she was more than happy to take my place. *shudders* I will never understand the appeal of those fluffy restrictive dresses. Nope, those are NOT for me. With that said, I was fortunate enough in Second Life to not only have a date, but to find something more suitable to my taste. Chris loved my outfit, so that was all the approval I needed.
Now, I will say this…the actual dance was quite lovely…well, until Chris had to go to bed. Then I was mostly missing him and felt restricted once again by the gown length apparel. Let’s face it, twerking in a gown….doesn’t look great. Ah well, it was an amazing night, even if I had to dress up fancy. I had the most handsome date, too. So, that certainly didn’t hurt. *winks*

pixel prom 2020

Sady is wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Sins hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

Cynful Diamond – Bracelets
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust
(Yummy) Theia Ring Set @ Uber
LYBRA . TRISHA TOP CRIMINAL @ FaMESHed
LYBRA . TRISHA SKIRT CRIMINAL @ FaMESHed

Chris is wearing:
hair: Dura-B95-HAIR
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: [Signature] Gianni

**RE** Elegance Rings
Imagine Moda– Lokman tuxedo

pose: BellePoses – Couple 101 @ Kinky

 

 

Posted in breathe, FaMESHed, Legacy, Lelutka, Lybra, Second Life, shoes, shopping

They Don’t Know

Pretty boys, they didn’t teach me things I didn’t know
They don’t have the thing that I need, but they don’t know they don’t
You got that old thing about ya, and I can’t hide my feels
Pretty girls, they always die out, need another sex appeal
I said come on, zero fucks about it
Come on, I know I’m gonna get hurt
Come on, zero fucks about it
Come on

tableau asteroid box breathe

Sady is wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Starry Night \\ Windy
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe @ Uber

AsteroidBox. Nadia Bodysuit  @ FaMESHed X
[BREATHE]-Soyomi Heels RARE @ Epiphany

LYBRA . Picture me! @ FaMESHed X

Posted in Lelutka, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, Uber SL

Delicate or Depraved?

Would you look at that? I found a way to make a happy, positive picture. I almost look like a Disney princess. I said ALMOST! Don’t get carried away. Y’all know I don’t do Disney or the princess thing. However, I do love hydrangas and I love this pose from Luane’s World. I felt it was the perfect way to show off this sexy silky number from Lybra. So say what you want about how pretty and delicate this photo is, you gotta know that under this pink silk lies the soul of something dark and depraved. *grins*

stealthic lybra lw

Sady is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Intrepid
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber
DAPPA – Evie Tattoo.

LYBRA . JESSIE @ Uber

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – Where Flowers Bloom @ Belle

Posted in DOUX, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, GenusProject, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Tres Chic, vinyl

Slow Down

As I was driving home from therapy, I got behind a navy and silver SUV. I was thinking how great the colors looked together and why there aren’t more two tones cars. Eventually, I realized that it was a State Trooper. So glad I wasn’t tailgating. HA! So, as we’re traveling along the same road, I come upon my exit, or rather on ramp, and the trooper wants over. I motion for her/him to come on over and s/he does. We circle around the ramp and approach the interstate. Just as we get to the spot where its time for us to merge into the other lanes, this little silver sedan goes flying by at top speed. I thought to myself immediately, “Bad timing, Dude.” The trooper and I both merge rather effortlessly. I hold back from my usual shot forward, because I ain’t trying to catch a ticket. Low and behold, the trooper shot forward. At first, I thought s/he was just bolting forward because s/he can. Then I saw it. The lights started flashing and as I got closer, s/he had indeed chased down the silver sedan and was pulling it over.
In that moment, I couldn’t help but think how much a single minute in our lives can make a difference. If the silver sedan had been one minute behind us, maybe…. If the trooper had been one minute faster…if I had been one minute faster or slower, would I have been the one getting the ticket? Naturally that made me think of how fast things move in Second Life. I don’t move as quickly as most and I suppose that’s why I have remained single all this time. I know what I like. I know what I don’t like. I know myself well enough to know whether or not I’m going to be romantically compatible with people fairly quickly. I think I tend to move a bit quickly with friendships and trust friends more than I should, but I’m not ready to change either of those things about myself. Not just yet, but I think we could all benefit by take a moment to slow down. The internet isn’t going anywhere. Second Life isn’t a race and collecting partners is not the goal. I think its more important to share love and laughter as often as possible…and THAT is what I’m all about.

lybra vinyl belle

wearing:
hair: DOUX – Melanie hairstyle @ TresChic
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face
AG. Lustrous Eyes – Cornflower
skin: DeeTaleZ Skin *Kacee* for GENUS HEADS
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Tattoo “Rise of Quetzalcoatl”_by GoK

*LODE* Head Accessory – Fuchsia [white]
KUNGLERS – Tainara necklace @ Belle
[ rD ] – Kalista Belly Chain Piercing @ Belle
Ascendant – Pretty Holographic Nails @ Belle
LYBRA . STELLA FATPACK @ FaMESHed
VINYL – Myself Boho Skirt @ Access

pose: :LW: Bento Poses – One More Try @ The Liaison Collaborative

location: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Aphorism, Events, FaMESHed, GenusProject, Lybra, Maitreya, Pose Fair, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Deck the halls

Well, Hi there! Don’t mind me, I’m just putting ornaments back on the tree…perhaps a little higher than they were before. Why? Oh, you must not have cats. Anyone that owns a cat knows why…*laughs* So goes the life of a cat lover during the holidays! Deck the halls with lost ornaments from the tree…falalalala la la laaaa…ouch, was that broken glass? OMG! Where is that soon to be dead cat?

aphorism and lybra

hair:  Wasabi // Deva Mesh Hair @ Uber
Tableau Vivant \\ Genus Hairbase 04
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
WarPaint* Soiree eyeshadow – set 1 @ Uber
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body

Ascendant – Dripping Chrome Nails @ FaMESHed X
!APHORISM! – Julie Sweater Bloggers @ FaMESHed
LYBRA . CUTIEPIE STOCKINGS

pose: Diversion – Holiday Spirit Poses @ Pose Fair

dust bunny . christmas tree RARE

Posted in DOUX, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

Impossible to trust

When you make promises and break them, you are impossible to trust. It doesn’t matter whether its a personal or professional promise…if you say you’re going to do something and never say otherwise…then you don’t do it? You ruin any chances of me ever trusting you again. And word will get out that you’ve broken those promises. You think that the people you’ve hurt will never speak up? You’re wrong. We do speak up and we speak to each other. Don’t ever think that you’re so special or important or successful that you can just walk on people without consequences. Trust me, there is a karma out there waiting for you and you will NOT like it. There will come a time when you depend on someone and they are going to leave you hanging just like you left those whose hearts were broken right along with the promises you broke. You will sit there wondering why people treat you this way or that way, but deep down…you know damn well why. Good people do not just walk away from their responsibilities, their obligations, their commitments. They simply don’t…and I don’t care what you believe in, you best believe that all that nasty wasted energy you created with your lies will come back to you and it will not come with a warning. Your day will come and we will be watching.

kunglers lybra belle

hair:  DOUX –  Evangeline hairstyle
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

*LODE* Head Accessory – Begonia [orange] RARE @ Shiny Shabby
KUNGLERS – Miray necklace @ Belle
LYBRA . OCTOBER @ Belle

pose: Diversion – Wicked Beauty Poses @ Belle
location: Author’s Point

 

Posted in Catwa, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Change the heart

“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn’t change the heart of others– it only changes yours.”
― Shannon Alder

doux lybra

hair: DOUX – Santana @ TresChic
head: CATWA HEAD Catya v4.0
ears: ^^Swallow ^^ Crusties Preset
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria Applier [ Catwa ]
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

[CX] Bento Piercing Labret Ring
[CX] Bento Piercing Snakebites

LYBRA . MIKA SET @ Uber

pose: FOXCITY. Legs for Days Bento Pose Set

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Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Just like a flower

Just imagine becoming the way you used to be as a very young child, before you understood the meaning of any word, before opinions took over your mind. The real you is loving, joyful, and free. The real you is just like a flower, just like the wind, just like the ocean, just like the sun. ~Don Miguel Ruiz

lybra belle kunst uber

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alexa @ Uber

Exile – Nadia @ Hair Fair
*LODE* Head Accessory – Peony Poem Wreath [white]
[ kunst ] – Eden Set (earrings & necklace) @ Uber
(Yummy) Lepidopterist Ring Set @ Uber
LYBRA . SANDY SET @ Belle

:LW: Bento poses – South Of The Border
NOMAD // Classic Peonies

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Gos, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

A Cryptic Message

“There might have been a time
I would give myself away
(Ooh) Once upon a time
I didn’t give a damn
But now here we are
So what do you want from me
What do you want from me
Just don’t give up
I’m workin’ it out
Please don’t give in
I won’t let you down
It messed me up, need a second to breathe
Just keep coming around
Hey, what do you want from me
What do you want from me
Yeah, it’s plain to see
that baby you’re beautiful
And there’s nothing wrong with you
It’s me ‘ I’m a freak
but thanks for lovin’ me
‘Cause you’re doing it perfectly
There might have been a time
When I would let you step away
I wouldn’t even try but I think
you could save my life”

bueno lybra gos

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Abby @ Belle

DOUX – Artemis hairstyle
BUENO-Cosmos Choker @ Collabor88
LYBRA . NALA SET @ FaMESHed
[Gos] Emelie Sandals @ Uber

FOXCITY. Observe Bento Pose Set

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life

I need a condom for my heart

Anytime I see condoms tucked into clothing, be it underwear or thigh high boots, I think of Pretty Woman, when Julia Roberts pulls out the assortment of condoms and proclaims that she’s a safety girl. So, condoms protect our genitals from most things…too bad there’s not a condom for our hearts. It would be nice to trust what’s in front of you without getting slapped in the face with a brick wall of pain only days into dating someone, right? I mean, I personally think that I’m pretty guarded. I’ve been successfully single now for two years. I open myself up to the possibility of something good for a few days and where did it get me? You guessed it…slapped in the face with the harsh realities of this cruel grid. I’m reminded once again that I’m not good enough. You’d think by now, I’d get it…and for the past two years I did. Technically, I haven’t broken that stride, because anything that doesn’t last more than a week does not make a relationship. It simply makes one vulnerable enough to get hurt. Thanks, Life, you did it again.
Please don’t comment with some hippy dippy love shit about how I’m worthy, blah blah blah…I truly appreciate the efforts, but they are wasted on me. My life has more than proven that I’m not those lovely things that make one a lovable partner. Lucky for me, I make a great friend and I also have some pretty epic ones. So, all is not lost. ♥

feeling the sun

Basics:
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
SU!– Piercing Set 06
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria @ Kustom9

hair: TRUTH Alias
Dahlia – Camilla – Collar @ FaMESHed X
amias – NADIA gloves 1
LYBRA . ROSY @ FaMESHed X
Mug – April Thong @ FaMESHed X

pose by Double Take