Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, [BREATHE]

I can and I will

Well, this year isn’t over yet and its just gonna keep dumping on some of us right until the bitter end. I just want to crawl into a hole and hide sometimes. Not just from this year, but from the world in general. There’s just so much happening around me and its a bit overwhelming. The diabetes thing is sooooo hard this late in life. I’m a creature of habit. Granted most of my habits are not good ones. Don’t you judge me! *winks* I guess for once in my life I am making resolutions, but not because I really want to. I have to! Time to work on that vision board, I reckon. *laughs* Y’all forget that I really am a Southern girl at heart. I’m doing my best to not get too stressed over all of this. Lots and lots of people live with diabetes and I will, too! I can do this. I will do this!

I can and I will

hair: Stealthic – Always
head: LeLUTKA Lily Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

Kibitz – Rainne’s necklace @ Equal10

Apl.Blossom Viviana @ TLC
[BREATHE]-Tamari Heels @ C88

pose: Diversion – Santa Baby Poses @ Access

location: Burrow Co.

Posted in Animals, Apple Fall, Chic Moda, Collabor88, Cosmetics, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative

If the dog allows it

It never snows in LA
You’d never know it was a holiday
I don’t believe that Jesus Christ was born to save me
That’s an awful lot of pressure for a baby
But here we are again, with family or friends
Some extra time to spend and I’m not mad about it
Don’t waste a dime on me, just want your company
Beside a Christmas tree, if the dog allows it
Finneas – Another Year

If the dog allows it

hair: [monso] Yaska Hair @ C88
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM
ears: — PUMEC – / Mesh Ears\ – Dance of evil genius

cat ears, eyes, eyeshadow, & lipstick: — PUMEC – MURKA – BEAUTY SET (LELUTKA) @ Santa Inc
Tulssy – Abstract Fatpack Coffin
(Yummy) Eliza Ring Collection @ C88

AvaWay LETTER Necklaces @ FaMESHed
ChicModa // Fiona Top & Pants

[Rezz Room] European Cat Adult Reindeer Animesh @ Santa Inc

pose: Diversion – Holiday Chill Poses @ The Liaison Collaborative

scene:
Architect. Kronos Fireplace

Apple Fall Happy Santa Figure (Icy)

ACORN Let It Snow Blocks



Posted in Bad Unicorn, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

You Can’t Tell

You can’t tell what someone has been through in real life just by looking at them. You sure as hell can’t do that in Second Life. Yet, for some reason, people in SL tend to judge one another so much more harshly than they judge others in real life. We scream about body shame, micro aggressions, and other issues in SL. We gather our friends and point fingers, we blast them on social media, but how often do we do that in real life? Do we gather our neighbors to ostracize someone else in the neighborhood? Do we chase down cars leaving stores that have offended us? No, you don’t, I don’t…no one really does. I just don’t understand why being behind a keyboard makes some people so rude. Yes, I understand that there’s a certain degree of anonymity, but to me that’s even more reason to be kind. We have no idea who we are dealing with on the other side. Not really. Even with profiles full of information and clues, we can not tell what someone else is dealing with or what their life has been like or why they choose this virtual existence. I think it is pretty fair to say that everyone has been through a lot this past year. So, let’s go into this next year with more kindness and compassion. Please.

You Can't Tell

hair: DOUX – Ines hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

ears: — PUMEC – / Mesh Ears\ – Dance of evil genius
nails: Tulssy – Abstract Fatpack Coffin

[ILAYA] Ylva Dress and Svea Scarf @ Uber

Serenity Style– Magical Christmas- Cute Fawn RARE @ Tannenbaum

pose: space cadet – fireflies

[Bad Unicorn] Cold World Backdrop – Falling Snow @ FaMESHed

Posted in Animals, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Worthy of Gratitude

This past year is definitely one for the history books. I could easily tear it all down and rant about all the wretched events that have occurred. I’d rather count the blessings and rejoice in the lessons. We all know what we’ve lost and there’s nothing to gain by focusing on our losses. We need to regroup and gather all that hope we had at the beginning of this year. We need to take that hope and truly visualize a better year for all of us. We have to let go of the hate, the sorrow, and the misery and move forwards with love, joy, and faith.
It’s time for us to appreciate the people that uplift us. It’s time to reach out to those less fortunate. It’s time for us to embrace the lives we still get to live. It would be so easy for me to focus on my limitations and the restrictions in my life. Instead, I choose to embrace the freedoms and abilities that I often take for granted. Ok, I can’t be on my feet for more than ten minutes without experiencing some pretty intense pain, but I CAN be on my feet for ten minutes! I can walk from one room to the next. I can walk to my car. I have rooms. I have a car. Those are blessings. I appreciate them so much. I have haters that want to post lies about me. I also, have some of the most wonderful friends I could have ever hoped for in my life.
So, that’s it. In looking at the yuck this year has delivered….if I dig deep enough, I also find some pretty awesome advantages. If you take a good look at your own life, I bet you’ll find some remarkable things worthy of gratitude, too.

Worthy of Gratitude

hair: Stealthic – Fixated
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

AvaWay LETTER Necklaces @ FaMESHed
Seniha. Alison Dress @ FaMESHed
Seniha. Alison Boots @ FaMESHed

[Rezz Room] European Cat Adult Santa Animesh @ Santa Inc

pose: space cadet – pack 12 @ Harajuku

[Bad Unicorn] Cold World Backdrop @ FaMESHed

Sese – Christmas Tree Farm @ Arcade
-22.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Tree Wrapper
-5.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Fence Tree
-23.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Tree+Ornaments
-14.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Snow Tree Lights
-2.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Fence Cage
-10.Sese – Christmas Tree Farm – Tree Grove

Posted in Apple Fall, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Rejoice & Celebrate

It’s been a long while since I did a dedicated decor post, but I could not let me avatar overshadow any of the delightful details in this scene. I just couldn’t. I did think of inviting friends to sit around the table, but again…I just couldn’t bring myself to interrupt the flow of this decor. However, with that said, if you’ve ever wanted to put together a dinner party for the holidays…this is surely the year. We need to reach out to one another more than ever, as 2020 has been one swift kick in the arse after another. So, rejoice and celebrate the best you can this season. I know I’m doing my best.♥

Rejoice & Celebrate

HEXtraordinary Sparkling Winter Birch Tree LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Candles [Left] LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Candles [Right] LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
.random.Matter. – By the Fireside – Garland LI:7 @ Tannenbaum

01 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Pavilion RARE LI:64 @ Arcade
01 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Snow Add-On LI:8 @ Arcade
02 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Dining Table RARE LI:7 @ Arcade
02 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Table Extension LI:2 @ Arcade
03 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Tartan Chair LI:3 @ Arcade
04 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Linen Chair LI:3 @ Arcade
05 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 1 LI:1 @ Arcade
06 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 2 LI:2 @ Arcade
07 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 3 LI:1 @ Arcade
08 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Place Setting 4 LI:1 @ Arcade
09 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Dessert Plates LI:1 @ Arcade
10 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Napkin LI:1 @ Arcade
11 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Mini Gift Tray LI:2 @ Arcade
12 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Winter Cake LI:1 @ Arcade
13 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Wreath LI:4 @ Arcade
14 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Persian Rug LI:5 @ Arcade
15 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Finger Food Tray LI:2 @ Arcade
16 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Chandelier LI:2 @ Arcade
17 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Drink Glass LI:1 @ Arcade
17 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Wine Glass LI:1 @ Arcade
18 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Centerpiece LI:6 @ Arcade
19 Fancy Decor + KraftWork Fete d’hiver: Console LI:5 @ Arcade

:::ChicChica::: Pumpkin Pie Dispenser LI:1 @ Tannenbaum

Apple Fall Heritage Christmas Tree – Golden White / Lower LI LI:18

Ariskea[Nutcracker] Nutcraker [Gold] LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

KraftWork Ginger & Cocoa . Red Cocoa Mug LI:1 @ Uber
KraftWork Ginger & Cocoa . White Gingerbread Wreath Stand LI:3 @ Uber

KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Beige Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Green Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Gift Box Red Bow LI:1 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Table Candle & Pine Cones LI:2 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Window & Frame Light LI:5 @ The Liaison Collaborative
KraftWork Rustic Winter . Winter Sled Light LI:6 @ The Liaison Collaborative

Refuge – Winter Scene Home (twinkle) LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

[[RH]] XMAS CAKE – Silent Night – LI:2 @ Tannenbaum
[[RH]] XMAS CAKE -Deer- LI:3 @ Tannenbaum

andika[Friandises de Noel]Pavlova/decor-1Li 1 LI:1 @ Tannenbaum

dust bunny . harvest feast . cranberry punch pitcher LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . cranberry sauce .fullset exclusive LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . gravy boat LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . green beans LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . mashed potatoes LI:1
dust bunny . harvest feast . sweet potato casserole LI:1

Posted in Bueno, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

Tunnel Vision

We are told over and over again as adults to not settle. As a result we create these lists of things we want from our jobs, our lovers, our homes, our children, and so on. We stay so steadfast on the track of not settling that we rarely open our eyes to possibilities along the way, because sometimes our list, our visual picture of what we want is so specific that we develop tunnel vision. It’s easy to forget that what we wanted when we made that list may have changed over time. Just think how many times you got what you thought you wanted and it was a major disappointment. Sometimes the things we want aren’t actually good for us and what we really need is sitting right in front of us the entire time. I just think it’s important that we don’t lock ourselves down to ideas we created long ago that really might not even work with our current lives. Just something to think about as we approach a new year.

Tunnel Vision

hair: DOUX – Sixty Nine hairstyle @ Level
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM @ Kustom9

.::Supernatural::. Ebe Necklace
BUENO-Jaime Jacket @ UBER
ROULY :: Panic Distressed Jeans
[BREATHE]-Mitsuto Wedges @ Arcade

pose: CORPUS – Random Series S4

Serenity Style-La vita e bella patio fountain

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, shopping

White Christmas

I’m dreaming of a white Christmas
Just like the ones I used to know
Where the tree tops glisten
And children listen
To hear sleigh bells in the snow, the snow

White Christmas

hair: TRUTH / Serenity
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM @ Kustom9

FAKEICON / mary gems collar
FAKEICON / glace hand gems
T.Whore – Sexy Fur Stole White MESH (no longer avail)
Apl,Blossom Katalina II @ Dubai

pose: FOXCITY. Good Morning Bento Set

Posted in Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Drunk on Christmas…just like Grace!

This song made think of my friend, Grace….she jokes about drinking in order to put up with her family. Now let’s hope she doesn’t kill me for this…LOL

Christmas is a time, a special time of year
With peace and joy and happiness and, wonderment and cheer
Opening your presents underneath the tree
And spending countless hours with your family

That’s why I’m drinking drinking drinking
I’m gonna drink all day
I’m coming home for Christmas and my family’s insane
Just got to make it through the day
And there’s no other way
I’m gonna get drunk, drunk, drunk on Christmas

Drunk on Christmas...just like Grace!

hair: Tableau Vivant // Puffy hair @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA @ Kustom9

.::Supernatural::. Kinsley Necklace @ Tannenbaum
SPIRIT – Widow top @ Uber
SPIRIT – Widow skirt @ Uber

[Fetch] Holiday Treats – Vodka RARE @ Arcade

pose: Lyrium. Elise Static & Breathing + Fingers Series @ Dubai

hive // modern farmhouse kitchen

DISORDERLY. / Bundt Xmas / Candycane @ Tannenbaum

[Cinoe] Mannish Danishes @ Arcade

Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Letters – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Herborist Book – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Coffee – COMMON @ Arcade
Wednesday[+] ~ December Magic ~ Wooden Doll – COMMON @ Arcade

Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Machine
Fancy Decor: Satie Milk Frother
Fancy Decor: Satie Cream & Sugar
Fancy Decor: Satie Coffee Pods



Posted in Collabor88, Dubai, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shoes, shopping, skin, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

NOW, I’m ready!

Ok, I’ve stuffed myself with food the way you stuff a plushie at Build-a-Bear! Now, I’m ready for Christmas. No, I don’t mean the dinner, I mean the decorations. I think the delicious food makes me so complacent that I can embrace my belly and laugh right along with jolly ol’ Santa!!! In fact, I might just waddle around behind him and embrace feeling small in his shadow. *laughs* Seriously though, its always been a tradition at my house to decorate for Christmas the day after Thanksgiving.
I’ve never been one to decorate every room in the house. I keep the decor in the living room and dining room, maybe a little ceramic tree in the guest bathroom provided there’s room. Once upon a time, I did the whole yard and lights on the building, but I’m too old and lazy to be climbing on ladders nowadays. Okay, mostly scared and lazy, ok? I’m not the most graceful person on the planet.

NOW, I'm ready!

hair: Doe: Winterberry @ Tannenbaum
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA @ Kustom9

Just BECAUSE Sady Sweater @ Uber
KITJA – Mona Jeans NAVY @ Kustom9
[BREATHE]-Misaku Heels @ C88

pose: Lyrium. Coral Static & Breathing + Fingers Series @ Dubai

scene:
dust bunny . christmas tree RARE

BALACLAVA!! Christmas Village Decor @ Tannenbaum

MH Holly Pillows @ Tannenbaum

Atelier Burgundy . Greetings Card Clutter @ Tannenbaum

Pitaya – Natural Gift Boxes @ Tannenbaum

Foxwood – Winter Pugs @ Tannenbaum

+Half-Deer+ Vintage Deer Figurines @ Tannenbaum

Sese – Advent Calendar @ Tannenbaum

Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

All I want for Christmas

I don’t want a lot for Christmas
There is just one thing I need
I don’t care about the presents
Underneath the Christmas tree
I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true oh
All I want for Christmas is you

All I want for Christmas

hair: [^.^Ayashi^.^] Hiromi set @ Tannenbaum
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM @ Kustom9

Ama. : Festive Kitty Collar @ Tannenbaum
CK Sugar kitty christmas white @ Tannenbaum
[ CONSENT ] Apple Set @ Uber
[BREATHE]-Mizoko Heels @ Uber

pose: Amitie Xmas Wreath @ Uber