Posted in Animals, Bad Unicorn, Bueno, Collabor88, Cynful, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Legacy, Lelutka, [BREATHE]

But I keep cruising

I never miss a beat
I’m lightning on my feet
And that’s what they don’t see, mm, mm
That’s what they don’t see, mm, mm
I’m dancing on my own (Dancing on my own)
I make the moves up as I go (Moves up as I go)
And that’s what they don’t know, mm, mm
That’s what they don’t know, mm, mm
But I keep cruising
Can’t stop, won’t stop grooving
It’s like I got this music in my mind
Saying it’s gonna be alright’
Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play
And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
Baby, I’m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off (Whoo-hoo-hoo)

But I keep cruising

hair: DOUX – Vanilla hairstyle @ Uber
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: PUMEC — SARAH @ Kustom9

#3 CHAIN – Olivia Necklace – Silver
Cynful Sky Shimmer Dress @ C88
[BREATHE]-Sasuki Heels @ Kinky

backdrop: MINIMAL – Red Rocks Scene

[Rezz Room] American Bully Adult Animesh
[Rezz Room] Rottweiler Adult Animesh

BUENO -4×4- Barbie Group Gift
[Bueno x Bad Unicorn] Rose Gold – Unicooler @ TMD
BUENO-Bai Luggage-Suitcase-Pink
BUENO-Bai Luggage-Duffle Bag-Pink

Tentacio – explore the world

dust bunny . bon voyage . suitcase . pink

Posted in Bad Unicorn, DOUX, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, poses, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

You Can’t Tell

You can’t tell what someone has been through in real life just by looking at them. You sure as hell can’t do that in Second Life. Yet, for some reason, people in SL tend to judge one another so much more harshly than they judge others in real life. We scream about body shame, micro aggressions, and other issues in SL. We gather our friends and point fingers, we blast them on social media, but how often do we do that in real life? Do we gather our neighbors to ostracize someone else in the neighborhood? Do we chase down cars leaving stores that have offended us? No, you don’t, I don’t…no one really does. I just don’t understand why being behind a keyboard makes some people so rude. Yes, I understand that there’s a certain degree of anonymity, but to me that’s even more reason to be kind. We have no idea who we are dealing with on the other side. Not really. Even with profiles full of information and clues, we can not tell what someone else is dealing with or what their life has been like or why they choose this virtual existence. I think it is pretty fair to say that everyone has been through a lot this past year. So, let’s go into this next year with more kindness and compassion. Please.

You Can't Tell

hair: DOUX – Ines hairstyle
head: LeLUTKA Fleur Head 2.5
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Special Edition (1.3)
skin: — PUMEC – JADWIGA – LELUTKA x BOM

ears: — PUMEC – / Mesh Ears\ – Dance of evil genius
nails: Tulssy – Abstract Fatpack Coffin

[ILAYA] Ylva Dress and Svea Scarf @ Uber

Serenity Style– Magical Christmas- Cute Fawn RARE @ Tannenbaum

pose: space cadet – fireflies

[Bad Unicorn] Cold World Backdrop – Falling Snow @ FaMESHed

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Blueberry, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Prism Events, Second Life, shopping, Tannenbaum, Uber SL

How to Facebook

A dear friend of mine recently joined the SL Facebook trend. She was shocked and dismayed at some of the hate speech that was filling her timeline. Naturally, I told her to delete these people, cuz that’s what I do. However, this got me thinking about how I hear various people complaining about what they see on their timelines. Do they not know how to Facebook or are they so afraid of missing out that they subject themselves to a constant flow of toxicity?
Let me just say, this is how I Facebook, there’s not wrong or right way, I suppose. Yet, if you follow a few simple guidelines, you can enjoy you social media so much more! First and foremost, don’t add just anyone…make sure you have a lot of friends in common. Odds are better for everyone this way. Secondly, unfollow people that get on your nerves, but you don’t want to unfriend. I mean, if they are posting tons of baby pictures or planning a wedding, etc, I’m likely to unfollow them or snooze them for 30 days, cuz I don’t care about that stuff. Nor do I want to see all that. Block can also be your friend, but I save that for extreme circumstances.
So, really, you have more control over your timeline than you think. Keep the funny, positive people and unfollow the whiney, bitchy ones. I mean its all about how you choose to feed your timeline.

stealthic blueberry peaches prism

hair:  Stealthic – Cascade
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
SU!– Face Piercing Set 01
body: Legacy
skin: [Glam Affair] Hanna Applier [ Genus ] @ Uber

Vibing — Rose Necklace
Blueberry – Power Play – Tucked In Top
Blueberry – Power Play – Skirt

pose: Diversion – On The Edge Poses

.peaches. THe Fianna- Clutter Set
-.peaches. The Fianna Tablet Set – Tablet
-.peaches. The Fianna Tablet Set – Keyboard

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Ashtray’

:[P]:- Gingeri Mug [Decor] – Flake @ Tannenbaum

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Reign, Scandalize, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Tres Chic, Uber SL

Money, it’s a hit

When I did this photo I was thinking a sexy ass bank robber, cuz its a costume and its freaking cute. You should definitely check out this gacha from Reign. So many sexy but not slutty costumes just waiting for you. Of course, once I was done with the photo, I couldn’t help but think about a stripper and the whole making it rain thing. Instantly I was off and running to YouTube to find just the right song. First I found one from Cardi B that just made me roll my eyes. I have no clue how that woman became famous. To me she looks like a combination of Iggy Azalea and Nicki Minaj, but lacks the talent of either later. I don’t like her and I don’t get the hype. Needless to say, I kept looking and then there it was…Pink Floyd. I mean is there really anything sexier than a girl dancing to classic rock? I think NOT and since its MY blog, my opinion is the only one that matters here. *grins*

Money, get away
Get a good job with more pay and you’re O.K.
Money, it’s a gas
Grab that cash with both hands and make a stash
New car, caviar, four star daydream,
Think I’ll buy me a football team

Money, get back
I’m all right, Jack, keep your hands off of my stack.
Money, it’s a hit
Don’t give me that do goody good bullshit
I’m in the high-fidelity first-class traveling set
And I think I need a Learjet
~ Pink Floyd – Money

tram reign heaux

hair: tram I1019 hair @ Uber
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
[Heaux] Shy Eyes @ SaNaRae
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin @ TresChic
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

Scandalize.SEDUCTION.Mask Black

FOXCITY. Balance Bento Pose Set

[Bad Unicorn] Dynamite Stick ‘The Heat’
[Bad Unicorn] Falling Cash ‘The Heat’
[Bad Unicorn] The Vault Skybox RARE

Posted in Bad Unicorn, crate, Dahlia, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, unKindness

I’m a Freak

It’s no secret that I’m a bit of a freak. One good look at my flickr stream will pretty much prove that and if you happen to find a page lacking in sexy photos, then take a look at my favs, or the groups I belong to inworld. I don’t hide who I am, what I like, or what I don’t like. At times, I’m open to a fault and honest to a fault. However, I cannot help but embrace the freedoms that Second Life provides. I can be myself. I can be the me that’s beneath the surface. I can be truer to who I am deep within. In the real world, we are judged immediately by our appearance. We can all deny that we do that, but its simply untrue. Even in Second Life our likes and dislikes completely differ. I love my friends and think each of them are beautiful, but do I think their avatars are the prettiest? Honestly, no. I like mine better. Guess what? They like theirs better than mine, too. That’s how it should be, sadly we can’t say the same in the real world. If there has ever been proof required that we each have our own idea of beauty, the avatars in Second Life definitely prove that beyond a shadow of a doubt. Through the use of our avatars, we are able to tap into some of our deepest desires. For some of us, that includes sex….kinky sex. Some want to be fantasy characters like vampires, werewolves, fairies, elves, warriors, etc. For others, that might be families with children whether they are avatar children or NPC children. The fantasies are endless. So long as those fantasies hurt no one and respect the TOS of the world we’ve been provided by Linden Labs, we are allowed a freedom not permitted to most of us in the real world. Am I a freak? Damn right and I don’t plan on changing that for anyone.

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crate Slumberland Bed @ FaMESHed X

MADRAS Safe and Wild Decor @ FaMESHed X

uK – Pony Girl Rocker Wood

Dahlia – Babylon Eclectic – Boobs Print -6
Dahlia – Babylon Eclectic – Body Print – 4
Dahlia – Babylon Eclectic – Picott Print 5

Fancy Decor: Capo Figure Drawings
Fancy Decor: Capo Figure Drawings B

* Black Kinky Cat * Les Sucreries de Fairy *

Fapple– BDSM Tool Box

08. Lagom – PinkKink [PlugShelf]
11. Lagom – PinkKink [Rope]
12. Lagom – PinkKink [Paddle]
13. Lagom – PinkKink [Condoms]

+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Offside Thong
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Offside Bra
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Floor A

DIGS – Hand-Rolled Smoking Decor

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’

Stockholm&Lima: The Birdcage v2

PILOT – Adult Toy Box [Valentine]

Posted in Bad Unicorn, crate, Events, Home Decor, Kustom9, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, unKindness

Ingredients

I am such a sucker for decor and houses in SL. I took a break from blogging home decor for a few months a while back and I missed it so bad, I had to return. I’m far from being one of the top home decor bloggers, but I can promise you that it tears at my heart each time I build a scene and tear it down. However, once in a while I come across things that scream to me that they should be together. That is exactly what happened to me when I saw this kitchen set at 6 Republic and then saw this skybox from Toro. There are only a couple of days left in that event, so if you don’t make it, be sure to swing by Seraphim to see what you missed, then hit up the mainstores to collect the ingredients you’ll need for your dream home.crave kitchen

scene created in Toro. West Berlin Loft Skybox (*new* @ 6 Republic until Nov 20)

crate Hell’s Kitchen (*new* @ 6 Republic until Nov 20)
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Cabinets
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Accessories
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Fridge
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Oven
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Island
crate Hell’s Kitchen ~ Stool

crate Krusty Kitchen Shelf Full Set
crate Famila Ranch Set ~ Pinto Bean Cactus
crate Famila Ranch Set ~ Reclaimed Milk Jugs ~ Farmers Market

uK – Benvenuto Full Set (*new* @ Uber until Nov 22)
uK – Benvenuto Marbel Planter
uK – Benvenuto Round Vase
uK – Benvenuto Floor Runner
uK – Benvenuto Weave Basket 1
uK – Benvenuto Weave Basket 2
uK – Benvenuto Copper Chimes

Mithral * Lemon Lime Philodendron (Wood Pot) (*new* @ Kustom9)

Tentacio sandwich table (*new* @ Kustom9)

+Half-Deer+ Hot Chocolate Bar Cart – Bookstack

[Commoner] Brash Can / RX (Prozac)
[Commoner] Brash Can / RX (Ritalin)
[Commoner] Brash Can / RX (Vicodin) RARE
[Commoner] Brash Can / RX (Ambien)

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Boxed Wine (Chardonnay)

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Dirty Dishes 1
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Refreshments

floorplan. hanging crate light

Sari-Sari – Sweet Stuff – Liquorice Jar

[LJ] Alpha Soupy – Oops!

(fd) Cat – 08 Stretching

*ionic* Fruit Shelf

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Codex, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

In My Head

So, if you relate the first bit of lyrics below, click the link and you can sing along, read along, or just listen to the rest of the song. I’m not much in the mood to talk about my feelings at the moment, but the song is a clue for those that care. I don’t really expect anyone to…so its another post with lyrics. It’s 4am and this is where I am in my head.

“I know it’s not the same
But I feel it any way
Tell me if that’s okay
No, I’ll be on my way
Should’ve known, now I feel insane
Am I insane?
I’ve waited way too long
Yeah, I know you’ve changed
You have a different face to me
I guess that I was wrong
I’m the one to blame
And that’s a shame, you see
Uhh-uh-uh, you’re in my head
And I keep on forgettin’
Uhh-uh-uh, you’re here instead
And it seems never ending
Uhh-uh-uh-uhh, I know, I know you’ve changed
You don’t feel the same
Uhh-uh-uh, you’re in my head…”
~Peter Manos – In My Head

thinking it over

wearing:
hair:  Magika  – Chapters
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

[  kunst  ] – Old Cigarette Holder (left)
[Aleutia] Denali Top (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
[Aleutia] Denali Pants (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Moth set
***modified using AnyPose

scene:
Loft & Aria – Ashcroft Bed
Loft & Aria – Ashcroft Side Table
Loft & Aria – Ashcroft Table Lamp

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE

[ kunst ] – Ashtray v3 / Marble #2

.peaches. Bae’s Journal – Lover

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’

04 CODEX_DELUXE TOY 4

Ariskea [Ophelia] Big Plant

 

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Posted in Aphorism, Apple Fall, Bad Unicorn, Catwa, crate, Dahlia, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {what next}

Hidden Treasure

Have you ever played one of those hidden clue games? There’s several on Facebook, plenty of apps for phones, etc. You find the hidden objects and progress through the story. The picture with the hidden objects usually reflect that particular part of the story. Well, when I initially started setting up this scene….I ended up chasing squirrels all over the internet. What started out as a squirrel’s Halloween party quickly turned into a hidden object picture. Except, you don’t have to find them, they are all listed below with slurls so that you can go grab your own fun Halloween and Autumn decor! Happy shopping!♥

hidden halloween

wearing:
hair:  #Besom~Pesha
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alice Applier

!APHORISM! Ariana Hoody (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Addams // Millie Wool Socks // N*30

FOXCITY. Legs for Days Bento Pose Set

scene: 
*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]
*alirium* DwarfForest [Ember]

[ keke ] tree with mattress . all seasons (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[ keke ] willow leaves for ground – maxi

NOMAD // Scattered Leaves

Apple Fall Pinecones & Hazelnuts

JIAN Red Squirrel Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-JIAN Red Squirrel Feeder Tree
-JIAN Red Squirrel (Wanderer)

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Ghost Stand ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Game Over Backpack ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Tricked Treats Pumpkin (Arcade Exclusive)
-[Bad Unicorn] Dinosaur Mask ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ RARE
-[Bad Unicorn] GRRReen Hands

crate Jack O’Lantern Decor ~ Ironwood Hills Gift
crate Nightshade Cloak Rack

.BIRCH Pentagram Torches (*new* @ TLC)

{what next} Fall Harvest Wheelbarrow
{what next} Autumn Bicycle Decor

Dahlia – Newport – Distressed Trinket Box  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dahlia – Baby Robert – Antique Lamp – Copper ~ Ironwood Hills Gift

floorplan. vintage crate

hive // extra crates [dark]

SAYO – Vizcaya Garden Party Set – Candles & Leaves

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Bondi, CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Prism Events, Salem, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Hunger Hurts

“Hunger hurts, and I want him so bad, oh it kills
Cause I know I’m a mess he don’t wanna clean up
I got to fold cause these hands are too shaky to hold
Hunger hurts, but starving works, when it costs too much to love”
~ Fiona Apple – Paper Bag

Bondi candydoll

wearing:
hair:  TRUTH VIP Batty
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alice Applier

BONDI . VOODOO QUEEN CROWN (*new* @ Salem)
_CandyDoll_ Cara Dress (*new* @ Uber)

pose: FOXCITY. The Journey Bento Set
[Bad Unicorn] No Way Out Backdrop ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ (*new* @ Arcade)

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Cynful, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Pose Fair, Prism Events, Salem, Second Life, shopping

The Lucky Ones

I’m going through a really hard time in real life, one of the hardest ever. Yet, I don’t need a drug to escape, thought I won’t deny they help…they are not an option for everyone. That’s a topic for another time. I was just thinking how lucky I am to have this amazing community of like minded people from all over the world. I have so many wonderful friends I can turn to for times like these. That know my story, my situation, they’ve watched it unfold, they’ve shared my triumphs and my failures. The know me, they love me, and they truly do support me.
If you don’t have that in Second Life, I highly recommend you work on some friendships, because no matter how hard things get, I know I’m lucky to have them. We are the lucky ones, because we have each other. So, pardon my language for a minute while I do a quick shout out to the Cunts and the MF’n MF’rs.  Thank you. ♥

cynful dahlia and
“We are the lucky ones
And whatever comes
We are the lucky ones”
~ Kerli – The Lucky Ones

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Annie (*new* @ Hair Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee

Dahlia – Winifred – headpiece (*new* @ Salem)
.Swan. Bewitched Kitty Collar (*new* @ Salem)
**RE** Corvino Set (*new* @ Salem)
-**RE** Corvino Earrings
-**RE** Corvino Multistrand Necklace
03. Ascendant – Bridget B. [Finger Gems Black] RARE (*new* @ Salem)
08. Ascendant – Bridget B. [Bento Nails] (*new* @ Salem)
[Cynful] Gracey’s Shrug (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: ::WetCat:: ‘Natalie’ Pose Set Bento (*new* @ Pose Fair)
[Bad Unicorn] Imaginarium Backdrop