Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life

Say yes to this dress

I’m not big on dressing fancy. I think that’s pretty obvious if you look at my flickr. However, I’m obsessed with this new dress from Tetra. First of all, its not a gown. So, I can dress super glam and still show off my legs. You can adjust the level of sheer, so that its not sheer at all or varying degrees. I’ve got mine as sheer as it will go and I’m not wearing the accompanying panties, but those are also an option. It really is the perfect date night dress. No matter where your date takes you, you’ve got it covered. OH, I almost forgot, there are straps. String straps, they are delicate and very pretty. They criss cross in the back. Another option that you’ve got to love. I’m not showing them here, but they really add something special to a bare back. This is one time I will eagerly say yes to the dress!

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DOUX – Selena hairstyle
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Maria Applier
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
TETRA – Phoenix dress @ Collabor88

pose: Ana Poses – Serenity

+Half-Deer+ Thorny Vines II @ Collabor88

[NO CONCEPT] musical note pendant3(gold)

Air_Lost Heart stand(silver)_CM
Air_Frog moon_silver_CM

Air_Somnium (A) frost2 silver_CM

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, vinyl

Loving the themes!

I know that a lot of people have been to the recent round of Collabor88, tilted their heads and said, “WTF?!” On the other hand, I have been in absolute heaven. Surrealism is my favorite genre of art. This round not only inspires me, but provides me with such an amazing collection of surrealistic creations to bring my ideas to life. I’m really quite excited about it. So, prepare yourselves for some rather interesting pictures. Between the Surrealism theme at C88 and the Cyberlogic them at TLC….I’m going to get adventurous!

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DOUX – Galvez hairstyle @ Belle Event
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
L’Emporio ::*Steampunk Bunny*::-02-Mask
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
=Zenith=Vintage Tighten Gloves (Black) – Maitreya
VINYL – Cake Bodysuit Fit Pak @ Collabor88
Phedora. Victoria High Heels

Diversion – My Poison Poses

La Puerta – Black Night – The Bearded Guy @ Dubai
:::B:::fetish RABBITs

Posted in Bondi, Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Second Life

Its going to shock you

I know its going to shock you, but I love to mess with my friends. For instance, one of my favorite things to do is to tease my friend Grace. Her father felt compelled to tell her about how much sex he used to have with her mother. She was mortified, but I was thoroughly amused. Thus, I proceeded to tell her how he probably bent her mom over the kitchen table…pushed her against the shower wall….*grins*…You get the idea. I’ve been a bit of a prankster since I was a kid. I try to be careful and not prank people I don’t know fairly well. I prefer to have a general idea of how well the joke will be reciprocated. I’ve pulled some real doozies on my mother over the years, but as she gets older…I try to be more careful. I still get the random BOO in, but she always yells at me. *laughs*
My pranks are innocent in comparison to some of the shit I see on youtube. Let a bitch smash my xbox and we’re going to fight. That’s going to be the end of that relationship, right there! Let a man put dog shit in my sandwich…nuh huh, I’m going to prison, cuz he’s about to DIE! If you’re wondering why I’m talking about this, its mostly cuz I know Grace reads my blog and she’s going to cringe as the visuals of her parents naked, bumping uglies all over the very house she lives in now….yeah, you’re welcome. Oh btw, your parents did the nasty, too. *laughs* You’re welcome.

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hair: Tableau Vivant // Mariposa hair @ Collabor88
BONDI . The Bandit Glasses @ Cosmopolitan
head: CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
eyes: -SU!- Osanna Eyes
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria Applier
tattoo: IDTTY Body Shop – Feline Gaze
Ascendant – Taffy Nails @ Access
Cynful For the Crew Top

FOXCITY. Oki Doki Bento Pose Set

Posted in Catwa, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Second Life

This Life

‘Cause it’s a bitter sweet symphony, this life
Trying to make ends meet, you’re a slave to the money then you die
I’ll take you down the only road I’ve ever been down
You know the one that takes you to the places where all the veins meet, yeah
No change, I can change, I can change, I can change
But I’m here in my mould, I am here in my mould

But I’m a million different people from one day to the next
I can’t change my mould, no, no (have you ever been down?) no, no
Well, I’ve never prayed
But tonight I’m on my knees, yeah
I need to hear some sounds that recognize the pain in me, yeah
I let the melody shine, let it cleanse my mind, I feel free now
But the airwaves are clean and there’s nobody singing to me now
No change, I can change, I can change, I can change
~ The Verve – Bitter Sweet Symphony

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DOUX – Kash hairstyle @ LeVeL
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Maria Applier
AsteroidBox. Rhea Top @ Equal10

FOXCITY. Hanging Lounger (Static Poses)

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Collabor88, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Jian, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Taboo topics

The other day I wrote about people being overly sensitive on the internet and told them to Get off the internet! After reading that post a friend of mine IMd me to tell me how much she enjoyed the post. We got to talking about how certain subjects are so taboo, but that they shouldn’t be. Topics like mental health…depression and suicide, specifically. That just maybe if these topics weren’t so taboo, that people could talk about their feelings without feeling so ashamed and just possibly find the help they need. I’m not going to go into some diatribe about these subjects, but I am going to ask that my readers be more open to discussing such topics. You might just save a life. Depression is a very real illness and it is not just about having a pity party. Its so much more than that. I think for some it is impossible to understand until it has been experienced. I’m looking at you, Tom Cruise, but naturally you don’t think you’re crazy. *rolls Dusty’s cartoon eyes* Seriously, check on one another, be kind to each other, and share whatever love is in your heart with as many people as possible.

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DOUX – Galvez hairstyle @ Belle Event
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
Tattoo “Kali Durga”_by GoK
.::Supernatural::. Brianna Choker @ Kinky
.::Supernatural::. Edna Set Black @ Kinky
#EMPIRE – Freesia – Latex Black

BUENO-Tinks Love Seat @ Collabor88
BUENO-Glitch- Blvk
BUENO- Coffee Charger- Black
JIAN Sneaky Snacker :: Pizza Pibble

Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life, Uber SL

My favorite time of year

My favorite time of year is just around the corner. For some it is already showing its beautiful autumn head. Alas, for me, I am still battling 97°F/36°C temperatures and patiently waiting for the official end of Summer. Fall/Autumn is hands down my favorite season of the year. All my favorite things happen. My birthday and Halloween…so basically October! Thanksgiving…the holiday based on some lies, but has become a more positive holiday even as the truth is unveiled. Most of us find it a time to count our blessings and be grateful, so I like it. Plus its the absolute #1 most gluttonous holiday on the planet and anyone that knows me, knows how much I love good food! I know most people think of Christmas as Winter and technically it is, but its usually more like Fall where I live. It rarely drops into true Winter temps until January, for me.
Fall is the one time of year that I actually enjoy being outside…usually. I’m not much for leaving my house, but something about the smell of fireplaces and cool breezes….leaves changing colors and eventually falling. Well, I just love it, okay? It’s no different in Second Life, really. Some of my favorite sims like Scarlett Isle will most likely transition to a more Fall feeling and you will discover that I take a lot more photos outside. I am really looking forward to it this year more than I have in the last few years. So, raise whatever your favorite fall drink is and cheers to Fall…unless you’re drinking one of those pumpkin lattes…*laughs*

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Tableau Vivant // Belle hair
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
Ascendant – Classic Marble Nails
Miu – Alexa netting top @ Whore Couture
Miu – Alexa bike shorts @ Whore Couture

FOXCITY. Bike Ride Bento Pose Set (includes bike)
location: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Taking that leap

The other day I wrote about protecting my heart and staying guarded. At the same time, I know if that if I don’t take the leap once in a while, I’m doomed to feel lonely. Fortunately, after all this time, I have found someone that does understand my limitations. I know there are no guarantees in life, especially when it comes to love. So, I have thrown myself into the space and have decided to conquer this fear of mine. I’m going to trust the process. I’m going to trust a man…as much as I can. Time will tell, but I have a good feeling about this.

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Tableau Vivant // Clarisse hair @ Kustom9
GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
[Glam Affair] Edyta Applier [ Genus ] @ Anthem
[The Forge] Oni Bodysuit, RARE C @ Arcade
[The Forge] Nicole Boots, @ FaMESHed

pose: Le Poppycock-Escape Key (includes Axe) @ The Liaison Collaborative
location: Luane’s Magical World

Posted in breathe, Collabor88, Cosmopolitan, Cynful, Fashion, Glam Affair, Second Life

Coffee, black like my clothes

Let’s talk about coffee. I’m a bit of purest, I suppose. I mean, I love cream and sugar in my coffee. In fact, I’m really bizarrely picky about my coffee at home. Which is not going to make me sound like a purest at all, but my perfect cup of coffee is going to be Dunkin’s orignal blend with one scoop of Coffeemate’s powder creamer, with two packets of equal. Yeah, yeah, I know…chemicals. I just be ashamed, but it really does make the perfect textured coffee with the perfect flavor…for me. Right, so how the hell am I a purest? Well, I think there are some flavors that fit naturally with coffee and those that don’t. Fruit does not belong in coffee. Period. Vegetables don’t belong in coffee. Period. Creamy flavors like caramel, chocolate, toffee….definitely, on occasion, but not daily. Its like drinking candy and its gross. Nutty flavors are also fine on occasion, but again…daily is too much. Mind you, these are my opinions, but I really feel like they make sense.
I’d rather drink my coffee black for the rest of my life than to put fruit in my coffee EVER. Coconut and pumpkin in coffee is disturbingly disgusting. Now, that’s my opinion and that’s all it is…opinions. Nothing more. The truth is that coffee is amazing and I love how it can be used in recipes, not to mention that coffee has become the foundation for all these crazy concoctions. I won’t like, I will readily drink certain flavored coffees from time to time. I love that there’s something for everyone. If you can’t find a way to enjoy coffee, you are not trying! *laughs* Y’all didn’t see that coming, did you? Ha!

Kuni Kunglers Belle Ascendant Cynful

KUNI – Amanda @ Belle
GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
[Glam Affair] Edyta Applier [ Genus ] @ Anthem
Ascendant – Classic Marble Nails @ Anthem
KUNGLERS – Alima necklace @ Belle
Cynful Clearly. Blazer @ Collabor88
Cynful Clearly. Shorts @ Collabor88
*AvaWay* NAUGHTY KITTEN Garters Set @ Cosmopolitan
[BREATHE]-Kendra Heels

Diversion – Affection Poses @ Belle
Black Coffee *RARE* – Black Night – The Bearded Guy @ Dubai


Posted in Animals, Events, FaMESHed, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

Cozy rooms for cozy hearts

When it comes to decor, I absolutely love the way a room looks as the sun sets through the window. There’s an inviting warmth about a room like that, especially one that invites you to wrap yourself up in a blanket, have a drink, and watch the world change from day to night right outside your window. Add a few cats and that room is filled with quiet (unless its Mr Mayhem, my rl cat) loving company. Combining MudHoney with Nutmeg and a few finishing touches, I’ve managed to create a warm, elegant, cozy room that is perfect for exactly the kind of evening I described above. I’m really happy with it…now to figure out to make a house of these Photo rooms from MudHoney…*laughs*

MudHoney Arcade FaMESHed Nutmeg


Foxwood ~ Dyrr ~ Faux Mount ~ Dark
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Large
Foxwood – Hanging Plants – Small

MudHoney Photo Room 1 @ Arcade

MudHoney Vega Dresser Set  @ FaMESHed
MudHoney Vega Vase M
MudHoney Vega Box Small
MudHoney Vega Box Large
MudHoney Vega Vase S
MudHoney Vega Vase L
MudHoney Vega Globe
MudHoney Vega Moon Wall Decor
MudHoney Vega Candle
MudHoney Vega Dresser – Fatpack

Nutmeg. Attic Hideout @ ShinyShabby
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Painting_Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Candle Holder1
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Candle Holder2
Nutmeg. Old Oriental Rug1_Bonus Item
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Coffee Table
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Plated Pink Branch
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Armchair Cedar
Nutmeg. Attic Hideout Couch w/Plaid Cedar

13. Nutmeg. Garden Getaway Leather Bag

[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sit
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Sleep
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Jump
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Nap
[Rezz Room] Bengal Cat Familly

Posted in Blueberry, DOUX, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Glam Affair, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative

Get off the internet!

Y’all really gotta stop taking everything so personal. I’m talking to all those people on Facebook that get pissed off about every little meme. “This offends me, because….” Guess what, the world does not revolve around your overly sensitive ass. Get off the internet, I ain’t got time to babysit your whiny ass. Seriously, people….the world did not stop rotating just because something tragic happened in your life. Look…I’ve been raped (more than once)…I’ve been molested…I’ve been kidnapped…I’ve been shot out…I’ve had guns held to my head…I’ve been suicidal…I’ve lost friends to suicide…I can’t have kids…I’ve been cheated on…I’m been poor (and I am again)…I’ve been homeless. I’ve battled all sorts of demons…some you can’t even begin to imagine. You will never see me whining all over Facebook about memes being inappropriate because of some shit that happened in MY life. If you want to sit and swim in that self pity shit, go right ahead, but do not expect me or anyone else to stop laughing at life just because you lost your sense of humor. Seriously, if you’re THAT easily offended, go read a book and get off the internet. Oh, but don’t read the bible…cuz all but the guns are in THAT book. *drops mic & goes back to enjoying the sick & twisted side of the internet*

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DOUX – Kash hairstyle @ LeVeL
GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
[Glam Affair] Edyta Applier [ Genus ] @ Anthem
Ascendant – Gianni Nails
AGAVE – Us B Knotty Neclace  @ The Liaison Collaborative
Blueberry – Elias – Tube Top
Blueberry – Elias – Jeans
Blueberry – Elias – Combat Boots – Knee High