I’ve always found it rather odd that people will label one another best friends then compete, manipulate, or bully one another. That’s not even friendship, much less “best” friends. To have true friendship, you must treat one another the way you wish to be treated. My best friends and I (yes, I have more than one. I have four) give each other hell, but its all in good fun. We do not get jealous of each other. We do not attempt to own one another. Nor do we throw tantrums about who they spend their time with, where they are, or what they’re doing. No, we are not perfect, but one of the reasons these friendships work is that we respect each other. We love each other without limits. I’ve gotten into arguments with two of them, but we’ve always worked it out. I see so many so called friends treat each other so terribly that it makes me wonder if they even have a clue what friendship really is and if they have said clue, I question their definition.