Posted in Bad Unicorn, Blueberry, Catwa, Dahlia, Events, Lamb, Legal Insanity, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Choices

“Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the consequences of his choices.”
~  Alfred A. Montapert

I think its important to remember that, because we are constantly faced with choices from monumental life altering choices to the tiniest things like flipping our hair or smiling at a stranger. Some choices are going to carry far more weight than the others. So, I think its important to remember those consequences as we approach the weekend.

Especially Grace, cuz her consequences are probably going to be a massive hangover and a freshly dug grave in the back yard. *smirks*

off kilter

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Gem
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
Dahlia – Lancia – Necklace – TWO TONE
*PerveTTe* Bond [Arm Chain] [Black Silver](*new* @ RLD)
Ascendant – Najla Bento Nails (*new* @ Dubai)
Blueberry – Jenna – Bikini Top
Legal Insanity – Gioia flared pants (*new* @ Tres Chic)

pose: an lar [poses] The Vera Series
[Bad Unicorn] Imaginarium Backdrop (*new* @ Equal10)

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Dahlia, Events, Home Decor, Quasi, Reign, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative, unKindness

Let the Stories Unfold

“A room should never allow the eye to settle in one place. It should smile at you and create fantasy,” – Juan Montoya.

In honor of the quote and all the designers that have pieces in this setting, I leave you to explore, as there are many stories to be told, if you simply open your mind and let the stories unfold.

classic

Fancy Decor: Faline set (*new* @ C88)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Sofa – Tapestry
-Fancy Decor: Faline Wall Panel (gold)
-Fancy Decor: Faline End Table (gold & white)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Handled Bowl
-Fancy Decor: Faline Coffee Table (gold & white)
-Fancy Decor: Faline Candlestick
-Fancy Decor: Faline Armchair – Tapestry

Fancy Decor: Bonham Rug

16 Fancy Decor: Van Gogh Sketch

Quasi – Lovers 3D Art Piece

uK – Gothic Mannequin (B) (*neew* @ TFC)

Mutresse-Shortie Cats (*new* @ Arcade)

Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroon Box (*new* @ AuLovely)
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroons – Set 2 D
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Metal Serving Tray – Gold

Dahlia – Concetta – RoseTea Tin – White (*new* @ TLC)
Dahlia – Concetta – Closed – Tea Tin – Gold

Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag – RARE .01
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Sunglasses & Candy .04
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Lipstick, mascara & Cream .05
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Perfume & Lipgloss .06
Dahlia – Piper’s Handbag Gacha – Compacts & Foundation .07

Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Blue
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Red

Dahlia – Mayza – Clutch

REIGN.- PLANNER- GIRL BOSS (DECOR)- #17

Can’t Even — Golden Vase with Twigs

tres blah– Jolie – Golden Hand
-tb- Bon Voyage – Books
-tres blah- Pampered – Bouquet
-tres blah- Jolie – Train Case

Apt B // Hello Billy – Hatboxes

[ zerkalo ] Hidden Gems – Square Box

Scarlet Creative The Arcade Sep 15 – Greenwich Telephone

8f8 – Mange Destin 06 – Rich chocolate truffles

BUENO-Wallet-Cream

DIGS – Hand-Rolled Smoking Decor

*YS&YS* Holborn Hanging Ivy

[Schultz Bros.] 13. Chandelier

hive // macrame hanging plant . white

15.erratic / coc – dragonfly jar

PILOT – Hanging Planter [White]

striped mocha – hanging lotuses – gold

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Better Off

I really have just about given up on the idea of romance. I mean, sex will be had, but its just sex. My sexual needs can be met with toys and tumblr, easily enough. Plus, this is SL, I’m sure if I really wanted a voice in my ear, that too, would be easy enough to find. Meh, I’m just over that. I want more. I deserve more. Will I get more? Not likely. One thing is for sure, though. I will not settle for less than I deserve…not again. I’ve done that repeatedly in the past and regretted it every single time. I have yet to look back on someone I turned away and wished I could have gone back to date them afterall. The funny thing is most of these men I’ve settled for? They’ve barely taken an interest in me as a person. They want an audience. They want arm candy. They want sex. I’m honestly starting to believe that it doesn’t matter what I’m actually about, but rather what I have to offer. I’ve watched my friends lose themselves completely to different partners over the years, while a few have stayed true to themselves….most have surrendered what they truly deserved and settled for…a pretty package, a name in their partner box, an avi to cuddle with, someone they can pretend to be in love with until they hurt so much from depriving themselves of their true needs, that they are broken down to pieces. Each time this happens, they grow more desperate not to let it happen again, but only settling for less and less. Less respect, less attention, less honesty, less of everything. I’m done. I’ve been single long enough now to realize I treat myself way better than any of the men that have been in my life romantically….EVER. Not sure what that says about me, to be honest, but I do know that I seem to be better off alone. Because in the end? I don’t think they really want to know ME at all.

only one right answer

wearing:
hair:   tram G1113 hair / HUD-A
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
**RE** Aliza Collar
LYBRA . SIOFRA (*new* @ FaMESHed)
pose: Purple Poses Trish set
Posted in Bondi, Catwa, Chic Moda, Essenz, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, ULTRA, Vanity Event

Kind Strangers

If your car has to break down in the middle of nowhere it never hurts to have a sexy mechanic working on your car.

On a more serious note, never let it be said that there are not some perfectly kind strangers in SL willing to help out another stranger for a few minutes. I had originally gone to this sim, thinking that I would take a photo in a diner or something along those lines. Then I say the classic mustang and a very nice looking avatar posed as if he were working on it. Sadly, his entire profile was in Portuguese, so to Google translator I went. One thing was certain, he was happily taken and didn’t like girls who disrespected that. Noted. In English (he can translate, too, right) I told him that I wasn’t flirting but would he mind staying put for a blog photo I wanted to do. He kindly obliged and the moment I was done, he poofed away. No friendships made, no advances from either of us, no more conversation….just two photographers passing in the light. *giggles*

So, I owe a huge thank you to  Hendrick Kos (SirAatrox) for being so kind to a complete stranger. It’s people like him that restore just a teensy bit of my faith in human kind.

can you fix it

wearing:
hair:  TRUTH VIP Reyane
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
BONDI . The Wanderer Sunglasses (*new* @ ULTRA)
Cae :: Gianna :: Necklace
Cae :: Gianna :: Bracelets
*PerveTTe* Bond [Arm Chain] [Silver] (*new* @ RLD)
ChicModa // Emma Tank Top (*new* @ FaMESHed)
ChicModa // Emma Denim Skirt (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Essenz – Varadero (*new* @ Vanity Event)
pose by Foxcity
location: Route66
Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Maitreya, Second Life

I Can’t Believe You

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

This is definitely one of my favorite quotes. I think more often than not, people tend to use it with significant others. However, let’s be fair, how many friends have you caught in a lie? I have major trust issues, but one of those issues is that I tend to be too trusting of certain people. Yet, eventually we have no choice but to open our eyes and face the truth. Some people are not real friends. They lie to us, they seriously insult us, and by doing both, they can seriously hurt us.
This is where I’m left asking myself a hoard of questions. Should I love that person unconditionally despite the toxicity of their attitude towards me? Should I try to understand where they are coming from, attempt to be the bigger person, and forgive them since they seem to be so clueless about what they are doing? Should I call them on their lies? Should I confront them about how deeply they’ve hurt me? Or do I walk away? Do I cut them from my life completely or just reduce our interactions?

this is what it feels like

wearing:
hair:   TRUTH VIP Reyane
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
:::ChicChica::: TakeAway
Vinyl – Mai Bustier (*new* @ Access)
.miss chelsea. Naja Pants (*new* @ Equal10)
pose: GingerFish Poses – Coffee and Rain (*new* @ eBENTO)
location: Pine Lake
Posted in Bad Unicorn, Events, Home Decor, Jian, Second Life, shopping

Maid Wanted

Maid Wanted

Need maid to clean man cave every other day.
Job duties include, but are not limited to:
-Cleaning blow up doll….CAREFULLY!
-Refilling beer fridge
-Recycling cans & bottles. (We’re not monsters!)
-Cleaning glass on pinball machines. NO SMUDGES!
-Walk dogs & clean up any accidents.
-Carefully seal any women’s under garments in plastic.
-Attend to hangovers on occasion.
-Insure both sides of tee shirts are dirty before washing

Please send nude photo along with references to TheDudes@mancave.com

***for the dumdums, this is a joke, there’s no job and that email address is fake***
LOL…you know who you are…

Maid Wanted

scene created in =EliBaily= Stratford Industrial Loft – Dark

SHADES – Tufted Chair set
-SHADES – Tufted Chair
-SHADES – Stand Lamp
-SHADES – Side Table
-SHADES – geometic bowl s
-ART_NOW

[Bad Unicorn] Budget Bachelor Set (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Rage Board ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Night Light ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Mini-bar ‘Budget Bachelor Set
-[Bad Unicorn] Empty Food Container ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Splash’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Invader’ Pinball Machine ‘Budget Bachelor Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Black’ Nood Rug ‘Budget Bachelor Set’

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Pizza or Boobs?’ Heart Pizza

JIAN ‘dorable Danes 1. Breezy Doggos RARE

Kalopsia – Foosball Table

*katat0nik* (no pose – kitty lady) Pool Toy

Second Spaces – Cluttered House – living room catch-all 1
*Second Spaces* geeky game controllers
*Second Spaces* geeky old school game cartridges

[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Frame
[Copper Mill] Beer Batch Set – Beer Case REZZ

[Commoner] Binge Watcher’s Survival Kit / Energy Drinks

floorplan. neon III gacha / pizza

+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter
+Half-Deer+ Fast Food Clutter

O.M.E.N – Deco Popcorn & Soda – VIP GIFT

ionic – where is my Take away Chinese vegan food?

TA Game System

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Foxcity, Lamb, Second Life, shopping, Vanity Event

No One

Just this….cuz…reasons.

Mothica – No One

You curl my name with your lip
I take a drink, I hate it
I tell you what you want to hear, so I
Can catch my breath and step away
Think about what to say to you
While you come unglued
I don’t know how to make it clear
I’ve tried it out all these years
But it doesn’t seem to go through
Til now

Here I go, hear what I’m saying
What I want to say, what I want to say
All this time, you thought I would be your girl
I’m sorry, I belong to no one, no one
I belong to no one, no one
I’m not known to hold on, hold on too long

There you go, take it back
You didn’t mean this and you didn’t mean that
What were you thinking when you thought you could touch me last night?
I know you don’t think it’s wrong if you don’t break the skin
But if I want to touch, I’ll ask for it, oh oh oh, until I
Can catch my breath and step away
Think about what to say to you
While you come unglued
I don’t know how to make it clear
I’ve tried it out all these years
But it doesn’t seem to go through
Til now

Here I go, hear what I’m saying
What I want to say, what I want to say
All this time, you thought I would be your girl
I’m sorry, I belong to no one, no one
I belong to no one, no one
I’m not known to hold on, hold on too long

There you go, take it back
You didn’t mean this and you didn’t mean that
What were you thinking when you thought you could touch me
I know you don’t think it’s wrong if you don’t break the skin
But if I want to touch, I’ll ask for it, oh oh oh

Here I go, hear what I’m saying
What I want to say, what I want to say
All this time, you thought I would be your girl
I’m sorry, I belong to no one, no one
I belong to no one, no one
I’m not known to hold on, hold on too long

No One

wearing:
hair:   Lamb. Halo
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier [ Catwa ] 007 (*new* @ Au Lovely)
ELLURE – “VIIAN” Flower Earrings (*new* @ Vanity Event)
(Yummy) Dark Magic Ring Set
_CandyDoll_ Aida Top (*new* @ FaMESHed)
_CandyDoll_ Aids Shorts (*new* @ FaMESHed)
pose: FOXCITY. Selfie VOL2 Bento Pose Set
MINIMAL – Sequoia Room (*new* @ C88)
Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Gos, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, TMD, Vanity Event

The Fighter

I’m on a music kick at the moment and I’ve been dealing with more pain than usual….so, I’m letting the music speak for me.

In This Moment – The Fighter

I don’t need you to save me
I don’t need you to cure me
I don’t need you and your antidote for I am my disease
I don’t need you to free me
I don’t need you to help me
I don’t need you to lead me through the light
I will always fall and rise again
Your venomous heroine
‘Cause I am a survivor
Yeah, I am a fighter
I will fall and rise above
And in your hate I find love
‘Cause I’m a survivor
Yeah, I am a fighter
I will not hide my face
I will not fall from grace
I’ll walk into the fire, baby
All my life
I was afraid to die
And now I come alive inside these flames
You don’t want me to love you
You don’t want me to need you
You don’t want to look at me for you will turn to stone
You don’t want me to hurt you
You don’t want me to bite you
You don’t want me or my aching soul
For I will only fall and rise again
Your venomous heroine
I’m a survivor
Yeah, I am a fighter
I will fall and rise above
And in your hate I find love
‘Cause I’m a survivor
Yeah, I am a fighter
I will not hide my face
I will not fall from grace
I’ll walk into the fire, baby.
All my life
I was afraid to die
But now I come alive inside these flames!
I don’t need you to save me
‘Cause I’m a survivor
Yeah, I am a fighter
I will not hide my face,
I will not fall from grace,
I’ll walk into the fire, baby
All my life
I was afraid to die
But now I come alive inside these
Alive inside these
Alive inside these
the fighter
wearing:
hair:   *Besom Hair~ Pixie *Essentials* #8
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: LOTUS. Balance Eyes 17 (Catwa) RARE (*new* @ Vanity Event)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [PUMEC] – Alexa – / May \ – SKIN (*new* @ Vanity Event)
Astralia – Scorpion ring
LYBRA . XL STILETTO NAILS
LYBRA . VIPER FATPACK (*new* @ FrouFrou)
.:Avanti:. Classique Nylons – Black
[Gos] JAdore Pumps (*new* @ C88)
pose: FOXCITY. Leaning (Stand) VOL2 Bento Pose Set
[Bad Unicorn] ‘Blue’ Bowie Backdrop (*new* @ TMD)
Posted in Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life

School’s Out

No matter how old I get, I still occasionally have the same nightmare that started when I was about 12yrs old. I would dream that I was somehow stuck at school without my clothes on. I remember being so mortified by this dream, that I kept an oversized tee shirt and shorts tucked away in my locker. I managed to get out of gym class all but two years and even then, I had back up clothes in my main locker, just in case something happened to my outfit while I was dressed for gym. It’s been a while now since I’ve had this dream…perhaps my brain has finally realized that “school’s out forever!”
Anyway, if you do any type of school RP, or just love to dress up like a school girl…*grins*…you’ve got to the play the Reign Gacha at Arcade. It is filled with the absolute coolest stuff.

reign arcade

wearing:
hair: #3 {Limerence} Mandy hair with hat
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS JACKET- MAITREYA #3 RARE (*new* @ Arcade)

pose: an lar [poses] The Heart Series

scene:
REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS GACHA (*new* @ Arcade)
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS LOCKER #1 RARE
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS LOCKER DISCO BALL- SILVER #24
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS LOCKER MAGNETS #25
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYZ BACKPACK (TOUCH TO CHANGE)#2 RARE
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS DRY ERASE BOARD #27
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS LOCKER MIRROR #26
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS WATER BOTTLE #17
-REIGN.- VARSITY DAYS LOCKER SHELF 1- RED #13

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, E.V.E, Events, Gingerfish Poses, Second Life, Vanity Event, We <3 Role-Play

On the Hunt

I could not have chosen a better song or written better words to go with this photo. I also doubt that many of my readers have heard it. So, please enjoy. ♥

Neo Noir & Krigare’ – On the Hunt

As the stars at night are falling
Like the torches in the dark
Marching with conviction
On the move and on the mark
Hear the howls in the distance
Chased the wolves they tried to run
Ooooh on the hunt

Finger on the trigger
Taste the fear that’s in the air
Silence breeds the tension
Haunted unaware
Chasing down the demons
Hear the beating of a drum
Ooooh on the hunt
Ooooh on the hunt

The past is left in ruins
Feel the pain and see the scars
The path of burning bridges
Feel the stone of a broken heart
Insatiable desire and it’s only just begun
Ooooh on the hunt
Ooooh on the hunt

on the hunt

wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Abbie hair (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: LOTUS. Balance Eyes 17 (Catwa) RARE (*new* @ Vanity Event)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [PUMEC] – Alexa – / May \ – SKIN (*new* @ Vanity Event)

-:zk:- Squaw Gacha (*new* @ Vanity Event)
–:zk:- #1 Squaw Belt Lara
–:zk:- #1 Squaw Hair Jewel
–:zk:- #1 Squaw Lance HAND L
–:zk:- #1 Squaw Necklace LARA
–:zk:- #6 Squaw Top Lara Black
–:zk:- #14 Squaw Skirt Lara Black
–:zk:- #22 Squaw Sleeve Lara Left Black
–:zk:- #22 Squaw Sleeve Lara Right Black
–:zk:- #30 Squaw Legs Lara Black
–:zk:- #38 Squaw Shoes Lara Black

E.V.E {B-Team} Tears Suit [MAI] (*new* @ We ❤ Role-Play)

::GB::Black Panther B  (*new* @ Arcade)

pose: GingerFish Poses – One Shot