Posted in CandyDoll, Events, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Red Shoe Diaries

If you’re familiar with the show and thought for one hot second that this was going to be some juicy confessional about my sex life in Second Life, consider this a belated April Fool’s Joke…*laughs* If you’re not familiar with the show, Google it. Then if you’re still interested, maybe check it out sometime. *grins* In the meanwhile, why not swing by Kinky and grab the shoes that inspired me to show them off this way. Can’t you picture these sexy stilettos on your pretty little feet?

Lexy 2

wearing:
_CandyDoll_ Lexy Heels (*new* @ Kinky)

pose created using AnyPose

Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Pale Girl Productions, RAMA, Second Life

Taste Like Candy

I struggled with what to write for this photo until I resorted to music, because I just can’t write erotica. Maybe I could, but I’m not comfortable doing that for my blog, sooo….yeah, here’s a song. *giggles & blushes* Oh, and a special thank you to my dear friend, Aaron, for letting me boss him around…erhm, I mean, for posing for me, yeah, that’s it. *grins* So, while I’m showing off the first of at least four post showcasing items in the Bound Box…enjoy the music.

Doja Cat – Candy

I can name a couple ways, baby, this shit might go
You just might forget that this was what you’re gettin’ high for
And it might do the things to him, I mean the guy who
He’s the one who’s sweet enough, who’ll shoot to make that high note

And it’s such a typical thing, runnin’ over a million, oh
Runnin’ through a difficult place, you don’t need no blood on your hands, no

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

I can be your sugar when you’re fiendin’ for that sweet spot
Put me in your mouth, baby, and eat it ’till your teeth rot
I can be your cherry, apple, pecan, or your key lime
Baby I got everything and so much more than she’s got

And it’s such a typical thing, runnin’ over a million, oh
Runnin’ through a difficult place, you don’t need no blood on your hands, no

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

Sugar coated, lies unfolded, you still lick the wrapper
It’s addictive, you know this, but you still lick the wrapper
Sugar coated, lies unfolded, you still lick the wrapper
It’s addictive, you know this, but you still lick the wrapper

She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real cherry, know that it ain’t real cherry
She’s just like candy, she’s so sweet
But you know that it ain’t real, know that it ain’t real

take me

Aaron is wearing:
Hair: Stealthic – Haunting
Head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Ears: Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
Body: [Signature] Gianni Body – Body

Sady is wearing:
hair: RAMA.SALON – Maria Hair (*new* @ C88)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
Wicca’s Wardrobe – Joy (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: PURPLE POSES – Couple 778

Posted in Catwa, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, {le fil casse}

Snack & Other Terms

So, I recently learned a new term on Facebook. Apparently, women are snacks now. I’m not quite sure how that started or why we’re not a full meal or dessert, but its nice to know that men are thinking about eating us. *grins* Okay, so apparently according to the Urban Dictionary, it can go both ways. I just can’t imagine myself or any girls I’m close to ever referring to a man as a snack.
We’ve all heard the word “Bae” and its on that disturbs me to no end, especially now that I’ve done a minute bit of research. According to the Urban Dictionary (clearly a viable source for information) the word Bae is a Danish word for poop. Considering how many Danes are in SL, I can’t help but wonder how amused they must be when someone refers to their romantic partner as poop.
Turns out that ratchet is a mispronunciation of the word wretched. Between you and me, I like wretched much better. However, apparently this started in Louisiana and I’m guessing it was a Cajun accent that made it sound like ratchet and so it spread to various parts of the world.
I’m learning so much!!! In fact, I discovered a whole list of terms used for women that are not so favorable. Some of them are just hate speech, but you can look for yourself…as it came from the most reputable site of all *snickers* the ever knowing and never wrong, Wikipedia!
I think I’m neither ratchet nor bae, but I suppose one might find me appealing as a snack at least in the photo below

sleeping beauty

wearing:
hair: Sintiklia – Hair Isla
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

.::Nanika::. Leah Necklace White (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust

{le fil casse} Gabriela Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Phedora ~ Hypnotic heels

pose by Bauhaus Movement

 

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Cynful, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, RAMA, Second Life, The Liaison Collaborative

I’ll Wait For You

Skylar Grey – Come Up For Air

I’m no good for you
I’m not what you need
You’ve made it very clear
Though I disagree
Enough to let you go
To let you drift away
‘Cause once you navigate these troubled waters
I believe that someday you’ll return
And I will still be here
When you come up for air
Do you what you gotta do
I’ll wait for you, to come for air
‘Cause this whole wide world
There’s no one else for me
So while you search the seas for answers
I will still be waiting here
Make sure you dive down deep
Because if you do
Even though it takes a thousand lifetimes
My love, I know you’re finally gonna see the truth, and you’ll return
And I will still be here
When you come up for air
Do you what you gotta do
I’ll wait for you, to come for air
And even if this really is the end
I’m sure I’ll be alone until I’m dead
‘Cause no one else will ever quite compare
To them, it wouldn’t be fair
To let you with somebody new
And all I did was think of you
If you’re my Jack then I’m your Rose
And I promise I’ll never ever let go
And I’ll still be here
When you come up for air
Do you what you gotta do
I’ll wait for you, to come for air
To come up for air
Come up for air
Come up for air
To come up for air
To come up for air
Come up for air
Come up for air
To come up for air
I'll Wait For You
wearing:
hair:  RAMA.SALON – Sylvia Hair (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER+-SU!- Piercing Set 06 Spiked Nose Studs
-SU!- Piercing Set 06 Snakebites
.::Nanika::. Leah Necklace (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
[The Forge] Rosella Necklace, Normal, Black (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Cynful] Elvi Top + High Waist Pants (*new* @ FaMESHed)pose: an lar [poses] The Caitlin Series (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)

anxiety %chicago build1 (*new* @ 6 Republic)
Posted in Catwa, Essenz, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Gingerfish Poses, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Baggage

We all have some sort of emotional baggage. Some are lucky enough to travel light. Some of us have to rent out a storage room to keep up with everything that happens to us. The thing is we definitely need to put it somewhere, otherwise we’re dragging it all around with us all the time and it just weighs us down. We don’t need to carry it around displaying it with pride like, “Oh look at me, I was abused as a kid!” We must learn how to deal with it and once we do, we need to pack it neatly away so that when we revisit it, or these metaphorical boxes in our imaginary closets/storage rooms come crashing down, we can deal with it accordingly. Yes, occasionally it will happen that one or more of those boxes might fall open, but just like photographs in a shoe-box, we need to learn to sift through those memories and realize how far we’ve come. Then shove that crap right back in the box and possibly find a more secure place for it. Then lock it up and guard the key, only offering to open it up and share with people we’ve learned to trust. People we know won’t turn around and use the things they discover like weapons against us down the line.
Maybe I’m waxing too philosophical this morning. Maybe none of that made sense to anyone, but me. Then I again, my blog is my therapy…so what do you expect? *chuckles*

storage

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Luna (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

.::Dead Dollz::. Margot Romper (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Essenz – Detroit (*new* @ Uber)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Euphoria Set
Paparazzi – BACKDROP – Dead End Garage – jade

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, [BREATHE]

Three C’s, Plus One More

The 3 C’s of Life: Choices, Chances, Changes. You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.

I was checking blogs the other day and one of the bloggers I manage, Luane Meo, had used this quote in her photo. She didn’t elaborate or anything. She simply used to quote. When I approved her post, I told her how much I loved the quote and that I’d probably borrow it for my own blog. However, to be fair, I’d love for you to check out her photo and give it a fav as I had not heard this quote before. I can’t even find where it originated, but I did find on several sites across the world wide web.

I love this quote for so many reasons, but mainly because it can actually be applied to just about any situation. From the simplest of decisions to the most difficult. Thinking about a new hairstyle? Make the choice to take the chance to make that change. It’s just hair, it’ll grow back. Afraid of love, but feeling lonely? Make the choice to be open to taking the chance or stay lonely, right? It’s just one of those quotes that I think can really be a life changer if you apply it correctly. I don’t suggest you use it as justification to hurt someone, but to better your own life.

Of course, my favorite C word is one that seems to offend an awful lot of people, but it’s one that I identify with. I’ll never truly understand why people allow a word so much power over them. Why they allow a simple word to offend them, anger them, or make them cringe. That’s a topic for another post, though, isn’t it?

Balancing Act

wearing:
hair: *ARGRACE* RITSU
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

:::NOIR::: Lulu Choker (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Blueberry – Bella – Bikini Set
[BREATHE]-Chiko Heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose created using AnyPose

Posted in Catwa, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, United Colors

I Want You

Ever had a crush on someone that you really hardly know, but there’s just something about them that continues to pull you in? Or worse yet, develop feelings for someone that is forever off limits to you? Or the absolute worst, you genuinely love someone that used to love you, but doesn’t love you the way they used to? I’ll let the lyrics of this song do the rest…

Lotte Kestner ~ I Want You

My baby baby
I want you so it scares me to death
I can’t say anymore than “I love you”
Everything else is a waste of breath

I want you
You’ve had your fun you don’t get well no more
I want you
Your fingernails go dragging down the wall
I want you
I woke up and one of us was crying
I want you
You said “little girl I do believe you’re dying”
I want you
If you need a second opinion as you seem to do these days
You can look in my eyes and you can count the ways
I want you
I want you
Did you mean to tell me but seem to forget
I want you
Since when were you so generously inarticulate
I want you
It’s the stupid details that my heart is breaking for
It’s the way your shoulders shake and what they’re shaking for
It’s knowing that she knows you now after only guessing
It’s the thought of her undressing you or you undressing
She tossed some tattered compliment your way
I want you
And you were fool enough to love it when she said
“I want you”
“I want you”

I want you
The truth can’t hurt you it’s just like the dark
It scares you witless
But in time you see things clear and stark
I want you
Go on and hurt me then we’ll let it drop
I want you
I’m afraid I won’t know where to stop
I’m not ashamed to say I cried for you
I want you

I want you
I might as well be useless for all it means to you
I want you
You’ve had your fun you don’t get well no more
I want you
No-one else wants you could want you more
I want you
Every night when I go off to bed
And when I wake up
I want you

I want you
I’m going to say it once again ’til I instill it
I know I’m going to feel this way until you kill it

uc lamb

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Star (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

**RE** Cora Arms Harness
(Yummy) True Rebel Ring Set (*new* @ Uber)

UC_Simona_Bra_and_Panty (*new* @ FaMESHed)
UC_Simona_harness (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Eudora3D Eden Pumps&Stockings (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Souffle Bento Pose Set

Posted in Animals, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Jian, Maitreya, Quasi, Second Life

Posting on Sundays

So, Grace has stated that whenever she post photos on Sundays they don’t tend to do that well on Flickr. I wonder if that’s true or if perhaps its the photos she’s choosing for Sundays. In order to prove my point, I figured two naked girls is bound to get some favs and definitely some views. *giggles* We’ll just post it and see if this does the trick, if not, then Grace wins the bet. What did we bet? Oh, that’s for us to know and you to watch our blogs for….*grins*

getting ready

Grace is wearing:
hair: #Besom~ Moonlight (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] – Monique

Sady is wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Risretto (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

pose: FOXCITY. Lip Service

scene:
Quasi – Worship
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Collection :: Companion (*new* @ FaMESHed)

 

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Chic Moda, Essenz, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Oh Me, Oh My

Music amazes me the way it crawls into your head, as if the writers of the songs I love have read my mind like a book. It astounds me the way I relate to so many lyrics, even the rhythm will lure me in hypnotizing me to digest the words that have been plucked from me to dance with the magic of a melody. The best of all is that the lyrics are literally poetry  in motion, because read alone without the music, they stand just as strong and powerful as they do when traveling the path of the instruments that make them into songs.

Imogen Heap ~ Oh Me, Oh My

Quiet now in sleepy dreams
To me it seems the only time to be
Just me
Bombarded by the phone, in my own home
Can’t get the space that I need
And how I need it, yeah
Oh me, yeah, oh my
Oh me, me, me, me oh my
Oh when I look
When I look at my life
Oh me, oh my
When I look at my life, yeah, la la la
Crowded by the city, all around me
Need some silence from the loud
And noisy crowds
And I’m trying to catch a breath
Through the air of death
Can’t see the sun for the clouds
Those dirty clouds
And the night has no compassion
For your actions
When you’re trying to get away
From the hard day, yeah
And I need someone to talk to
Apart from you
But I guess that’s just the way
Come what may, oh
Oh me, yeah, oh my
Oh me, me, me, me oh my
Oh when I look
When I look at my life
Oh me, oh my
When I look at my life
Oh God
Are you there
Are you there
Are you there
No, no, yeah
God
Are you there
Are you there
Are you there
Yeah
Well are you out there
Are you there
Are you there
Are you there
If so where are you hiding?
I’m having trouble finding you
Oh me, and oh my
Oh me, me, me, me oh my
Oh when I look
When I look at my life
Oh me, oh my
When I look at my life
Oh God
Are you there
Are you there
Are you there
No, no, yeah
God
Are you there
Are you there
Are you there
No
Well are you out there
Are you there
Are you out there yeah yeah
Are you out there yeah yeah
Are you out there
Are you out there
Are you out there

too much

wearing:
hair: #Besom~ Moonlight (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

LaGyo_Marleen Earrings (*new* @ FaMESHed)
LaGyo_Marleen Necklace (*new* @ FaMESHed)
**RE** Arwen Gloves & Arm Bracelets (*new* @ FaMESHed)

ChicModa // Grace Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Essenz – Maracaibo  (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Beach Bunny Bento Set

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Black’ Backwoods Lounger (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, RunAway Hair, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, Uber SL

Numb

This morning I don’t have words of my own, so I’ll let Meg Myers say/sing it for me.

Meg Myers-Numb

When all is said and done
Tell me how to write this
Tell me how to fight this war
I’ll keep marchin’ on
Like a broken robot
Money back guarantee
I’m in your custody
But I’m not a criminal, I can be your next big thing
Look at what I’ve become
Silly little monster
Should’ve just held my tongue

I hate the feeling of this weight upon my shoulders
Pushing the pressure down on me
You think you want the best for me but nothing really matters
If you force it won’t come, I guess I’m feeling numb
I guess I’m feeling numb

Sometimes I wish I could fly
Through a secret trap door into another life
Bury my head in the sand
I don’t want to grow up
La la la la la la

I hate the feeling of this weight upon my shoulders
Pushing the pressure down on me
You think you want the best for me but nothing really matters
If you force it won’t come, I guess I’m feeling numb
I guess I’m feeling numb

I’ll play the game
I’ll do everything you tell me
All the losers win in the end
I’ll play the game
I’ll do anything you tell me
All the losers win in the end

I hate the feeling of this weight upon my shoulders
Pushing the pressure down on me
You think you want the best for me but nothing really matters
If you force it won’t come, I guess I’m feeling numb
I guess I’m feeling numb
I guess I’m feeling numb
I guess I’m feeling numb

shadows

wearing:
hair: [RA] Samatha Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

BUENO -Cheeky Half Shirt (*new*)
neve short – shameless plaid (*new* @ Uber)

pose: FOXCITY. Fixated Bento Pose Set
MINIMAL – Night Street Background (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)