Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

It’s Lit?

Ok, so a sure sign that you are getting older is when you suddenly find yourself confused by new random lingo. Just last year I had to ask Cynthia what the hell “Slay” meant, because it obviously had a new meaning from the one I knew. So, I understand the word, sorta, but I have yet to use it. A couple of years ago, Kess and I had a running joke about the use of the word “dope” because like others this had a new meaning. Dope wasn’t drugs anymore, it meant cool. Kinda like when bad meant good, but really bad was short for badass. So, starting seeing “get lit” and figured that meant…get fucked up, right? But now I’m seeing “It’s Lit” even here in sl on this gorgeous backdrop from Foxcity and I’m looking at it, thinking I don’t even know what that means!!!  So, I turned to my dear friend, Google, for advice. In the words of Bixby, “Okay, here is what I found on the web…”
Urban Dictionary says:  when something fun is happening or something exciting is happening and you and your friends are turnt up
oh shit, tonight it’s lit, there’s gonna be a party with a bunch of girls bro!
—Uhm, ok, so essentially its bad English for more bad English? I mean, turnt up?  Maybe we could squeeze another conjunction in there while we’re at it.
YouTube pops up with Roach Gigz – It’s Lit ft. lamsu
You can listen for yourself and I’m not listing the lyrics. While I’m no authority on music, particularly this genre. I’m seriously worried about this guy and the name he chose for himself. Why do you want to be called a Roach? Not to mention the person featured, kinda sounds like some sort of mixed breed dog. I did listen to most of the song and I’ll admit there are a few parts that I found a bit catchy, but overall, I don’t think I’d ever listen to this song again voluntarily.
Merriam-Webster says: An old slang word made new again.
The slang lit has a long history. Its earliest meaning is “intoxicated,” and that shows up in English as far back as the 1910s.

WHAT!?!?! Ok, so now I’m fascinated and a bit amused, as I bet these youngsters (yeah I said it, picture me gray haired in a rocker, you fuckers) think they’re being all “fresh” and original, too. Alright, that’s it for me…I’m gonna take my old ass to bed…just kidding, I’m gonna go have pixel sex in SL….hmmm….wonder which one is true?? I don’t honestly know, but I know it’s ’bout to get lit in dis bitch! *laughs*

its lit

wearing:
hair: MINA Hair – Lia (*new* @ Pocket Gacha)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Bento Rings
_CandyDoll_ Paula Jumper
_CandyDoll_ Anny Boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

FOXCITY. Loco Bento Pose Set (*New* @ K9)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Lit (*New* @ K9)

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Collabor88, Cosmopolitan, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Go F*ck Thyself

Today we’re going to play a little game. You guys know that comedian Jeff Foxworthy and his tag line…If you blah blah blah….you might be a redneck. Or his buddy, Bill Engvall, the way he talks about stupid people should come with a sign and suggests people we should pass them out to? Well, today, we’re going to do a Sady version! That’s right! Ready? Here we go….

Do you tell people you don’t want a relationship, but get mad if they fuck someone other than you? Go Fuck Thyself.
If you think that you’re some sort of superstar because you are popular on SL Flickr feeds? Go Fuck Thyself.
If you go out of your way to hurt someone by saying things about their RL, whether true or not….Go Fuck Thyself.
If you think that someone belongs to you, because you called dibs years ago, but never actually dated….Go Fuck Thyself.
If you ever submit ANYTHING to SL Secrets….Go Fuck Thyself.
If you announce you are leaving SL/FB ever other week…Go Fuck Thyself.
Do you pick to go into a relationship, knowing you aren’t going to be about much? Go Fuck Thyself.
If you’re constantly criticizing designers in SL when you can’t even rez a box without an instruction manual. Go Fuck Thyself.
If you send random pics of your genitalia to strangers. Go Fuck Thyself.
If you can’t accept your ex doesn’t want you back and stalk them and their partner. Go Fuck Thyself…no really, Bryn? Please go fuck thyself.
If you use multiple alts to cheat on the person you claim to love…Go Fuck Thyself
If you use the death of a friend to create a product that you sell and profit from in SL…Go Fuck Thyself
If you lie about being sick (like cancer) to get attention. Go Fuck Thyself.
If you lie about the death of a loved one, just to get someone to talk to you. Go Fuck Thyself.
If you follow an ex all over the grid while pretending to be happy with your current partner. Go Fuck Thyself.

Wow, this list really could be endless…I had my friends toss a few of those out for me….feel free to add your own in the comments. Who knows, I can very well see me doing something like this again in the future.

gft

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Elly hair (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) Jamaica
[MANDALA]KAHUKUIHUKU Necklace (*new* @ Uber)
^^Swallow^^ Indira Face Jewellery (*new* @ Kustom9)
=Zenith=Victoria lace glove (*new* @ Collabor88)
(Yummy) Bohemia Ring Set (*new* @ Collabor88)
ChicModa // Robin (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Birdy
floorplan. neon go fuck yourself

Posted in Blueberry, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

Nightmare

Yes, I’m on a song kick right now. I can’t know how long it will last, but for now music is speaking volumes more than I’m capable. So, hopefully you’ll discover some new songs or lyrics.

Nyxx – Nightmare

I wanted every part of you
Just you and no one else
You wanted me alone
But never to yourself

You say I’m crazy and I might be
But if you only knew
That there’s something inside me
With it’s sights set on you
It’s kicking, it’s screaming
You’re begging and pleading,
And there’s no escape from me

I am the nightmare
Like you’ve never known
I am the shadow
That follows you home
And I cannot wait baby
To get you alone
The things I’m gonna do to you
The things I’m gonna do to you

You led me to the edge and told me we could fly
You watched me fall into your hands, now I’m alive
You said you wanted me more
I savored every word, now
I thought it was real
But I was wrong

You say I’m crazy and I might be
But if you only knew
That there’s something inside me
With it’s sights set on you
It’s kicking, it’s screaming

I am the nightmare
Like you’ve never known
I am the shadow
That follows you home
And I cannot wait baby
To get you alone
The things I’m gonna do to you
The things I’m gonna do to you

In the deepest darkness–
I’m coming for you
Like a quick, cold hand–
I’m reaching for you
You’ll fear me, feel me–
Just like a chill
I was your black sheep baby–
Now I’m dressed to kill

woven

wearing:
hair: tram G1204 hair (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
[Atomic] Kitten Collar
::GB::Mini down jacket
.::Dead Dollz::. Basic Underwear (*new* @ TLC)
Blueberry – Tinker Set

FOXCITY. Loco Bento Pose Set (*new* @ K9)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Trapped (January Group Gift)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping

Swan Song

I will start writing again someday, but for now it will probably be mostly songs and lyrics. Stay tuned to discover the diversity of the music though. *laughs*

Lana Del Rey – Swan Song

Put your white tennis shoes on and follow me
Why work so hard when you could just be free?
You got your money now, you got your legacy
Let’s leave the world for the ones who change everything
Nothing could stop the two of us
Let’s just get lost, that’s what we want

And I will never sing again
And you won’t work another day
I will never sing again
With just one wave, it goes away
It will be our swan song
It will be our swan song
Be our swan song
It will be our swan song

Dive in, dive deep and in dark blue my sweet
Brushing up from the water where the ice meets
And you’ve been gone so long, you missed everything
The world can change in a day if you go away
But nothing could stop the two of us
If that’s what we want, we could just get lost

And I will never sing again
And you won’t work another day
I will never sing again
With just one wave, it goes away
It will be our swan song
It will be our swan song
Be our swan song
It will be our swan song

Do you like
Do you like, where you’ve been
Where you’re going to (going to)
Say goodnight
Say goodnight to the life and the world you knew
I’m going to follow you

And I will never sing again
And you won’t work another day
I will never sing again
You won’t work another day
It will be our swan song
It will be our swan song
Be our swan song
It will be our swan song

Put your white tennis shoes on and follow me
Put your white tennis shoes on and follow me
Put your white tennis shoes on and follow me
Why you work so hard when you could just be free?

Swan Song

wearing:
hair:  MINA Hair – Anna (*new* in Pocket Gacha)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) Jamaica
Bauhaus Movement – Anouk Chocker GIFT
Scandalize. Bekia

pose by Del May
{anc} miniature/H. swan {cloud} 4Li

Posted in CandyDoll, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Dead Memories

Its actually better if you listen to the song and actually read/listen to the lyrics, because that’s the part that really speaks to me with this picture. The video itself would inspire a very different photo, while the lyrics could really go with so many ideas I have in my head.

Slipknot – Dead Memories

Sitting in the dark, I can’t forget.
Even now, I realize the time I’ll never get.
Another story of the bitter pills of fate.
I can’t go back again. I can’t go back again…
But you asked me to love you and I did.
Traded my emotions for a contract to commit
And when I got away, I only got so far.
The other me is dead.
I hear his voice inside my head…
We were never alive, and we won’t be born again.
But I’ll never survive with dead memories in my heart.
Dead memories in my heart [x2]
You told me to love you and I did. Tied my soul into a knot and got me to submit.
So when I got away, I only kept my scars.
The other me is gone.
Now I don’t know where I belong…
And we were never alive, and we won’t be born again.
But I’ll never survive with dead memories in my heart.
Dead memories in my heart [x3]
Dead visions in your name.
Dead fingers in my veins.
Dead memories in my heart [x4]

candydoll c88

wearing:
hair: .Entwined. Veronica
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
_CandyDoll_ Aimin Dress (*new* @ C88)
_CandyDoll_ Aimin Boots (*new* @ C88)

pose: Foxcity Highlights Vol2 Set

MINIMAL – RUST Backgrounds *4*
O.M.E.N – Ragdoll – Playing – VIP
dust bunny . areca palm plant
dust bunny . potted rubber tree
dust bunny . pilea peper plant

Posted in Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, Seven Emporium, shopping, unKindness

Curiosity

“As children, our imaginations are vibrant, and our hearts are open. We believe that the bad guy always loses and that the tooth fairy sneaks into our rooms at night to put money under our pillow. Everything amazes us, and we think anything is possible. We continuously experience life with a sense of newness and unbridled curiosity.” ~ Yehuda Berg

Curiosities

Fancy Decor: Wallace Collection (*new* @ Collabor88)
-Fancy Decor: Wallace Artwork
-Fancy Decor: Wallace Chair
-Fancy Decor: Wallace Table
-Fancy Decor: Wallace Vase

Fancy Decor: Chain Coffee Table
Fancy Decor: Leather Bench (silver)

uk – Golden Hall Full Set (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-uK – Golden Hall Wall Globe
-uK – Golden Hall Pear Mirror
-uK – round_tableMesh
-uK – Golden Hall Picture Frame
-uK – Golden Hall Cactus Plant
-uK – Golden Hall Bunt Cake Stand

uK – Lady Boss Conference Geo Planters

JIAN Chameleon :: Habitat (*new* @ Collabor88)
JIAN Forest Cat Static – Catch (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Granola. Waverly’s Incense. (*new* @ FaMESHed)

[tmk] rain dog

tres blah– Eclectic Collection -Large Nesting Box

dust bunny . postcards

DIGS – Hand-Rolled Smoking Decor

Ariskea[Hustler] Gold Flower (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Ariskea[Hustler] Babybreath Pot (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Ariskea [ Blossom] Cherry Blossom Wreath
Ariskea[Birdy] Little Bee Vase

7 – Transistor Radio TR-2A
7 – Tape Recorder R-299

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’

pillows:
Silence. – Dream Without Fear
Silence. – No Limits

Soy. BKLYNITES LOFT- Old Books [TypeA]

[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 1

Sway’s [Kaden] Rug . natural

 

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Lybra, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

She Wasn’t Ready

She knew he was leaving long before he actually did. She did her best to prepare herself. She pretended to be okay. She pretended to be strong. Wearing her mask of smiles and hope everyday, knowing that inside she was slowly dying. The poison of the slowly breaking heart seeping into her veins a little more each day. Then it happened. He left.

She couldn’t feel her legs. She crumpled to the floor and wished that the earth would simply open up and swallow her whole. She couldn’t breathe. Her body was numb. She could only lie there in a pool of her tears hoping to drown.

She Wasn't Ready

wearing:
hair: Doe Gin Hair (*new* @ Seasons Story)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
LYBRA . LEXY SET (*new* @ TLC)

pose: Foxcity Solitude Set

Posted in Bueno, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Second Life

In The Cold, Cold Night

It’s another song post. I can’t type about what’s on my mind right now. I just can’t. So, if you hate these, I’m sorry.

The White Stripes – In The Cold, Cold Night

I saw you standing in the corner
On the edge of a burning light
I saw you standing in the corner
Come to me again in the cold, cold night
You make me feel a little older
Like a full grown woman might
But when you’re gone I grow colder
Come to me again in the cold, cold night
I hear you walking by my front door
I hear the creaking of the kitchen floor
I don’t care what other people say
I’m gonna to love you, anyway
Come to me again in the cold, cold night
I can’t stand it any longer
I need the fuel to make my fire burn bright
So don’t fight it any longer
Come to me again in the cold, cold night
And I know that you feel it too
When my skin turns into glue
You will know that it’s warm inside
And you’ll come run to me, in the cold, cold night

bueno gown

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Caralisa
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
.DirtyStories. Nera’s Necklace
BUENO-Night Dress (*new* @ C88)

pose: Foxcity. Fixated Set

SAYO – Twenty18 Backdrop Scene
hive // celebration balloons

 

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Lybra, ON9, Second Life, shopping

Sometimes…

Now, I don’t want to lose you,
but I don’t want to use you just to have somebody by my side.
And I don’t want to hate you,
I don’t want to take you, but I don’t want to be the one to cry.
And I don’t really matter to anyone anymore.
But like a fool I keep losing my place and
I keep seeing you walk through that door.
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.
Now, I could never change you,
I don’t want to blame you.
Baby, you don’t have to take the fall.
Yes, I may have hurt you, but I did not desert you.
Maybe I just want to have it all.
It makes a sound like thunder, it makes me feel like rain.
And like a fool who will never see the truth,
I keep thinking something’s gonna change.
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart they can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay who they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.
And there’s no way home when it’s late at night and you’re all alone.
Are there things that you wanted to say?
And do you feel me beside you in your bed,
there beside you where I used to be?
But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.

sometimes

wearing:
hair: Magika  – 01 – Disarray
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa ) America
tattoo: .Identity. Body Shop – Rise Again
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Bento Rings
LYBRA . SERINA (*new* @ Seasons Story)
#EMPIRE  – Ageratum

pose: Foxcity Indulge Bento Pose Set (*new* @ ON9)
Foxcity. Photo Booth – Sometimes (*new* @ ON9)

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Still Of The Night

Whitesnake – Still Of The Night

In the still of the night
I hear the wolf howl, honey
Sniffing around your door
In the still of the night
I feel my heart beating heavy
Telling me I gotta have more
In the shadow of night
I see the full moon rise
Telling me what’s in store
My heart start aching
My body start a shaking
And I can’t take no more, no, no
Now I just want to get close to you
An’ taste your love so sweet
And I just want to make love to you
Feel your body heat
In the still of the night
In the still of the night
Over here baby
In the heat of the day
I hang my head down low
And hide my face from the sun
Through the light of the day
Until the evening time
I’m waiting for the night to come
Ooh, baby
In the still of the night
In the cool moonlight
I feel my heart is aching
In the still of the night
Ooh, baby, Ooh, baby
Can’t keep away
Need you closer
Can’t keep away, can’t keep away, can’t keep away
Oh, can’t keep away, no
You gotta give me love
You gotta give me some lovin’ everyday
Can’t keep away, no
Ooh, baby, ooh Lord, ahh
Get over here, baby
In the still of the night
I hear the wolf howl, honey
Sniffing around your door
In the still of the night
I feel my heart beating heavy
Telling me I gotta have more
Ooh, mama
Now I just wanna get close to you
An’ taste your love so sweet
And I just wanna make love to you
Feel your body heat
In the still of the night, ooh yeah
In the still of the night, I will be sneakin’ ’round your door
In the still of the night
In the still of the night
Still of the night, still of the night, still of the night
Still of the night, still of the night, still of the night
Still of the night, still of the night, still of the night
Still of the night, still of the night, still of the night
Still of the night, still of the night, still of the night

pink black

wearing:
hair:  [e]  Treena (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
PHEDORA / fae heels / 28 C. (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: Foxcity  Hightlights Vol2
anxiety  %ugh!